₦airaland Forum

Richy4:
I heard that there's something called open marriage... I have never seen it practised in real life... Maybe you should make a research about it and find a successful way to keep an open marriage...And also the first Nigerian to consider that... Its an option though...if u can discuss it with your spouse and she agrees to it..

Don't want my wife to sleep with other men, unless very codedly.

I should consider polygamy

wunmi590:


Marriage is not for you, baby mama things.

Probably.

Nobody truly loves you when you are poor

MufasaLion:
At least, you're being truthful.

Thanks bro.

anthonyuncle:
you really need to look for a woman that will also not be faithful in marriage

If she wants to cheat, I don't want to know about any of it.

MrBrownJay1:
what you should do is, not only be honest to yourself and NLers, but also BEING HONEST TO WHOEVER YOU MEET....so she can decide if she still wants to be with/marry you (out of desperation) or not.

there are many desperate women out there who wouldnt care that you will cheat on them so long as they can keep the charade that you guys are "happily married", and that they can hold the "Mrs" title at last.

Alright, thanks for the advice

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Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

I also have the same issue, I have a serious girlfriend and we live together but too knack other tootoo dey hungry me sometimes.

The problem is the kind of girl(s) you are looking for might avoid you if they know you are married.
Many good girls wouldn't accept to be your side chick even with your money.

Recently, I met a young beautiful light skin girl and we connected well, we knacked a couple of times and the moment she found out I was in a relationship her attitude changed. I really like the girl but she doesn't want anything to do with me again.
* I don't spend much on her tho.

My point is before you disclose that you are married make sure you knack well first.

Meanwhile can I be your personal adviser on side chicks matter. I'm very discreet.

ILegend do Chlistmas for your boyz


We too one Chop Shicken.

Modified;
I just saw your giveaway thread.
I get zenith acct. And mastercard.
And I be old member.

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Please keep updating your Nls diary. One love.

Toochildish666:
Der is notin like professional hoe, we only have d coded ones an d openly ones

If your source of income is by sleeping with men, then you are a pro.

Sonnobax15:

No na

Why can't you

I know some of you are thinking all girls are prostitutes but can you date the professional ones?

Bruno3000:
Na jealousy go kill them..

Yes o, I need make serious money cus I no believe in monogamy.

Pumpumking:
son...Will u carrry that yor triangle head n go n finish yor sckoooool home work jorrrr......when u end up becomin arm robber now.., u start blammmin nairaland. Goat!!!(no oofenese)

Dad, I totally agree with you.
I actually need to start reading.
No offense taken.

Rosement:
You are joking or you are for real? Do you really think she is the wicked one?

No jokes.
She's the wicked one.

confirm0:
Yes same too!
But what do you mean by "kill......."? Don't get in context of your point

If you don't use her head, she will use yours.

shortgun:
Give us the full gist ; I am getting popcorns.

Lol,
I lied to a very pretty lady that I was single.
After knacking her well, I told her I was in a relationship.
The girl just stopped showing me affection, I tried using gifts to lure her back but it didn't work.

confirm0:
What many of you don't know is, because a girl acts so ruthless to you doesn't mean there is a guy down there she not caring for, just depends on you.... Just like saying all men are wicked but you, are you wicked? Maybe, to some folks but cool to other folks, but if you can track an historical record of a girl of how she treat other guys wicked then we can presume that girl specifically may probably be wicked..... Hope you get my point lol just like many of you think all a woman wants his money, yes true that's from you but there is one nigger she's given her time and sex to without money lol

I am dat niggy.
Just letting y'all know it's kill or be killed.

KingDash:
one of my guy babe go dey bang for another man car, I see when the babe enter the guy guy I knew something was suppin cause the car no gree drive off, Omo I just dey there with them... this thing happen yesterday and I no tell my guy cause the mumu like the babe die.. chicks are cruel bro, thank God me dey scatter them, I no get one drop of feeling for any babe for this life.

No love.

How many of you agree that girls are wicked.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram GIRLS de try ooo.. COLLECTING different BLOKOS all in the name of DOUBLE DATING.. WTF MAN

They like varieties too.

Monogamy isn't meant for me.
For those of you with numerous girlfriends or boyfriends how do you manage your affairs?

MufasaLion:
Especially the short, ugly ones.

Lol

Jorby:
That's because you aren't a high valued man. Become invaluable and earn respect from both the male and the female gender. Build yourself and become a high value male. See women for who they are stop giving them preferential treatment and do not expect much from people(male or female)

Lol, who told you I'm not a high value man.
The issue is my girlfriend is just stubborn.

Iyaebe:
Maybe because you lack good manner of approach and poor communication skills

I know you are also stubborn.

Don't get too familiar with Nigerian girls many of them are stubborn.

I sold my kidney

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Tajbol4splend:
You may cheat on her but don't let her know

Oun oju o ri, kii bokan je

What the eyes don't see doesn't horrify the mind

Noted.

OriOko88:
I cheat steadily. There's this fair fat teenager who just finished sec school,living at my street,I met last month. Have been dcking her for almost three weeks now. She usually comes 7pm for hot sex. My real babe is in akure, and she comes every month end.
But I have this guilt conscience of fvcing a girl I'm old enogh to counsel about morals. But it is wat it is,if I don't dig her another guy would.
She has one of d most sensual ringtone I've known. I just realized why men go for girls of 18,19 20, they have the sweetest pucci..I swear.

I understand bro.

Beebah2000:
U wan to cheat on your girlfriend again, for no reason. You get conscience at all?
Fear Nigerian men.

She don tire to dey knack because of stress of work.