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Edeyoung:
All this are npnsense rant

No envy to be your tribe...... I am edo by tribe and all your brothers keep running here to school to have a life.....


The sad reality is after the north yorubas takes the lead for the poorest people in nigeria


Outside nigeria you guys are seen as nigerians not as yorubas if they go than history lane you guys will be regarded as slaves for selling your people to the whitemen


Benin city is even know outside nigera than yoruba as a tribe......


The future have no place for yorubas onky if you all can see

Alara ni ngbe ara e ga .

Ruq:
And WHO IS THAT FOOL! THAT SAID D'BANJ SINGS IN IGBO Because of "igwe" do you think you can communicate with him with igbo? He did that song with the help of don jazzy! Not the love for the language. But others can't help it but use it,can't you see Naeto-c "kini" big deal,Akomitipoju, D'prince-Omoba,even if it is one yoruba word they still use like Bigiano Shayo. The only person i like is Nigga raw he tries a lot with igbo,but still he did "Kogbadun" though- i like it when they speak it but people just like the yoruba way alot of tribes find it easier dressing like yorubas which is more interesting you seldom find yorubas dress the way others do may be for costume use sha! But me i dont fuckin care what you speak as far as you are Nigerian. That's why i like Chinamanda Achebe,Wole soyinka, Okocha,Oliver de coque cuz they boosted Naijas fame world wide! I fink yoruba and igbos remains the best in Naija because we have seen a lot of great people from them No Offense to tribes i still love you all Peace

Why did you call him a fool?

FlordFlorez:
confused atheist spotted! Everything you stated above happened few tens of thousand years ago. Apart from other known and glaring evidences of the existence of noah's ark, holy spirit, immaculate conception of Christ, virgin Mary, Jesus's crucifixion, etc, the Holy Bibles is the ultimate evidence we've got. You sounded more delusional and confused when you called Jesus Christ a thief, God on the throne a tyrant while you hail, asslick buhari and other Nigerian politicians that contributed to your miserable life. Bro, you need Jesus Christ in your life. Go to the nearest church/pastor/reverend father to confess your sins and freed of these satanic bandages/shackles before it's too late. Peace.....

Please tell me how you are different from him

traihit:
If it's a girl now, it'd be called ''sexualization" or what's the politically correct language? We shaa keep stealing childhood away from children and turn them to overnight adults to please our carnal sightseeing.

My thinking too. I hope the kid will be able to deal with the stress and pressure. I hope it's not his parent pushing him to the extreme, I hope he won't grow up into an adult and regret missing out what it means to be a kid

J111333:
It's not just about wielding guns, sniping involves more mathematical calculations than shootings and it takes specialized training for a sniper to work efficiently without a spotter.

Oversabi die for gutter.

Nggs121:
Who the fvck is this?

Why do you wanna know mister

@OP, whatever yabis you receive concerning this post, you asked for it . No one asked you to make this post either

I came here looking for specific methods, but alas I was disappointed

What happened to the ogoni clean up? What are the spoke men of the region doing? They really need to be held accountable by their people who are also involved illegal bunkering. Also, those who claim to represent their people, claiming security contract from these oil company and doing nothing, but lavishly spend the money.
All these and many more contribute to the problems of the people living in these region. Their representative are just too greedy and self centered.

Black man is black man's problem

Kobojunkie:
Are you high? What have I accused him of?

Asking him, of what benefit is the drug to him is not really necessary. It carries a weight of criticism. He's already gone through that stage. Don't draw him back. What he need is help of coming out through and clean

Kobojunkie:
May I ask you questions about why you started abusing this particular drug to begin with? Why opiods? Why did you start -- was there actual pain? Is the pain now gone(assuming it was there to begin with)? Why benefits did this drug provide you?

Can't you let him quit in peace before you start accusing him. He made an honest decision to be a better person, let allow for him room for a sober reflection and proper recourse than for us to play the jury.

kiddkash:
when you think about it, it hurts. but it was necessary even though you feel you didn't need the discipline.
look at America where parents don't discipline their kids. all they tell them is 'you are grounded'.
what kind of English is that grounded. it doesn't exist in Nigerian parents dictionary.

which is why every week you hear of school shooting in America because the children weren't disciplined and punished
when they were younger. as an African child, you fear and love your parent but white kids only love their parents.

that fear needs to be instilled in the kids. if you don't believe me, come to Ghana and see how spoiled kids are.
they don't even greet their parents good morning or say thank you. this things don't happen in Nigeria.
you may hate it, think it is too extreme but it is necessary. someone has to be the bad guy in order to get things done.

Men are willing to be that bad guy which is why kids love heir mothers more

You are mixing things up, and this what African parent do too. Moral values need to be taught and need to be understood by the children. You don't just throw it at them . Children are unrefined and naive. You mold them to not what you want them to be, but what they need to be. This is by making them take responsibility, not by forcing it on them, but by making them see reasons why they need to, to make them better and responsible person.

Yonce:
You are 100% right.

People are getting heavily influenced by the parenting styles introduced by the western media.

Which is ironic because the eastern world aka Asia have very similar parenting styles to Africans and those people fight to limit their children from western exposure.
They know what's up!

It's not about Western influence ma'am. You are the one making the comparison here. No society is totally immaculate in concept and ideologies. Its what you and I experienced while growing up.

What African parent fails to understand is that you, as a parent can claim you love your child (ren). Unfortunately, this type of love is too selfish.
Being too overly assertive and possessive is not love.
As parent, it is not enough to pay your wards school fees, it's not even about being strict or being principled. Rather,it is more of seeing things from the perspective of your children. They are individuals too, growing up in a demanding society that is unforgiving and hostile. You don't want to put pressure on them, else they crack. Some are lucky, while some are not, result of which we witness in today's society. Each child's threshold to psychology stress is different. It can make or Mar such child, if car isn't taken.
That being said, i want us to know that their isn't one way method set in stone for raising a child. That's one other mistake, we parents make. Each child has, his or her own strenghts and weak point. The psychological fabric of a child is too tender to toy with. It is very dangerous!

Another, is a child will only be willing to unravel him/herself to you as a parent( depending on the relationship between the child and the parent) You can't force it! But you can allow it to happen by building a healthy relationship with your children.

The kind of parenting we have is the kind of society we are experiencing. Parenting is the most difficult job in the world!

It's still baffles me how some kids growing up are more inquisitive attracted to these lifestyles and eventually develop affinity with the thing causing the addiction than kids with or without normal upbringing will retract immediately from these lifestyles. The questions are, why are some kids prone to addiction more than some kids, what is the root cause of addiction. Does it has to do with some part of our brain ( maybe the cerebral carted, responsible for reasoning and experiencing emotions). I need answers to these questions.

nijiatech78:
Oh we have a Banky supporter here. My nature and character will not lead me to go online and complain how bad my personal Staff is. It’s petty and unfortunate from him. Doing so also has literally destroyed his person(The Chef). Not that I condone stealing but terminating his appointment is the best I can do in my opinion. Worst case scenario is taking legal actions against him and not shaming him online for domestic offenses.

Yes he gets paid Salary but what amount is the SALARY? He goes on shopping to buy things yes but me and you know that the money given to him tied to an already prepared list.

Rich people are often times very mean towards the upkeep of their Staff talk more of personal Staff.

If only the said Chef can go online to defend himself too. The things he will reel out will make you to hide yourself in shame.

How come you never complained on the part where I said his wife can’t handle kitchen matters?

Kindly reply on that so I shread you to scrumbs.

Lastly Olosho my comment is my personal liability and shouldn’t be a headache to anyone so I wonder what the hell is your problem. Respond so I shred you this beautiful morning

Don't try in vain to look intelligent na

Vortex369:
He has been making attempts at diversifying. From failed chemical engineering to failed music yo failed erection now a failed politician but guess what? There is a crucifix on his neck anf he is quoting the Bible and Praying....in evangelical mode.

Are you pondering what I am pondering?

Badt niggress

It is more easier to control the poor, than to control the rich

Davash222:
How can a chef's problem be food

Some people reason with their anus and judge without their brain

Nyamve1:
Do u have human sympathy at all? Someone that steal milo, u should've known that is hunger that cause it

Emotional bolo, did you watch the video atall or is it nairaland free mode you are using? Or did you not hear when banky said in the video, he do take him on grocery shopping to buy whatever he wants for himself, means the chef lacks nothing. He even said, anytime he needs anything, he should tell him. Does that looks like a starving chef to you?
Banky also said, he was planning on sending him to a culinary school to fine-tune his cooking skills. Tell me what more could he have done, Mr judge of the jungle. Now that i have summarized all that was said in the video, go back now and edit your comment. Puma

At the end of the day, all of una wey dey rant here will still go behind and join her page. She will be more popular after all

Na lowlifes full nairaland, on both tribes

Was the Bible printed inside the woman's womb . Well we are waiting for the other religion to come out with theirs to even the scores

spartan117:
You asked for 1 but I'll name 10
1) When I had series of terrible accidents as a child, my parents called on God and he answered life. I serve a faithful God.

Please tell me how did calling on god saved you from series of terrible accident. You need to let us know more, don't put us in the dark. You realise many more devoted xtians more than you probably are has died in terrible accidents and called on your god too. Might prayed and committed the journey into your god's hands, but your god still fall their hands.

spartan117:
2) when I was diagnosed with a very deadly strain of typhoid and all the other children around me kept dying one after the other, it was God that sustained me.

Don't deceive us here did you not use drug or went to clinic, and don't be an illiterate. Thank your immune system for being able to fight off the infection, coupled with the drug u used. If you still insist your god gave you a better immune system, then he's a partial god for allowing other kids to die off and causing their family grief.

spartan117:
3) when I fell ill with a terrible malaria as a child I recovered and was discharged and it happened to be the last time I will ever be admitted

Don't tell me you've never had a lil bout of sickness afterward, and I have never been admitted to the hospital too. So no special grace, here. Don't feel too entitled.

spartan117:
4) I asked him for good health and he gave me

Lol, here we go again. Seems you are always paranoid about your health. Well, everyone does. I check google sometimes, if I have a little as a period of headache. Maintain a healthy lifestyle, and exercise, is that too much to ask for a healthy lifestyle? Why bother your god.

spartan117:
5) when it was time to write jamb and waec, I made a covenant with him that I won't in anyway cheat, on his part he blessed me with quick understanding and I passed with flying colors.

Don't insult our intelligence na. You prepared and you came out with success. Any freaking person can do that. Why create a qualms bout it?

spartan117:
6) he kept me and protected me throughout my university years even when a cultist shot someone right in front of me on the street, it didn't come near me.

I knew in that incident, you must have feared for your life, you should have trusted god to keep you safe , anyways you are alive so the accolades belongs to him . But seriously you weren't in the line of fire, cos if you were or if you had any business with the killer, you would have been a goner by now. So my brother, it just happened, simple! Cultist rarely kill non cultist, maybe on occasion of mistaken identity or association with a fellow cultist or prolly a clash with a cultist, so the killer had no business with you. Chikena! All this possibility, if either one are met, you might end up dead, and your god will do siddon look as usual.

spartan117:
7) when it was time to graduate and the hod of another department didn't release my result even though I had written to him severally through my department secretary, God granted me favor and my own hod personally took the letter and walked up several stairs to hand deliver it to the other hod even without my knowledge. It could have only been God

You channel your grievance to the appropriate channel. No biggie. But why your tomfoolery? If you didn't do any wrong, you can write the school authority concerning the lecturer.

spartan117:
8. he continually protected me throughout my service year , many corpers died during the election, but my unit was peaceful and welcoming.

I do not see any relationship here. Na only you be the corner wey FG use for election?

spartan117:
9) when it was time to get a job, he gave me direction and provided me with the means.

But why are you blowing things out of proportion. Even Muslims, Buddhist, and the rest, Non-Believers too are gainfully employed. Why you dey reason like chicken na?

spartan117:
10) when my father slumped and his eyes rolled back into his head

Normal seizure and fainting. This when you prioritise religion over science and basic knowledge. Read up on vascovagal and orthostatic seizures.

Na by force to put caption? Caption wey no follow.

davidnazee:
What is your point here? What is horse culture? If we don’t breed horses in large numbers doesn’t mean we don’t know what it is. I don’t think the climate here is conducive for horses.
You lost your other arguments now u have started with horses lol. U can keep the horses Edo don’t have need for it.

Edo was known for Ivory culture but we are not bragging about it.

Do you know why I always love your thread? Because it feels with so much ignorance and dishonesty. You earlier bragged about Benin introducing horse to yorubas, now you are stylishly making a sly turn by implying that Benin climate is not conducive for horse, that you don't breed them in large numbers. Bro you just want to sound smart and clever by force.

Is this man gay? His gestures in this interview is suspicious sha

AreaFada2:
Lol. Despite their attack like a pack of wolves insult is all they can hurl at you.

Suddenly every traditional ruler is Oba. Why would they leave Oba title to Benin until about 1950s before they now suddenly realised "oh it belongs to us, let's begin using it?"

Their sniggering at you here is a sign of frustration. Not what they expected.

SW rulers began using Oba title simply because they wanted to bask in the glory similar to Oba of Benin, the owner of the title. Out of respect of tradition, virtually no traditional ruler in the South South uses that title as it became Synonymous with Emperor.

In SW they are creating kings everyday to use Oba title. Like one governor in Oyo. I guess they are friends with Ganduje churning out emirs like a cheap Chinese factory.

The idea that each SW Oba has own title is a fact. And that's simply all they had. They should better revert to their usual Ooni, Alaafin, Olugbo, Owa Bokun, Awujale, Deji, Osemawe, Olubadan and leave Oba title to the originator.

Our close relatives like Eleko as son of the real imperial Oba can use Oba title.

Quite fun to see how much headache you are giving our sophisticated SW people. They must have exhausted their Profanity Lexicon by now.

Even with all the explanation and analysis, your brain still no ft carry simple explanation. . Walai na to wa for your mata o.

Macsjebs:
Work from home if you can, unless you can't, in which case definitely try to go back to work, but do not - if at all possible - take the train

Babanla confusion.
pls who has the "which Kain wahala is this" meme

Recruited from the mosque, trained in Libya, absorbed into the military

jesmond3945:
Finally God is not a magician. It is a not a must you get a miracle but it is a must you must get mercy and grace and strength to continue to live in face of adversity.

But your god said he can do all things things, and you believe him right. If I told you, I know all things, will you just believe me just like that, or will you consider me a crazy hippie that's high on snow white or will you rather want to know if he truly knows all thing. Is it out or place to ask?. If he can regrow a limb, heal the sick in the hospital, bring back the dead, heal all coro patient, what is keeping him waiting, why can't he just do it. I cant come to you now and say I can make you fat or slim at my wish, you wouldn't believe me unless I do it.

In the real world evangelists will make good salesmen , and it's even happening lol. Men of god are cashing out