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Family › Re: My Fiancee Never Willingly Visit My Mother ....pls Advice Me. by hayorbaami: 4:47pm On Apr 04, 2015

aduaba:
Op do not be discouraged, not everyone is opened like that, me for instance I never went to my MIL's by myself and we have a very cordial relationship with respect now that I am married to her son.
As for your reasons why you made her next of kin and sponsoring her education nobody knows that,you should have your own reasons. I believe she's a good girl for you to do that so please don't heed to certain advice here. Four years is quite a while to throw away just like that. Good luck

Exactly, some people just concluded that she is not a good person.
You are the one in the relationship , not nairalanders. You alone knows the reason why you re sponsoring her education and you never asked anyone's opinion about that.
I believe you should discuss with her before jumping into conclusion.
I personally do not like the idea of going to a boyfriend's/fiancee's house alone and will only do that now since I am married. This is because I would not want to feel like part of the family and eventually things may not work out.
The happened to someone very close to me. After six years of relationship. It didn't work out . The lady 's in-laws live here in uk and each time they go to Nigeria, she will leave her school, go to her fiance's house and do all the house chores.
The fiancee travelled to the US and met another lady. They got married. The lady is not aware till this moment.
I really felt bad for her because am related to the fiancee. When my aunty called yesterday disscussing the issue with me , I was really disappointed.
She told me all the things the lady does for her each time she travels to Nigeria. I kept reminding her the lady has the right to know so that she can move on with her life but they re all scared on how to go about it.

But you can judge every relationship with that. I just hope you handle the issue with care.

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Politics › Re: Jonathan's Legacy Of Change By Reno Omokri (must Read) by hayorbaami: 9:59pm On Apr 03, 2015

Election is over. There is no need to market this bad product anymore. No amount of 'heroism' will erase the fact that he ruined Nigeria and left it worse than he met it. These worshippers are trying so hard to paint GEJ in a good light thinking it will cover up for all his corrupt practices as a president. What is did was commendable, accepted. Overflogging the matter is making the whole thing look like a planned work from GEJ's team to sentimentally buy people on their side so that they can forgive and overlook all his avoidable shortcomings.

This hero talk is becoming really irritating. Enough of the distraction.

Politics › Re: Nigerians Expectations From President-elect, Buhari by hayorbaami: 9:22pm On Apr 03, 2015

francizy:
Any performance less than delivering 50% percent of his campaign promise will be termed "failure and cluelessness"

We are watching him and I hope he's mentally fit for bashing and name calling?

It's easier said than done. Yes because they promised heaven on earth and hopefully, they do what they promised instead of all talk and no action. We also hope his performances will be felt by all Nigerians and not only on paper as GEJ's performances were always termed "paper achievements".

We are watching you general. Brace yourself.

Which other name calling can be worse than the ones he got pre election period undecided

. He has been called all despicable names and even wished death, yet he hasn't gone wild or dignified them with a response. His skin is as thick as ever because he is a focused man with vision. So save the 'threat'

All ye GMB haters waiting for him to fail, brace yourself up for disappointment.

GEJ fanatics do not even want Buhari sworn in to fulfil his promises but they want us to give Jonathan additional 4years after 6years of failure. Bunch of nonentities.

General Buhari, God is on your side. He will guide you to make Nigeria great once again. The same way they were disappointed and bitter that you won despite their hate campaigns is the same way they will eat back their words when they start witnessing a positive change.

Politics › Re: Apc Is Beating The Drum Of Crises (my Opinion) by hayorbaami: 4:57pm On Apr 02, 2015

When death wishes, maligning videos, inciting and divisive statements were being thrown around, by pdp, did you caution or applaud them? Did pdp condemn or call their people to order undecided

..

That said, the act is really disgusting, backward and childish to me and i strongly condemn it. angry

Just had to point out your hypocrisy

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Family › Re: My Fiancee Never Willingly Visit My Mother ....pls Advice Me. by hayorbaami: 10:29pm On Mar 29, 2015

Your fiancee has not done anything wrong. The fact that she never visited her doesn't mean she doesn't like her.
Have you talked to her about it? She may not even know she is doing anything wrong.
During my courtship, I never visited my mother in-law on my own. I just dnt see any reason to. I am kind of reserved and don't know how to do all those things. I thought I will not be free around them. But that doesn't mean I don't respect or love her. I prefer calling. After our marriage , she came visiting for two weeks and she enjoyed her stay. I even got gifts for her to give to my sister-in law.
Don't be deceived by some girls that do eye service during courtship but changes after marriage. Not every girl will throw themselves at their mother-in-law but that doesn't they won't treat them with respect.
But I think you should discuss your fears with her.

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Education › Re: See The Reply This Guy Gave To A School Where They Pay 210K For Crèche by hayorbaami: 10:59am On Mar 22, 2015

TBrownAuto:
1000 pounds per day i hate lies

How much is 1000 pounds per day in Uk? If u re in the right profession u can earn that.

I know of SAP contractors that earn that in the UK. You can earn so much if you know what works in UK market.

Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye, Wife And Kids On The Cover Of Motherhood Magazine by hayorbaami: 9:35pm On Mar 21, 2015

TheSonOfMark:
I don't know if it's because of the rich upbringing or nature itself but little Cameron Okoye is going to grow into a self-conceited, egoistic adult. His stinct in the 'Personally' music video confirms it.

I know so 'cause I'm guilty of it...but I'm working on it.

Lol. You made your conclusions based on pictures and his 'stinct' in personally video?

I would have said give the little boy a break, if I also wasn't slightly irritated watching him spray money on his parent's wedding day and also his performance with dad that same day. I just wasn't seeing an innocent little boy at that moment. I was seeing what you just described, but I brushed it off as one of those things, so yeah, I kinda understand where you are coming from, even though we both may be very wrong.

@ topic, cute family pic. Even without smiling, lola looks great in pictures.

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Romance › Re: Annoying Replies When Caught Cheating. by hayorbaami: 5:22pm On Mar 21, 2015

I don't know what came over me....
It was a mistake...

Celebrities › Re: An Open Letter To All Nigerian Celebrities Who Love Flaunting Their Wealth by hayorbaami: 9:34pm On Mar 17, 2015

This is the most uninteresting open letter I've ever read. What a badly written piece. It could have made a good read, judging by the title, but it is just too all over the place. The title is the only thing I agree with.

From your title, I thought you were against them flaunting their wealth, but you ended up being against getting the good things that they can afford.

..And that 250n watch BS up there huh

, babe please undecided

. There is a reason those watches (and other goods) have different prices based on one's pocket. If I can afford to buy a 15000 watch, I wouldn't settle for a 250n one, just because you will feel offended. Go for what you can afford. Its as simple as that.

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Travel › Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 2 by hayorbaami: 10:03am On Mar 01, 2015

Hello house,

I have two friends that wants to visit UK in june and the other in July.
Can I Invite both of them within that short space of time without affecting any of them. Secondly, I hope it will not affect me in anyway because I hold a spouse visa and it expires in November although renewal is easy.

Also, what are the requirement for one that wants to give birth in Uk.

Travel › Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part2 by hayorbaami: 9:56am On Mar 01, 2015

Hello people,

I have a friend that wants to come to Uk in june and another one in July. Can I Invite both of them within that space of time without affecting any of them. ? Secondly , will it affect me in anyway because I hold a spouse visa and it expires in November. Although renewal is easy.

Also, what are the procedures for some one that wants to give birth in the UK.

Culture › Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by hayorbaami: 5:23pm On Feb 23, 2015

They want to promote culture yet they talk about European premier league, listen to foreign music, sit all day to watch foreign movies, drive foreign cars, play foreign games, practice foreign religion, (abi how many of una dey practice African religion
undecided

),wear foreign designer clothes, suits and shoes, some don't even have a piece of African Clothing in their wardrobe.

Many do not give their kids the cultural names anymore, they all bear aliona, white, alora, audery, and so on, yet you open your mouth to condemn people, indirectly bashing women as usual like they are the only ones who copy western lifestyles . Yeh, Nigerian men can be shameless hypocrites.

@Op, even your username is unafrican tongue

. If you wanna condemn Nigerians' unafrican ways, then make sure you are 100% African, anything outside that is PURE HYPOCRISY and UTTER foolishness.

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Family › Re: Evil Acts You Committed As A Kid by hayorbaami: 10:07pm On Feb 16, 2015

Pap was one of my best meal when I was very young. One day mum sent me to go and blend the maize for the pap. I stood there and watch the lady unconsciously packed birds poo and blended with my maize.

I guess I was afraid to talk because the woman is old. I didn't mention it to anyone when I got home. But my siblings noticed I stopped taking pap which was one of my best meal back den. They were really surprised and asked me why I dont want to take pap. Each time they ask I just smile and reply that I just dont feel like having it.

I didn't taste the pap until that set finished. I told them 5years after the incident. Lol

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Testimonies Of Second-Class Lower Graduates Who Have Good Jobs by hayorbaami: 11:06pm On Feb 12, 2015

I graduated with a 2-2.. 3.47 GPA.
I hate it so much. I believed if I had I read harder I would have made a 2:1. It is so painful because no one cares about your GPA. It is is your grades they are after.

It is good to have good grades not just for the sake of getting a job after school but for your self.

Nowadays, most top companies requires a minimum of 2:1 because of the competition.

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Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by hayorbaami: 7:05pm On Feb 09, 2015

I really dont pity the guy undecided

. He saw it coming. He just chose to ignore it. The wife never respected him in Nigeria.

Her family came to live with them just barely a month after their wedding and the wife didn't deem it fit to notify her husband. She registered in Unilag full NBA without discussing it with her husband who provided the finances.

If she can behave in such a disrespectful manner in Nigeria , How does he expects her to behave in US where the law favours her?

He made a big error relocating to the US despite all the wife and her family did for him in Nigeria.

He should just move on and stop whining undecided

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Family › Re: Is This Morally And Culturally Right by hayorbaami: 3:25pm On Feb 05, 2015

My husband does the shopping. I got so use to it that I dont like shopping for foodstuffs. Sometimes he will ask that we go together but I feel lazy doing that now. I guess he spoilt me. I just remind him of what we need in the house and the brand he should get.

Maybe you should join him in doing the shopping rather than he doing it alone. You can get the opportunity to make decisions when shopping together.

Family › Re: Things You Have Done Absentmindedly by hayorbaami: 11:08pm On Feb 02, 2015

I wanted to prepare moimoi for dinner. I absentmindedly soak rice instead of beans sad

. I didn't even notice until later in the evening when I wanted to wash the beans and prepare dinner .
We had to take something else for dinner.

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Family › Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by hayorbaami: 12:15am On Jan 23, 2015

I met my husband on social media 4years ago He sent a text to my inbox but ignored him. After few days I decided to reply his messages . We exchanged bbm contact and we became friends. At that point I knew nothing was going to happen between us because he lives in UK and I do not want a long distance relationship
After few months of chatting, he told me he was coming back home finally . He already registered for service and he would like to settle in Nigeria. I was so glad. He came to Naija but didn't spend up to 2 months when he told me he was tired of Nigeria and he got an fantastic job offer abroad which was a very good opportunity.
for him. We decided to go our separate ways because we knew it wasn't going work.. The distance and the time difference will not help and we barely know eachoda. We decided to be friends and always keep in touch.
After a year, I went for my masters in UK. He knew all my plans and he came visiting. We got talking again and he told me of his plans to come back to UK to finally. He is tired of living abroad. 3 months to his arrival to Uk, He told me of his change of plans. He has has always wanted to work in a particular country and would love to explore the country for 6 months. I know he is a kind of person that loves travellin and I don't want him to regret not trying. But he promised if he doesn't get anything within 2 weeks he is done travelling.
He came back after 2 weeks as promised and we got to know eachoda very well. I finished my masters and I told him I was going back to Nigeria. He said 'I will never allow you to back to Nigeria , I can't bear the thought of losing you again' we got married a year after.
It wasn't a smooth journey at all. I believe that the 1and half year of staying in the same city made a lot of difference in the relationship because we got to know eachoda well. I am always grateful to God that I made the decision of doing my masters abroad because it brought close to my destined husband.

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Politics › Re: Zahra - Buhari's Daughter - Lives & Studies In The United Kingdom by hayorbaami: 10:26am On Jan 14, 2015

AZeD1:
You get 20 working hours per week with a UK visa.

You are allowed 20hours. And when you are on holiday you can get letter from school for your employer so you can exceed the 20hours

Politics › Re: Zahra - Buhari's Daughter - Lives & Studies In The United Kingdom by hayorbaami: 10:22am On Jan 14, 2015

akereconfi:
Where are your siblings living in the UK.

How much do they pay for their apartment monthly.

Say it let's see. When you siblins applied for the UK Visa, what was the minimum fee UKBA demanded that they must have monthly(Upkeep and Accommodation)

There is no big deal about living and schooling abroad. All these figures that ure quoting are just conditions to grant you visa. I schooled in UK and my father was just a mere civil servant whose retirement was due few months after my admission. Some schools even allow you to pay their fees thrice.
Even though my parents gave me all the money as stated by the UKBA, I didn't live in an expensive apartment. I shared a room with a friend, worked for 20 hours. I was able to save money at the end .
It just depends on how you manage and spend your money.
I have a friend whose father was a pensioner while he was schooling. The only thing the father paid for was his school fees and accommodation for few months for him to settle in Uk. He worked for his living allowance and the rest of his accommodation.
And as to buying designer shoes and bag, anyone can go into their stores wear it and snap without buying. Also, you can afford to buy designer once in a while when they are doing massive sales. All you have to do is find your way around UK anf you will survive.

The minimum fee UKBA asked is 800 pounds, multiply that by 12, gives you 9600 pounds so I don't know what you are talking about.

Am still waiting for your response

Romance › Re: What's The Factor That's Kept Your Relationship Or Marriage Till Today. by hayorbaami: 10:18pm On Nov 01, 2014

Communication, sincerity, best of friends, considerate and trying to keep the relationship lively by going out together often.

Romance › Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by hayorbaami: 8:36am On Nov 01, 2014

lrguru:
differentiate a boyfriend from a fiancee please?

Or u want to tell me a fiancé is someone who has engaged u? Yea u right babe.... But does engagement means marriage?

Ladies of this days will call a guy who just asked the out last week their fiancé, cos they don't even know the difference

My own meaning of fiance is someone you have done introduction with and a date is fixed for wedding. Not all these yeye promise ring.

Romance › Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by hayorbaami: 8:10am On Nov 01, 2014

Idowuogbo:
A guest indeed! Make u no cook oo...i am begging you sef don't cook. I trust my take over babes, when dem finish with your bofy hen,I mean the ones that'll overfeed him and knack am wella, na "it's over!!! We are not compatible anymore" he go ping you.

Abgegi jare..all na wash. If you like be d best cook nd best in everything , those that will snatch your boyfriend will still do. But at least you wont regret performing a wife's duty while in the relationship.

Romance › Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by hayorbaami: 8:05am On Nov 01, 2014

TahariX:
100% agreed!

Thank you o my sister. Am sure most of the guys talking here will not advice thier own sister to perform a wife's role to an ordinary boyfriend. If he wants to test your cooking abilities he should come over to your house. Maybe when he graduates from boyfriend to fiance you can start doing all the wifely role.

Romance › Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by hayorbaami: 10:31pm On Oct 31, 2014

All these men just want everything free. Free food, free sex, free cleaner. Oso free...

Romance › Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by hayorbaami: 10:19pm On Oct 31, 2014

Why should I cook for my boyfriend? He no get hands to cook? It is either he does the cooking or we eat out. I cannot play the role of a wife to a man am not married to . I don't mind cooking for him if he comes over to my house. if you like cook all the delicacies if a man wants to leave you he will.

TV/Movies › Re: What's Your Best Nigerian/nollywood Movie? by hayorbaami: 12:43pm On Oct 11, 2014

Madam dearest
Day of reckoning
Mr and mrs
Iru esin
Ti oluwa nile
Diamond ring

Politics › Re: Fake Results And Rigging By APC Osun by hayorbaami: 11:29pm On Aug 09, 2014

Yeye dey smell. When the result form the last ekiti elections were released in bits from the centres unofficially and pdp was winning, you were not waiting for inec's official announcement. Now that It hasn't favoured you, you smell lies and look forward to inec's announcement. Oshisko.

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Autos › Re: My Own Pre-order Tale With Inspired Autos (Finally delivered, resolved) by hayorbaami: 8:58am On Aug 08, 2014

onatisi: lobatan,matter die.

Op's unsolicited mouth piece, And you can also now take several seats too. Enough of you jumping on people's posts and screaming Op does not owe anyone any explanation. Op is obviously a sensible man who understands the need to give a detailed and appreciative post as his closing remarks and he just did that. Did you underestimate the power of the online pressure mounted on inspired? You keep saying people carried the matter on top head, would you have preferred we all read Op's opening post and kept quiet?

The fact that inspired delivered is nothing to be commended at all and doesn't erase the bad image and testimonies that have been shared so far by different posters , lessons should have been picked by the wise ones. Except someone wants to become and overnight celebrity like the Op.

I'm not sure if I should congratulate you sef mr lipseal, but at least the days of wakabouting Is over and no more anxiety.

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Autos › Re: My Own Pre-order Tale With Inspired Autos (Finally delivered, resolved) by hayorbaami: 10:53pm On Aug 07, 2014

zeemore: These posts were hidden before, what the hell happened? Lol, this movie keeps getting interesting

Nairaland servers crashed for some minutes and I guess they had not backed up in the last hour(s) so the hidden posts got restored on their own grin

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Interesting to read zachie's posts sha, quite hilarious. grin

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Autos › Re: My Own Pre-order Tale With Inspired Autos (Finally delivered, resolved) by hayorbaami: 7:38pm On Aug 07, 2014*

inspiredm: I think its High Time The FG Introduced Single Notes of N2,000.

You wont Know the Essence Until When You're Being Paid CASH in N200 Notes amd You Have to Count and Cunt All Over again.

This Cash Being Counted is the BALANCE Payment of LipSeals 2003 Toyota Camry and They're all N200 Denomination Notes.

It can be Hectic Counting Cash Sometimes.

Cheers
Inspired

Like seriously? Of that use is this info. Who gives a f^ck if he pays you in tafawa balewa notes.

And who is the person hiding posts? What is wrong with you people? What is so wrong with the posts of eyop and that lady whose CAPs key is always on? Oh, inspired is a god who can't be quoted again? I have been following this thread from day one, and you can imagine the irritation I got reading this last post by inspired. People are expecting you to deliver your promise after fecking up and all you do is come in at late hour to tell us unwarranted tales about the denomination paid to you.

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Education › Re: Former OAU SUG President Graduates After 13 Years [PICTURED] by hayorbaami: 2:44pm On Aug 07, 2014

Fp has been really dry today and the mods are bored too. na to dey recycle topic remain. Nothing on ebola , nma and tonto dike? Bring one of lalastical's topics then .

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