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Unnecessary anger from your brother if you ask me. It's a deal. Are you supposed to give her the oil for free or what's the cause of his overreaction?

And to her who couldn't keep tight-lip despite having a good deal off you, ignore her and move on. You shouldn't have told to keep it a secret, it was why she felt the need to reel out the deal. It should have been strictly business.

Dude, find some hustling means and ignore him and her till he's ready to get along peacefully with you. The earlier the independence mentality sets in, the better.

Many a times, ladies come into marriage with the mindset to compete with the man's family members. If the man is unwise enough to set required boundaries between the set of differing parties, it's best to ignore them and move on with one's life as if you never had a brother at all. This doesn't, however, mean you'll be more successful in life, it just means you respect yourself and your peace, which could have been put into question when in tandem with an intending bellicose wife. And nothing matters more than your peace and self-esteem or self-respect, not even success, I bet.


Peace, sha

iLegendd:
You're welcome, Sir. At the moment, I already have the number of people I needed. And damn, it's not easy replying lots of messages.

That's the main reason I try to avoid new messages or come to Nairaland to catch small cruise before I get serious again offline.

When batch C starts, I'll let you know — that's if I remember.

All right. Thanks. I can always remind you. That's around when?

iLegendd:
First thing first, there are some sites you can't register to make money or exchange money without an international passport or at least, drivers' license. To get one of these IDs, you need to have NIN first.

After renewing my passport, I was able to register on two sites that were giving me headache to approve me.

With the passport, everything was approved in just a few minutes and I used the platform and made more than 100k profit in a day. Without NIN, this journey wouldn't be a successful one.

Also, there are sites that don't even need international passport, but just your NIN slip to verify you and you'll use it to make money from home.

I know your next question is: teach me or what are those sites?

Answer: That's beyond the scope of this post. Some things are private and personal. Give it to the public or even one person and regret two weeks later. hey'll abuse and misuse it. The ones that claim they won't are even worse. (Nigerians and Indians are the worst people to give secrets to — they'll ruin it).

Though, I have free threads where I revealed lots of money-making secrets.

Ilegend, I've been on your door for a while.
Allow me to learn from you. Economy is stifling. I have NIN and laptop, yet I'm still even in debt.

In fact, if it's the free threads, add me up and let me get in the path of getting some things for myself.

A 26-year old who still depends on parents would be stupid to be unable to stay tight-lipped. Abeg.

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Omicron007:
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How is Robotics obsolete?
You are here spewing trash while you have failed to show us what you have invented that is not obsolete.

Bleep off man.

He added what he wishes he was to his name, yet he still isn't smart.

Mercychen:
This your story ehn.. e dey pain brain.

If I got you right, you want your wife to disconnect from her aunty?

Well, it will be very difficult because like you said, she was with her for 18yrs. That's a long time to form an unbreakable bond, that's why she can't detach her self easily from her.

I'll advise you relocate to a place they'll not be able to access your house easily. That's the only thing I think can put a stop to all these.

Things men go through. Imagine OP has to settle for this advice, which has so much credit to it as far as reasonability is considered, he'll leave his comfort, the people he's formed a good bond with in the street, the ease that comes with the location he's familiar with, and all that, to a new place. All of this to fulfil the rite/right for peace to be arrested, and especially to impress the wife.

Just imagine! Quite hard to grasp if marriage indeed worths it for a man.

Chloraseptic:
I just didn't know what I wanted then Because as a teenager I was just following the crowd or what my uncles told me to do.

I ended up not studying any of them though.

Oh, sorry, chief.
Future and current endeavors shall swing in our favours.

Chloraseptic:
Of course petrochemical is suitable enough..
But the point is I would have taken the civil engineering if I had known better.

Why is this your decision, chief?

More job opportunities, more pecuniary rewards, easier modus operandi?

Your reasons, sire.

Chloraseptic:
Why are you trying Soo hard to explain the relevance of Agric.. you don't owe anyone explanation, besides this is Nigeria you might as well get a Bank job with you Agric certificate...

That was how my naive and ignorant teenage self turned down civil engineering UIBEN offered me because of my stupid determination to study petrochemical engineering in UNIPORT.

For lesson purpose, may I ask why you think petrochemical engineering isn't suitable enough?

Your response will help in formulating the advice I'll give younger ones, chief.

Ryda:
Nigerian lecturers can hoard grades for no reason.
I understand students are part of the problem but how do we explain mass failure in a class.

Them no buy handout
Them no buy textbooks
Them no sort lecturer
Them no attend lectures

The lecturer is not doing well
The students are not doing well
The Dean, or HOD is also not doing well.

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pocohantas:
These ones would appreciate you more than schools in town. You save money, because with time they’ll definitely give you farm produce. It is just one year after all.



Ah. Wahala o. Someone has to so the job anyway. If everyone kees running away, how would the kids in the rural area get educated? He should arrange his own side. The place doesn't look that remote.

Lol, while you are right in your other views, over remote dey actually worry the village.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Rest in peace to that niggar

Alot of pussy asss niggarrrs on this thread screaming Davido sacrificed that that niggar called Obama

Let me tell you all a secret. We were born to die....an death is only the beginning
For every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to die

Ain't no niggar or fan of Davido....but I must always say the truth

Ose truthsayer.
Truth wey your clients (victims) don tire of. Truth wey dey destroy nation image.

Agbaawo truthsayer, tuaile

See what they made of us, a better man.

Bvmsson:
I'm not surprised..... Christmas is here already.
I remember when I was quite younger we used to be warned never to talk to strangers especially during the yulitude because that's when kidnapping for money ritual is at its zenith. But coming to the south East to school just made me realize that most money rituals and kidnapping were more rampant in the the south west.

The people that did this will never know peace and live long but unfortunately na them dey live long and die peaceful deaths sef....

I wish so much that someday very soon, you lot are are granted the independence you seek, just so we could do away with such hateful, wicked and evil heart that is derided of any human compassion or feelings.

Just imagine a blatantly unnecessary insensitive introduction of tribalism in a situation of mourning. How do you people even reason, is your cerebrum so useless it's been converted to plastic or nylon or what?

How exactly did the south west wrong you to always have to tolerate all your emotional taunting? How, for the God you worship sake?

I remember several of you people establishing your business around and live here unhindered!
Born and live in Lagos, lived 3 years in a suburb in Ogun, been to Ibadan and Osun, and study currently in Ilorin; in each of these placey, I notice you people are noticeably working, trading, and living unhindered, even in the suburb of a South West state! I could remember several of my Igbo neighbors using the term "Yoruba no good" loudly to our face, and we choose to demonstrate apathy yet, all because of our peace-loving nature.

What you people want to leave us to our lives is independence, right? Please, augment your efforts and go to Abuja, they're the one holding it.

We are humans and deserve some peace off these your constant emotional toiling, please. We really do.

One would come online for some breathe and catch some news, it would be some insensitive tribalistic slurs gracing one. Offline, I've been strewn in some bad experience with you guys at markets, like Ikotun market. In fact, in my street, I and my friends have had times we reached uncomfortable circumstances with the 'chemist' due to bad drugs market and poor business professionalism discharge.

I don't know what our people in your states do, if you get similar experience, report them to law and do as apt, rather than making life hell for us online and offline.
Abi Kini gan.

God bless you guys for speaking up.
I for don run am as I dey look for money.


But una scammers, wetin una dey gain from money wey una go soon spend finish. No be so o.

Wait, chief, I will pay 20k to start earning?

Guyman, your way is inspiring. Humbly enough, I'll like to learn from you.

Akon, greatest African artist ever.

When my friend sees the way I handle my own children, he would be very quick to discipline his own around me.

OP, it shall get to you soon. Reach out to the right sources. Meet with those who've collected theirs. Sorry, chief.


Meanwhile, I'll like to also be part of this. At least, I'll be getting paid. Please share how to go about it for people like me.

TMKsouth:
Guys, this thread is meant to unite religions - not divide us

But you see the Christian guy bringing the religion card and thumping other people's religion.

It's unfortunate Nairaland allows religious intolerance, and tribalism

AzzaMan:
Normally, as you talk say you be student, poor and you dont go class because you are broke.

Normally, I for do small transfer for you, small money maybe 20k or 30k but my money na fraud money.

Oga HayTerran, you go chop fraud money make you paste your account number.

Keep your dough, boss. Peace, chief. But baba shun fraud.

Las Las na around same age we go dey and me wey no get bad but still dey maintain my land... I still get respect from people as I respect myself...

Baba way go open too someday. Shun fraud, chief

Great work.

Kingmelly:
Dem don't do eye service finish we go know whatsup later na

But why are you people like this? Always happy with reasons to complain! This can't be a mentality expected of this nation/continent/race if development is in our agenda.

Something right there with a huge potential to save lives and it appeared as a deceit to you - for reasons best known to you. If it was America doing the same, it would attract massive praise from you. You can't pass down this kinda mentality to your young ones, you'll be polluting a society and their future I swear.

Think! Don't just submit your opinions, chief. You'll not always die if you say things as they are and not under the auspices of tribalism or poor intelligence. You should be better than this.

AzzaMan:
My point is right now our major problem in this country is not Yahoo boys...

We get president where promise 1 naira Equal to 1 dollar, over 5 years now he has not kept to his promise and no body arrested him for that....is that not fraud?

If we want to end fraud, tackle it from the root... No be all these selective judgement.

You're right, chief. It's fraud too, from the up. It's a sober situation. And na wetin dey cripple most of us be that.

Thing wey just dey be say from the root wey you talk start from all of us, you stop fraud, I stop fraud, our friends stop, people wey dey close to Buhari stop, only him no go fit do am alone na

Two adults doing what pleases them shouldn't in anyway be in a position to bother me.

All the best for them.

Bigpapi:
Why does yorubas always marry olosho? Are they all simp?

People who reason like this have the lowest intellectual value and should be confined to jail solely because they are the reasons Africa is still backward.

AzzaMan:
I dont do fraud...yan yan yan...

Bros do you fornicate?
Sinners judging sinners for sinning differently.

Don't be daft. When I fornicate, it's my body, it's my sin and I'm the victim, and I'm held responsible. But when I fraud, God! Someone else's the victim, I'm happy, they suffer. What sort of life and anti-self respect?!

Plain stupid.

Moreover, I don't indulge in fornication even though I may or may not do if my financial situation was better... Don't just pin everything generally.

Think, chief, think.

Shun fraud.

Crafteck1:
Effect of failed government,
If you dont understand this..
Minimum wage is 30k,
Almost no secondary school thats worth calling a school takes less than 60 per term,
Boiled egg is 100 now,not goat or cow egg, the one from fowl yanch ooo.
No bike in lagos is less than 100 now
No where except some estates in ikoyi can guarantee safety from theives,
No where except for the 1 percent of 1 percent guarantees safety from police brutality,
Federal University school fees should average 45k now,
Least meal is about 400 yet, not talking about balanced diet ooo, thats a luxury over 95 percent cant afford,
List goes on and on...
Most painful of it is theres no HOPE on the horizon fora legit person like me, they still want to increase fuel, nepa fees, rent etc.. Above all again..

MINIMUM WAGE IS 30K

While that is sinking into your heads and we are blaming the government, remember the first class student that got a tuber of yam and chicken plus 10k...what did we as a community do to encourage
Now remember those 2 bf and gf from bbn living in denial, see how people contribute cash gifts, cars etc for them.... Long story short.... WE ARE FUCKE D

Not an excuse yet.

I can relate to all that you listed and more, in fact I'm so poor I don't go to class, just stay back in hostel and study. I'm so poor you'll never understand if try to explain, yet I don't ever engage in fraud or illegal stuffs at all. It's all part of a solid fundamental parenting.

A spade has no other name.

femi4:
Ikorodu not Okorodu

Not just laspotech, in all higher institutions in Nigeria, just buy the lecturer handouts/textbooks and you have 10marks already

Another generalization gaffe from one who probably attends a Poly where the case is endemic, and have friends who all do, hence sharing similar experience.
This rubbish does not happen in Unilorin!

In fact, lecturer never tells you to buy any material, they just drop PDF and some don't!

It's my 5th year here, and that rubbish hasn't happened ever.

In fact, the only money I pay is the school fees at beginning of each session, until the next session!

I learn some federal school are averse to it too.

You guys should learn the art of curbing how you generalize cases!

jedisco:
In crypt0 it usually doesn't help to have a fixed monthly or two-month price target you think price must get to. The market could do anything in a month or two.

The 115% apr (annual percentage rate) is the interest if held over a year.

I also hold axs which I see as more of a short term move and should liquidate on its next move. It's worth noting that axs was 2 dolls few months back... At 8b usd market cap, it still has room to grow but that growth wouldn't be as fast..... If you are attracted to it because of it's previous pump, it's also worth looking at it from a potential return on investment from where it currently is in relation to other coyns

Thanks for this enlightenment, chief. I appreciate.

Legends, I just downloaded the peachfolio app you recommended.
How do I navigate it, chief?

E never ask me for my name and registration and verification and all that, just eth address and username.

Cc TimeKeeper