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Hello everyone,am in some kind of fix and i need help.i have a boyfriend who believes that every male that comes close to him wants to snatch me,he thinks that my family hates him because he's not so comfortable.he keeps telling me stories about people that dated for years,got married and lived happily ever after,then he'll tell me that girls that leave their boyfriends to marry other guys always end up unhappy and miserable.most times his stories will end with"imagine how happy we'll be together if we get married".but the truth of the matter is that i used to think he was all that untill i noticed he's a ball-less weakling.he's the type that will take his friends along on a private date with his girlfriend,the type that wouldn't stand up to his friends when they insult his girlfriend.he's not a man one bit.the problem,my friends, is that his insecurity,and lack of confidence is driving me nuts.i've tried so many times to talk to him but he does the same thing and really he irritates me now.it makes me feel like his a child and i don't need him.can u imagine,my sister's friend offered to give me a ride home and he got all upset about it,he went on blabbing about how it's unsafe and how safe it is for me to take a bus home and the worst part is that that was my first day of going that way after work cos i just moved to that area.he checks my phone like woo and wants to know who calls me and why, as well as check my messages.am still in that relationship because we were friends before we started dating so we knew each other.he was even telling me at some point that i'll be miserable if i leave him and i gradually started believing him, this relationship will be 5yrs next month and i don't want to waste anymore of my time, am at a loss on what to do,i feel like i shouldn't leave cos am sooo used to him but at the same time am soo bored with all the whining and nervous break downs about every man that throws a glance at me, pease tell me what do i do?

my boyfriend is like that and it's really beginning to irritate me, and when i tell him he's being insecure and lacks confidence he gets very angry, huh

hnmm,i wonder why anyone should go thru all that stress to check his girlfriend,she's your girlfriend not your wife,

hahahahhahahah, una no go kill me for here.

@poster u sure say u look this picture well, na wa to u oo.

^{looooonnnnnnngggggggggg hissssssssssssssssssss}

why she no go turn celebrity when she no get work.na soo soo reply she dey reply for nairaland.ice ko hot ni[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

yimiton:
At 17, you're already sadling yourself with the issues of women!
Boy, you've got a long way to go! And 6 at that, mine oh mine, what time do you have to read your books?
What ever happend to pure, uncommittedand beautiful friendship?
You really think you're very mature? Macaulay Culkin of Home Alone equally thought he was very mature when he got married at age 18 but discovered it wasn't a game for kids barely 2 years later.
My advice to you, at this age, you don't need any commitments be friends with all six of them, like reading mates and with time, you'll get to understand what love is all about and genuinelyfall in love.
For you to have 6 women on you at once and not knowing what to do simply shows you're still a long way from being mature.

I second that!!!!!!!!!!

@pilas how did u know that he's from Abia state.hhnnmm now am really really really beginning to suspect that u know a little more than u should cos i've gone thru my posts and i didn't mention that he said he's from Abia state, i really do hope that you are not pilas a.k.a echidimme.

@silly, hi dearie.i've been around just been very busy with work and all.don't mind that guy,i wish i could post the conversation here u'll be sooo pissed.can u believe it?the guy told me that he wants to come to Nigeria and marry and will i marry him but i said no.he went on to ask if i could see him when he comes,i said no cos it's just stupid why would i want to see him when am not interested in whatever it is he wants.then he started calling me names and how am pretending cos he knows nigerian girls want to rope every guy into marriage.at first it was very funny but when he called me a slut,i just snapped and told him off.i decided to ignore him but he keeps sending me offline messages and saying crap, it's really very irritating that people still have such backward thinking.

WebMonk:
My My My! Why go through all that stress, when you can just place him in your ignore list? The you won't hear from him again

Simple!

really!!!!!!!!!!!!so how do i do that?pls i need to know.

your nairaland name is echidimme and your yim is jim4ray.i know because you've been sending me offline messages.i would have just dealt with you in my own way without bringing it here but i think it's better this way.i don't know who u are and i don't care.if u come online and propose marriage to a girl u don't know then i think your own illiteracy is beyond redemption.and why all the name calling just because i said no?at first i thot u were just one of those fools but now i really do think u need to visit a psychiatrist.i won't tell u to stop sending me those things u call messages cos it's very obvious that u are jobless,what i will not take from u is the name calling.if your mother was is a slut and gave birth to u as a bastard that is obviously not my business, am warning u for the very last time cos believe me u will be shocked at the next thing i'll do to u, ANUOFIA.

saucekid:
yes oooooooooo easy,

i believe you have the lenses i can use to cure that blindness.

can we chat?^{i will be very greatful ooooooooooooooooooo}

[s]u'll really be great and full when she's true with u[/s]  hnnmmm,,no be small thing oo

Now my friends try to have sex with this girl and the funny part of it was he met her diverging.

hahahahahahahahahhahahhahahah,
             

but i was out of the country that period

pls i'll really like to know which country u went to and how u were able to communicate.abi na mars u go cos this your grammar is simply out of this world.

kai am soooo shocked.

sillyboy:
That wouldnt be to much of a blow to me. Afterall she's human. I'll simply call up a replacement, that's why it's good to have alternative gfs

aahh good boy!!!!!!!!!

@poster,,i go pass out first.

sharrrap, that's not the issue, stop trying to be a smart ass using reverse psychology and all, where have u ever seen anyone in stanfford loading mtn recharge card.

hahahh, crook

you kehnnmm,person wey get message don take am,

but since it looks like you are in the love-me-mood,here's a lil' sumin for ya, mmmuuaahh

loving you and knowing that you love me too makes me HAPPYYYYYYYYYYy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hnnmmmmm,,,a little bird told me so, anyway forget about it and give me the gist,

OK dearie, am waiting for ya,


hnnmmm,*thinking**never knew sillyboy now bears another name_sillygoat*

*hazel walks in whistling*, *coughs*@Silly,please download the gist am all ears.

italiano is sooooooooo sexxyy, right now am trying to learn from my boyfriend,even his dog understands the language,that's what they communicate with.

yesooooo, i know his type, stanfford my dirty smelling foot.

sillyboy:
Guess we'll have to help sort him out. He will need to buy some more time at the cafe in the village beside Ilesa where he lives.

@ Young nigg or whatever

Here is your life line!

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never mind it's so long, it's a special recharge meant for villagers in the village where you live!

Stafford ko, Somolu ni

hahahahahahahahahahahah, ohhhh lordie lord, u'll never stop living up to your name, thanks dear for putting this ignoramus in his right place.

young_nigg:
why una dey suffer una sef for Nigeria na becoz una no graduate for ilewe central school amawbia amesi na why una papa leave una make una suffer 4 naija

hnnmmmmm,,this boy,thiss booyyy,,,now i know that u are a local breed.afterall,by their tongues we shall know them.

bibi4u:
i couldn't stop laughting when i saw this post on my email this morning,my sister's son was with us when discussing the other day and came to my post with it only couldn't really express himself, oh my God this is killing me and my sister over here

so u tried to cover your ass by saying your nephew typed the first one, do we assume that the dummy in you typed the second one?

all these yingrish that you are blowing here is almost knocking me off my seat.i hope oyibo man no go come take hin language back,

young_nigg:
@easybaby horney are you saying you that dosent like me anymore?

wasted years in school.is this yinglish?dude check yourself.i really do think you need help.

now i know for sure that this girl is really wallowing in self pity, i actually thought i was the only one that noticed the ugly local fowl"s picture,