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yes pataki,they are my eyes for real, any probs?

Ehise99, common stop disgracing urself in a public forum.aah aah, it's just 8k.if ur boyfriend had sex with him before nko.shouldn't u be discussing that with ur bobo instead of making a fool of urself with this girl?aahh na real waa for some people oh,

hnnnmmmm,mr pataki,how did u know the amount they collect at red district, afraid don dey catch me for u oh!!!!

@ sillyboy.where have u been?missed u though.

this Eishe99 girl is really embarrassing me here oh.common girl!!!!!!!!!did maximus beg u to help him collect his money?it's just a frigging sum of 8k.haba!!!!!!!!

this is what joblessness does to people.

Don't get it twisted love is a beautiful _^dangerous thing!!!!!!!!!

@topic, because there is no romance without finance.

@kalmebad, na u dey go find trouble.where in his post did he say that he snores,

$$Rhino:
Your husband is a great guy, because it takes a great man to admit that he got a prob, most men will even tell you they are fine and damn the consequence

i just hate such ignoramuses, _{, ^{my boyfriend is one of them}}

if this lady had come here to say she waited her hole life for a-not-going-anywhere relationship u all will call her a fool and blame her for deceiving her self for so long, abeg,u all should take a chill pill.

@poster i'll love to know if u have a degree certificate and how old are u really?but that not withstanding,there's nothing wrong with desiring to be with someone who can take care of u and ur children when u have them.even the bible says that a man who cannot take care of his wife is worse than an infidel,

yeah wow!!!!, i thot so too.

@gamine, thanks dear for the info.

if am not mistaken,this is the same aisha that told us sometime ago that she got a new man and a new everything, but darling u didn't say u got new men,

@topic, tell us ur genotype maybe then we'll decide.

nana:
lol,it's fun o

Gonorrhea:
What are you talking about?
When a woman is fed up, she goes even if she had everything she ever wanted in a relationship!
you can be nice, considerate,caring and all but when the time is up, she goes
in this case, she only needs to pick a small fault! why do some girls leave their guys for other guys? tell me,
i have seen so many good relationship crumble like cookies because both parties have had enough and they want to move on!
being kind, nice and considerate doesnt gaurantee u have full and forever possesion of a woman, get that straight up!!

when a woman is fed up with the crap u feed her with she takes a hike, u all need to know that buying a woman all u think she needs does not keep her in a relationship.

some girls leave their guys for another because it's time for change.u definitely don't want to keep managing and die hoping that he'll wake up oneday to become ur dream man,

u can never know the real truth about what happens in another persons relationship my dear,

Duduknight:
"We don't attend the same church" is a lame excuse to break up with someone. If a guy treats a girl badly (by not doing all or most of the 24 things listed above), she is more likely to rely on those reasons than the lame church excuse. When someone (and this includes guys) gives a lame excuse for breaking up with their partner, there is an implicit assumption that they are being treated nicely. And as nice as those 24 things are, only a robot would remember to do all 24 things all the time. That is not possible in the real world.

we are saying the same thing honey, even i still have a few more ideas to add to those 24 things.all am saying is,be man enuff to atleast do some and many more, u don't have to be a robot to be a man and act like one.atleast u have a brain."we don't attend the same church" is definitely a lame excuse to give up something beautiful,

Duduknight:
This is so true. You will hear reasons like "we don't attend the same church", "he is too quiet".

24 ways to keep a girl does not change the fact that "we don't attend the same church", what it does is to enable u possess the girl body,soul and spirit.then she will decide if all that should be thrown away just because "we don't attend the same church".

- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
"you know i'll always be here for you"

awwwww, it's only a man,a real man, that can treat like that,not some spineless whimp of a guy that acts like there's a power tussle between the two of u_{[sub].(eg my boyfriend)}[/sub]

Gonorrhea:
When a woman's fed up, bring her the heaven and earth, she would still walk!!

All those 24things don't mean jack shit if a woman's had enough

a woman only decides she's had enuf when she gets only jackshit from u, what u guys don't know is that falling out of love takes a gradual process.why let her step away from u emotionally when u can possess her by just being kind,nice and considerate,

@topic,
very true, my boyfriend is never like that .somehow i came across someone that treats exactly the way the poster described and i feel inlove with this new guy.now am in a fix cos am inlove with two guys for two different reasons, only if my boyfriend was treating me that way there wouldm't have been a chance for this new guy,

Hi aisha,am happy for u.the good work which God has started in ur life will never stop, your story just inspired me and gave me hope for light at the end of this dark tunnel.

Negro_Ntns:
@POST,

When I walk up and talk to a girl, more likely than not she is going to say to me "I have a boyfriend". As far as I'm concerned, if she's not married, then she is "available". Its the "hide & seek" hunting game. She is evasive, I am tenacious.

I am not dissuaded by the other guy, in fact as far as I'm concerned, he's in trouble from that moment on. On our meeting she had made it clear that I'm not number 1 , so its in my interest to elevate my position to number 1. That's what competition is, displacing the other guy and becoming the one that wins her heart and love. Not every relationship start at the number 1 position. You must understand where you are and what goals you want to accomplish. Some guys can be cool and wait their turns to be elevated, some guys are hot headed and cannot. To the girl that I want If i'm not number 1, nobody else is going to be.

THIS IS WHAT I CALL HITTING THE NAIL ON THE HEAD.


everyone of u at some point have been standby generators whether u realize it or not so stop all the forming and let's move to some other topic.

but @ funmi,na real waa for all these ur topics.

princess k:
well marriage was the best thing that happened to me and yes i do believe i am totally lucky, my husband is great.

please answer frankly, how long have u been married to this great husband of urs

@topic, marriage is like a well wrapped parcel, what ever u see after unwrapping ur parcel,u take it in good faith.

Lady J:
i agree wt d destiny part

but marriage is not all about luck plssssssss,its all about destiny,i don't use that word luck because people fall out of luck



people r destined to marry,u got him wrong,the thing is like i said people fal out of luck ,but your destiny remains wt u,and if your destiny connects u to the right person,then its called destiny and not luck

@bangbang, does the above highlighted statement really make sense to u?

richo:
@poster
somebodys relative died and the very next da[/b]y you are asking her to come to [b]your house
so when everybody is in the late uncles house weeping and wailing u expect her popsi to say she don go see okoro her sweetheart

hahahahahhah, lol.u just made ma day sweet,

segzi cres:
@richo lol. my name is crespo not okoro.

nehii,ur name is okonkwo, or better still,mr okponku.hahahahhhahahahhhahahahhahaha

u were born in the u.s some years back,

clap for urself abeg.

@Esss , i think am in rove with thou.

@topic,
1, it's his problem.but he's got to respect me by telling the girl off,atleast let me not witness the advances.
2.he's a man let him take care of it and for him getting into a fight with a girl,i'll be too ashamed of him to even let people know i came there with him.
3.i'll walk out at that moment and use it against him to get whatever i want untill i finally dump him(that's for my bf of 5yrs) but if it's this new guy that has my head in the clouds right now,i'll walk away to plan my strategy to scheme the other girl out,take charge and take a hike finally,

u are not that guy in that nonsense ambi pur car advert?

Hnnmmm,very mumucious thread.

are u that guy in that nonsense ambi pur car advert?

Hnnmmm,mumuricious thread.

love has nothing to do with lust.u can definitely love someone and cheat on them.

grafikdon:
XYmigrator, I don't see anything wrong with one beating his chest with glee due to his laudable achievement in the face of 'insurmountable odds', but excessive pride often leads to the eradication of that thick line between pride and arrogance. I don't know where you are heading with your 'Igbos are next to God' statement. . . I don't know how you came to that shady conclusion and I sure hope you're not here to spearhead the congregation of the tribal warriors and devious spectators of Nairaland.

I know what it feels like to be looked down upon and will never inflict that mental genocide on my fellow human being (except Amahajibab. . . that Iranian president that believes in 'wiping' people off the face of the planet ). Do not irritate people and incite uproar with inflammatory bogus claims. [b]If you are Igbo, you need to stop sniffing Mama Mgbokwor stale snuff and stop hanging out with the notorious 'Monkey in an SUV'[/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color][/b], if you are not, may God have mercy on your devious soul.

hahahaha, my goodness, u just made my day,

onyinye2:
i believe in being faithful. and no guy has ever cheated on me. i mean what kind of idiot would

am really very sorry for u,

women who cheat on their man should be hung or thrown off tall buildings head-first 
 

and what happens to men who are incurable cheats,

peeps hnnnmm,

^{this is a dangerous place,} sorry oo i was just walking by,

^{zzoooooooooooooooooooooommss ooofffffffffffffffffffffff}

presido1:
Igbo gi amaka, ibu nwanne jenny?

@Poster
make sure u flog the mouth cow disease comot from the nama body first before u think of coming to ma lovely sistas.

mba abughim nwanne jenny, kedu maka gi nwa?i bu onye ebe?

i just wan chop a decent ibo girl and that is my greatest problem in life now.

a ka mu asi nu, ur greatest problem in life is to chop an ibo girl, aturu na enweghi uche, zuzupu ebe a.and i thot i was speaking to a man who just lost his mind for a few minutes.

doncaster:
Well said, nwanne kee side gi na ala igbo. IGBO buys and GYL rocks.

a bu m onye Abia state.

MallamMusa:
Dear nairaland Love adviser,

Ibo girls, What's their problem sef? Is love tribalistic? How come they hardly 'open up yonder' for non ibo big boys like us? I've tasted every Nigerian tribe in bed except ibo girls. i keep trying but they keep getting smarter everyday. what's their problem?. If you bring your money, them go chopam run. Their koko na gold? Help please because i'm deeply worried.
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MallamMusa esq.

u are deeply worried over ur not being smart enough to lay an ibo girl.hnnmmm,a dim sorry for u maka i di daft, don't u know that ibo girls can smell aids when it cpmes around them, if u've gone through the koko of all the tribes in nigeria then u really must be oozing of aids, biko shi ngaa gbafuoo, ewu awusa,