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this guy is trying to take ur girlfriend and he's still ur beloved pastor, hnnmmm,maybe when ur eye clear finish i'll give my advice.

more confessions people, come on bare ur minds.relieve urslf of the guilt, TELL US ABOUT IT!!!!!!!

please note that pretenders are not wanted here, the post is very clear,HOW MANY CAN OWN UP TO HAVE CHEATED?.don't come here and rebuke the devil, cos there is none here, sif u are a saint,doin't even bother saying anything here cos we don't need it, just waka pass as fast as u can,

what's up with all these virginity crap, so after u marry a virgin and disvirgin her what does she become, people,do not be deceived,every girl has a curious mind, after u have disvirgined that virgin she will dfefinitely try out other pri, ks to know the difference, so tell what the fuss is all about.

Seun:
Why do men spend their time thinking about ladies' undies?
Is it because getting men to think about them and their undies is why the ladies are wearing it?

good question.@poster oya answer.

@militia, thank u for bringing me back to earth, daalu, hope i got that right, anyway,people let's forget who was in lagos and when,let us face the topic, @militia my sister i feel u on that runs girl stuff, meen!!! i for pass out if to say na that one.

e hee, oya,,more sinners in the house.how honest can u be with urself.people tell me if u've cheated before.

@silly, u don find me come here abi, i thought we agreed to support each other, no make me vex oo, see the kain swear wey u swear for me,

@militia,hnnmmm, i am shocked beyond words, this allegation no give me mouth talk oo, oya confess,

@militia it has actually made me stronger and of course u won't believe the gfuy is even better than my boyfriend.

festybee:
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallow be thy name,,,,,,,,,,,,,, [size=8pt][/size] ,

see this one ooo.like say hin never do before.anyway na u sabi,all i know is that shit happens.

hi everyone thanks for ur posts, @militia,i just love it when people are really sincere, [i][/i]i was actually beginning to get scared of being the only one cheating, [b][/b]anyways,stuffs like that do happen.in my case it happened cos i was BOREEED StIFF and meen i was curious too.and besides my boyfriend always said he would know if i cheated on him so i guess i also wanted to tell myself that he knows nothing, he has this i too know attitude that just makes me sick,anyway u know how it it when u do something that is forbidden,u just love it, did i enjoy it?i loved it and am still loving it.

pls talk for urself,don't talk for someone else.u might actually be accusing a sister wrongly.

my friend go and get a life, u no better pass those boys wey dey sell la casera for hold up on kingsway road, u could start from there, just imagine how u shamelessly came here to disgrace urself, ewu igbo.

How many can actually be bold enough to own up to it?

Things:
i guess you got more names but just trying to be discreet ,
LovePeddler, eleletiele,ayangba,ashy on and on. i think they got so many names because, when people are caught cheating its the girl that bears the brunt, cheating is illegal for girls but legal for we ,

hahahahahahahahhaahahhahahahahahahahahha, u guys u guys puulleeaaseee, u are making me laugh too much.make them no sack me for work oo,


anyway i thing both sex cheat, nobody holy pass, the funny thing is guys get a bit freaky when they find out that there partners are cheating becos the girl fit dey date 4 guys at once and will still manage the 4.as in provide the emotional,physical,sexual,spiritual needs,name it.she'll provide all of it for all 4, but guys are not soo smart so they always get caught, come on guys now that's a plus,

ok silly, am glaaaaaaaaaaaaadddddddd u are not 18.geezzzz!!!!!!!!!!i for just pass out,

anyways,i agree to be your friend but when u say naughty and silly things be sure to get some from me.afterall i won't let a brother tow the wrong part talk more of a friend(u), that's what friends are for,right, so buddy we look out for each other now,,abi u no like am like that?

18 yrs!!!!!meeennn,u are justa boy, anyways i'll forgive u at least now i know u are just a kid and kids make mistakes, not to worry we are friends oh, but silly ur picture suggests that u are much older than 18, we are friends now remember so no lying, but if truly u are 18,then i must say u not only have the 42yrs experience,u look it too, hahahahahahahahahahahahha

Love can never be afraid.


u wish, hissssssssssssssssssssssss, love is not afraid in ur dreams, wake up.

My God!!!!!!!!!!u are sooo full of sh, t, i was just being honest and realistic, and whoever called u a carrier,if that is what u want to think then go ooonnnnnn cos i don't care, maybe u should learn to keep ur mouth and ur temper in check, puulleeasse,,,get off ma case,

quote@veracious
yes i would goahead and marry him,since its not a full blown AIDS. HIV victims can still live normal happy lives.

so what exactly do u mean by u never told me that u are in love with one, puuleese am not interested if u want to marry one or not,u ask for opinions and that's what i gave, i think u need to be disappointed at urself not me, RUBBISH,

hahahahahaha, very close to the story.hnmmm something like that shaa,

if u stop calling me lase eyes we could be friends, atleast i don notice u reach that point, abi no be wetin u dey find before, Agbaya, why u no go like me?i be girl,u be boy, likeness is inevitable on ur part, olodo, stop following me everywhere ooo, especially if u are calling me laser eye, silly willy

We are all matured enough to make decisions.but i would really love it if some of us think of it deeply because anyone of us could be a victim and still needs to be happily married in life by the one he/she loves and not out of pity.

Personally i can get married to a man who already has a child,not out of pity but true love for him.
it does'nt matter to me if the child or children are really pain in my neck because for you to really find true love there must be something to pay for you to get it.and these might just be one of it.

Am sure some of you who said NO can be madly inlove with a single parent tomorrow that you just can't let go.


hnnmmmm,,,@veracious,i hope u are not confused and as well trying to confuse us, at first it was if u can marry a hiv plus,now u are asking if u can marry one with a kid, am i to take it that the guy came with AIDS and a kid?that's a full package i must say,anyway,i'll just keep my opinion to myself cos i learnt from ur other thread that u already make up ur mind before u ask for advice,so there's really no need to give opinions here.

@silly,,u don find me come here abi,follow follow,

and do not,i repeat,do not call me laser-eyes again oooo, just warning u,


and what exactly do u think could have been the story to get the baby ou of the picture, ehnn, no find my trouble ooo,

Soundmind:
I will go on with her. I have a girl friend that is hiv+. Though she was -ve when we stated but along the line, she slept with a carrier and got it. Though she denied it initially but when she could not hide it again, she told me the truth.
She then said again "my life now depend on how you will treat me, if you break my heart, i will die" i have been going with her since then but i am -ve till now. I have had sex with her severally but protected but am -ve up till now. She atimes wished herself death but with good counsel and support, she has picked up. She is living a normal life and living well. Up till now, she is not on drug but is healthy.
Please, what kills most is the stigma not the virus. With good understanding, the carrier lives a normal life.
With love, you will overcome the stigma and give hope to the carrier.

Veracious:
@ crazykid

is it only HIV victims that die young? olodo

u don't have to be soooo defensive.u asked for opinions and that's what we are giving u.don't come here and insult nobody.if u soo much knew that u loved this guy or he loves u if u are the carrier why come here and look for advice,

Veracious:
@ osereka

yes i would goahead and marry him,since its not a full blown AIDS. HIV victims can still live normal happy lives.

then go on and marry him, my friend, don't come here and waste our time.

it sounds like this  relationship is based more on pity than love, truth be told u cannot come here and swear that never in ur quiet moments shivered at the thot of sleeping with a hiv plus, anyway,like siena rightly said it's a matter of choice but let's try to be honest,

sanrima:
@militia, please take it easy on the fair brothers now, hmmm, another mans food, is another mans poison oh.

hnmmm,looks like this poison is ur main course,

anyway,i love them dark brothers, especially the tall ones.

i did that to my boyfriend sometime ago and he totally freak out, i could swear he was always praying for it to happen, said he wanted it to be a girl with coloured eyes like mine,he won't even let me do nothing, at a point i started pitying him cos it wasn't true so i had to twist the story again to get the baby out of the picture, but i enjoyed all the care and attention.it actually made me want to get pregnant.

i don't miss my ex.no not all and i don't hate him either.just can't waste any emotions on him, love or hate, i don't even know what made me date him the first place , he's not handsome,not rich,not even educated, CAN"T EVN SPEAK SIMPLE CORRECT ENGLISH, anyway i gues it's one of those things that happen when u loose ur senses.





if i ever break up with my present boyfriend.hnmmm i'll miss a whole lot of things, i'll miss the way he just takes care of me,the way i flaunt him cos he's soooooo cute.i call him beautifil.i'll miss the bond we share,he's my bestfriend,u know, it will feel like loosing myself,

Don't mind him.he's looking for estate small girlfriend wey hin go dey cut for corner,

My dear,we are only being realistic.it's not an issue of stigmatization like siena said.if u search urself deep down and tell ur self the truth am sure u know the answer to your question.

@michelin,u do well.aahh.God bless u sista, i wan laugh my head comot.make they no sack me for work oo,
@southafrican brother and his sister,,i warned u,didn't i?ohh ohh,i told u to run.u siddon there they look like zuluzulu, na wetin u ask for na hin she give u, olodo,

aisha2:
First of all, people living with HIv are not Victims. A Victim is one who is in a helpless situation but people living with HIV can take control of their lives by living positively.
To answer your question, as long as you take precautionary measures, yes. I know and work with lots of people , couples where one is positive and the other is negative.
Infact my first contact with a Person living with HIV was when at wedding. I attended the wedding of an aquaintance in 1999, i was one of her bridesmaid because i knew her in secondary school and she was a very good Born again girl, a virgin am sure. A day to the wedding they had a test and she was found to be positive, most of the other bridesmaids and even the chief bridesmaid ran away, but maybe because i was curious i stayed.( Then i did not have as much information about HIV as i do now) The guy insisted on getting married to her because He loved her and he knew she was a good person, She had an accident in 1996 when we were in secondary school and was given a blood tranfusion which blood later discovered to be infected.
They have been happily married since 1999 and have two negative kids, Husband is still negative and our friendship is tighter than ever, my friend is healthy and still has a high CD4 count, that means she is not yet on Anti retroviral drugs.

good story, @veracious,my people say that they don't tell a deaf man that there is war because once the war starts he will see with his eyes, the choice is yours.u can try this long gist above but if i were u,

deb:
I will encourage her to take heart before I fall out of love

i'll follow Deb's advice,

single but not konjinized,

Hahahahaahahahahaha, SILLYBOY, i remember u told me that ur silly head is filled with brilliantly silly ideas, so u should be able to get urslf out of this one.don't worry i'll tell u what to do but first i need to laugh.hahahahahahahaahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahaahahahahahhahahahahahah, ok let me stop for a while hahaha, ha hohohohohohohohohohohohohohohohoho, sorry man can't help it, hahahahahahahahahahahahah

@poster i think am also interested in your age.u could need serious help u know.