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Ayam coming back to read it.... Abeg weris LadyF... Make she come tutor me on Bitcoin |
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Upon all the Azonto that Jonathan danced in Ekiti because of Fayose no APC
supporters carried placard to protest to challenge Fayose victory because
APC nd Fayemi believed Ekiti pple hav decided and Fayemi congratulated
Fayose are dis pple not in Nigeria then? Was it not PDP in power at
federal level and does that means the one that control INEC then was
PDP? |
[quote author=cekhoe post=49817555]Happy birthday to me!!!,there is alot of apathy towards this year's independence day celebration, people feel there is no need to celebrate as we have nothing to show after so many years of independence, well, just join me to celebrate my birthday instead [/quote... Happy Birthday to you Dearie... Wishing you many more years to come... U qonna last like Olumo Rock... Its your day... Enjoy it |
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..... The way you guys rigged Ekiti state Election ryt... Mtcheewww |
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MichaelDee:what gives you the assurance that Pdp will WIN ![]() |
APC will WIN... Mark my words ND Quote me at your own peril |
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Lol... I can't see any demolition.... Lady F, no comment today ![]() |
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Pls I have an issue with my Itel Droid pad.. The phone is not charging and the battery is not removeable.. Pls what can I do to it..? |
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Can't Wait for mine too.! Tongue out |
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Hmmmm |
I hate doing this but to help us form a really good base
for the discussion, I’m going to start out with a short
lecture using the dictionary as reference material.
Who is a virgin?
A person, typically a woman, who has never had sexual
intercourse.
A naive, innocent, or inexperienced person, esp. in a
particular context: a political virgin.
Ok, the first definition is more inline with this discussion
so I’ll elaborate on the definition. But please NOTE that
from this point onwards, just like the dictionary
definition associated the term ‘virgin’ with females, I
pretty much did the same. Sorry 0Toxic.
Since we now know a virgin is a person who hasn’t had
‘sexual intercourse’ my next question is:
What is sexual intercourse?
Sexual contact between individuals involving penetration,
esp. the insertion of a man’s erect penis into a woman’s
vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the
ejaculation of semen.
Perfect. So according to the two definitions above, we
know exactly who a virgin is. Yes, I know some of you
might have thought you knew the definition, I also
thought I did but we are all clear on that now so, moving
on.
Over the weekend I was asked a simple question. Well, it
came across as simple until I tried to answer it.
Do you think it is possible for a sexually active guy to get
into a relationship with a virgin in this modern day world,
stay in a relationship with her for as long as two years
and then leave her still as a virgin?
I immediately blurted out the obvious answer – YES and I
was ready to defend it all the way until I was asked some
other questions.
In such a relationship, do you think it’s possible emotions
won’t go wild in some instances to the point where you’ll
have a close call?
Again, I gave the obvious answer – NO.
I mean, when people say they aren’t having sex in
relationships, well, it is almost expected that they’re
‘doing’ other things to ‘calm the nerves’. I know I’ve
spoken to quite a few ‘virgins’ in relationships and the
really open ones have come out to tell me just how
difficult it is to bottle up all those emotions. One of them
once categorically told me how her and her partner
discovered “the backdoor” in her bid to keep the Mister
happy.
When asked the same question – (How do you get by?),
another “virgin” answered and I quote: “boob sex, thigh
sex, oral… anything except actual penetration goes. ”
I’m not so much of a bible scholar but I’m pretty sure
that ‘the word’ is one place where ‘almost doesn’t count’.
There is just no half and half, you are either in or out,
either a saint or a sinner. Taking this into context, I
asked two ‘virgins’ currently in relationships another
question:
Why exactly are you doing this? Keeping it?
Virgin 1:
Because it’s the right thing to do according to my religion.
Virgin 2:
For me, it’s partly personal and also because of my
future husband. I’m saving it all for him.
Things were definitely getting more interesting. So my
next question went to some male friends.
When a typical Nigerian man refers to a virgin, who’s he
talking about?
I got all kinds of answers but in summary, we can say he’s
talking about a naïve, wide-eyed girl who has little or no
knowledge about all things sexual.
Now, here are two other questions:
Does the bible accept partial penetration, penetration of
every hole except the actual hole?
Will a typical Nigerian man accept a woman who probably
has more sexual exposure than him but has never had
‘sexual intercourse’ as a virgin?
If the answer to those two questions is NO. Then isn’t
something fundamentally wrong? Not once or twice have
we put up posts targeting virgins here and quite a lot of
people in the comments section condemned the writers for
assuming ‘virgins’ were wide-eyed and naïve. With the
answers to all the questions above, it’s easy to conclude
that the modern day virgin is by far different from that
which is defined in the dictionary.
A friend of mine came up with a term that captures the
‘modern day virgin’:
‘Violated virgins’
I’m not quite sure how I feel about that but that’s why we
are here. I want to hear from you guys. Do you agree that
the ‘modern day’ definition of the term ‘virgin’ is quite
different from what it used to be? If yes, what is your
definition of a virgin? All the virgins in the house (erm..
by dictionary definition), please tell us why you’re
keeping it and if any of the answers to the questions I
asked above changes anything for you. You know the drill,
use the comment box to express you. Cheers. |
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Eye Test 92% will fail this.. Which of these chargers is connected to the phone?
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[/quote... Happy Birthday to you Dearie... Wishing you many more years to come... U qonna last like Olumo Rock... Its your day... Enjoy it
Mtcheewww