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My brother as well

Junior being thy name

Let ur absence persist if that will make u feel better

I know not where u are but i have not 4gotten u

We have or had both had very terrible moments,in other words, we have or had both suffered a lot.

We need or needed not compare our case to that of others


Give me this day nothing u cant afford


There is or was no offence attributed to either or both of us that's up to what others did or does to offend either or both of us,



You can't or couldn't make me regret being myself,


No matter what is evil, since the world is not any person's property,forever and ever,



I mean.

DaisyMellow:
I didn't duck your question. I mean anyone with a brain after reading my comments can clearly see that I am a Nigerian woman born and bred in Nigeria. Never have I claimed to be anything other than a black woman. I only didn't respond to your question because you asked if I was a bush monkey savage, which makes no sense whatsoever.

Honestly you should direct the vitriol in your first paragrah to someone else. I have tendered my arguments as clearly as I can. I don't hate the features I am born with, but this doesn't mean I won't acknowledge more attractive facial features.

Why aren't white women purchasing the hairs of dead black women? Why are black women the ones measuring their status and attractiveness by how many white women hair they have?

Why don't people who do a nose job ever widen their noses, but rather try to make them look more Caucasian?

Why do most people find people born with colored eyes very appealing? Countless studies have been done on this.

All these are typical caucasian features found in both men and women. It's patently obvious that Caucasian phenotypic features are more appealing. And yes, there are more physically attractive white people(people from European descent) than there are physically attractive sub-saharan Africans

more attractive to how many people?

i cant avoid sadness upon sadness upon sadness again. i see there are problems with no solution and we have some making money and enjoying it from day one. we have some like me,the result of unprecendented biodisasters and there is no repair. imagine ur dad blaming ur mum 4 being whatever i dont understand why she still speaks of god. so,if i ever make it,then i will only bcom more upset about these things becuz i can never make it by celebrating anything. i only stand a chance by expressing the gloomy truth,probably only to die quick after losing all the wealth to setbacks.

GodSaklek:
Great,let start from nairaland here,there is two threads here,one was written by otem while the other was just a wide discussion by vivian and other,let start from otem writtens that talk about the real begining of the earth,the first page may be funny,but u will deeply confused by the time u read up to 10 pages,just take ur time and read everythng carefully and under stand better,u wil see all the answers u may be looking for. Contact me when u are done with otem confession,then i wil link u with vivian,then others... I wil later mention u in otem thread,then u go to first page to start reading

NONSENSE

jackmrandy:
na you know whether you dey mad oh...

U WAN SEE CRAZE ABI BCUZ DEM NEVA ENTER U ABI I NO GET JOY, NA WAHALA PLENTY 4 MY SIDE, U WONT HELP ME,WHY QUOTE ME? FREE ME , I HOPE U DONT REPLY , SPITS

logicalhumour:
OP, You need to realize how much of a spook the concept of time is and that the number of your age is literally just a description of how many times the earth has orbited the sun since you've been born. It doesn't actually mean anything on a physical and practical level in your life.

I cannot express all the endless possibilities you still have, and how everything is possible for you to turn this ship around at this very moment in a single post.

Just take a deep breath, zoom out of your body into outer space and you'll realize how nothing makes sense. Everybody dey collect. Like I've said, stop looking at your age, it's nonsense; and stop thinking you can change your current state, it's nonsense as well.

either i kill myself or find other entities 2 kill.

pansophist:
It won't end, sorry

By design, you are born to suffer. Just imagine. You didn't choose your height, gender, nationality, name, parents, birthdate, blood type, siblings, native tongue, personality, and so so so much more.

it's like we are born in a box, with already predetermined foundations that will massively shape the direction our lives take. Foundations we can only coexist with, not altered. So if you are born in a mountainous village in Syria, a child of a renowned Swedish madman will have a better life than you.

Unlike animals, humans have a culture to care for their young for so many years, even more than 18 years, and these sweet beginnings have made a lot of us approach life from an easy mode, and sad when things don't go our way.

When I hear people say, ¨God why me?¨, my knee-jerk response always is, ¨Why not you? Don't you know that to live is to suffer?¨ As I speak to you right now, a lion is probably ripping off a pregnant impala, chewing both the mama and her baby.

Or someone just died via accident somewhere in the world, not because he was driving wrongly, but because the other driver was reckless, and killed him for no fault of his own. So you can do everything right, and still pay the price for a stupid person that did everything wrong.

How can such life be fair? I mean why should I die because you are stupid? But this nonsense happens to animals and humans every day.

The horrors of life that other species understood, or even previous generations experienced, are increasingly becoming alien, as they are replaced with modern problems such as depression, lack of purpose, material poverty etc.

This sad tale of the human story has been the reason many are drawn to religion, philosophy, thinkers, and science, to draw meaning out of this sad story called life.

Anyways, just cope. This is what it means to be alive. Being alive and being at peace is the utmost state of privilege, hence, we always wish the death RIP, because such peace is hardly for the living.

Christians would say that this world is not their home, that they are just passing by. Stoics would say the same thing in a different way, that you should be neutral to suffering, and endure it as you enjoy happiness. All coping mechanisms. Find a way to cope somehow.

Some countries are even taking it further to minimize suffering by making it legal to voluntarily delete yourself from life (e.g Netherlands with Euthanasia).

But most importantly, one absolute thing you can do to minimize to a large extent your suffering in this life is to have sense. Read widely, develop your character, forge your own intellectual path, and get lost in your own route, than finding directions in someone else path.

Immune yourself from being other's slaves either via their manipulations, by your insecurities (eg smoking to feel among, or buying stuff you don't need to impress), by imposed ideologies (e.g., identity politics, etc), and most importantly, treat yourself like someone you truly care for.

Just find a way to cope sha, you are not the only one. We are all in this together. The earlier you start, the better it gets. Life is difficult, but it doesn't have to be difficult for you.

we dont all have exactly the same story,bro

jackmrandy:
you even have phone and data to type. you are complaining. go to mogue and see those who wish to wake up but they can't go to hospital. you will thank God for where you are

does it mean u are mad?

youngreva:
God is the rewarder of those who diligently seek him
Go back to God he’s the source.

this aint working.

ImmanuelMyron:
You on halopheridol drugs?

more than that, it is lack of peace,money and joy. Also lack of things i have no energy 2 type,cant list all now.

Foodqueen:
Smokers are liable to die young.

i will message you.

sisisioge:
Let me too wish you a happy birthday. I know you must have had a lot of champagne celebrating. It showed in your post

it was a bottle of coke

Year after year,misery upon misery,spits.

at the moment,i dont really know where you are,Junior. i just hope u accept my apology 4 remembering the day i was born. it is not really what i understand. well, i got a few snacks and the usual birthday well wishing 4rm a few persons in my location that i told its 2day. It was this evening i got the latest miserable news affecting me. My whatsapp number remains 08184275086, whoever cares to give you a phone and activated/recharged sim or line.

Xenry:
If you no make am, you go explain tire

Burna boy

to hell with burna bulaba

I do not really find any chance of making it indefinitely if this year also ends worse than the previous 4 me. Already, i find it inevitably boring to celebrate being alive if it is just because others are dead. Well,there is nothing as miserable as being chased by misery all over the place.you were also born in the ghetto,also raised on the street but that is not all. U also have badluck following you up and down, fighting to drain ur blood and eat up your teens,20's,30's and 40's with distress upon distress. Leaving u depressed and ageing damn fast, helpless and abandoned in your 70's if u are mistakenly still alive. Nairaland is only good at trying to make a corpse stand up ,only to attempt suicide in order 2 go down again. If this year means more ordeals unto me,at least, it will be true that i saw certain things,after it,in advance.

excanny:
There's no he'll, my friend. Stop deceiving yourself.

will u pay me to be ur family's personal atheist counsellor?

Go ahead!

juman:
Eiyah.
Go to aaro they will manage you well.
In todays world, mental illness can be maintained like hbp, epilepsy, etc.

'go to aro' is not as u think ,even if u are a dok, saar!!! u neither know nor bear the cost,saar!!! first, nobody is totally well up there,saar!!! there are inevitable cases everyone has,saar!!! but when ur garri no reach the sand, no be water go pass am! the truth will allow some sand along with ur garri but when it(sand) is 2 much ,the rest is anoda tori,saaaar!

7thgeneration:
Make use of paragraphs. How can one read this?

i no get android 4 that. na badluck i get.

juman:
Be observant!
Avoid people with toxic behavior. It might be sign of untreated mental illness.
Treating mental illness is easy, but you must be committed to it.

easy end u there! Spits! Go ahead and report me!

In addition 2....

Wallade:
Brother mi, do you agree that examination is not the true test of knowledge. Anyone (intelligent or dull) can cheat in an exam or other situations. Being intelligent and smart doesn't mean you can't be a cheat.

I can't confirm that she cheated but something terribly fantastic happened in her case. I want to know.

sumtin went wrong sumwhere.

damosky12:
Kai! See what Messi is turning you into

All this flimsy conspiracy theory and excuse on top wetin?.

My man, take a chill pill... Messi won the world cup with excellent performances per match. He had a similar showing in 2014 when Argentina got to the fanal.

The guy is just the greatest footballer! See... Even if Messi won no international trophy, the "eye test" approach let's us see how far ahead in his generation. The guy's trophies are only a proof of his greatness.

ur type aint worth it

i find it necessary for physics to be regarded as the study of ways to exist that can be studied. in other words,there is a limit to what YOU can give names,define or/and give examples of.there is a limit to what you can calculate/check/measure. there is a limit to what you can specifically do.it never means there isn't more to existence. you must have limits SINCE you are a specific entity,dead or alive or anything else.existence is not just about you,so why say there must be a totality of existence,just becuz of you? Yeah,at the end of ur argument,u mean it just becuz u CANT do more than yours. U may proceed to say there is no difference in existence(oneness concept). Well,what u call evidence or knowledge or understanding is not amazing to me. Why not infinity of existence? Why even conclude that 1+2=3 also proves the universe? 1+2=3 is a statement of they that write or say 1+2=3. Plants,within a garden, can be counted but plants do not write or say 1+2=3. It is u that has to calculate with numbers. Your operation is yours but that never means ur conclusion(the universe) is meant to follow.

gisevak:
What is universe? Is Earth part of the universe?

earth is one out of infinite ways 2 exist specifically or as a specific entity. the universe is also called 'all that exists' but there can't be anything which is all that exists. the infinite ways 2 exist do not and cannot require listing.

gisevak:
Explain yourself

if an entity(something or someone) exists, then it is just one out of an infinity that neither goes 4wards nor backwards.

Despite Maynmann's attempt to ridicule that statement, i still mean it. in this case, words like all ,none and maybe do not matter.

Bastards using bloodmoney 4 paying themselves , since i dont have an android 4 recording rap songs,i will post articles here 4 viewing,how many will click?well, they keep theying, i keep checking. they dance with skulls at night,drumming with ribs and thanking God 4 national disunity. Those guys are worse than prisoners. That thing they call the law,is it also 4 my well being?

Kingcalls:
Smh...reason the white man's land is so developed and reason they call us monkey ...we can't stand for ourselves, we celebrate mediocrity and our intimidators .... Nigeria will never get it right ... even the simple task of supporting and electing the right leaders is a very big deal ...

nonsense, why we and which right leader? APc,pdp and lp ,even sdp, furrrk all of dem!

social media is a proof.