₦airaland Forum

seuncyrus:
I'm going to give this advice to you and Prudent200 ... Someone already told you to think about the consequences and try to help yourself and all, but we know its easier said than done.

To Really overcome Masturbation, what you need is baby steps and practical approach

- Firstly, Know what triggers your urge ( is it boredom , when ur alone? is it when you login to Instagram or fb and some notifications from the "pages" u've like pops up ? etc) I hope u understand all that

- Then try to dissociate yourself from all this triggers... unlike all the pages , delete all the porn pictures / videos in your phone ( even tho one pic/ video is just a click away on the internet ...still delete it, you'll be suprised at what this can do)

- try as much as possible not to be alone all the time , go out meet people ...stay with friends

- Get a girlfriend, Ok you're shy...use fb , instagram, Twitter, Instagram even NL ( you might get lucky )...or you can talk to a female friend/neighbour / cousin etc that you like her friend ...some will say yes , some will say no

- Lastly... For everyday you don't masturbate ,make a mark on the calendar , If you're able to go 3 days in a row without masturbating , star the third date. Try as much to get at least 1 star in a week. Then the following week 2 stars ....Then u can increase the star interval to 4 days and so

Its a very simple and practical approach, As much as people make it seem okay and normal, it has so many side effects

Try to get closer to God too
Peace

GEJPosterity:
They also have running water, smooth, tarred roads all over their cities, subsidised social housing, 90%+ literacy and human development indices that are far superior to at least half of Nigeria. Their infrastructure stock was built by Europeans before majority rule happened in 1980 without a destructive civil war. They are also having a bumper harvest, meeting all their internal food needs with leftover to export - Nigeria is still importing garri and wheat and corn.

By all objective measures, Zimbabwe is a more developed country than Nigeria. Visit it and you will be shocked at how backward Nigeria actually is, relative to even the rest of Africa. It's only in the minds of delusional Nigerians who don't travel that Nigeria is some kind of great, important country. Nigeria is actually a backward, inconsequential West African British vassal state led by illiterates, where its most expensive high class neighbourhoods have open gutters, individual septic tanks, boreholes and diesel generators.

You need to get out more.

AustineE1:
'They kind of leaders a nation gets are the kind of leaders they deserve'! lai Moammed has reduced himself to a national clown,only fit for comic relief!!!....i guess he has the most difficult job presently in the whole world,defending Buhari and his gross incompetency.

Kc3000:
Just be a man without any apologies, let your balls hang!! Don't ever compromise yourself for anyone, man or woman...if they've earned your love, then and only then can they have it. Too many dudes have been miseducated to grovel before ladies just to woo them for sex, making themselves available for manipulation and disrespect. Get some self-respect and dignity. Man up!

MrBrownJay1:
Useless ignorant bloggers who turn into experts/counselors overnight. NONSENSE!!

missyadorable:
How can a man be complaining of sexual harrassment?
Men always want sex...Something they chase,spend money on,tell lies to get being offered on a platter of gold irrespective of the person or location is a plus

having sex with his boss/colleague at work is a mega achievement.Something to discuss with the guys at a bar over chilled beer and be applauded and envied by peers.

Unless a child under 18years,there is nothing like male sexual harrassment.
An invitation for sex is every man's dream.

chukxie:
Congrats, Efe! The belly of that man in white no be today ooo!

1shortblackboy:
yes the crime is henious but the OPs sharing of blames is utter rubbish. that RCCG post cant be pastor adeboye cause he wont be beging for people to type amen or share the post. RUBBISH POST !

dirtymoney:
I used to ignorantly envy doctors till my bro graduated from med school. He did his house job in one of the best federal government owned hospitals, went for NYSC and his hustle started. For over 3 years now he has not been able to secure a spot for his residency. There is no part of this country he has not penetrated. Today, he is in Ibadan, tomorrow Jos, next week Yola, Calabar, Benin... He works in 2 hospitals, 12 hours each. We get to see eachother only on Sundays. With this sef, his case is even better. Many of his friends who work in private clinics and earn as little as 60k per month. Some have to combine two clinics just to make 6 figures. The profession has since lost its name and respect.
But which profession sef still has value in this country? Lawyers are even the worse sef. Lawyers in Abuja are used as secretaries and errand boys/girls. You see then running up and down in banks all day to make CAC/NBA payments for their bosses and associates. Seems secretarial function has become part of law practice. What would you say about engineers who don't even have where to do the errand runnings
Truth is... The system is all so messed up.

Christane:
Dat z a man 4 u ...he av no time 4 beef and hate nt minding how she av spoilt his name tru the social media what truly matas z love which is the strongest force of all ...he z truely a real man ...shout out to al the real Men out there ...CLICK LIKE IF U ARE A REAL MAN .

sarrki:
suleiman give 100

it does not remove the fact that you are a fraudster