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Romance › Re: Photos: This Guy Proposed To His Girl In Shoprite, Ikeja Lagos by hensben(m): 4:20pm On Sep 01, 2014
glitest: "Stupid thing to do"?
"Buy her from her parents"?.... Haba now... Keep up to date with your mates; Abeg.......This is the 21st century, and not the stone age.
21st century my foot...this type of show is not our way of life....#mental slavery everywhere...smh
Romance › Re: Photos: This Guy Proposed To His Girl In Shoprite, Ikeja Lagos by hensben(m): 4:12pm On Sep 01, 2014
Too much hollywood movie...smh.
Romance › Re: Top Ten Funniest Nigerian Chat-up Lines by hensben(m): 10:47am On Sep 01, 2014
hapiness44: People still fall 4 dz kindergarten lines?... I SMh 4 ladies that will believe this sh*t
abi..tell o.p its only 'baby take my atm card, this is my pin' that you guys fall for these days.
Romance › Re: When A Man You Love Is Too Shy To Woo You, What Do You Do? by hensben(m): 7:06am On Sep 01, 2014
temigracie: ..are you serious??
yeah he is right about ruth.study malaich
Pets › Re: Cats Of Nairaland! by hensben(m): 6:28am On Sep 01, 2014
If this animal(cat) were to be human
Family › Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by hensben(m): 9:09pm On Aug 31, 2014
aisha2: Let me first offer some insight on the water pumping situation. For security reasons he water is connected to one apartment in a shared compound. In my former house it was connected to mine, I had to give the security man a spare key so when I am not around water can be pumped, once he lost the key and I travelled, my neighbours were stranded till I came back and they couldnt break my door down, so they had to go 2 weeks without water and I was unreachable.

Back to the topic. The woman here has no self value so I find it hard to blame the man/ men or society for a fate she chose by herself, she is an adult and a mother, if she chooses to be begging a man who devalues her simply because she is content sitting and him paying for her means of livelyhood then its her choice.

I know several women who worked hard, sponsored themselves and started their lives over with nothing even won custody of their kids, society will talk but wont point a gun at your head, the law works only lazy entitled people who want solutions at their door steps easy and sharp sharp will sit and say it doesnt hence accept every rubbish thrown at them.

In this case the man is her ticket out of poverty, he probably took her off the hands of parents who had more children than they could care for and so were willing to marry her off to a man who could "train" her.
Now after the decorative training, she is still okay with him being her meal ticket and so she is more than ready to take whatever he dishes out.
If he likes let him make her baff in sh-t I dont bother, na her choice the day she is tired she will make an adult decision, no one can love her more than herself.
Dont be surprised its women like this who will raise her nose at single women and feel she is "better" than them her own value is measured in having a man, any kind of man, at least when he is not bullying her he is making sure she can compete with other women
my sis. you have not just knowledge but wisdom inclusive.
Family › Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by hensben(m): 8:39pm On Aug 31, 2014
Sophyrocks: I am sooo disgusted by some comments here. Chai!! Men of the same kind will always defend themselves. I am not surprised that the issue would be dragged on to blame the woman as usual. Barbaric caveman mindset!! Really, ladies must do well to avoid men with poverty of the mind walai! Men who behave like this are those who have been so poverty stricken for soooo many years such that they become sadists!! And when they manage to get lucky to hit riches, their barbarism increases by 100. No wonder ladies avoid poor men. The many years of poverty and suffering does no good to the thought process of a human.

Nigerian women, i fear for you all. The kind of mind and heart some men have developed to treat their wives with such disdain seems to me like they have harbored an inherrent and accumulated hatred for women in general. because i can't seem to understand where such women are meeting such cave men. Where do you women meet these kind of men? from the jungle or what?
thank you for insulting poor men but are all ladies rich?...stop generalizing, not all poor men are like that, even rich men behave that way too....madam, marriage is all about companionship and God Intervention if you are a christian.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 31st August 2014 by hensben(m): 6:03pm On Aug 31, 2014
question: wenger field Sanogo instead of Podolski - is there any wenger / podolski spat going on?

answer: poldosky needs to learn french or get a french passport.
Romance › Re: 99 Secrets Ladies Have To Know About Guys by hensben(m): 12:16pm On Aug 31, 2014
evmandy: Grow up,,,,,,,tink b4 u write, becos u re d senseless pesin here. U don't hav a point
he is right though..truth they say is always bitter...happy sunday.
Romance › Re: 99 Secrets Ladies Have To Know About Guys by hensben(m): 12:09pm On Aug 31, 2014
Ladystewie: who are youhuh
dont judge me cry
u think i dont know you
Romance › Re: 99 Secrets Ladies Have To Know About Guys by hensben(m): 9:45am On Aug 31, 2014
Ladystewie: lost interest at number 6 undecided
who is this transgender...ok...contunu
Romance › Re: 99 Secrets Ladies Have To Know About Guys by hensben(m): 9:27am On Aug 31, 2014
I don't discuss romance/love on sunday
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UCL: Chelsea Vs Schalke 04 On Sept 17 At 7:45PM by hensben(m): 12:11am On Aug 31, 2014
3-0 in favor of blues

BLUE is the colour, CHELSEA is the name.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Chelsea (3 - 6) On 30th August 2014 by hensben(m): 12:02am On Aug 31, 2014
Feedmemore: I breeze in once in while, even if i don't comment, i know some couple of Chelsea fan on that particular thread, guys like Cfcfan, havillah, cheleabmw, ibime, and some other i can't remember their handle.
and me smiley...good to know you are CFC fan.

BLUE is the colour, CHELSEA is the name.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Burnley Vs Manchester United (0 - 0) On 30th August 2014 by hensben(m): 11:55pm On Aug 30, 2014
domido: Eiyaaa.... I just pity hensben and bodykiss cos dem go jus come here come dey para.
why u dey pity me, i am not a united fan, i am blues
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by hensben(m): 10:06pm On Aug 30, 2014
Dhellake: I fancy him die, Remy is a plug-and-play kind of striker, fits in into our system perfectly, he comes with PL experience 14goals in 26 games last season and he comes cheap (8.5m) and he won't mind being on the bench, no groaning
yeah, you re right, he will be a good back up for costa.
Celebrities › Re: Photos: Omotola Jalade Ekeinde At The Pampers Sales Rep Convention by hensben(m): 9:56pm On Aug 30, 2014
Vanellope: You start losing it when you start adding it.
omosexy, so you are on nairaland huh, well, i dont do married women...you re pretty though. smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Chelsea (3 - 6) On 30th August 2014 by hensben(m): 7:31pm On Aug 30, 2014
Mikel haters Go n D.....
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Chelsea (3 - 6) On 30th August 2014 by hensben(m): 6:30pm On Aug 30, 2014
Danhumprey: That missed goal by Costa should go down as the worst miss on target for this season!tongue
he would have scored the goal, the lines man raised flag for off-side....
Politics › Re: 2015: PDP Considers Automatic Ticket For Jonathan by hensben(m): 4:04pm On Aug 30, 2014
deeobserver209: Nice move. That's exactly what's practiced in the US.
the question is why cant they emulate western world in stable power supply, balance economy were the distance between the rich and poor is like 100, 000km. undecided
Politics › Re: Members Warned To Steer Clear Of MASSOB Meeting Today by hensben(m):
barcanista: You are probably from Anioma in delta State, which we all know is Igbo enclave. Leave SS out of this or specifically say ur area in SS.MASSOB and Biafra is Igbo thingy, I dnt see how it should be your concern to rope in SS.
No time has the Binis, itsekiris, ijaws, urhobo, ogoni etc have any business with massob. Everyone stand for himself.all to your tent
pls, educate that dunce
Politics › Re: Members Warned To Steer Clear Of MASSOB Meeting Today by hensben(m): 7:23am On Aug 30, 2014
these people again...smh
Politics › Re: 248 Containers Of Power Transmission Equipment Sat At Apapa Port For 11 YEARS! by hensben(m): 5:55am On Aug 30, 2014
Toosure70: it will not. it will make only rich politicians have access to electricity. was it not the same rice banned were imported and shared by the the same people that banned it during ekiti and osun election?. it mean u must be PDP member to get access.
you are right though, so what do we do now to have stable power in this country?
Celebrities › Re: I Can Never Reconcile With My Ex-wife Fathia ––saidi Balogun by hensben(m): 5:05am On Aug 30, 2014
Rejoice5000: Why are u lamenting,did she ask 4 ur reconciliation.na so the thing hurt u.go and rest abeg.
you think the woman hasnt tried to reconcile with him, i watched her interview of recent were she said,they havent divorced, he is still her husband and she cant remove balogun from her name...the man look like a flirt though.
Romance › Re: Have You Kissed Since The Outbreak Of EBOLA? Lol by hensben(m): 4:40am On Aug 30, 2014
na this type of topic dey reach page 140...smh
Education › Re: Statistics for WAEC 2014 by hensben(m): 4:14am On Aug 30, 2014
MOBJECTIVE: States With Percentages over 50
1) Anambra, as usual: 65.92%
2) Abia, also as usual: 58.52%
3) Edo, new comer: 57.82%
4) Rivers, as usual: 52.78%
5) Enugu, as usual: 51.91%
yeah! these are the states where exam mal-practice take place in nigeria, believe me, i know what i am saying. 75% of eastrners come to edo state to write exam.
Politics › Re: 248 Containers Of Power Transmission Equipment Sat At Apapa Port For 11 YEARS! by hensben(m): 4:07am On Aug 30, 2014
Ban importation of generator and see if we will not have stable electric power supply.

Wicked people
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Comic On Ebola (part1) by hensben(m): 10:12pm On Aug 29, 2014
comic?op take ya time o sad
Celebrities › Re: " I Had Sex With Davido... " - Maheeda by hensben(m): 8:25pm On Aug 29, 2014
SELENAqueensy: OMG...
David is so cute in this photo
And who is the other lady beside him?
*jealous* angry
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Retweets Nairaland Tweet Concerning Him On Twitter by hensben(m): 8:01pm On Aug 29, 2014
zicoraads: Oga, it aint about tripping for no one. I also share the young lady's sentiment. So I guess in ur own 'wisdom' am also tripping for him, right? undecided undecided
yeah! you might be, who knows #GayThings
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Retweets Nairaland Tweet Concerning Him On Twitter by hensben(m): 7:49pm On Aug 29, 2014
Indializzie: His dress sense poses no harm to human-life. Xo let him be, dats y he is Denrele, nt U.
you are one of those babes that's 'tripping' for him...yeye dey ooozz
Christianity Etc › Re: Chris Oyakhilome's Wife Files For Divorce Over Adultery by hensben(m): 1:17pm On Aug 29, 2014
this story get k leg

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