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Family › Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m): 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2014
Eleganza33: chai if i start writing wat my own fada did it wil ful lyk abt 10 or mur dictionary, my fada waz jus lyk dat evn as am stil writing .he waz rich bt he wud rada threw d money to goats dan to spend on d kids who did nt offend im,d kids who wer sharpest of al children in d whole extended family whom his brodas evn envy him 4.my mum is jus d head of d family as she did evry single tin 4 us while he spend time buying hauxes 4 wumen.nd he is evn.... Oh gosh i cnt continue, al i cn say is GOD wil alwaz b dia 4 us,evn afta al his brutal wickednes we stil feel 4 im so let God judge ur dad as wel,he is evn lucky he marid my gentle mum if 4 say na my mama sis he mari dat 1 wud av teach im a lesson cox she is a lioness she is evn begging my mum to permit her to deal wit my dad.
exactly my ex- father, he is very worst, I do challenge him now n he is very afraid to speak with me whenever we see cos he knows I will ignore him.
Family › Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m): 2:40pm On Jul 31, 2014
aisha2: Bless you and bless her. I know someone like you, and I saw the struggle the mother went through. I am so happy when I look at him now, how responsible and kind he is with his mother and family. God bless her for not sowing bitterness in you. She will reap the fruits of her labor, and it shall be well with you and your future family.
sis Amen!!! And you too.
Family › Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m):
aisha2: Please dont be bitter with him. Bitterness will make you unconciously become him. Let it go, and be determined to be a better father than he was. It should be your driving force.

Sad thing is some times the men who hate their fathers so much become like their fathers. May God deliver us all from this type of situation
sisy, that's my vow to God that I can never be like him in anyway, my father's experience have thought me a big lesson and my mother is very discipline and she told me many things should incase when I get married, my mother never tell me anything bad about my father but I have eyes, I saw how everything happened, the man is irresponsible,she always tell me to be responsible to my kids and wife.
The things you typed occur when the woman chose to follow the man's way and be irresponsible too like the man, Were by, their kids turn something else.
Family › Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m): 2:12pm On Jul 31, 2014
Amelian: Op, God bless u for bringing up dis thread. The rate men impregnante girls and dump them, is so alarming. The number of single mothers out there is increasing 2 a dnagerous peak. Its seems reponsible are gradually becoming extinct in our society. All we have these days, is selfishness in. Stvpid crafty way..
There are lots of men out there, but how many can we count 2 be responsible or 2 be a father figure?.. Single mothers are trying their best to take care of their kids, as their resources and energy deem fit, but their best is not enough..
It has even gotten 2 a stage that peers, even pastors, IMams, family members will advise a lady of 30s and above 2 start thinking of bn a single mum , if marriage is not visible angry
That's a total wrong advice, which is so rampant in the lips of most pple.. A lady who knws wat she wants, will kip faith and belive, she will still get married and start her family.. While d weak ones, will listen 2 d wind and moves any direction. D wind blows. *sighs* May God open the eyes of men and women 2 see the havoc they r causing 2 d society by not bn responsible.
God help us all.
the hardship in nigeria results to what you just typed most times but some fathers who are well to do are just too heartless, they impregnate women outside their home, they have many concumbines outside home, they are very irresponsible and the ladies following them are the worst, they will not look for their man to start life with, they will be looking for already made men with wife n kids at home.
Family › Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by hensben(m): 2:04pm On Jul 31, 2014
Bro you just described my home but fortunately, my mother was very strong to give us everything we wanted
As I type now,My worst enemy in this life is my father(ex-father), he made my mum went through hell, though, I have forgiven him but we can never be friends, he is my enemy, I don't even bear his name, not that him n my mum didn't tie knot, they did perfectly, I even saw their wedding pic.
I know people that haven't pass through this (which I don't pray you experience) will think what am typing now is nollywood, believe me, things like this do happen.
My mother is a down to earth woman and very hard working,then, I was wondering, what is now the problem of this man.
Thank lord me, my mother and siblings are doing good now.
Education › Re: Another Nationwide ASUU Strike? by hensben(m): 1:43pm On Jul 31, 2014
Nigeria equals to frustration

Tension after tension

How people. Go take last for life for this kind kata. Kata for we country
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 1:31pm On Jul 31, 2014
Dyt: oya come right in
i have lots of apple
wow! How generous of you, on my way sweery.
*lick toungue*
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 1:17pm On Jul 31, 2014
Dyt: with that borrow pose car
abegi move forward
real men dont even say they have anyth
hahahaha...make I talk true dyt I borrow the car, I don't have anytin but I like you.
As I don talk true now shey hope dey for me to enter eden.
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 1:09pm On Jul 31, 2014
jennylove7575: apology noted bye
u don start oo
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 12:59pm On Jul 31, 2014
dytbabe: I indeed wanted a reply ni
Jst messing with ya jor grin grin grin

Btw, am a young lady, not mama *frowns*
U call this sexiness mama, I no like am o, let the guys come biko, rich ones oo, don't do broke niggaz
I am average rich.
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 12:53pm On Jul 31, 2014
Janetozi: u no well! when i manipulate u, mesmerized u, u won't be talking about sex but money. U will spend on me until ur account becomes empty, then i will leave u.
ah! Is it 'juju' you want to use on me that I will be spending without we banging, btw, how much you want fit chop,lol, I know when you see me, you will fall in love without even thinking of eating my money.
Sweery Ayam a lover boy *smiles* *kisses her*.
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 11:16pm On Jul 30, 2014
jennylove7575: thank you my friend. Here in UK many users of nl have never been to Nigeria in a long time. Nl brings us closer home. There are lots of forum in UK were member speaks their mind nobody goes about insulting people or calling people names. Becos if u do ur account will be blocked and if u continue ur IP will be traced and u will have the police visiting u for cyber bully. People have the right to say whatever pleases them on a cyber forum but not insult people or call people names. Its wrong. Very wrong. If seun continues to allow those harsh name calling on this forum, many nl folks living abroad will start closing their accounts. As loads of them are complaining already. Not good for business. Sometimes people can make sarcastic comments just for fun doesn't mean they should be called horrible names.
i understand you sweery, pls just forgive and forget, its because you havent been to nigeria for long, thats how most nigerians talk, they take insult for fun and 'dizz' each other, even to the extent of 'dizzing' each other's parents and siblings,though, they do this to their fellow male folks, but they should know here is a social forum not everybody take expensive joke or brought up that way.

you know, guys love you ladies very much smiley so they try to draw your attention by quoting/mentioning and been sarcastic towards you, to see your reaction, so, by the time you didnt get the sarcastic nature of his and throws insult, then, you have hit his ego and he will start 'dizzing' you for real to see your reaction more and the beef continues that way except if the guy has sense of humour and back off.

PIECE OF ADVICE: when you log on here, first, have this at the back of your mind here is a forum and dont take anybody with such sarcastic nature serious, feel free. smiley
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 10:32pm On Jul 30, 2014
LaurelP: I no do anytin o
Can't even remember wat or wen it happened
But its all gud sha grin
na so life be o
there is an adage which says 'who poo dey forget but who pack the poo nor dey for get'.
Romance › Re: Please Help...girls Are All Over Me.. Don't Know What To Do. by hensben(m): 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2014
misspatsy: Girls are all ova u wit dis ur flat nose? No offense grin lipsrsealed
babe it do happen. as a guy, you have a good body build and you good looking, i.e, your dress sense, babes will be all over you.
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 9:25pm On Jul 30, 2014
Janetozi: as many as possible, na una do wound.
ok, i go 6 rounds a night when i am not high on alomo oo.

sisy can you handle that? if you can pm me ur number. cool
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 9:06pm On Jul 30, 2014
mizBerry1: lol..with helicopter
*check her pp* my kind of gurl
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 9:04pm On Jul 30, 2014
Janetozi: yeah i got u, u are No 1 on my list but, hope ur bank account and wallet no de lie? Hmmmm bcoz, *** i go chop ur money.... U are welcome.

Next!!!
how many of us you want to have, you go wound oo grin
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 8:45pm On Jul 30, 2014
LaurelP: Character assassination
grin grin grin
You Dey laugh abi, dem never E-break ur head before na cause am grin
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 8:41pm On Jul 30, 2014
Janetozi: Hmmmmm!!! Let me see how many i can manipulate so i can play on their emotions.

No 4 is just the truth, just that some men a stingy to the bone "aka supper glue"

plsssss how many of u want to enter my manipulative list?
i know you are joking right
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 8:29pm On Jul 30, 2014
jennylove7575: Yeye childish experience. What does a guy who goes about insulting people on nl has to offer. A lot of folks here who uses nl in UK and usa have taken note of laurelp the saucy guy rude child on nl. You talk too much of trash and shitty stuff to Pple and u think its fun. You have insulted me before and I ignored u. I did because u are immature and senseless. You posted a silly self attention seeker topics and u think we go post better coment..for who? A rude guy? Think again. Your topic is rubbish. Send me insult as usual.
e be like say this laurelp get issues with most female folks on this forum, one lady just complained of same thing on 2nd page and now you.

Thats very bad of him if its true though.

LAST BULLET: laurelp be guided with your words,
if you think here is an opportunity to lash on ladies or people thats immature of you.
CHANGE!!!
Romance › Re: Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth! by hensben(m): 8:21pm On Jul 30, 2014
purplesummer: No. 3 almost moved me to tears
*reads no 3*

whats causing tears there sisy?

na everything una for dey cry..smh

no 3 is very true though
Foreign Affairs › Re: Woman Strips Unclad To Hug Mandela Statue by hensben(m): 6:31pm On Jul 30, 2014
i think some white dude in SA r.ped her and she had to meet madiba statue to tell him look, this people have started again and prays that wherever he is now, he should continue to fight them.

my opinion though.
Travel › Re: This Is A Desert… But Once A Year It Turns Into Something Else by hensben(m): 5:06pm On Jul 30, 2014
dechandel: Sure.. Soon
hi, how is ur day going?
Romance › Re: Mentalities Of Opposite Sex You Hate by hensben(m): 5:03pm On Jul 30, 2014
Elantracey: long time cheesy y d face?
tell that canalilly to stay off from you, that guy has bad intention.

you know, am a jealous lover.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by hensben(m): 3:43pm On Jul 30, 2014
Tval: This Torres come spoil team for person.
i just tire for torres, him dey play ball well in terms of team work but na to score be him problem.
Romance › Re: Mentalities Of Opposite Sex You Hate by hensben(m): 3:16pm On Jul 30, 2014
canalily: ..what abt ur voice?
angry
Romance › Re: Mentalities Of Opposite Sex You Hate by hensben(m): 3:13pm On Jul 30, 2014
Elantracey: lol, I don't know of any tho.
sad
Romance › Re: Mentalities Of Opposite Sex You Hate by hensben(m): 3:12pm On Jul 30, 2014
canalily: ....cos many of ur tribe married imo, even those abroad...
bro stay off sad
Romance › Re: Mentalities Of Opposite Sex You Hate by hensben(m): 1:45pm On Jul 30, 2014
I dislike it when a guy air his view what he doesn't like about ladies, since they are pained guys already know their trick and don't have anything to counter the guy's dislike about them cos their inner mind tells them the guy is right, they will say, the guy is frustrate..if u tell them wetin dem nor like hear, dem go say na frustration dey worry the guy.

Tell me wetin bring frustration enter the matter.
Romance › Re: Mentalities Of Opposite Sex You Hate by hensben(m): 1:27pm On Jul 30, 2014
I am a guy but I dislike it when guys think ladies got fish brain.
Celebrities › Re: Photo: Tuface Flirts With Juliet Ibrahim In Dallas by hensben(m): 2:51am On Jul 30, 2014
ma hear say tuface nor chop juliet kpomo, badt guy grin

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