₦airaland Forum

He may have found out they were never his.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

You're a bastard.

Xscape1993:
Any living thing that is wishing Nigerians OLD CREATURE as president after the terrible political mistake of 2015 deserves death sentence by hanging. I will only advocate for a young and vibrant aspirant from any part of the country as president. Why are some Nigerian youths so emptied? Tribal, religion and political sentiments have blinded our eyes from seeing the pains of others in this country.

Name Nigerian youths that can be president.

Waiting.

Fortunately, everyone will die.

cyrilamx:
if the potency was the same, Rebecca would HV blessed Jacob herself instead of conspiring with him to usurp his brother's blessing.

Mr. If you want to have a discussion with me, don't bring history books.


I live in the moment. If your mother blesses you today will it work or not?

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

You don't take care of your kids just so they can take care of you.

enambobo:
Knowledge is by experience. How do you mean reality? Did events in the Bible not happen? You had better follow the Holy book and know peace. God in heaven recognize responsible fathers blessings than mothers. But if your father is a hogwash then even his prayers are meaningless. The scripture say a man that fails to take care of his household is worst than a person without faith and even his prayers are meaningless.

I don't discuss with religious people. Their ability to reason objectively is averagely nonexistent.

That said, the Bible is themed around Jewish culture which is predominantly patriachist. But this still do not come into the power of words as obtained in blessings and curses.

Anyone can curse and bless you, the effect is dependent on the leverage they have on you.

Mother or Fathers there are no differences. What you presume to understand from a book is of no relevance.

An irresponsible father can for all he likes curse his children from now till eternity it'll make no difference in their life because he has no leverage on them. It's spiritual law of cause and effect. Likewise and irresponsible mother.


The power to curse and bless is not just inherited by virtue of gender or affiliation, there are parameters that makes them effective.

Again, leave your religion behind and face reality.

CondemnBattery:
If you are a Christian, please read your Bible very well. The blessing of a father is
next to God's blessing. Don't catch cruise with everything for the sake of likes

Let your mother curse you and have your father bless you. Then come around and see if your father's blessings will save you from your mother's curse.


Then have your Father curse you and have your mother bless you and see if your Mother's blessing will save you from your Father's curse.


You Africans need to start living by realities and leave religion behind.

Again, both are as equal and potent depending on the leverage they have on you. That is how good or bad they treated you. It has nothing to do with your book. It's a simple law of nature and universe:

If you return evil for good, evil has the liberty to follow you.

enambobo:
Na lie. Check in Bible times. Fathers were the ones blessing sons not mothers. God in heaven recognize the blessings of fathers because he is the direct head of the family. Abraham blessed his son Isaac, Isaac blessed Jacob, Jacob blessed Joseph and the list goes on. where you see say mother bless son for Bible?

lol.. we're talking reality you're mentioning bible.

Nebes:
I remember buying gifts for my mother when I was in SS2. I remember how she cried but I don’t remember anything else she said. I think she prayed for me. I’m not sure. She died same year.

Now I remember the day I dashed my father 1K. He took it and asked me to kneel down. He told me that God will lead me and break down every barrier in this life for me. My father also died before I became stable financially. Today any time I break through any barrier I remember my father. I always succeed even where others fail. Rules are always bent for me to ensure I get anything I want. That was the only thing I remember giving him. I wish I gave him more.

I don’t care how much you give your mother but one blessing from your father will speak for you more than a thousand from your mother. Remember that without him you won’t even have anybody to call mother. Give to your father please. Provoke his emotional side and hear him bless you.

Nonsense.


Unless one has a useless mother the potency of blessings is the same.

Vickyvice:
puff adder

puff is not long like that. That's just a viper.

90% of people making noise here don't even control a unit in their ward

Westernequinox:
And some agents of perdition are here already. Sons of vipers, "masturbation and porn are massive tools utilized by the enemies kingdom of darkness these days.
I admonish you to listen to the OP, and leave the children of this evil generation to be foolish in their evil wisdom.

There's no kingdom of darkness. You lots just open your mouth to speak about things you have no understanding of.

Interesting15:
Ignore agents of the devil trying to paint sexual immorality as being normal. Live your life for Jesus Christ. This is your destiny.

crap.

People will flood this thread with their opinion of what God wants based on a book written by men like them within the constraints of their own culture and traditions.

Who raised these kids to not know hotel is not a place for decent kids

zeusdgrt:
No message or point made by u

It went over your head

Eaglesence:
Rhinoceros sir?

Yes.

This Reno should rest.


Name sounding like Rhino

This is impressive.

paulolee:
lukaku should be careful, clubs are watching n none would like to sign a player dt disrespect his coach n its team to avoid bad energy in d camp...
e tink say na only him de vex for tactics, Mk e ask cr7 during ole time bt cr7 didnt criticize him openly....dts professionalism..

You dey advise person wey get money pass u to be careful.


Wonders shall never end

Don't drink.


So.

spritedmalcomx:
Who are this people and what are they coming back to do Are they coming for our good or our bad

I know very well that the Earth is just a planted create or beautified by advance humans, people more advanced than we are and I believe this present humans will also advance with time to that level.

People who has this history or knowledge will rather let humans be in continues ignorance then to share it with us

Forget about the so called Christian and Muslim God. life start where the church and mosque end

They're called the creator gods. They create earth and made human beings.

Some of them are incarnated on earth. Living as humans to accelerate human ascension.

Acturians, pledians, Sirians and other 9th and 10th dimensional beings. Jesus was also a 10th dimensional being who helped humanity advance with the message of love.


Of course, definitely, the goal is to help human ascend into the 5th dimension when earth herself ascends to the 5th dimension.

Ascension means our DNA evolved to the 12 helixes DNA and dense body change to a light body called the crystalline body. Basically, humans becomes fully multidimensional beings.

Saturn444:
It is not myopic, your ignorance on this subject matter is a bother.

Curse is irrelevant cos it does not exist, just a mind control retort of the leadership class against their subjects.

Tell him

Saturn444:
Actually, they've been watching us, not just watching they've been 'influencing' the pace and direction of our evolution.

If the information I receive is accurate, they will be here in this generation. So yes, you are correct.

Yeah, they're coming.


This generation won't passed.

That's why the earth is changing to accommodate their presence.