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Can't befriend one talkless of dating to marry one.

oldienavie:
I get y our point, like I said, she has most things I desire in a woman except she is older than I would want my wife to be.
I am trying to figure out if I should take the risk, let her go and expect to find another lady that has the same qualities but is younger.

By the time you spent another 30yrs you should find

You're a man, which means you're meant to defend yourself.

There's nothing like men coming together because that'll just be another gathering of weaklings like most feminists are.


That said. Stand up, get up, fight for your right.


You can't sit around waiting for other men to come to your aid.


In fact, if a woman provokes you sexually report her to police.

NewsPerson:
Veteran Nigerian musician Faze is mourning the death of his mother, Mrs Faith Maryann Orji, who passed away on January 12, 2022.

His mother’s death came eleven months after the singer’s twin sister passed on two days to their birthday. The ‘Lovina’ crooner disclosed the news of his mother on his social media page today.

In a tribute post to her mother, Faze gave thanks to God that his mother lived well before she went to rest. He also wondered why the people he loves are leaving him.

He wrote; “I don’t know how to express what’s in my heart. My heart is heavy. My Mum passed on last Wednesday, January 12th. This, after my twin sister left this world last year.”


https://www.instagram.com/p/CY2DWPZhh5i/

They are leaving to the new earth.

Earth is ascending to the 5th dimension and certain people has to leave the 3D body to be a part of it.

Those who can transmute into 5D without death will do so as well.

EgunMogaji2:
I wasn’t aware of Comoros. What are their citizens called?

Comrades

Prospertochu:
Yes forced marriage

shit!


Times will get better. But that burden is stretching your salary to say the least.

Is your mum that old to work?

Adol84:
I have read every comment here. I must say those who are supporting your wife has no knowledge of what you are passing through. Your wife should get her ass up and get a job. Even if it's a teaching job, the salary will go a long way to solve a problem. Your kids are 2 years plus and your mother is around. Your mother should take care of them while she works. Two good heads are better than one. She is being a thorn in your flesh. This situation easily gives a man a heartattack. Rome wasn't built in a day. Do not regret getting married to her. Sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her. Make her see reasons why you struggle for the betterment of the family. If she refuses to, do not send her packing. Keep giving her what you have. Do not be pushed to commit a suicide or any crime. Anyone who isolates from a ship, says the ship cannot accommodate him/her. Pray for more favour. All the best!

Oga, he was unfit to marry. Two heads or four, both were unfit.

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets, my salary is 55k. I used to give my wife 20k, mother 10k, 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house.

My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more.

I had no money to give her, my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it. My wife used to fight me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house as we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k.

So far, we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful.

Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church, now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly, she has agreed.

Now that my mother is here with us, she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us, note I don't eat breakfast, I eat lunch at work and in the evening I eat at home. She is only giving my mother food in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day.

I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods.

Is my decision good?

Dem force you marry?

50k? Who swear for you?


You're just imposing suffering on someone's daughter. Most importantly innocent children.

Why not wait for better days before jumping into marriage? 3kids...nawa for you.

It's a long list to remember any.


I think that's what childhood was all about anyway.

Death don't care about what we prioritize.


It's our materiality that makes us think dying at certain times is evil.


Everybody is going to die. And everybody going to die at their time.

Whether at graduation, at childbirth, at honeymoon. It don't matter.


Death is guaranteed. It's a neccessary cycle of life.

Katcall:
rules he can break

lol...if he can why is Lucifer roaming free


Allow yourself to see beyond religion.

Katcall:
are you saying God is limited

Yes. By his own rules.

Rachel98:
Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

Mind your business.

Mercury12:
Won't / May

CAN'T.

Katcall:
why? God is all powerful

There's something called a soul contract, it can't be overturned.


God is all powerful, but there's limit to what he can do.

medriano:
So?? It’s not his time yet that’s whyGod is preserving him.

God is not preserving him.

Like you said, it's not his time.

When that time comes, even God can't stop it.

Everyone will still die.

Won't look at this twice.

Allergic to eggs

justosee:
Blood covenant is very sacred. God's covenant with the Israelites was not through.
He already has plans of replacing that covenant with a permanent one even before the Israelites sinned against him. That was why the birth and death of his son was predicted long before it happened.
Back to the poster, I know a lady who left a man who sent her to a nursing school after a blood covenant, and she is currently mad.

The man has already forgiven her after much pleading from her family but she is still mad.

God will not intervene because going into a blood covenant is against his rule.

She's currently mad. What's absurd is you assuming the blood covenant was response for it.

Can you see where all these is amiss?

Truvelisback:
It's not abt putting fear in her. It's the reality. I'm talking from experience.

Your experience are incomplete. You don't have the details of those people's life. Can't claim you do.

gabicon:
If you are a born again Christian I don't think it's an issue. Think about it sex itself is a blood covenant, yet people indulge in it with multiple people. The only exception is if you invited a diety to stand as surety to the covenant.

Even a diety only has as much power as the fear one grants it

justosee:
Who told you a pastor can dissolve it without the consent of the parties involved.

Blood is precious to God, and any covenant involving is always permanent. That is why God had to use the blood of his son to enter a permanent covenant with humans.

Stop this trash.


God broke his old covenant with Isreal and made a new one.

And you're saying it's permanent.

Abeg shift.

Nothing in this world is permanent.

Truvelisback:
The truth is that, it is only death(death of any of the partner) that will break that covenant or except he agrees to break it with her. I know a lady who is still mad till now as i am talking to u because of this blood covenant. Pastors had prayed for her to recover from the madness but no avail.

Stop this trash.



Don't put unnecessary fear in OPs body.


She found someone else she loves



@OP visit any Celestial and break the nonsense covenant. Not that it holds any importance really.


Fact is, every covenant has its leverage. This was made when you aren't of age and him saying he's not willing to break it throws it off. Covenant can be reneged. Covenants being reneged with the God of Isreal talkless of a human being who think with his penis.


Truth is you can't go into marriage with such a bitter person. In fact, you'll become a slave. You're likely and most likely to commit suicide and die of depression.


By spiritual laws that covenant do not even stand. The basis of the covenant is his love in your heart. And that love doesn't exist anymore, nothing enforces the covenant.

ObianujuAku1:
lol Tinubu might not even win SW sef talk more of other regions.
most Yorubas are highly educated and they will never allow a criminal drug baron lord over them.
check your stat
has Tinubu comfortably won any elections in lagos without use of thugs to intimidate voters and oppositions?
even Osun state his supposed home town, he was nearly disgraced by ordinary dancing senator if not for remote rigging from Abuja.
Tinubu operates a thug infested political structure.
check out most of his urchins, they're mainly thugs and criminals.
Tinubu no get say for South West politics sef
Makinde dealt with him in Oyo
Aketi in ondo
Fayemi currently dealing with him in Ekiti
I don't know about Ogun state.


Tinubu is an over hyped criminal.
lol I doubt Apc will risk their ticket with him.

Funny. Yoruba are now highly educated

Nuttella:
Only God can heal you permanently without you spending a dime. Seek him diligently, give your life to Christ wholely, stay with the word of God, study it and he will heal you.

I once had an ailment but God healed me when I decided to follow him.

You had to type this rubbish as an opinion.


Give life to Christ. He told you he's not a christain.

For some reasons, atiku is no longer old.

Kobojunkie:
Mannerisms?

As far as relationships are concerned, the one who is meant to compromise is the one who notices a a fault with the other, not the one with the fault. If you notice a fault in your partner and are unwilling to change yourself to accommodate that fault aka compromise your own standards, you should probably consider exiting the relationship to find someone you are better able to tolerate.

Attempting to change others to suit your taste is a very silly way to go at a relationship.

Read what you wrote again


Once you're done, if you make sense, then have a nice day.

You guys should look Kountry Wayne up before judging 2Face

Kobojunkie:
Again, being open to change is one thing but trying to change another person to suit your taste and desire is an entirely different and foolish endeavor

Is the mannerism. If it's cohesive it's bad.

Kobojunkie:
And who told you that a woman is changeable? She is an adult like you so why do you believe you are meant to change her to suit your taste?

You are instead supposed to both work together as a team not change each other.

Sorry but you're refusing to make sense. Two people together changes each other.

So the taxation part is not worth talking about?


Everything not about current administration

GoodHardDick:
There's nothing like Alpha women! A woman cannot be an alpha. The word alpha is only attributed to a man and not a woman.

Women ain't made to lead, they were made to follow and hence, can never be an alpha.

Modified: those of you quoting me, just know that if a woman can dominate and control you, then you're a SIMP! If a woman can lead you as man, then you're a SIMP!

A woman becomes an alpha female when she sees or meet a SIMP guy who bows to her manipulations and controls. She won't dare behave like that towards a red piller or alpha male simply because an alpha male or a Red piller is by far more dominant than she is, and of course, he commands so much authority far more than she does .

another daft soul.