Spherical77:
My father isn't married yet for him to know that children tend to love their mothers more than the fathers right?

KingAzubuike:
Most mother's we have today are naccisist . They think about themselves and themselves only. They want everything. Some of them even get jealous when their kids give more money to their dad than them. These kids in return forget that it's their dad who struggled to feed them , train them through school, provide for their needs etc. If that's the case, pls take care of your dad. If reverse is the case then your mom.

But always remember the popsi wey suffer because of you. The popsi who woke up early to get to work just to make money for you. He paid your school fees, clothed you, even the Christmas cloth and shoes your mama buy for you, na your popsi drop the money. If you wan do anything for house , na your popsi go drop money. Pls remember your father's. Africans generally have this emotional sentiments towards their mothers which is not meant to be.

jimtemi1:
GOD forgive me until the demise of my dad before I knew who my mother was, we always believe everything our mum told us about him, later when he left us we now saw who the hyprocraite is... Fear woman.. I can never let my wife turn me against my children lai lai.. Instead of my to stay at the bar with friends I rather come home n watch cartoons with them cos that were it always start

Spherical77:
You all think money, money and money is everything. Raising a responsible children goes beyond just money

See eh, if that father died those children will still live and survived with the love of their mother

But if a woman died in the house. Likelihood that those children will be maltreat and abused. A woman who had 4-5kids may chose to remain single and look after her kids

But Men hardly do that sir. The few ones who does that would definitely have side chicks taking his attention

It's easier for men to move on so easy and quickly after the death of his wife unlike the women

The children sees all these sir

You can't compare the love of someone who carried you for months and risk her life during child birth. Nurtured you with countless sleepless night. And you expect the children to love their fathers more than mothers because of money right?

Bmaster:
just read again what you wrote,this time slowly...
I bet you,you won't find it meaningful

Equity15:
you're wrong about men moving on easily. The reason women do not re-marry is majorly because only few men are ready to house widows. Especially widow, with more than 1 kid

Spherical77:
You all think money, money and money is everything. Raising a responsible children goes beyond just money

See eh, if that father died those children will still live and survived with the love of their mother

But if a woman died in the house. Likelihood that those children will be maltreat and abused. A woman who had 4-5kids may chose to remain single and look after her kids

But Men hardly do that sir. The few ones who does that would definitely have side chicks taking his attention

It's easier for men to move on so easy and quickly after the death of his wife unlike the women

The children sees all these sir

You can't compare the love of someone who carried you for months and risk her life during child birth. Nurtured you with countless sleepless night. And you expect the children to love their fathers more than mothers because of money right?

Nebes:
I remember buying gifts for my mother when I was in SS2. I remember how she cried but I don’t remember anything else she said. I think she prayed for me. I’m not sure. She died same year.

Now I remember the day I dashed my father 1K. He took it and asked me to kneel down. He told me that God will lead me and break down every barrier in this life for me. My father also died before I became stable financially. Today any time I break through any barrier I remember my father. I always succeed even where others fail. Rules are always bent for me to ensure I get anything I want. That was the only thing I remember giving him. I wish I gave him more.

I don’t care how much you give your mother but one blessing from your father will speak for you more than a thousand from your mother. Remember that without him you won’t even have anybody to call mother. Give to your father please. Provoke his emotional side and hear him bless you.

Omakraid:

You weren't forced to read it so move

finishmatter:
This has been a worrisome issue for me.
Why do children prefer giving money to their mom instead of dad.

Your dad clothes, feeds, educate, houses and provides all financial needs for you as his child.
He also meets all needs of his wife and that of his relatives and in-laws.

So, ideally, he is supposed to be adequately compensated as the breadwinner instead of the mom.

But this is not the reality as most children only think of their mother.

What did our fathers do to deserve this?
Pls how can this unfair treatment be addressed?

jimtemi1:
GOD forgive me until the demise of my dad before I knew who my mother was, we always believe everything our mum told us about him, later when he left us we now saw who the hyprocraite is... Fear woman.. I can never let my wife turn me against my children lai lai.. Instead of my to stay at the bar with friends I rather come home n watch cartoons with them cos that were it always start

Heterodox:
Nonsense.


Unless one has a useless mother the potency of blessings is the same.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why must you give them?

Premiumwriter:
you're stewpid.

Why won't you give money to your parents when you have?

Bmaster:
i don't understand how writing meaninglessly will improve your standard of living.

cyrilamx:
if the potency was the same, Rebecca would HV blessed Jacob herself instead of conspiring with him to usurp his brother's blessing.

superintendents:
gbammm...she suffer the most...so for me ?


mom...70%

dad......30%

finishmatter:


Agreed. But your dad also risks his life daily to provide for you, and you could have died without him providing for you.

youngsahito:
Dad also deserve to be love... They also suffer financial and emotional struggle too. Make una try to dey remember our popsy too.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn, mother's love is second to none..............The few time my mom spend here on earth with us,it was obvious....

You see why.... Momsy dey easy to reason with, compared to popsy.......The army blood wey dey the man body self no go make you draw close to am,but Momsy shoulder always dey there for you to lean on Whenever if e tear for you.......

So now tell me,chebi na who ginger me to be a better person I suppose reason pass when everywhere don stew?

KingAzubuike:
Most mother's we have today are naccisist . They think about themselves and themselves only. They want everything. Some of them even get jealous when their kids give more money to their dad than them. These kids in return forget that it's their dad who struggled to feed them , train them through school, provide for their needs etc. If that's the case, pls take care of your dad. If reverse is the case then your mom.

But always remember the popsi wey suffer because of you. The popsi who woke up early to get to work just to make money for you. He paid your school fees, clothed you, even the Christmas cloth and shoes your mama buy for you, na your popsi drop the money. If you wan do anything for house , na your popsi go drop money. Pls remember your father's. Africans generally have this emotional sentiments towards their mothers which is not meant to be.

Slurity:
thank God you are a man too. Your time is coming