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Every money earned involved one form of deceit or the other.


So all money is unclean.


This man should shut up.

Is it constitutional to do so?


Does the electoral act requires it?

If answer to both is no, then it's absurd.

lawzolk:
I don't need to argue this. If I tell you my whole story, u will know where I am coming from.

Help is on the way brother.


You'll smile and be yourself again.

lawzolk:
To who this may help. Of all addictions in life, I think GAMBLING is the worst. Though, no addiction is good, but trust me, for a one time addict in gambling, it's on another level. Aside from my personal experience of being a chronic gambler, I tried to study other core gamblers around me. Though some kept getting the funds to gamble as they have other great source of income, but I noticed the restlessness, and the crazy urge to recover some lost money from betting. If one could get close to them, you will feel how disturbed they are on a daily basis, and changes in some aspect of their lifestyle going downhill from the norm.

I started my betting journey 9 years ago. As a promising and aspiring young guy, but today, I have nothing to show for it, except a failed life, and only hoping a miracle will happen somedays. No money, wearing rags as clothes, no love, serious depression. The only thing left for me is HOPE. Some will say one can bet responsibly. I won't dispute that, but majority of we humans lose balance or focus along the way, and later become addicts. If you are already in it, and you noticed that you have that capability to control your mind diligently, and not swayed by the crazy urge to win, or the anger of losing, then good luck. But like the saying goes, prevention is better than cure.

My final conclusion is that one should not indulge in any form of GAMBLING. It's possible to stop as I am a living witness. You just need to purnish or fight your urge to do it with all your inner strength, and FLEE from any environment or instruments that might make u want to go back to it. You could think you don't have that inner or mental strength to stop, but that is a big lie. Sometimes, u might think that your betting case has some diabolical roots (village people). All these are lies, I thought so too, even more, but today, I am free. I am just hoping for better times ahead.

Mr. You're not a gambler.

No dey lie.

Mindlog:
While those men are bearing the burden, are their wives gambling away?

What does it matter, when the men bear burden alone.


Whether they gamble it away or multiply it, the husband benefits nothing from it. Mostly.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

Next time you lots appreciate a good man better.

You've only been a man for a little period of time and you're complaining.


This is what most men go through, the burden they bare. And they don't complain as much.

sureprince01:
I should pity your father, you till your 3rd generation, but ignorant dimwits deserves no pity, the calamity of your drug lord and oppressor tinubu is already enough punishment for you. Thanks to my father, I don't have to share in your pain and sufferings. Enjoy the darkness your father has left with in.

What did you say about your father again?

If you have your own mind PO won't even be on your list.


How old was Trump?

How old was Biden?


When he loses this election, what age will he be in 2031?


Should we write him off then when he recontest?

sureprince01:
Do not deviate, what has your stupid father done for you, when he should secure your future, was he riding bicycle at the village square? was he supporting his oppressors as well? Hold him tight, spit on his face, tell him shame for not building a structure to train you, this trials and tribulations you are facing today by supporting your new oppressor Tinubu wouldn't have happened assuming he didn't spend his youth throwing stones at birds.

There's no deviation. Because as it stands, only one person here has a stupid father. And that's you.


So what did you say about your stupid father again flathea_d?

jidxin:
Wow gazelle as an animal does that.... Wawu... This people you won't cease to amaze us. Una sha wan put us for trouble

All it takes is YouTube to watch Gazelle behaviour.


Never turn down an opportunity to educate yourself.

Gazelle are interesting animals by the way.

sureprince01:
I HAVE BEEN TO WHERE YOUR FATHER COULDN'T GO, I HAVE ENTERED WHERE YOUR NEXT 10 GENERATIONS CAN ONLY DREAM TO NEAR THE GATE. MY FATHER PAID AND GAVE ME A LIFE, WHAT HAS YOUR FATHER DONE?

It shows in your expression.

Absolutely. You have gone to the highest realm of stupidity.

A journey common in your genealogy.

How much do US citizens owe then?


Igbo and their endless hatred.

tegrianonigltd:
I be warri pikin, from the creeks. I no be igbo but next time SHUT UP

Still fla_thead

The constitution doesn't allow that.

I have mine.


Voting Tinubu.

tegrianonigltd:
No man is perfect. We all make mistakes, Asiwaju did, the first qualities of a great leader is accepting mistakes, and trying correcting them. Life is life, don’t try to sound intelligent defending that, he Made errors, pikin fit bad but mama like am, that’s your situation right now, you like Tinubu despite the shortcomings, that’s fine, let go. Don’t try to defend.

Flat_head, He's right.

I'm voting Tinubu with my PVC

Avoid polygamy.

jidxin:
so in one sentence and contextually explain what he meant

Yahoo boys are Showboating.


Like a gazelle, with its initial showboating before a Lion.


Showboating is gagaraga. Gazelle does that a lot.

Gagaraga is a Yoruba word.


Nothing will be sweeter than seeing PO loses.

Lalami3232:
If you sell your vote because of tribe, religion, salt, rice or even 5K, make you know say na 8yrs na you and your family go suffer.
I say make I just update you sha.


I don talk am and I go talk am again, "if you sell your vote because of irrelevant stuffs, make you know say your suffering na 8yrs of premium anguish and lamentation"

Yes, there's no need to sell votes to PO.

We know how it usually ends.


Blissfully.

That's what music used to be about: correcting the ills of the society.


Thumbs up Portable.

franchasng:
Mumu, where is the money from crude oil sales?


You have gold and other precious stones, wbo is minning them and where is the proceeds going? For your info, illegal minning of gold and other precious stones are the reasons you have Banditry in Northwest, Osun state and some parts of Southeast states

What called for this lamentation?


You said the FG is not using the money generated for anything. And I pointed road networks as use case.


Rather, you started lamenting.

franchasng:
The problem is the tax Nigerians, especially the working class and industry owners have been paying, what have the Nigerian government been using them for?

That Road you're travelling on, you built it.

At your age, this is your priority?

Be ashamed.

Nothing sexy about lack of values.

Regardless, those who will die will die.


All these don't count.

lordm:
Jesus, may God continue to protect us all

Fate is unavoidable.


Say RIP and move.

God continue to protect us? What happened to them?

You have options, that's why you're saying trash.


Imagine a world war rampaged with famine, you'll eat cockroach.

These are called opinions.


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