₦airaland Forum

Black is beautiful. Even the oyibo's, I'm sure deep down, they envy us. That's why they don't want Africa to grow.

post=118256019:
Anything to move our darling nation forward is all we want at [b][/b]

Seconded

Maxcollins042:
I pray that no life shall be lost.

Me no come understand you comment.
Abi you no read the headline carefully?

RIP to those who loss their lives.

God will protect them.

.For how long this country will continue like this bayi

ScamHunter:
No Fulani after a Fulani

The only right choice at this moment is Peter Obi.

People are rejecting Tinubu because he looks sick and old. I love Peter Obi and that's because his perty is the only one that seems to pepper APC and repackaged APC i.e the PDP.

If I am sure of knwankoso winning the election, I would gladly vote for him Fulani or not Fulani.

post=118215743:
Her

Ok

MMempire:
Congrat to her.

She deserves it

iwaeda:
5 months and APC NIN couldn't trace them.

Iswearugad

Why are their faces blur when the pixtures down showing the faces.

I would ask her "Na me get the Belle?"
If she says yes, my response would be "keep the baby" after the birth, DNA test straight.....
I no fit come dey father somebody child thinking is mine.

We in the north wish to farm, but his kinsmen wouldn't allow us do it in peace.

Nigeria would b great again

The chief genesis has spoken.
Na me know why I used the word genesis.

The comment of the person directly below me, validate my point.

This word called irony is Real....


Nigeria would be great again.

Vote wisely...

Wizkid dey pepper his progenitor....

I no call name ooo

DropsMic:
The only reason Atiku and Tinubu even get mind to contest for this election na because say Nigeria na black country.

It's also the reason they have supporters.

This your post powerful.

Teaser4:
he died for nothing, something wey no concern his papa…. He’s not even experienced sef

“Gregg, who had previously studied in Poland and had a friend in Ukraine, told the outlet that he had no military experience, which is a requirement for joining the International Legion. He posited that he was able to join up easily because he arrived when the war was still fresh and disorganized.”

He still had options.

To commit suicide been dey hungry the guy.

People dey their houses dey fight Putin with their phones, him come go that place physically come even join Ukraine soldiers

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

Good day.

How far...?

I really want to know how this your story ended, 'actually commented on it the day you shared it.

2ndchildhood:
Same here.. I started a fun and lovely but stressful relationship last week, now she no longer pick my calls. I'm glad its coming to an end though, because guy within this one week, my brain just off. Everyday na steady highness, we both drink, she sometimes handle the bills., keeping late nights and having incomplete sleep due to steady knacking, go work next day and start making mistakes, can't even concentrate.. I noticed some change in attitude the last morning she left my place. I was fully back my senses the minute I saw her text that I should borrow her 25k for an emergency (dem dey borrow woman money?). I first off my phone, on am in the evening, called her, no response till today.. for the past 3days now is like huge burden left me.. fear woman! !

Go and sin no more

Nice one...

But come oo...
why Banks come dey charge customers heavily these days na

Them go just dey debit person recklessly.

Rip Ifeayi

RIP

So painful...

Obaja steel industry comes to mind.
When you travel 2ru that route, you can't but come to conclusion that Nigeria politicians have deliberately wreck havoc 2dis con3. How could such HUGE industry be abandoned

Actually, Gari should be in Nigeria man's first aid box. It has saved lives time without number. Because, the level of hunger no b here. But, come to think of it, wia money dey to buy the first aid box put Gari inside?

That man feels like taking Gari not because there's no food for him. U dey US army camp, food go yapka for person. No b Nigeria wey man Pekin no even see money buy one cup of locally processed carbohydrate.

But some fifu are hear joyfully supporting what Putin is doing to his Neighbor for reasons best known to them.

Perhaps, their progenitors had one time or the other told them, Ukraine is the genesis of Nigeria's problem.

Ikemba007:
You are confused. The same Allah is referred to as Lord in cou tress parts of the Quran

Na you be confuse person here.
I grew up in the north.

Sind that jahad song

placeofallure:
So?

I have Muslim friends and whenever I'm sending them goodwill messages, I use their register, I use the Allah word and any other one that comes handy and will aptly convey my message. I even google for it cause I don't want to misspell or misrepresent.

It's what is called Tolerance, Respect and Civility.

Stop trying to make a mountain out of a molehill.

Are you not tired of whining about the old gentleman?

Baba....
Muslim say no God let alone Lord. They say is only Allah they know

Musty112:
Your Bias has blinded you to a fault. I dont know when the word "Lord" has been restricted for the use of only Christians

Muslim only know Allah.
They even say no God but Allah..

Don't tell me what I know.

Abdulhakeem7:
As a Muslim, we refer "Lord" as God and not Jesus. So if you don't know, you don't know

Allah....

ganisucks:
You guys need to check with your headquarters before commenting

No mind them na celebral sclerosis dey do them and their lord.