₦airaland Forum

ibechris:
This is how to know a poor man. I really pity u especially if u are still single.

U can use wrapper or plantain leaves to wrap ur children.

Luddite!

lol,he should use plantain leaves.. it's free of charge. He doesn't need to pay for it

Kobojunkie:
If you cannot struggle alone and make it on your own, what will adding more mouths(burdens) to your life do? Akd una dey use una head already! 🥱🥱

2. Which population collapse? The world reached overpopulation levels back in 1970 when the population of the world crossed the 5 billion people mark. Since then, the only people that have benefited from the boom were corporations that need cheap slaves to make more money than they need. 🥱🥱

The last thing the world needs is more people.

I wish I can like this your comment a million times. You are spot on.

SpencerForbes:
You really surprise me and I’m still in shock we have youth thinking like you. You don’t have any computer skill, you don’t wanna learn one or even go for a second degree to boost your cv and earn higher and the next thing is for you to start thinking of bleep and highness?

You couldn’t even start POS With the advantage of being single😳 and the crazy part is time is ticking.

When we have billions of IT Skills that can earn more than 1 million every month. I cry for the average Nigerian youth.

I’m flabbergasted 😯

From the depth of my heart, I’ll advise you (if truly you’re earning 200k) leave cars and baggy jeans, invest in yourself— you can learn a particular skill with 200k and perfect it. When you become a professional, you’ll see baggy and it won’t even entice you. Mark Zuckerberg wear one type of clothes regularly. Tell me he’s poor? Elon musk is always with his black on black, yes it might be expensive but I don’t expect him to buy same as snoop dog. That job that’s paying you 200k, there’s no security and you can be let out anytime. A word is enough.

Carry your sufferhead life comot for here...you for just say make I no wear clothes because I want be Elon musk. Who asked you for this unsolicited advice you are giving now?with all the sense you get,why you never become Elon musk. Go and check the meaning of "comfortable" before you keep showing how low you think. To you person drink water na still luxury...you for kuku remain for your mama belle so that you no go live luxurious lifestyle. Lol...na who never see Better money dey reason like you.

SpencerForbes:
You Dey Bleep more than 20k?
Na one or two bottles go chop everything? As a guy Wey like himself, why you no but 1 pack of can trophy come put for fridge they hold yourself? Light bills?😳. You no get excuse.

What’s the first thing you should be investing on as a guy earning 200k, isn’t it to invest in yourself, learn coding, Software development, cybersecurity, proper forex, crypto etc. You spend 2.4 million per annum on those things you listed up there?? I’m short of words.

You no get skills or handwork and you Dey bleep Dey drink one or two?? Come make I carry you go see pastor.

you be village man. Na inside hole you dey live I swear. You no even know the meaning of living comfortably. All these things I Mentioned are basic things a guy man should be able to afford easily without thinking he is living a luxurious lifestyle. Continue living in denial of the state of Nigeria. Only cream,perfume, soap and detergent don collect 25k if not more...light bills for some places 20k monthly,data monthly 15k, emergency fit happen,things you didn't plan for,na still money... Na you need spiritual cleansing cos you dey see basic needs as luxury. Stockholm syndrome want finish you. You even know how much is 0ne jean trouser or that one na luxury too?

SpencerForbes:
You're talking about a single man as if some of us aren't single😂. Let's dissect the numbers for someone earning ₦200k monthly.

A decent room self-contain in places like Ikorodu goes for less than ₦400k per annum—that's only two months' salary, handled. Since he's single, ₦100k can easily stretch for a month and a half for feeding. Transportation, even within Lagos, won’t exceed ₦20k monthly. If he's strategic, he invests in himself: he can learn coding for ₦200k and set up a mobile POS business managed by someone else. With that financial strategy, tell me why that guy wouldn’t be living comfortably?

Anyone earning ₦200k who still isn't living comfortably simply lacks strategic financial planning and, frankly, isn't yet fit to handle the complexities of marriage. If he isn’t wise enough to handle what he has.

Continue deceiving yourself,Mr. Planner. So for your mind na only food e go dey chop abi? Light bills,data bills,toiletries, emergencies nko...once in a while guy man no go drink one or two bottles Once in a while guy man no go fvck. All these other things I mentioned go cost more than 100k self. Money no get value again like before,make Una face reality early.

SIRTee15:
50k monthly for food in today's economy for a family of 3, u will know person wey never carry responsibility.

that's how you know them....some of them never handle 300k of their own for life before so they don't how worthless such amount is in today's Nigeria. A single man can't even live comfortably with 200k monthly in Nigeria of today.

What do you need marriage for when your dick is not working?

givedemwotowoto:
Nigeria is not a serious country. You don't need a prophet to tell you that the free hand given to these terr***ts will lead to more people organizing themselves into armed groups and resistance forces, which will make the situation uncontrollable.

I remember when I was singing it like chorus here on nairaland that the high rate of unemployment and hardship will lead to very high insecurity, but people never took the warning seriously.

Nigerians wouldn't take your warnings seriously cos they are all about themselves. Very wicked and selfish people. Now everyone is feeling the heat directly or indirectly.

OvertheTop:
chai...
junkie, You must be a Very Troublesome lady o...

Do you have a man?
you go worry that man o.... i really pity him

as in no be small...na every minute the man go dey collect trouble.

bmd1010:
Na so always looking to blame someone else, women will never ever take responsibility.

I was tricked, dem no drug u, dem no force u, dem no use juju. Just say u needed money opportunity came knocking u took it.

U will hardly see d men complain, they own their mistake and live with it, but no not the women, they point fingers outward, towards every one else except them selves

women hate accountability.

seunmsg:
The citizens of those countries don’t go about demarketing their countries. Nigerians are always on social media always promoting negativity about the country. So, why should tourists want to visit Nigeria?

just dey deceive yourself...the country good, them no dey promote am?

Meedon:
Mosdii the prophet ordained by Almighty Jah to do His great works

you are very correct 💯

Where is that moniker that use to say "all Nigerian gals are uselezz"? I miss that guy,He must be a prophet.

Freshandfitpod:
Paying is the best option in the modern world, this women are selling it, just buy and move on.

You are a wise man. These gals are meant to be rented... E dey baffle me say in this 2025,guys still dey do dating. That bich is for rent menh!!!

Came4amod:
You are taking woman on date in 2025 ..

Bro that 100k na 25 rations of hot amala and ogunfe like 3 ogunfe oo .. with kponmo and fish .. and Pepsi wea chill... 25 rations

Read my post and eat amala with your money
That's 25 rations gone .. when you have yourself
Games
Tiktok
Music
Learn an instrument
Proceed to stop and addiction
Test yourself . Keep your phone for 2 days a week
Do alot of other shit with your life
....

I stopped taking a gal out since last year. It's not worth the stress,time,money and discomfort. Even if she gives her puna after the date, it's still not worth it. If you no fit come my house I no do. Una still dey do dating for this 2025

3Si69:
Those who brought you the Bible and Qur’an are now stopping you from preaching in their countries because they know they sold lies to you and you believed them. They are keeping their children safe from you so you don’t sell the lies back to them. No heaven, no hellfire. It’s all lies, no claims support it and no one can prove it. Jesus was just an ordinary man like you who lived and died, the same way you will when it’s your time. Nothing like prayer, stop wasting your time.

an average black man is too gullible. In this age and time, people still believe thrash.

With all the prayers, Nigeria is still a disgraced country. Make Una continue dey deceive unaself.

Caphive:
Prayer is useless.
Ak47 is more powerful than Jesus name

You are very correct...100

TONYE001:
Thr so-called repentant terrorists absorbed into the military, the saboteurs, those that benefit from this madness, politicians in high places, etc


Today's Nigeria appears to be a movie scene, I can imagine all the actors with their scripts, scripts that have been well rehearsed.

The movie? Obviously na tragedy. The end is destructive...to the victims, and the players.

The question the governor is asking...the answer will NEVER be out. The answer is not hard to find. Communications can be traded....but trust me, it will NEVER be out in a few days all would be swept under the carpet.

Terrorists and their political heads and military supporters having a field day, while a certain Nnamdi is in Sokoto, sentenced to life.

Nigeria is like a metre rule on a knife edge, badly tilted to one end.....the stupid end.

Nigeria is a movie scene. Everyone is acting his/her role according to the script

bigpicture001:
U no go understand, women dey of different type.. there are ladies than can stand with u and changed your life.. I have met many..

Infact , my ex gave me 600k cash to start a business.. funny enough when sh saw a better man, just 6minths after.. sh left.. ND said u can take the money...

Should I cry over her or appreciate her ..?

Omoh, I forget her and now I am stable

Girls dey, forget!!!

your case is an outlier... hardly you see such a gal in this present day society.

bigpicture001:
It will not.. it will help him psychologically..

He needs to mingle, feel wanted and important that is get a purpose for living.. from their he can launch into getting higher renumeration.. ND steps to improve..

Mind u, while he goes out and teaches, some colleague ladies might show interest in him, ND light up his world with hope , sex and big imagination

woman go even add to him problem, especially our Nigerian women. Instead when woman go bring peace,na drama she go carry come.

Many people are in your shoes. I have come to the conclusion that the realest people are the ones that are alone. They can't connect with a world full of fake people. It gets to a point that conversations become very shallow and the real ones can't keep up with the facade. One thing that should keep you going is knowing that no one has it all figured out,forget what people are projecting outward. They have their weaknesses, difficult times, insecurities. It's a world of masks and unfortunately the realest people struggle to maintain the fake persona that is acceptable by the society.

Kastonkastroll:
Whats wrong with this girl? Anyway sha I just hope men are learning from this. No dey over do for any woman that is NOT your mother!

Buy the entire world for a woman and tomorrow that same woman will tell you what have you ever done for me.

Pa Ned should cut his loses and let this girl be. Get the custody of your kids and cut off whatever thing you had with her and her family. If Ned continue fighting this people online he will just keep loosing big time and disgrace himself

You deserved to be paid as Ned's adviser on family matters. This is the best advice for him right now. One thing I learnt overtime is, a man should not fight or quarell with a woman. You lose alot when you do that.

Abee79:
OP, your article presents a very one-sided and divisive view of relationships that doesn't reflect most people's reality. While it's true that both men and women can face real challenges in dating today, framing it as a secret "war" where one gender is unfairly attacking the other only creates more misunderstanding. Most people, both men and women, are just trying to find genuine connection and happiness. The healthiest approach isn't to see each other as enemies, but to work on clear communication, mutual respect, and understanding each other's perspectives to build better partnerships together.

bros,you are still sleeping. Virtually every woman out there is fully aware of this gender war going on. I pity any guy that is unaware of the dark psychology of the female gender. These women won't pity you for been ignorant.They are very ruthless and wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of a man's naivety. Relationship and marriage can be likened to a war where a man sleeps with his enemy. Your wife/galfriend is your competitor and enemy.Guard yourself with relevant knowledge and information.it is a cold world.

haggai247:
If you want to safe yourself from all this, THERE'S A SOLUTION, I'll summarize in ONE sentence.

NEVER CHASE A WOMAN...

ONLY DATE A WOMAN THATS INTERESTING IN DATING YOU.

IN SUMMARY LET THE WOMEN CHOOSE YOU AS A MAN... YOUR JOB IS TO SCREEN FOR GOLDDIGGERS, TENDENCY OLOSHOLISM ETC

plus the law of Satan (THE MOST RELIABLE WAY TO GET RIDE OR DIE)

IF SHE NO GIVE CLEAR GREEN LIGHT NEVER APPROACH HER.

ANYTHING ELSE MEANS YOU'RE PLAYING A Game you can lose

the ultimate solution is mgtow. If every man out there should go his own way, the whole system would collapse and men will be valued again.

Ezeama400:
I thought they claim to be respectful, Abi the respect na eye service ?

From beating their oba, to kpaing their teachers

Bros na eye service ooo...they are very disrespectful.

MikeofKd:
The truth...
Money doesn't entirely bring happiness , if you feel otherwise it's because your broke and when your broke you see or think of money as a god but then when you have enough of it , it becomes boring , Ur brain is now looking for something new that's challenging cause apparently your money problem has been conquered already.

Even the things that once use to shark you before doesn't shark you again , that's exactly the same way money is.
I pray you have enough money too sha so you can experience and realise that money doesn't necessarily equates to a happy life. It's very lonely at the top.

it's also very lonely at the bottom. Money contributes to people's happiness. How can a man that barely feeds be happy?

Freshandfitpod:
But it brings comfort, why are men still getting married for heaven sake? This bannies don't want you, they are only using you. I have a podcast where I explain why? Google my moniker.......

Omo,me self dey wonder...even dating self is no longer worth it.

PhilipEboh:
The Truth is your woman is not any better.
I wish the men here knew what Thier respective women secretly fantasize about and a fully capable of. Coming from a married man!

I like this your comment...if men knew what their supposedly innocent women are truly capable of,they would not even commit in the first place. Women are bunch of pretenders. They are not genuine.

jaxxy:
It's an open relationship or she's keeping her options open or she's still looking for her husband.

It is not cheating unless its an exclusive relationship and u have set the limits or boundaries.

There are different kinds of relationships. serious casual, undefined, exclusive, mutually exclusive or open, relationships.

So pls b4 u get insecure know the context of the situation. u are not married to her. She has a choice.

So you think getting married to her will make her bad behaviours go away? You obviously don't understand female nature. If she is doing this while dating, expect her to do worse in marriage. I pity man when no understand women. E go learn the hard way.

Women are not meant to be taken seriously...they hate to take accountability for their actions. I see no reason why a man should commit to that gender.

Kobojunkie:
So you know of standard yet pretended that women requiring them are silly? You think you are smart by half,abi? 🥱🥱🥱

kobo, people still wear slippers to dates...guys and gals wear slippers to dates. If I'm on a date with a gal and her slippers gets spoilt,I won't judge her with that. If there is anyway I can help her,I would do that. Anybody that abandons you because your slippers got spoilt on a date should not be in your life. It means if worse situation should occur,she would not hesitate to ditch you.