₦airaland Forum

yemiike:
My father is using this principle but to me its not wise at all because we his children none of us truly like that man now. He is very selfish and stingy with his money. If that man kpai i dont think i will cry.
Be good to people

your crying or not crying won't change anything. The man is putting himself first and that is the right thing to do in this wicked world.

In a highly selfish world,being selfish with your money is the way to survive. Every relationship is transactional. You can't be the only one giving and not receiving anything. Before you go see my money chop,I must dey benefit something from you.

Sirmwill:
What really is life if it only makes people work for money and riches in different ways they can , right or wrong ways,humble and proud , comfortable and uncomfortable ,only to suddenly meet their end one day



There is a greater purpose of life

May everyone find it soonest by the Grace of God

we have to pay to live life that we didn't even bargain to be part of. Definitely not a fair system I must say.

You don't have to beat them,just don't take them seriously. You win gals' hearts by not taking them seriously.

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Natbrowny:
If a Man claim he understands this female gender.

His brain should be in class with Einstein's and be studied

you cannot understand women and love them. Men who truly understand women avoid them.

Man utd will win this by 3 goals to 1

No way,I can't attend her wedding and she won't be allowed to attend mine.

I once bought it for my gal friend but don't see my self doing that again. She should get it by herself,I wouldn't want to have anything to do with sanitary pad.

Phabulous4:
The woman doesn't look recessive though. They have fair chance of making tall babies.

does being recessive show in looks?

EmperorIsaac:
Ubunja must be proud of your analysis! I couldn't have said it better.

long time I heard from ubunja...hope he is still alive?

EmperorIsaac:
No man wants to marry a fellow man in the true sense of the word! Besides, who their money epp? Let them feed you for a month, and you'd see that they are not designed to be providers.

you have said it all...no pray make woman feed you oooo.

MEGAWATCH:
Do you mean go to work or go to steal public funds?

I know your father has been working all the years but you are still here struggling.

If they steal public funds keep for you like Seyi, you will never be here typing GO TO WORK.


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lol...well deserved response.

NOETHNICITY:
2 ago, my wife complains whenever she goes to market to restock the house. It was always bitter complaints about price shocks.

I noticed now she no longer complains at all.

she is tired of complaining and has adjusted to the harsh reality.

I dey laugh all these kind gals...Men don wise and dem no even need marriage again self so nobody cares about your choice of not getting married.

JoeEeL:
Sorry for not being compassionate in my earlier writeup, not that I didnt want to be but didnt want the submission to be too long. From ur writeup, u look like someone who really got his financial life together. What is even more annoying is that you should have really turned out even much better -- and much earlier.

And its more painful cos d signs were there but u just deh postpone doomsday. Im sure u thought u struck goldmine when dis ur erstwhile wife is working-class or comes from a well-to-do background. Maybe u followed some of the online advice of guys that dating a working-class woman will be more beneficial in d long run. I know say u don realise its more than that. Woman na woman, working class or not. They are naturally extremely selfish.

Its mostly women that come from rich backgrounds that can give without flinching too much. But if a woman hustles just half of what u hustle, and u expect to be a beneficiary of her generosity... u must be joking!

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Now, man-to-man, I want u to chin up. Me wey dey follow u talk sef just lose relationship of a couple of years. I dey this same boat too but my case no severe like ur own. See bro, just forget woman. U see that imagination wey u get of having one woman who answers to u, all those morning whatsapp romantic msgs, someone to call u when ure down etc... kill it off! As difficult as it is, kill it off.

When u were enduring ur marriage, some men out there probably thought u were living ur best life. Same way it is for many couples out there. Dont let their lovey-dovey moments suck u back in. Their bad times are not on social media, only few good moments. Dont be moved. Focus on ur hustle. When d need for sex comes, patronise olloesho or do soapy. Dont feel bad about this.

Ladies also need sex badly but how come they always feel so composed? We must applaud them for this, its serious discipline. They need sex but they can get it from u while still billing u. It takes sophistry and discipline to do that constantly. They also finger themselves while bathing, in d toilet or resting... to hold body. Them no go just tell u. They are dannmn sneaky by nature! If u dont like this, focus on ur looks, eat well, spend on urself, throw some coins around, they will come. And bang them.

Dont bother too much about companionship in old age that these washed-up high mileage puunnna girls use to scare us. U will easily get who to stay as companion with u in old age only if u go on a badoo womanizing spree in ur 40's.

Make ur bucks, enjoy. Some of d women wil lose their husbands. Alot will separate. Some of d men wil travel abroad and abandon them. Many women are unmarried. If uve slid into their panties before, u create a bond that makes it easier for them to hang around later in life.

Some of d closest girls in my life today are babes I had some form of romance with but no sex. Over 10, 15 yrs, we still talk. It was later I discovered the common denominator was that ive been in romance with some of them. Hence d closeness.

Go go bro!

I wish I can like this comment a million times...it took me years to finally come to this realisation. Women are mostly liars but I have been oportuned to date a few honest ones. I got to understand the dark female psychology and I can boldly say everything you stated here about women is the truth.

Goo0dHardDick:
U probably haven't gone to club before with your babe.

Ur babe will leave for the guys throwing the highest money in the air. Let alone a celebrity! Lol

and you will still call her your babe?

oluwaseyi0:
Most are arrangee throwing
Trust the show biz industry at your own peril

Some where even paid to faint

you are right on point.

Tinubu is favouring me and my family.

Newsmills:
Don't die out of ignorance,the problem with you is a very minor issue,you are the one escalating it in nairaland,the solution is not far fetched,your hands are closed up and you are close fisted,you refused to date somebody around the compound,or get married the story will nosedive,pokenosers will vanish into thin air.

see the advice you dey give self...He should date someone around the compound?he would be trapping himself by doing so. You want to change your lifestyle because of what neighbours would say? I never see any neighbour when fit make me change my lifestyle because of am. Op should just mind his business and stop explaining himself to anyone. Na why I like my kind of person,e no get any neighbour when I no fit handle.

Op self you get mind to dey snap and report this kind thing. E be like you no know say na Nigeria you dey. Continue playing.

Awalokan government will favour me and my family.

Techpik:
Happy Sunday guys, this have accusation of labeling me yahoo guy in the compound have happened on many occasions during compound meeting, side talks etc.

But I’m not to be sincere I’m a freelance website developer working from home, I have worked for lots of people even on this nairaland, within Nigeria and abroad at the comfort of my home.

What use to trigger this labeling is because most of my neighbors go out in the morning and come at night and I’m always indoor (at home) living good.

So this have been causing side talks and even confrontations from some neighbors.

Most times I have been explaining and try to prove to them, that I’m a freelance website developer that I worked from home.

Before anybody will think the same on nai.raland, you can check me on google Techpik and all social medias and my site.

You will even see good reviews from people I have completed projects for.

I also need your advice guys, to deal with those neighbors.

stop explaining yourself to anybody...you don't owe your neighbours any explanation how you chose to live your life...na you bleep up by explaining to them. Make your money and keep a low profile. Even if you move to another apartment,you are likely to face this kind of issues especially in average neighborhoods,unless you change the way you relate with people.

3kay945:
Oh, thanks for your conclusion.

When it is said, you cant understand that gender many seems not to comprehend the phrase.

if you understand women,you cannot love them. If you love women,you cannot understand them.

3kay945:
So you don quickly conclude someone is better inlaw based on little discussion una had ?



Bros, there is more to marriage o. You will know whatsup after 5 - 7yrs.

women when Sabi pretend very well. Him go learn with time.

SnoppyG:
If only i know what i know right now, i won't marry. marriage na stress and it doesn't favour men. so many things to endure to make it work. you won't understand until u go into it

The bolded were the exact words my colleague told me years ago.

fyneboi79:
I had also been married for 10 years and I saw hell, before I regained my freedom out of sheer luck...if I ever hear marriage again ehh

Nb: For all those saying if you marry right abi you marry wrong.....there is nothing like marry wrong or right because for any marriage to survive then the man must always act the fool.

This right here is the key point. Every woman na the same, nothing like right or wrong. It takes a blind man to get married.

muyico:
Nigeria police
Is capital offend
They will milking him dry!
Ordinary buying stolen, Button phone, my neighbour spent close to 1m, b4 dey release am!!

What the Bleep menh

Naira is not on the list because naira started performing badly before 2025. The list is specifically for the year 2025.

Wetin Una still dey find inside relationship...oloshos are better and cheaper.

The police is your friend.

Person when suppose dey house dey play with him grand children,dey here dey stress himself because of greed.