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Gerrard59:
I'm genuinely curious, these people that left Port Harcourt, where did the majority flee to? Those that left Lagos, to where please?

Why are they running?

Tinubu is chasing them away.Many people can no longer afford city life in Nigeria. Some too,have gone abroad.

KillahPriest:
Una must to chop this statistics by fire by force

Tinubu is happening to them.

I swear,women are wired differently. I have experienced this before. I wanted to buy food for my gal. I asked to make transfer for the payment but they said they didn't accept transfer. Only cash or debit card. I didn't have ATM,the cash with me was only #5000,not up to 5.5k I needed. I asked her to borrow me 500,and she did. Could you imagine she kept reminding me of her 500 even after I gave her something worth much more than that. Since day I tire for their matter

StoryHaven:
Ladies are all ingrates. They are like toddlers.
Every time you buy sweet for a kid, I love you daddy. The day you forgot to buy, I won't play with you again daddy. You're not my friend.

I trained the one I called wife in some courses. She finished, and told me. I have done nothing special. Today we are no more together.

You see this life ehn, just be hard on ladies and they will respect you and even love you. Be nice and yould be taken for a Mumu.

That's the truth young guys, be careful.

lol...just imagine. This one na even your own wife...when I dey tell them say wife is not excluded,them go think say na joke.

SQLmastar:
It is totally wrong and inhumane to try to retrieve a gift as paltry as a wig, from a lady you previously dated.
A gift is not meant to be retrieved. Did he sign an agreement with her prior to the wig gift?
The guy is too petty!

to you it's petty. To him he just realised he has been fooled. There are gifts I will never buy for a gal. Especially gifts that lasts long e.g phone,wig,laptop etc. I prefer things that will not last long so there will be no need to retrieve them once things go south. The ultimate rule is do not give more than you can afford to lose,same rule applies to betting. So you see it's actually a form of gambling.

jojothaiv:
More reason I'm always nonchalant when it comes to women matters, I've break it down for one that I hope she doesn't think she owe me marriage because I'm sticking out my head for her, I've never subscribed to that school of thought and now isn't the best time to do that.

Some men will learn in the hard way.

e get the level of understanding for woman matter when you go get,you go realize say na you even suppose dey owe her marriage not the other way around. Marriage should be a reward package you gift her for been a good gal friend. I wonder why a man would now be begging a woman to marry him. It's such a shame any time I hear or see such. It means that the man doesn't even understand the power dynamics in romantic relationships.

hosemujica:
Rule of thumb should be, don’t spend what you can’t afford to lose on a woman not your wife yet.

even the one that is your wife should not be exempted from that your rule. Ensure she invests in the relationship or marriage,that way you have insurance.Before I ended my last relationship,the gal was telling me that if not that she has invested in the relationship that she would have walked a way.So her investment was keeping her glued to the relationship,not because of her love for me.

Lol,where are those that will say "not all women are like that"? Una go learn the hard way. Women don't deserve your kindness. You might be doing what ever you are doing just like a philanthropist would normally do,but women don't see it like that.They see your kindness as foolishness. If you happen to be in their midst when they discuss men,you would vow never to be nice to any of them. Make sure any woman you deal with calls you stingy. The word "stingy" is a compliment from women. One was calling me stingy the other day. I told her I am a proud stingy man. Na so she laugh. Last last we ended up having fun. Money when I go use train woman for school,I go gather the money set fire on am. I go use the money as rizler to roll weed smoke. When I finally understand female nature,I stop to dey dash dem even #100. No be say #100 big pass me,but I hate to be called a fool for giving out my money.

AllBlack:
This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen. Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the man wey give her the power wey I blame.

Men,things dey sup. Before e go reach this extent,the guy should have just counted his losses cos that gal will never respect him anymore.

EvilMerodack:
Where are those always preaching "If a woman is worth it..."?

The fact that it worked out well in your case doesnt make it a norm. In fact, when making sweeping statements, exceptions are noted and they dont invalidate it

When people say "All women/men are this", they sure know not all are like that, but the few exceptions dont make the rule, they are part of the rule

If i would need to search down to a bag of beans to find a non-beans content in it, then its still safe to call the entire bag a bag of beans. The other foreign materials in it dont invalidate the tag

I like this your analogy. It saves one alot of stress.

Smartguyboy:
So CR7 is Nigerian footballer ?

ok I get your point. Also,one thing you have to note is football career is shorter than music. Only few players have been able to remain in the game at competitive level in football for twenty years. Some footballers no dey last pass 5 years or 10years before them retire

fxexperts:
Footballers are nothing but employees of club so they can never have money than people who are business men who sell their own albums. so therefore the highest paid footballers like Ronaldo are not as wealthy as the highest Musicians like Rihana, Kanyes west and Jay Z. Know that and know peace.

Wrong footballers are ordinary employees while Musicians sell music and control their earnings. Burna boy is richer than Oshimen, Oshimen networth is about $12M while Burna boy is about $40M. so know that and know the truth.

if osimenh enter Saudi club now,him money go beat burna own oooo

harjay1986:
Naa because the footballer no dey dash am money

footballers don't have any need to show off their wealth...na musicians dey do all those things just to stay relevant.

Smartguyboy:
Check his entire worth

You mention only CR7 but I can mention 3 billionaires
Musician for you

those are USA musicians no be 9ja musicians....you want use burna boy they compare USA musicians?

Smartguyboy:
Which footballer worth 1 billion dollars?

Ronaldo

Robnectar:
Mehn e no go better for ur dealer oooooo,.... Wetin u dey smoke gan gan

abi na you dey smoke? You know how much Ronaldo worth?

StaffofOrayan:
I remember one clown that said he should go back to school
hehehehehe

Ask the clown wetin him don use school take achieve,e go start to stammer.

destinychildolu:
She has like 300m in fixed deposit account already

Na you be her account manager Una go just dey talk anything Una like.

Kobojunkie:
Stop with the desperate attempts at distracting from the main issue which is that OP's parents intentionally started his life in the midst of poverty and without a clear plan of getting themselves and their children out of it; when your starting point in life is poverty, it literally means you are literally in the middle of some of the greatest disadvantage. 10s of millions of Nigerians — over 160 million at this point— will likely never see life outside of poverty because of the choices made by their parents before them.

2. These are unrelated issues.

In addition to your point,a poor person should not bring kids into this world. It's not a must to give birth to kids and let them wallow in porverty. It's an act of wickedness.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, because in the Nigerian context, there is absolutely no evidence of the effects of parents prayers. Over 160 million Nigerians are stuck in poverty with majority having their parents to thank for it.🥱🥱🥱

2. So we are conveniently choosing to completely ignore the fact that the same sheet also happens to lots of non-stubborn children out there whose parents only had good things to say about them? 😩😩😩

Lol,I agree with kobo on this

Jman06:
Can you just imagine! Subjecting teachers to this level of humiliation is nothing but evil!

Anyway, what else do you expect when someone with poor educational background is selected to govern the state? Only in Nigeria do the intelligentsia get sidelined while the stark illiterates are elected into leadership positions.

Nigeria is gone, honestly!

You are very correct. The people should be mindful of who they support as their leaders. If you vote in someone that is not educated,when he comes in,he would ridicule education. This is absolute ridicule.

Which kind nonsense be this? People taking too many shit in their work place... For how much self?

mirrael68:
Thank you brother. The OP may have a point but the disrespect he showed his parents in his delivery is nauseating.

Saying things the exact way they are can sound disrespectful but the truth has to be said. We can't keep living a lie, pretending all is well. We need to start holding people accountable for bad decisions and choices,be it our leaders, parents, institutions, religious leaders e.t.c.

zero8zero:
Your problem is none of my business, I only speak for myself. I can't remember the last time I left the house without light or came back home without light or sleep without light. I have to switch off my freezer a lot of the time.. My band A is banding well. Leave your backwaters and live with humans.

yeye dey smell...na everything we take dey brag. Shows how low the country has fallen.

ebubeson:
only two games? Should he be judged with just two games?

it's too harsh I must say...new manager for that matter

ayoncox:
geh geh himself referred himself to be one

is gehgeh now a dictionary that your refer to for the the meaning of words?

ayoncox:
its a shame because the bible instructed us to study to show ourselves approved and to be discerning, now needing an illiterate to tell you what to do shows how foolish one is

do you even know the meaning of "illiterate" ?

You no fit get that kind woman in this present generation. Na I never chop gals full everywhere now.

Checkwell:
Sure. The pastor said the truth. These guy is just whack. But anything to trend. People think he is leading them. But watch him cash out from your stupidity. All he needs is to do things that will make you channel your data to his content. Then he will cash out.

Make una no learn. You go use money buy data to enrich one mumu. Why not use the Internet to help yourself through skill acquisition using that same data so you can also make genuine money online?

Pastors are doing worse to their members for everything you criticised gehgeh for...you see say na you be mvmv

2special:
Pastors are the greatest simp, I'm sure his wife instructed him to say this.

No they are not simps, it's simply the issue of interest...if men start prioritising themselves and being frugal,women will have less to give to church and causing less cash inflow. Pastor is only protecting the interest of his business.

OGwales:
Imagine rubbish talk... So we shouldn't attend gehgeh university because indirectly it will be affecting your business 🤣🤣🤣 criminals

If you know you know

Na the bitter truth. Women are mostly the patronizers of his business,so geygeh's message which threatens women's major source of income threatens church inflow. Last last church na business, believe otherwise at your peril.