₦airaland Forum

Where the food when them dey share for here? Abi no pics?

Coolis:
I wish l never heard of forex trading, last 6yrs of hustling all gone down the drain. In my delusional state, l kept hoping that l would make money from trading the forex market, the more l gets obsess with trading to recover lost money, the more losses l records. At 45yr, got nothing to show for. I look back and l say to myself that l have wasted 45yrs of my life and how many years do l have to spend on earth? I curse the day l heard about forex trading. Who will deliver me from the destructive path l found myself?

😂😂😂😂,man life no easy bros

Gerrard59:
It's actually good men are setting standards. After the reign of online feminazism and a harsh economy, men are demanding more than just being a "woman". Whether this online rhetoric applies in real life, I don't know.

Sure, an adult female, just like every adult, should be able to cater for the basics of life's necessities. However, women still bill. It's innate in them.

If I may ask,when did this feminism become popular in Nigerian social media? I guess it's recently.

Gerrard59:
Why do some of our men have this belief that a lady who isn't broke won't be demanding or bill you?

Being a demanding or billing babe has nothing to do with a woman's financial status. Women are generally billiers. I classify them as an expense.

The thing is men are now setting standards for themselves just like women. It is very good. Women in their teens will all tell you they wanna marry a rich man. It is with time and after experiencing harsh reality they begin to lower the bar. I know most women bill,but there are some kind of billings I hate to entertain. Billings like airtime, sanitary pads,food e.tc. An adult female should be able to cater for such personal bills else she is not worthy to be in a relationship.

lexy2014:
according to you



is having "a lot of influence on children" the same thing as "raising a child"?

how does community having influence on children because they interact with the community mean that the community raises children?

I am done explaining to you. If you still don't get it,just rest.

1. Trust nobody
2. You are all you have got when the chips are down.
3. Humans wear masks, nobody is entirely genuine.
4. People worship money.
5. Be selfish,be ruthless,be firm.
6. It's a crime to care too much or love too much and you would be punished for it.
7. Betrayal comes from people close to you, people you call friends.
8. Do not keep friends,keep disposable pieces.
9. Every relationship or interaction is transactional.make sure you are benefitting or cut it lose.
10. A man is only valued by what he provides. So before you provide make sure it's truly worth it.
11. Your colleagues in the office are not your friends. Do your job,get paid and go home.
12. All Women are natural manipulators,be cautious when dealing with them.
13. Sometimes,the major breakthrough you need will come from a place you least expect it, possibly from strangers.

lexy2014:
how does community having influence on children because they interact with the community mean that the community raises children?

"it takes a village to raise a child". This statement means alot. Parents are not with their kids 247 so the rest time kids spend with their peers,in school,in church,in libraries, sports teams e.t.c is the the time they are getting raised by the community.

lexy2014:
how does community having influence on children because they interact with the community mean that the community raises children?

yes,they interact with the community so to an extent the community shapes and mold them. Compare two persons,one raised in northern Nigeria,second in southern Nigeria. You would notice the difference in their thought process simply because of the environment they grew up in.

occfx:
Your narrative is wrong... Imagine been raised by a single mother.

Biology is nature at work and you cant defeat it.

The problem with marriage is culture, tradition and rules. Remove these three things, you will see like minds cohabit peacefully with each other. Goto university hostels... Some people are living happily with themselves like husband and wife but immediately society is informed, problem starts.

There is a reason why poor people last in marriage than rich and enlightened people. Funny thing is you see the poor man and his miserable wife having 7 to 9 kids in peace. That's the level of connection they have with constant intimacy... The only problem those kind of people have is food. Not gender equality or any nonsense. Imagine if economy is good and they feed well, they will likely have a happier home than most elites.

Human beings should emulate animals... Simple and short.

I like your point....we don't need to emulate animals,we are animals already.it is too many rules, societal and religious pressure that is causing most problems in marriage.

Nigeria can happen to anybody.

lexy2014:
how does community and society raise children?

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community has alot of influence on children. The people they interact with daily can shape their characters.

Softmirror:
People who speak ill about marriage are people who don't want to take responsibility. Marriage is all about being responsible.

it seems you have a different meaning for "responsible". So a full grown man responsible for himself is not responsible because he chose not to get married?

Urgent1Million:
People say things according to their experience.
Planes crash but people still fly.
Cars crash but people still drive them.
People suffer food poisoning but people still eat food.
There are so many good things about marriage, allegedly.
Don't take my word for it.
Get married and find out yourself.

FYI, I am not married and not planning to.

why are you wicked?

APOPTOSIS:
IF you must marry, please marry a woman that has a lot to offer 2u for you are the prize and not them. U have no expiration date.
Na man dey propose! Wake up Guys
Do everything to avoid a Liability.
Avoid Gals from Poor Homes with Poor Ideology especially when you're struggling to find your feet. ....na Poverty reloaded be that.

Avoid an Empty Gal.
Do everything possible to avoid such.
Before marriage, take a time to study your prospective Mother-in-law.

Visit the family and leave your phone's voice recorder on, leave it beside the entire family making such her mom is around, while you excuse yourself to use the restroom.
Come back and thank me.

Far better to marry a widow than a single mother. Make sure she is not a TikToker.

you na real OG.... it's a must to know what your potential mother in-law thinks of you before you commit. Your gal will eventually turn to her when she grows old.

Manculated:


Seems you Stolee this Master Piece from me.

lol...I guess life taught us similar lessons.

1. Be selfish with your time and resources.
2. No dey send women.
3. Do not impress anyone but yourself.
4. Only invest in things that bring money,knowledge or skills.
5. Avoid religion,it will cripple you mentally if you are not careful.
6. Do not follow trends,think for yourself.
7. Focus on making money cos last last na only your money go save you for this life.
8. Avoid seeking external validation. Learn to validate yourself.
9. Trust no one.
10.Everyone around you is there for benefits.once they stop getting benefits,they will disappear.

CorperKola:
Everyman na superman, Man no need anybody

bros,e no easy for man. I no dey blame irresponsible men again cos to be a responsible man now na serious war.

advanceDNA:
Baba is down with his mental health impaired, and limited resources that isn't enough to for all this fertility issues.....
But His wife needs him ??Who does he need?? Abi man nor need help.??

Man life hard...even with his mental health issues,his wife needs him...him no get needs.

Spandau:
She is lying.

Assumption is the lowest level of knowledge. Your knowledge level is definitely low

wanimo:
Shame on Nigeria. I feel embarrassed being called a Nigerian

If that girl wants to get her certificate of discharge this week, she should just say something bad about Obi.

Castigating and insulting Obi is Tinubu's mumu button

😂😂😂😂
Why you dey drop free updates?

Successsearch90:
Hmmm. Not sure of how to react to this sha. But me I no fit buy Nigerian used sha. NEVER

why na?

OlujobaSamuel:
My sin is different from your sin. We are in a world of sin preference

😂😂 😂😂😂

This can never come from a 9ja babe,na only to milk her man she dey after.

Fuckinecng:
[color=#990000][/color] KEEP DEFENDING RUBBISH............WITH...... 30K MONTHLY STIPEND WHILE YOUR MASTER ARE LIVING LARGE WITH THIER FAMILIES WHILE YOU ENJOYING UR CRUMB in pieces.....also is 100k in 2006 cannot buy what 8k can buy in 1987.


In1990, a 50k bag of rice cost N350.

In 2006, a 50kg bag of rice in Nigeria cost ₦6,000.


In 2025,a 50k bag of rice cost N70,000.
Let us do the maths. .

6000 divided by 350 gives ~ 17.

70,000 divided by 6000 gives ~ 11.6= 12(approx)


Comparing the two with the space of 16 and 19 years,Tinubu has done better because price went up 17 times in 1990 (space of 16 years to 2006) even with the fraudulent Fuel Subsidy.

In 2025,with the removal of the fraudulent Fuel Subsidy,price only went up approximately,12 times (and things are still coming down exponentially, we pray)



Kudos to President Tinubu for having gotten the gut to make these hard decisions that brings prosperity to Nigerians soonest.. KEEP DEFENDING RUBBISH...

lol...inside 30k stipend,atleast 20k go enter data....only data self fit finish that 30k in a month if he is not careful.

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

who no go no know. Na only movie this kind thing Dey go well. Real life scenario go humble person.

Eniolohunda:
Although, you have your points but I disagree with marry 30s or 40s. That's late marriage, no matter how you package it. Any one who is not matured at age 26, 27 for marriage will remain immature in for life. There are numerous benefits to early marriage than to late marriage, especially for ladies.

says who? This life Dey twist and turn at any time oooo. Things Dey change every now and then so don’t say that.

Jman06:
Their agenda is to finally absolve women of all responsibilities and shift all feminine roles to men. Total emasculation of the male gender is the goal of the 21st century feminists and their feminised male supporters aka simps. Serious research works are currently ongoing in laboratories in developed countries on how to transfer the role of bearing pregnancy to men and how to impregnate men to women. Brace up for some crazy 21st century gender roles reversals!

You are a wiseman. Flesh and blood did not reveal this to to you. I can do virtually everything by myself but why do it when I have a wife or gal friend at home. Na so I pursue one recently the moment she said she will never wash my clothes. As in the thing shock me. Me that my female cousin use to wash my clothes for free,now a gal i call my gal friend is saying she will never do that. Na since that day we break up oooo

WhiteIverson:
I guess you don't know how to swim, perform CPR, start a fire without matchsticks, build an emergency shelter, navigate when you're lost without using your phone or a compass.

Which means I can also call you a stark illiterate because these are all survival skills

lol, don’t mind him. The way people use the word “illiterate”, I wonder if he knew the meaning. What has illiteracy got to do with cooking skills.

descarado:
Your role models must be ter'rible.

What a warped mentality in this age and time.

Na true the guy talk. If I’m alone I do everything myself,but not when I have a wife or gal friend living with me. E no make sense guy. I Dey see some married men Dey wash their clothes by themselves. Na Bleep up be that.

spiceadole:
Hahahahaha
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See epistles on top of the same marriage that they say does not benefit them.

They have nothing to gain getting married but they are still spending their hard earned savings on marriage

if no be pikin,Wetin concern man with Una gender before.

Elzazzi:
Thought private unis like Babcock is where some average persons go to network with rich kids.

with the state of things now,even networking no easy like before. Also many people no Dey want help again like before.