Bakkyson01:
Bro were you able to fix your phone cos I'm having the same problem with mine and it's the same tecno phone. I have been unable to receive calls for 2 days now and my sim is working well on my other phone. What is the solution please. Help a brother here. Thanks. It's not even showing notification on the screen anymore. Like eg. You have an email, you have a text. It's not showing that again as well.

How did you solve this please?

Is it USD or any other currency?
Plus, you will be paid over the counter.
There are lots of CBN rules regarding transfer of FX and allowing customers transfer however they like will make enforcement of the rules difficult.
E.g a cash deposit can only be withdrawn cash. You cannot pay in cash and then transfer the funds..... at least for now.

There's nothing like market saturation.
That same thing everyone is selling, go and sell it too. It is because there are customers that there are lots of people going into the business. You too, go and collect your share of the profits.

san316:
I may not have to move with them. My wife has a business in Abuja and we have a fairly affordable accommodation here.

You will not be in banking forever. Take the job with the better pay. Be wise with the added income. Increase your savings, let your expenditure remain where it is.
Use the extra income to establish your wife's business or your plan B business.
Build your savings/investment for the future.
Think long term.

With the way inflation is going, you will need the increased pay just to even maintain your current standard of living.
Forget all these people that have never left their states. A bird in hand is worth 2 in the bush.
You are due for promotion where you are, I'm sure you have colleagues who have not smelt promotion for 5 years.

crackhaus:

A complete lack of satisfaction/contentment with what is available around them. They'd rather seek a prince charming (tall, handsome, rich, & sexy) on the internet.

Problem is, I can't figure out why it never occurs to them that such a "perfect" man would hardly be single even if he claims to be.

All you typed here are assumptions. You read the original post, but you chose to go with your assumptions.

'Prince Charming'
'Tall'
'Handsome'
'Rich'
'Sexy'
'Perfect'

None of these were mentioned in the original post. You are only playing to your bias.

Compliment him.
With time, he will reciprocate.

Phcmayor:


I have to say the truth
Am not I get hot temper

Sir!!!

angelfallz:
Wow. There is nothing wrong in trying to find a husband through the internet. But you left out your picture, age, hobbies, religion etc.
They might not be important to you, but it helps a potential suitor.
Just saying.

Thanks

mrgbenga1:
What is your religion view?

I'm a Catholic.

Phcmayor:
Are you humble or you go give person headache

Lol. Na who no get work dey find trouble.

Humility = 100%

Are you humble Mr Phcmayor?

I'm a lady.
AS genotype, yoruba.

I'm a working class lady. I'm principled, business minded and future-focused. I value friendship, personal growth, companionship and taking time off to rest and have fun.

I'm looking for a guy 33-36, AA, working class, honest and kind hearted, goals and family-oriented. It is important to me to be compatible on a friendship level, taking the time to appreciate you as a person.

Any tribe is fine. Abuja or any northcentral location though I'm open to other locations too.
Please send me a PM.

I'm a lady.
AS genotype, yoruba.
I'm a working class lady.
I'm looking for a guy 33-36, AA, working class, honest and kind hearted, goals and family-oriented.
Any tribe is fine. Abuja or any northcentral location though I'm open to other locations too.
Please send me a PM.

I'm a lady.
30, AS genotype, yoruba.
I'm a working class lady.
I'm looking for a guy 32-36, AA, working class, honest and kind hearted, goals and family-oriented.
Any tribe is fine. Abuja or any northcentral location though I'm open to other locations too.
Please send me a PM.

oldtimersince06:
I had to create a new account to post this.

So, my husband has beaten me 3 times prior to yesternight. I had said if it happens again, I'm going to leave. Last night, he punched me in my face severally and pushed me hard that I sprained my knee.
My concern are my kids. My older child loves his father so much, while the younger one loves me so much. The kids love each other. Do I take my younger child and leave this marriage and separate my kids, or do I leave them with their dad or do I take both of them and trust my older child will be fine without his father?

He has apologized severally this morning but I'm done. He is emotionally abusive on a good day. I can't count the no of times in a day he insults me. He threatens to Kill me and kill himself. My dad doesn't talk to him any more. Let me tell you why.

He didn't have a car at the time, and would go with mine. He was meant to pick the kids up, while I was also waiting for him to pick me up from work. At about 7:30 pm, I called him again asking for when he would get to the kids school and he told me he was busy(Busy here means busy drinking). The school kept calling me, the teachers need to go home. 8 pm, I picked an uber and went to pick them. My phone died and I couldn't charge it till I got home. As I turned my phone on, his call came in and I apologized, that I had picked them up but my phone went off. He said he was in the school and was looking for the kids. I kept on apologizing. He promised to deal with me on getting home. He then called my mum and was shouting at her on phone(he does this regularly). My dad stepped in. He tried to understand the issue. He told my dad, that I disrespected him and that if it was his subordinate in the office( He's in the para military) that disrespected him, they would kill the person and nobody would find the dead body. My dad then said, but she's your wife and not your subordinate. He shouted at my dad and dropped the call.

I go through a lot of emotional stress on a daily basis. I need to leave for my sanity. He's a great father.What do I do about my kids? Matured responses please.

I can see that you are not ready to leave the marriage. How is one a terrible husband, but a great father? What madness is this?
A great father will not subject his children to the agony of watching/hearing him beat their mother, call her names and threaten to kill her and commit suicide.
A great father will create a peaceful and loving home for his kids. And where that is not possible, will seek for an amicable seperation from wife, while having the best interest of the children at heart.

Lol. It is parents who become under pressure to do more than a different parent has done.
One school, a parent decided to host a sleepover at a 4 star hotel for all the child's classmates.
Nobody told the parents of the other kids to protest.
The school had to draw up rules regarding birthday celebrations. 1 small cake and a carton of biscuits or something of such.
.
Wait till your kids start bringing all sorts of gifts home from school before you judge the OP.
I am with the OP. All these show off in the name of birthdays is not ideal.
Do a party at home and share landed properties. No problem. Leave the school out of it.

KingAzubuike:
Annie is not doubt a shameless woman and just there because of 2babas money. How can you be comfortable seeing your hubby's baby mama Sunbo adeoye organize his birthday? It shows Annie has failed her obligation as a wife.

It is your type that will never allow peace to reign in a home. Your type will maltreat step children.

armadeo:
Didnt watch.

First I dislike reaction videos. What the F does that mean. I should watch you react..... bullshit.


Second common the tag is annoying American man reacts to burna boys song. So what?


Abegi

Thanks. Reaction videos are rubbish. So I cannot react by myself, I have to watch someone react on my behalf or what??

I'm here for the song. It is the best addition to my playlist in 2020. Burna Boy deserves many accolades for this song alone.

In my opinion, this is burna boy's best work of 2020. Listening to the song calls out the rebellion in me. It's a revolution chant.

When we start protesting the evil people in power do to us, this is the song to chant.
When our 'leaders' sell us out, this is the chant.
When we take back the reins of power, this is what we chant.

When we vote out bad leaders, when we disown senators who failed to represent the people, when we protest police extortion and brutality, when we realise the power we have as a people, This is the Song we will Chant!!

Relocation should not result in giving up the property. Also know that abuja is not cheap and building costs time and money. So do not be in a haste to throw away what you already have.
If it is going to be empty, you can do minor renovation and put up for rent.

You know what to do.
Do it!

Poverty!!!

There's no right or wrong here.
Is the masters program the same accross the 3 locations?
Dont just look at the program. Look at the opportunities in the location too. I will rule out czech because you bear the total cost. In the post covid19 era, you need all the money you can get. Don't go spending your hard earned savings when you can get same value on a scholarship.
Are you likely to get good offers in Nigeria or in SA? What's the job propects? Where are your skills needed more? Nigeria or SA? Where will you be paid more after all is said and done?

You cater for all the needs at home, then submit all your savings to him?
What does he do for you? For the family?
Is his money his alone?
.
So what do you have to show for all the years you have worked? If you lose your job today, what will you have?
The future is not all about house and tv and generator.
How would you support yourself, your kids when you no longer have this job? Because he won't be there to lend any support. Think of these, and decide how to proceed.

I'm claustrophobic.
I sleep with the lights on. When I wake up in the dark, not knowing where I'm facing, not knowing where the door is, or where the windows are, I start panicking.
I fear being trapped in a banks mantrap door.
I don't like being boxed in by someone,or held down, and I clearly explain this in relationships, just incase he wants to do rough play.

Stargurl20:
I've a very low self esteem, that everytime I'm being scolded about it, I always wish for death.
My low self esteem is killing me, and I feel this lack of confidence of mine, began from childhood when people would criticise my appearance. I hide my face from the world.



Something happened today that made my mum opened up to me that she isn't happy with me. We attended an event( more like a compulsory one for me otherwise I would have avoid going), and I hid in a coner throughout the party that the entire family was wondering the kind of person I'm. I know some thought I'm arrogant which is wrong.

I've cried severally today, that I wish for death....
I'm just a very young lady of 21year old.
This lack of self confidence also makes me avoid guys.

It's a phase and it will pass.
This is a time of self discovery for you. In time, you will fully understand and accept who you are, and the opinion of others wouldn't make you cower.
Believe me, confidence will come from self awareness.
For now, work on yourself. Develop skills to help you be independent. Work jobs, earn your own money and plan a future for yourself.
Every other thing will fall in place.

Kccheechy:
I'm from the east but I was born and brought up in Lagos. I passed out from the university in my home town. Even though I spent 4 years in my hometown going to the university from my village home, living with my grandma and being surrounded by people who only converse in igbo, I still find it difficult to speak my native language. I understand the language well enough but I have a challenge conversing with it. I always make a jest of myself anytime I try to converse with it because my people end up laughing at me with the conclusion that I can't speak my native language and tag me as "my mama say I be igbo " They see me as though I'm not really one of them. My parents complain about my inability to fluently speak igbo. Funny enough I have two millionaire uncles who are members of my family by extension who don't even hear "come" let alone speak the language. Any time they visit, everyone converses with them in English. Even my grandma who has a hard time speaking English will try to speak broken English with them and everyone respects them a lot. No one ever complains about their absolute ignorance of their native language. But when it gets to me, I will be mocked If I try to speak igbo. The thing just taya me o. I have decided to just forget about trying to speak igbo and continue with my English. (but my children must learn how to speak my language.) Anybody wey no hear English na I'm Cup of tea be dat. I can't kill myself o. Is anyone in this same situation?

I told my family members to blame my parents whose job it was to teach me the language and they failed. Am I expected to teach myself the language?
They don't bother me anymore.

Is it only the housemaids food you are enjoying?

Skyfornia:
What's her location? Can she pay back N130k in two months??...N30k as interest. If she can...then let her contact me.

This is not MMM.
To start, she will probably not make any profit the first 2 months because she needs to put down structure. Equipment, feeding materials etc.
Let's say she makes the money to pay you back, is that the end of the business? Which money will she use to continue the business?
.
What she needs is a long term loan, or to source for personal funds to start with.

I'm a lady.
30, AS genotype, yoruba.
I'm a working class lady.
I'm looking for a guy 31-36, AA, working class, honest and kind hearted, goals and family-oriented.
Any tribe is fine. Abuja or any northcentral location though I'm open to other locations too.
Please send me a PM.

This covid19 era is a perfect time to reduce unnecessary activities and plan strongly for the future.
Tell her your company is going through hard times and are thinking of slashing salaries and laying off staff. Let her believe that your job might be on the line. And beg her to help you come up with something you both can do for income before they sack you.
Keep talking about how they might sack you everyday. This wiłl put some fear in her as the future she envisaged for a long time is being threatened.
She will start coming up with ideas. Brainstorm them with her. Make her do the market research until she shows passion/skill for one. Then you can consider starting small.

jeffchinedu:
Pls house i need your help and advice on the solution to my baby skin problem, it has bn like dis for over three month after seeing a doctor it refuses to go. Pls someone help with a better way of doing helping my baby. God bless in ur effort towards this.

For the itching, apply pure coconut oil all over her body. It has soothing and healing properties.
I have had something similar and it lasted months like this. All the anti-allergy drugs didn't work and I started reacting to the anti-allergy cream.
Coconut oil saved me. It will sooth and firm up the skin to prevent the blisters from bursting open.
3 months is a long time for this baby to suffer.
The advises here are too much and conflicting.