₦airaland Forum

Waiting for the tribal warriors to arrive and attack their master up North.

Of course they won't dare.

Can we use three am of other time zones?

CAPSLOCKED:
IF YOU'RE NOT SHARING MONEY OR FOOD ITEMS YOUR NONSENSE OPINION IS INVALID.

ONE PERSON WILLINGLY GIVES.
ANOTHER PERSON GRUMBLES.

STFU.

Typical Nigerian with entitlement mentality.

Is he your father that is responsible for your upkeep?

Or is he the government that was supposed to provide for those out of job because of the current lockdown, like every other sensible government?

When a country is been run my an old senile man this is what you get.

Osibanjo was supposed to be the brain in this government from the look of things it seems otherwise.

Lockdown that started when we already had an index case?

Once you have the case in your country lockdown is only meant to immobilise people and buy you time to track new cases and isolate them.

Meanwhile if Bubu had been proactive and close the borders early I believe we would have been better off.

Justiceleague1:
I pity people around him.

Just imagine if all Nigerians were like him!

What a bitter hateful soul!

Actually you should listen to him.

I would rather take his side.
He is practical and sentiment has never advanced any group of people.

I am both surprised and ashamed at the rate at which people are begging on NL.

It makes me wonder where their parents are and what are their parents actually doing?

Does it mean that the parents of most NL can't afford to food on the table for their children?

Because every single one of these kids are asking for money to buy food because according to them they have not eaten since morning.

Seriously this is worrisome, the most baffling is that these same crop of "improvise" children are the first to dish out advice on how to marry and raise family on 40k salaries.

Does it mean that their analysis on how to raise a family on 40k per month is a lie?

If so why would they be so evil as to trick other people into starting a family on a meagre income knowing fully well that even their own parents can't feed them with whatever amount he is receiving?

Is this pure evil or just a way to snare others into the same situation as them?

Throughout my travels I am yet to meet a Nigerian that will tell a single persons that is ready to get married how difficult it is.

However, I have noticed that once you tell someone from the west of your intention to start a family their first question is are you sure you are ready for this, it is difficult and you sure have to be prepared for it.

Why can't our people be truthful to save others from the same mistakes?

Why am I saying all these?

For those that have ears let them listen and don't let society push you into something you are not ready for.

Because 20 years down the line your children will be littered on the Internet begging a stranger from feeding money to money to buy Jamb form and money to complete school fees. Is that the kind of life you want for your kids?

GamalNasser:
I predicted this two weeks ago , next America will move production to India and let's see what China is

Another "pastor" in the making.

You did not predict Jack.

As far back as February companies and even some countries have be trying to figure out how to move out of China.

https://asia.nikkei.com/Spotlight/Coronavirus/Google-Microsoft-shift-production-from-China-faster-due-to-virus

At op put source if you want you post to be taken seriously hence mod will close it once someone else creats the same thread with source.

Na only mouth NA get. Buhari Promised Nigeria that but instead he was fighting BH from London. .

Buratai you have been fighting BH from Dubai now that international travels have been suspended and you are forced to stay in NE, you want to twist it into fighting at the front.

Oga stop deceiving yourself.

Buhari promised us that in 2015 and we are still waiting.

Chinese and human rights abuse are like 5&6

Just watch as they will skillfully turn this thread that has nothing to do with the people from the east into bashing them.

Yoruba amaka.

Let be going before the Potopoto Republic and brown roof Republic aka skull mininer Republic will use me do chew stick this morning.

In as much as Bubu is a confirmed error I think your association need to get a good editor.

What have you done in particular that made you conclude that you are a bad person?

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

Which your dad is excluded?

Twice that you know of.

She is still a learner your husband is a free giver ooh.

Op and his members coming out from the wood.

Buhari is hiding under Aisha wrapper.

His strength is only in the other room.

Felicity0001:
My dear dont make the mistake believing you can know somebody well enough.

Listen, havent you heard of the adage "change is constant"? Conditional, situational and environmental change are all directly proportional to human beings. So no matter how many years you date your gf or bf or even are married to your spouse you never can know them well enough especially women.

Women change like weather.

Now we are on the same page which means even a virgin is no guarantee. That is the point most people have missed in this conversation.

ehay:
You Neva see... All our discussion and complaints about our husbands even with our mothers always ends in hope "o na emetu kwa gi aka" or "o na esukwa gi efe Ofuma"....Oga women love sex more than men. Women watch and share porn more than men (That was how I got to know about Ugandan pussy lips elongation etc)

Can you share the link to the Uganda elongation I am asking for a friend to "science some shift out of it"

ffo:
I married a virgin so I know what I'm saying. The loyalty, the love, the bond, etc.

So how can you make such a bold face statement about all virgins based on your personal experience alone?

Bros you are smarter than this, to make a bold statement based on one single personal experience.

Well I was taught that you can't generalize or assign casual inference to any event that can't be reproduced to reconfirm the results. I also was taught that for some behavioural analysis we cannot replicate such mostly for ethical reasons but we should have enough data to confirm our cases with control before making such a sweeping generalisation.

I hope you get my drift.

Bondatt:
My yardstick is 1 Cor 6:15 - 17 :

" Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Or don’t you know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”b 17But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with Him in spirit. "

Except you don't believe the Bible. If you don't, I can quote Quran for you. No time.

Your yard stick is based on your faith by implications you are using a one stroke to make a strong assumption/pronouncements on issues that cut across religious and cultural differences.
Don't you think foe sure issues it should be evidence based rather than what faith you believe in?

When it comes to faith based evidence isn't it imperative that people of the same faith and creed should judge themselves based on what they believe, which is the crux of the matter of what ISIS is doing trying to apply their faith based opinion on everyone else including those of different faiths?

I was born and raised a Christian and in my opinion in as much as I understand that my faith is against something I don't think it logical for me to judge or call others outside my faith a name based on their practices that may be acceptable in their own faith.

If you had said sleeping with multiple partners is irresponsible because of the high chance of spreading infections which put other people's health in danger. Which as far as I know putting someone health and my implications life in danger is something that cuts across all belive system ( unless in the rare cases which the greater good of majority of people comes into question and becomes another topic of discussion) that would have be a response everyone could relate to.

But tagging people slut just because they sleep around careless does nothing in the way of solving a problem. Shaming them will only make them find a smarter way of not being caught.

Sorry I have to go into these other angles because I believe the reason we say something is to correct an action and to correct an action requires explain why the action is wrong not imposing one's own moral values on others.

From your submission I could infer that you have the ability to form a logical thought pattern. Think about it.

Bondatt:
Male non virgins are sluts. I make no apologies for that, neither am in the business of trying to make friends by saying what they want to hear.

It goes both ways. Men and women who are 'actively' in the business of sleeping with those who are not their marriage mates are sluts. If their is another euphemism for the act, I'm open to hearing it, but for now that is what they are.

Of course those have stopped giving their bodies and private organs to every John and Jane do not come under the slut tag. But those who are actively doing it are sluts.

See, call me old fashioned or anything but that is the truth we all like to run from. What is bad is bad, what is good is good.

I'll rather be called a mad man in a morally decayed world than be called a sane among the morally bankrupt.

Out of curiosity what is the yard stick on which the moral value that consider people that sleep with people that are not their partner as sluts, are based on?

funmisticqueen2:
No one is trying to make virginity unappealing. If not male non virgins will also be viewed as sluts who bring nothing but diseases.

But men measuring a woman by something as friable as a hymen, that a lot of virgins aren't born with and nothing else is as shallow as a chicken scratching the ground.

I don't even think the guy understood the text he quoted.

My dear I have said it before African culture raise men with so much false sense of importance that some people are so so emboldened in their own stupidity.

Bondatt:
What a load of tripe!
All in a bid to make whoring acceptable, you are subtly trying to make virginity unappealing.

Try projecting your insecurities somewhere else. Our mothers were virgins and lived with our fathers till their death. No accounts of infidelity. For degenerated minds like you, you think sex is the only ingredient in marriage. Sex is not the only ingredient, neither is it the main ingredient. It is a cherry on the top.

With mindset like yours it's no wonder we have a lot of broken homes, bastard children and abortions. Our parents knew that family life meant responsibility, selflessness, integrity, self control, morality and virtue.

The holy book said that he gave Sodom and Gomorrah to unattainable sexual lust. That is exactly what is happening with you and your ilk. When your vaginas a have suddenly overriden your brain. Blame no one but yourself for the fact that you have overrun your mileage and have no control of your own libido again.

Project your degenerative thinking elsewhere. You try to 'smartly' paint abhorrent black to become white.

When you talk about sex, you talk about it in a way that will make the unwary think it's rocket science, and that there is more to gain than the minutes of gratification. Let me ask you. Who taught Adam how to satisfy his wife eve? Is it your degenerate self? Who taught our parents who were virgins, both male and female to have sex, procreate and have happy families? Is it your degenerate self i ask again.
Who taught you how to suck your mothers breast? Didn't you learn as every adaptive creature does?

For men and women virgins reading this, don't lose your self worth because of wolves like these who have lost them trying to demean what is naturally vitreous. A man and woman who love themselves would have all the time in the world to learn about sex among themselves and experiment all they need to with themselves. They would have the love and patience to seek medical help and consultation if they have a need to do so while maintaining the bonds of their marriage.

The way these sluts talk, it is clear that the only thing in their cranium is sex. That is why say if for example their husband or their wife becomes handicapped and can no longer carry out their sexual duties, they cheat on them, or worse yet they leave them. Our forefathers and parents knew what marital commitment and true love, a ride and die kinda love truly meant.

Remain vitreous, have your own standards for what is right and stick with them no matter what others may say.

TO these whores I say, go reap what you've sown.

Bros why are you barking?

Can you show me anywhere in the post you quoted where she discourage anyone from being a virgin as asserted in your write up?

neyobills:
Don't get yourself worked up over the mentions because like they say experience is the best teacher, u have given your own 2kobo the rest is left for those who have eyes to decipher.

From my own little experience ladies do discuss about their sexual life with friends just as much as guys especially in relationships,a married lady might be a bit more possessive to divulge info.

Marrying a virgin does not guarantee the fidelity of a lady especially in this 21st century there are virgins who are pros in anal sex and what not,even if this virgins have no prior experience at least u can be sure they will know something is missing if u cant give them an orgasm same way a virgin guy would be left in blue balls if he cant cum after a sexcapade in the other room and with porn and experienced friends in the picture your guess is as good as mine.

Virgins are good for marriage just like non virgins it actually boils down to the individual,unfortunately virgins are like cats who are inquisitive and like to explore so if u must marry a virgin pls be average in bed and dont just assume she is satisfied anyway since she is a virgin,if u cant make her cum she would go to the moon and back just to have that experience.

Getting a virgin is hard enough but trust me if u dont satisfy her based on she is a virgin anyway even if a fool gives her some mind blowing sex trust me all her love for u would be turned to resentment in a jiffy.

Marrying a virgin on a basis of future fidelity is an exercise in futility except u are ready to time travel to get you some homo erectus.

Your head is the one good head that is better than 20 stupid heads. Keep it up bro.

Felicity0001:
To some extent You re right but stop discouraging keeping virginity till marriage.

The facts remains, it doesnt matter how much you satisfy a woman if she wants to cheat on you she'll still cheat. I've had cases after several ramps of sex and the lady even going on a deep sleep waking up, took a shower the next moment she was in the next guy's room having another ramp of sex.

Bottom line, there's nothing any man can do to satisfy a woman weather sex or any other thing.

A woman decides whom and when to be loyal and faithful to a man and sex is not even part of the reasons.

I agree with your line of argument loyalty and that you can't do anything to satisfy someone that isn't loyal.

But have you considered that there could be more to your example than sex? For women sex is more than sex unlike men. Which is why you need have a good understanding of your partner. That mutual understanding is something I think most couple lack in our society. People may date but given our culture and norms there issues that never get discussed and we don't really date properly in sense of getting to know someone better..

Gabm they are married and before you say congratulations they throw kids into the mix and the everyday life takes a toll on them and some start seeking solace and solitude in other people codedly.

angelfallz:
The truth is that once a man ejaculates that is the end of the sex, this is natural there is nothing the man can do about it. That is why it is good to engage in pre-intimacy before penetration. Because once the man penetrates the woman, on average he has 2 to 3 mins before he ejaculates, this is the truth.

You are right that pre-intimacy is essential and pre-intimacy entails knowing what works for your partner. You also have to understand your partner sexual needs; is your partner the type that comes from fast or slow thrusting? Or is your partner the type that comes when she does the cow girl ride or the type that only comes when receiving head? You would be surprised how many clueless husband are out there. Wait the hear horror stories from some married women.
For those that think the being a virgin magical make a woman's desire less dangerous they have failed to realise the length an unsatisfied woman would go to sort herself out.

I guess that was her argument but it seems most people took it wrongly and started attacking her.