₦airaland Forum

rockcityfinezz: I think the babe in question is freecocoa that has been giving our beloved op tough time and tenor777 knows this so he is saying all these thinking maybe the girl might just let him have a bite.

otijah: It is very very wrong, cause while cooking the food the guy maybe staring at her ass, which can nw lead to kitchen s*x, which means s*x be4 marriage and is a sin in the sight of God

Idowuogbo: Na who b dis? Not vivi o! Take d pic off abeg!

kreami diva: She complained of purging and throwing up and loss of appetite the last time we spoke.

lynpetra: Yekini Bobo,we both know you always beg for it,in the middle if the night,when she is tired and snoring

tensor777: The bolded is the point we've been making all along.If she really likes you she won't play games, at least games you wouldn't be able to see through.

orgasticdance: Women of the special variety are meant to be difficult unpredictable game, as is expected, that her approach wont work for most women imho.

caseless: see gbege!

freecocoa: You are prolly a child that's why you think you need to act out a script before you get a girl to like you or whatever, don't worry when you grow up you'll meet real women who know what they want and go for it.

gothrones: stop writing poems, for you are no longer in primary school. Also, stop with the flowers, she is not a goat.

lynpetra: Start ignoring her partially,gurls no dey dey comfortable when an admirer starts giving them little attention.don't
be surprised wen she gives you a call after sometime


And if she calls like,"hello long time.Hope you are ok....blah blah...".No rush o.And don't ever stretch the convo.End the call by telling her you wud call her back,bit don't call till after one week .When finally you call,tell her"....besides I got something for you when I shopped recently..."Don't allow her to come and visit you to take the gift,drive,hand her the gift and be on your way ASAP.Promise to visit her only to change your mind,believe me its painful to sleep with make up after a disappointment at night .Allow her to call you,but promise to call but don't call,just send cool messages ONLY late at night(that impression wud give her a wonderful feeling ),My brother stretch her heart and I tell you,you go chop her kpomo well well eventually to make up for lost time.

vivianc: [/quote]you can keep taking all the cheap swipes you want at everybody. Just shows you are really a grownup as u insinuated! Dx, nice concept but this choice of speaker?! [quote author=SeaGold]

Adaeze003: Well I don't think its a good idea to have one person speak for the girls and another speak for the guys!

If a girl who does all that viv said/wrote meets a guy that does what saga said/wrote we all know that the relationship won't work. Why? Well on one side of the ring we have a lady who thinks she's more important and on the other a guy who thinks he is.

I know I'm not a speaker but I just have to say this, a relationship is not a freaken warfare! Its about the TWO people involved! None is the 'boss' of anyone(that's just childish). Its about two MATURE people coming together to make life more beautiful and complete and in my opinion, for it to work you just need to love the person.

Yea I know everyone says love is not enough but I don't mean that giddy feeling you get when you just start dating(that will definitly fade ) I mean love the person enough to want to understand, tolerate and even compromise on what makes you happy for him/her as long as its reciprocated. Love is never one sided, if you don't feel like you're getting the same in return then the love isn't there. In other words, don't do all the loving!.

Well I know there's more(other technical/important details) but I hate to bore peeps with long articles. Still, I hope ya'll got my point.

vivianc: I think people are not even ready to have a mature discussion.

pendo89: Reporting late from the NL's psychiatric ward thread let me read from page 1.

Homguy: 1 QUESTION FOR VIVIAN; If you are currently in a relationship did you go through the about 1000 steps you listed above, sincerely?

vivianc: As for you last question? Its ridiculous, I don't owe you any explanation about my personal life, brother. *No pun intended* smiles.