coolguy4christ: My girlfriend and I had issues sometime last year which eventually led to a break up. Early this year, we made up. I initiated the make up because I still loved her even though, it was she who ended the relationship.
When we started again, I told her I wanted a fresh start and that she should come out clean with me of whatever I need to know when we were apart. She knows how much I emphasize sincerity as I hate lies. She confided in me, that she had sex with a guy whom she dated briefly when we were apart but that she used protection. I believed her and didn't really bother myself because we were not together when it happened.
Few months later, I proposed to her and she accepted my marriage proposal. Since then, the relationship has been beautiful and we have become better as we were previously before the break up. We are actually planning our wedding in a few months.
Yesterday, she confessed to me that she had an abortion while we were apart. That she lied about using protection and that she got pregnant and aborted the baby.
Since then, I have mixed feelings for her:
Firstly, I am strongly against abortion and she knows that. Secondly, She lied to me!
The second reason is actually why I am more angry with her. She has lied to me previously and I don't know if I can believe and trust her again.
She has been very remorseful and she told me she came out clean because she wants to set everything right before we get married.
The issue here is that I don't know how can I trust her again?
if you marry her, you would live the rest of your life doubting her. That's a place you would not want to be bro. Trust me.
holaxi: My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.
But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.
I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.
Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.
When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.
I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.
you don't have a girlfriend bro, i was in this situation, and I lost her. Just break up with her and move on. That's how you keep your respect.
I got a quit notice in September (my rent expired 31-10-2019) and I am supposed to vacate the room and palour self contain by march 2019.
Today, my landlord called me and said why have I not come to make enquiry as to why I got the letter.
I told him I know the letter was from a genuine lawyer and I decided not bother in asking him why because I know why .
The reason is not far-fetched from the fact that I quarreled with him twice because of disconnected electricity supply for four days when I was not owing him. I actually fought with him for good two days. I dared him and his generation not to fix the light until I come back from office. The first I did, he didn't reconnect the light but he reconnected the second time .
The light was disconnected because some tenants who occupied other SCs didn't pay theirs. I actually told him to pay and disconnect others who have not paid because I am tired of this kind of monthly occurrence. Somebody like me pay very early. Then, he should have a way as a landlord of getting his money when he pays for everybody instead of every month disconnection.
To cut the story short, he said he has my type as son and there is no way such disagreement will not come to play. He said he didn't actually mean it that he was only threatening me. He said he asked for the letter to be written to me by his lawyer and then he has the right to withdraw the letter too. (I think he needs money and the man is thinking March ending is too long to get another rent for the SC)
He asked me when I am paying the rent. The rent is actually #140k but I told him I will try and credit him #100,000 first. When he dropped the call, I called my wife and explained what happened to her. She let me realize the man is trying to get the six month rent for the quit notice period of six months he gave us. She said we should not play into his hands. I actually remebered the man told me on phone that if I don't have the whole #140k now, I can pay half which is #70,000. This is where I discovered what my wife said might be true .
We are actually trying to leave the house before or by March ending as the notice read before this call.
I hope this man is not trying to play smart though I know we are to pay for the six months of the notice but I don't plan to give him until I am ready to pack.
Should I involve his lawyer because his contacts are written in the letter he gave me ?
Is my landlord real ? Is he trying to play smart to get money for the notice period early? Should I credit him the #100,000? What if he returns #30,000 and claim I only pay for the notice and he keeps dragging issue with me that the notice still hold? I can't afford to loose my #70,000 just like that because the money is for the new accommodation I am looking forward to get? Can I ask him to withdraw the letter first (may be in his wife and my wife presence )?
Lest I forget, my landlord extorts a lot. That's his hobby.
the first poster already answered your query. Try to clarify your position before paying anything.
you even quoted the author with this nonsense post. Your life must be a very miserable one, and misery always seeks company, but you will be alone on this one
iaamxavier: I'm writing this post with a heavy heart
So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...
She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age
Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them
I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back
I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)
So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!
I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self
I am a Pharmacist who graduated from a Nigerian university fairly late. While it's quite insensitive of your mother to make comparisons with other people because we are all different, let me tell you that you only have to be focused. When you are done reading pharmacy, you will be the star of your family and be very comfortable financially. I had a lot, a lot of classmates that were in their mid - 30's when they graduated and they are all very very comfortable today. Also pharmacists are never jobless, it's a course that makes it easier for you to travel out and succeed anywhere like myself. So just be focused. Peace.
Mensah007: I had to open another account to post this. Me and my gf graduated from the school and are currently serving. I'm serving in Lagos while she is in abuja. She was actually redeployed from a far north state to abuja with money by her parents. We re both in our mid 20s, We love each other so much and would like to marry asap if money comes. After we graduated from Uniben, she persuaded me to go over with her to abuja and search for greener pasture, i made frantic calls in attempts to secure a place to squat over there but to no avail, I had no relatives there and d few friends I have there aren't that close. I later had to go over to Lagos to hustle because i have a few relatives there. Even while i was in Lagos she was still insisting i come over to abuja, reasons that abuja is a more lucrative city. I truly agree to that fact but i seriously have nobody to squat with and I have nobody at all in abuja, not even been to abuja before. At a time she managed to convince one of her mum's sales boys to take me in in his room but the guy disappointed at the last minute so I had to stay back.
Nysc came, I'm serving in Lagos, she was posted to Kebbi and later redeployed to Abuja. While in camp too, I tried redeploying to abuja on health grounds but I was redeployed bk to Edo state so i had to cancel the application and stay bk. She has been hampering that i redeploy to Abuja but i don't have the 50k fee to pay.
I'm now in Lagos serving in a school, during the holidays i always go out to look for a good job or a good hustle to do. I wasted transport fares and stress attending interviews daily and meeting people but nothing came out yet. Though i did one gig BA job and im yet to get paid. She is still insisting im lazy nd wasting away in Lagos nd i should come over to Abuja. I would like to add that I saw myself thru school with supports from my parents so I'm not lazy. One regret I have is that the hustles i did in uniben are not long term and can't be moved to Lagos. My plan is to find a good job or good hustle and ghost nysc . Im also looking forward to saving to buy a good laptop and starting online business because i have learnt a lot on Nairaland although saving 80k from 19,800 salary might take time.
I have managed to secure a room in a flat where im staying currently, I have resigned myself to be teaching in my ppa for the meantime and still be looking out . She recently became more persistent about the abuja move and gave me few days to come over or forget about her. She initially proposed to pay 50k for d relocation lobbying but relocation for my batch isn't possible until October ending. She however insist i must be in abuja this Saturday. I have been thinking about this all week, i don't know anybody in abuja, I don't have accommodation there, how do i do my clearance in Lagos if I move, I don't even have money so I will live off her benevolence till I find something doing. Had it been i have a sure hustle/job to take up in abuja, i can make the sacrifice and leave my apartment in Lagos here. I'm just confused. I need advice please
based on these Info you provided, she doesn't have your best interest at heart. I know you are in love, but there are millions of women out there. Hustle and be successful, forget her, and you will find that in the future when you look back at this time, you will laugh, and be grateful that you didn't live for life for an unreasonable woman.
This advice is coming from my personal experience.
Hotzone: I always respond to my fiancée financial demands even when most of them seems like extortion. She prefer I pay her bills both rent and utility though I try to wriggle my self out in rare occasions.
Condition of marriage: No sex before marriage, I abide completely because I want her. She attends her friends weekend activity than finding time for us to stay close even when she constantly reports about how her female friends accuse her of lesbianism but I pray she’s not.
She works and her wages and daily earnings is a little bit above mine. I have told her my marriage intention and she openly accepted without the usual marriage proposals but I am thinking to make it official.
I am still considering if she is suitable and can make a useful wife because I am about to make an official statement which is going to change my entire course in life.
Please, my fellow Nairalanders, I need constructive and supportive words. Blissful week to you!
I really think you are only being used. Propose officially and she will turn you down.
Davash222: Biggie should have disqualified both of them. It’s not fair. In Biggie’s word ‘Provocation is violence’. Violence means disqualification... so, why is Mercy still in the house ?? Biggie is biased!!
is your brain functional or is it just for decor? How can we move forward in this country when a grown ass woman types this online. Prior to this incident, Tacha already had two strikes, Mercy had none. In the aftermath, he awarded them two strikes each which means Mercy needs only one more strike to be disqualified while Tacha already exceeded the maximum 3 strikes allowed hence the disqualification.
I think I got it when I was trying to download something online
The virus has messed up my system and nothing works again
Keyboard doesn’t work
I bought external keyboard, it worked for a while, now the virus has corrupted the external keyboard and it doesn’t work again.
If I click on a file or folder, it opens hundred times till the system screen is covered and the system hangs.
If I wanna install a file, the virus doesn’t allow it. Hence installing a virus remover is very difficult
I have scanned the system endless times with the exiting antivirus that was on the system before and it detects nothing, meaning the virus has a strong persistence
I can’t connect to the internet, connecting to the internet has been disabled.
Mouse doesn’t work again too, I bought external
If I try to open softwares, it crashes and doesn’t open
Many other things I cannot remember
My friend are saying it may not be a virus, that maybe my system is old and I need a change.
But what can cause a system to have all these faults at once if not a virus.
Please help
use keyboard commands to load your system into a safe mode at start up. Google it. It usually involves using the F keys at startup. Then try to get some files or do whatever you want before you format it. A virus wo t be able to do anything in this mode.
wwwkaycom: Hoooo. Why should I stop her from buying hers? She is insisting I must pay the 29K. I have told her I'm not paying a dime, she can go ahead to buy hers. I'm not even going to send anything to the celebrant because I've made up my mind not to attend. The celebrant is the same person who packaged the inferior clothing material that washed away late last year, I must do this so that they won't make attempt to extend such to me in the future. This is obvious fraud and my wife's stubbornness on the issue annoys me a lot.
My wife knows I don't do Aso-ebi, if you know you don't have money to organize your party, don't try to swindle me to sponsor your frugal, unnecessary party . We do too much needless spending in the name of parties.
Davash222: Not justifying crime, but, Siasia if na you dem give 1.5M Naira to coach Super Eagles, you go gree collect
In a sane country, you would have been fished out and arrested for this post. You are justifying the crime of kidnapping. I hope Nigerian law agencies steps up soon.
sultaan: I have stated the primary reason for that before and it comes down to resale value. Most of Africa buys used Toyota. Since I here is a huge export marker for Toyota, People in the US will buy a car they can resell used without losing a lot of money compared to a Chevy Cruze that will stay on the American market.
The third world can afford a used Corolla or Camry but a Land Cruiser is in another class where it is Toyota but sells far less than the American competition on the continent. Those who buy it are not looking at the resale value as the main reason for purchase. In the last ten years Africans are buying fewer 4runner and you will see a drop in volume sold compared to the competition or the cheaper Highlander.
well, I get your point, sir. But Toyotas would have very low resale value if they weren't reliable. So we Africans won't even buy them of Americans if they weren't reliable or able to take plenty abuse. So its definitely deeper than resale value I think
I recently moved to a popular north American country where everyone in naija seems to be migrating to these days. I decided to get a preowned car, and since I had used 3 toyotas that have served me well in Nigeria I decided to try to get a 08-12 Corolla. To my shock the prices for corollas of these years was equal or more than prices for later years of other car brands. In fact, unlike cars like Nissans,Chevrolets ,VWs where prices seriously depreciate with high mileage, high mileage Toyota brands are still more Expensive than most other brands. I used to think it was just the Nigerian bandwagon effect that made used toyotas more expensive
So to my conclusion, it's not just about having bad roads in Nigeria, or the careless nature of Nigeiran car owners, nor the cluelessness of our kazeems,...
There actually might be something special about the Toyota brand. Maybe it's that rest of mind that it gives you knowing you won't get stranded anytime or anywhere or it's just their branding techniques that has been so successful. If you have any other opinion, please share.
The Dakolos keep churning out false claim after claim.
This is a very sensational case; the type most lawyers will kill to handle so it can boost their CV. But Falana in his wisdom declined it so it won't mess up his winning streak. Even the blind can see that the Dakolos have lost this battle.
When Timi released the song "Iyawo mi", I knew there was something special about it. I never knew he was introducing us to the woman who'd bring him to his doom.
I doubt there'd even be a marriage to salvage by the time Biodun Fatonyibo is done taking them to the cleaners.
Clout-seeking, sympathy hungry, mumu couple.
how much is he paying you? You have taken this too personal than for your attacks to be unsponsored.
Amnesty International should be wiser than falling for the sentiments Timi and Busola have strongly whipped up.
It is Nigeria for crying out loud. Where broken down police vans are hand-pushed, Where the police demand money from complainants to fuel their vehicles so they can effect an arrest.
Those policemen came all the way from Abuja. So it could be the complainant provided a means of transportation for them or they chartered a bus or they used an unmarked vehicle.
Why are the Dakolos crying foul?
They have a good social media following, several folks have volunteered to contribute towards their legal battles. Some lawyers even decided to take up the case for free. They also have an NGO. Why are they scared now or is there something we don't know?
This is not intimidation. Police show up in your house to invite you and you shout you are being intimidated, but you mobilized people to go and shut down a man's church on a Sunday, attack his worshippers and even had people hurling him all sorts of abuses on the cyberspace.
And that wasn't physical, emotional and psychological intimidation abi? Where was Amnesty International then?
Timi should have considered his scrotum when he decided to sit on this termite-infested log.
how much were you paid? Like that Nkechi babe that was offered? The way you have taken up this case like you are Fatoyinbo himself reeks of foul dealings. Troll! Troll!
OWNwithEASE: My wife went for a blood test in 2 different labs and the result from both centers indicates She was pregnant. We did a scan but the scan did not see She was pregnant, we were then advised to do Transvaginal U/S scan. Our next appointment with the doctor is next week but She is not at peace at the moment. Pending the time we see the doctor next week, Pls any medical practitioner should explain what the statement of result mean
kennybabs1980: My director's wife is a kind hearted woman but she is too sensitive and highly inquisitive. I have known her for 5 years, that's when I started working with her husband. I'm very close to my oga and his family.
My oga is a womanizer but his wife hasn't been able to catch him red handed. The woman became so friendly with me since February 2019. she will call me on phone to just say hi, recharge my phone sometimes etc.
I have always been so sceptical about the woman's attitude of recent since I know her as a very inquisitive person.
The bubble bursted in April when I travelled with oga to Kaduna, Kano and Jigawa States for some trainings organised by our department for some cooperative livestock farmers. The wife started calling me while in Kano to ask about her husband, who stays with him in his hotel room, his visitors etc which I said to her I don't really know.
Oga actually brought his secretary which I knew he has been dating with him for the trip but of what concern is that to me? When we returned, the woman actually came to our office where she looked angrily at me, hiss at me and left without answering her greeting.
My job schedule involves sometimes working at oga's house especially when we have urgent training assignments. The woman have been sort of looking at me as someone who is also promiscuous like her hubby. Yesterday, she called me a liar and deceitful person, just because she wanted me to divulge her hubby's itinerary to her. It's possible she think I'm a small boy sha.
I'm actually planning to move some of the equipment in oga's house to mine so that I'll have less contact with the woman but I don't want my oga to know my reasons since I didn't tell him all his wife have been doing so that I don't cause wahala in their home.
How could I handle this issue brothers and sisters?
if you tell your boss what is wife is trying to do, you will get a lot of support from him, and he would understand your actions. Taking actions without letting him know whats happening would make you the loser o. The long run
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate
if you really Street-wise as you claimed, you would have dumped that cheater since. I am surprised you are asking this question.
Bro I left Naija for Canada about 3 weeks ago and almost all the Nigerians I have met here do good jobs not menial jobs, nursing, accounting, management etc. I am sure I would write my exams and move up soon by his grace.
You should consider Canada really
NIGERIA: I just left so let me update you before you rush back home and regret.
1. Kidnapping is now a very serious business in Nigeria, and you especially at risk if you just arrived the country. It's everywhere not just in the ND it's very rampant in Lagos, people lose money and sometimes their lives. I have several colleagues who fell to this recently.
2. Starting a business : Do you know how many agencies including legal and illegal ones that would come to try to milk you out of your initial profit that's supposed to make the business grow? A lost of companies are struggling to survive there because the government doesn't care. Not to mention exchange rate and importing problems(I hope you don't intend to import anything because that enough to make you regret your DECISION to move back)
3. I assume power, clean water, sanity, clean air, are some of the things you enjoy there In Germany. Are you ready to start the usual grind of buying fuel, dealing with generator noise, dealing with all the uncertainties that come withliving in Naija,
4. Are you sure you have a back up, because it seems you don't as the major earner in the family. Because if that business fails and there are a lot of reasons why it might fail, you might be trapped there in Nigeria, with little or no resources to leave again.
If I was in your shoes, I would try to migrate to another country say the UK or Canada, Australia or the US. Start a life that can sustain you so even when you go back home to invest or start a business briefly, you have things to run back to if that fails.
Yesterday, I met two Nigerians in church here who own their own pharmacies in Canada and are faring well. You can also start your business in Germany(if possible or relocate to where you can) and when its established you set a branch up in Nigeria.
I have neighbors that are regretting coming back after school and finding it really difficult. One has a masters from Italy but is currently doing a 50k govt job.
comradee1248: We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.
I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped. I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.
My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity.. She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...
The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.
I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.
My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...
What do you Suggest I do.
Thanks
you need to be careful for your life bro.
Be careful of what you eat from her.
Notice most of the ladies here are subtly supporting her, when they know the truth.
Many wen have died prematurely from their wife being tired of staying in the relationship.
Gaspardd: There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.
Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff. On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church. She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.
I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work. Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth. I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.
She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete. Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue. Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on. Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined
you did well bro. You were real. And real ladies love real men not pretenders.
I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards
She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.
The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.
My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.
Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.
Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)
To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.
I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)
I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)
I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.
I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.
How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?
bro, you are not married, yet she's busy lie in to you and fucking around, truth is you can't be sure how many other guys she's gotten down with. She said 4 times, I am happy you were smart enough to know it's definitely way more than 4 times, And when she says "only that guy" know she servicing at least one other person who catches her fancy.
Don't be deceived by her crocodile tears if you intwnd to marry her anytime soon.They only crying after being caught.
For the records, it will happen again, because that idiot cousin will keep putting pressure on her when you are away.
Lastly, one risk of this situation is that if you are not careful, you could end up fathering another man's child as your first or even second child.
I wonder why you will not be as detailed as others with your PPR script.
At least you gained from others and must have read other people's ppr script. SO what would you want people to gain from the ppr announcement you have given here.
Well... I will rate this script 1/10. Please, add more details so the score can be revised.
I wish you success in all your endeavours in Cannyland!
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Homguy(m): 5:27pm On Nov 18, 2019 
