₦airaland Forum

thelastPope: [b]Buhari was there for 20 months before. what did he achieve? He was PTF chairman for five years. What did he achieve? Can you point to the infrastructure that he spent over 100 billion naira on? Do you know what the value of 100 billion naira was between 1994 to 1999? [/b]That the man presents himself like a poor man doesnt mean he is poor. It is only an act! The only thing that will change Nigeria is action from the people to insist on good governance and accountability, not any so called messiah of a man! It is total laziness from people like you who dont want to take responsibility as Nigerians to insist on good governance that is the problem of Nigeria, not corruption. You are looking up to a 70+ years old man to come and change the country? Isnt that a big shame on you? One voice of change is what we need! Not a new person or a new party. Whatever party wins at the polls should be put under pressure to perform. Criticism based on issues is fine. Why I always call out some people on here is because they do not criticize as Nigerians. They criticize as party members.

faithuak: Need a gud,matured,responsible and caring guy 4 keep,qualification-(masters in honesty and cutebility)send ur Cv to www.____2geda happily eva afta (wink*Lol)

slimyem: concluding,assuming,specuilating,insinuating...all na use of english.I know what i see and interprete.i read in between lines and its enough to back up my submission.
There's no point making excuses here except you are purposely choosing to ignore the obvious.
This man doesn't care and his actions are loud enough to say so!!
There's no point being in a relationship if your partner(male or female) can't be or pretend to be your safety net in times of trouble especially not after four years!

coogar: a man could have worn the hijab.......
the british authorities are cowards - they have been told to ban hijabs but it seems they have no cojones to do it. france have done it - why can't britain. all forms of masks in public should be banned including hoodies, balaclavas, etc.

however, i am disappointed in the met. police!
the attack happened in dagenham, there must be hundreds of cctv around that area. they can trail her digital footprint if they want to. i have no doubt if the victim was white they would be putting more effort to catch the culprit!

slimyem: Which gun am i jumping?
Aren't you assuming too..?
..or aren't you saying maybe the lady spends beyond her means?
...or didn't you see where someone else assumed the man is saving towards marriage even though the op didn't expressly state that..?
Abeg,we are all assuming until the op comes to answer the questions..

Vikin: My guess would have been you are just making this up to balance your argument.

Then again, it's your story, believe it or not for you to remember things you do for her shows your person. There are things I don't look into while in relationship. It should come naturally, and I will never bring it up when there is an argument.

If her guy was all around MAJOR things I wonder why she will bring the trivial things like phone as an example.

thelastPope: You mean decisive action to steal 7 billion like the lagos speaker? Or decisive action to allocate lagos funds to Tinubu? Or decisive action to choose Atiku as presidential candidate?

We need the people to insist on good governance, no matter the party in power. keep the fire under their butts burning hot! You lot are just on a political campaign and everyone can see through that. You have no love for Nigeria!

Vikin: The phone is just an example to show the insensitivity of the supposed fiancé.

You may call it prudent but I call it stingy!

If my fiancé is in the OP shoe, I would have given him my own sef!

You know all these are vanity when you misplace some items or some expensive things are stolen from you.

Yes, it's good to be prudent in spending but certain things should be overlooked if you wanna live long and enjoy this life!

Vikin: The guy na stingy ko!

I dey even suspect you too @honeric!

Don't be aka gum! Learn to give out when someone needs help. It's not even about being smart...it's all about caring.

Give when you know someone needs it, this world we are just guest o!

Learn to give!

thelastPope: Change from what to what?

We need the people to stand up and insist on good governance, not change from yam to cocoyam!

slimyem: Holier than thou people too plenty for this section..and all na lie.
This man na correct aka-gum.
His type is well known.
Money for essentials go hard am because his wife is independent.
Na she go suffer am.
His money go be his own money and her money will be theirs!
If it was some random babe demanding or expecting some responsibilty,she can be thrashed for being a long throat but not a fiancee or gf of for years.
She deserves better!!

victorian: Some Empowered women here are always screaming, they don't need a man's money, they can take care of themselves, while dating.. All na lie.. For how long, will u continue to always buy things with your money without him, giving u anything.. His job is to have s3x , eat your food, smile a toothless smile, saying u r the best of them all, then dust yansh waka... Story. .. Some women should stop fooling themselves. Op , if the guy is stingy.. Pls drop him, cos u will be the only one caring for yurself, even after marriage.. Av bn in a stingy relationship before. I was carried away by love, saying but I earn my own cash, y depend on him. Few weeks to finalise our marriage plans , I asked him a simple question.. That, dear u know av never asked u for money since we have been dating and uv not given me a dime since we started dating. Lets assume, am broke during our years of marriage, will u assist me? Will u help me out? He told me , with a straight face, No I won't... I was so shocked.. I asked why? He said because I have a job, that's better than his, so why shud he give me money, if am down. Can u imagine?
I angrily told him its over between us, to he'll with his marriage plans, am out. I cried throughout that nite sha o. But
Thank God , I made that choice... Am married to another guy , who is among the best of them .. Nice, caring.. Doesn't care abt my money, and sure takes care of me ,,our home financially....
Op, he is not worth the stress..and also be very careful on how u handle yur phones.

Joey82: what can the people do?
most of the masses are also corrupt in their little ways.
they just lack the opurtunity since they aint in the corridors of power.
hw many ordinary people have had the opurtunity to serve and really came out incorruptible

jay bee: Who is odunnu?

surveyProf: Its beats my imagination as well too, because under normal circumstances, the OP is meant to choose any broker of his choice or perhaps recommended by Odiaero, fund it frm his end, and den send only login details to Odiaero for trading on his forex account, I can seems to understand while he choose to do dat, but frm online, I saw a place on myfxbook.com, where Odiaero displayed his life account statement, and was soliciting for investors like 6, i.e to contribute 30k dollars, and according to him, within 2 weeks, he will trade it up to 100k dollars, frm his fx statement, most people will tend to believe him, it takes the grace of God!

Odunnu: I havent seen it like this before.
What pains me most is that we have so many well to do personalities like Odiaero who could singlehandedly dash a friend's girlfriend not wife ooo, a car for her . Now this one that posterity will pay back for is allowed to waste and become a kidnapper.

Odunnu: Wetin is getting narrower? I am not promising anything. Very possible it wasnt an Enugu meeting. I havent said the councillor dude must know him sha, i am just saying, that his popularity in the ward would have made him come across a good number of persons.

Odunnu: The VC accepts that the reason he was expelled was as a result of his inability to pay his school fees.

Odunnu: The face is very familiar. There is this dude i would like to show the pic to, the guy is very good with faces quite unlike me and he was my ward councillor sometime back. I have tried to find his number, I no see am. I hope something takes me to his new area soon. This face is very familiar. Choii!

Odunnu: That face I repeat is very familiar. I need to really remember how or why it seems so familiar. Now I have a feeling this guy knows me in person that is why he is always choosing his words when relating with me. I cant remember him expressly insulting me even though during the Honeric/Odiaero days I made posts that should annoy him, he would leave mine or merely warn me and then hit on the next poster who suggests anything negative. I have had reason to cross paths on many posts and I always want to tell him there how i dont believe his many lies, yet he moves on.
This face is familiar.

luvmijeje: @honeric01 To me honesty is saying the truth knowing u ve alot to loose.
How many of us will say the truth knowing we have alot on the line to loose?

luvmijeje: Op u just have to forgive her and hold on to her tight.
Even if the guy slept with her,for her to have the compulsion to tell u,that means she is an honest babe.
I wish if am in her shoe I will be honest like her.

manny4life: Damp forest kwa? I see, some people like sex in the outdoor

I've had sexx everywhere and anywhere...From the theaters, parking lots, public bathroom, on the beach, everywhere and anywhere... Go hard or go home.