Wizee:
guy get a life!!

fikadodo4sure :
I received a message from the peopleplus for the invitation of a chat on 17 october. They said dress formal am I going to put on suit or is shirt and tie okay

modele2: Your challenge is very real and I chose to reply becos i have experienced a part of it(fortunately not the beating part but the part where he wants you to spend every penny you have).

First take a patience pill. A president is respected not becos of the person he is but the office he occupies. Your husbands attitude may be like po, but becos of his office as husband, still give him respect.

She'll end up patient and miserable.
1. Call him regularly, be cheerful on the phone when you call, ask him about his activities nicely and be genuinely interested, Dont NAG about money. You can ask about the household needs when you really really have to. if he refuses, let it be.
2. Thank God you have a job and make do with what you have, dont make your contributions an issue, limit your contributions to what is necessary, no fancy stuff.
3. When he comes around stop the confrontation, since he does not listen and resorts to violence. Make the house as comfortable as possible for him

Stop the confrontations, that would be dying in silence. Trust me, that's not good for the health. Think of what she'll be doing to herself.
4. Stop asking about the car, your nagging will not get it for you, as you are doing save towards one if you can and it would stop giving him reasons to annoy you, forget the car is there. He would later wonder why you are not asking and might offer it,a t least for his children school runs.
5. Another problem is the distance, he is not around and cant see how you contribute to the family upkeep, if he has any resonable bone in his body, u could do a cash book of your expenses from time to time and show him.
6. His not being around also means honestly...that u add little value to him in terms of perks of marriage, so try and make up for it when he is around.
7. Find contentment in other things, make the house a nice place for him when he returns, reduce the quarrels as much as u can, peharps he can regard you with more warmth. He would at a point look forward to comming home.
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From the look of things, there's another woman in the picture. As long as that woman is there, he might never look forward to coming home
. Look for support, raising the boys alone is not easy, get help so you can have more time for your self.
9. Then my dear, dont be tired of praying.
10. One day he would come round and you would truly begin to enjoy your marriage. One person has to conscede or play the fool in a quarrel, since it is thou that seeketh peace, then thou must play the fool.
Play the fool for how long? This is only the beginning. I'm not married yet. But take this from a child that grew up in an abusive home. Your husband doesn't beat you, hers does. There's a huge difference ma.
To the op, you can stay and pray and end up with a hpb in the nearest future, like my mom. Or you leave and still pray for him to have a change of heart. You don't know it now, but your children are watching you guys. If they're your only source of joy, then save them now.

naptu2: From the Project Fame website.

Kaffy whose real name is Kafayat Shafau is the Guinness book of world records holder and a Nigerian youth from the city of Lagos who has a great passion for setting goals and seeing them through. This has seen her become one of the most influential youth in Nigeria.

Kaffy who holds a diploma in Data Processing from Olabisi Onabanjo University Ago-Iwoye, Ogun State was involved in diverse extra-curricular activities all through her schooling; ranging from dance, sport to debate. After school, Kaffy continued to be involved in a lot of sporting activities, playing basketball for Sea Rovers in Lagos, and was at the time captain of Ogun State Basketball team and a swimming instructor.

Kaffy started dancing professionally in 2002 and from then till today, stands as a role model for a lot of youth not just in dance but through her determination, perseverance, dedication and commitment. Her personality has contributed positively to the entertainment industry.

She has performed in various capacities at countless events including the following: as coordinator of the fashion show at the launching of LORNEAMED (the producers of TURA) ; choreography coordinator at the MTN Y’ELLO SHOW choreographed by 13 artistes; coordinator of cheerleading dance performance at various programmes including the African Women’s Championships and Best of fans MTN, coordinator of the Dance Performance at Silverbird’s Rhythm Unplugged, since inception till date, Creative Director and Choreographer in the Nigerian version of High School Musical: Live on Stage (Nigeria) in 2010; Faculty Choreographer for MTN PROJECT FAME West Africa Season 3 in 2010 and at Silverbird’s 50th anniversary, performed alongside SHALAMAR; choreographer for the 2010 Hip-hop World Awards; official choreographer for the MTV base MAMA awards 2010, coordinator and choreographer of the female dancers for Psquare's Invasion Concert in 2011.

She has performed dance routines in music videos by artistes including Adewale Ayuba, Rugged Man, Lexydoo, Sunny Nneji, P-square’s “Roll it” and “Busy body” remix; and Lara George’s “Run with You”.

In addition to these, Kaffy has functioned as a Judge for various dance competitions such as:

the Always Keep Moving dance competitions in Nigeria & South Africa, Malta Guinness Street Dance AFRICA with SOULQUEST, STREETHOOD and X-FELLAS, the national champions for the2008, 2009 and 2010 seasons respectively, of the Malta GUINNESS Street Dance Africa competition.

Kaffy has also appeared as Guest speaker at various talk shows, workshops and seminars, she recently concluded shooting her fitness show, which uses dance as a medium to encourage healthy living and is titled DANCE BURNOUT WITH KAFFY.

Her most recent and remarkable feat was when she led a group of 29 Nigerians to break the GUINNESS WORLD RECORD for THE LONGEST DANCE PARTY. She and her team broke the existing record of 52 hrs 4mins at 53 hrs 40mins.

Kaffy is currently working with a group of talented individuals, who are committed to helping young people discover themselves positively to the benefit of the nation Nigeria. This group has been christened “IMAGNETO”.

She will be training budding musicians in the Project Fame Academy in choreography, dance and personal development.

tchaik: Can't u guys fuccking read? He gave you a link, and you all are still writing; "I'm interested"!

One the criteria of finding a good job is being Smart, and there aint nothing smart about posting your mail add/phone number while shouting "I'm interested"!

CLICK ON THE BLEEDING LINK DUMMIES

@OP, are you recruiting for Ecowas? Or I guess, 20% ish is a Joke?

CyberG: ibo stupidi.ty on display. Your tantrum of 1967 was treated and it won't be different today or tomorrow. A tantrum that you could not even afford after which you needed subsidy #20 pounds from Nigerian taxpayers, food, money and weapons from Nigeria and charity aid organizations. Useless ojuku run-away coward!

Godman_n: Rubbish. I would rather be a farmer than to drive truck. farming takes more brain work amd is better on the long run.

mrkels: Commence the GIS scheme'''IMMEDIATELY''', I see that helping some 20,000 unemployed graduates. So, please just do that asap ok?

Mad Cow:


Stories that Touch.. If juju no involve, man no fit stop to cheat!

Ojeilevbare: Airtel company is a stingy company, moving its cal centres from lasgidi n abuja for lack of management skills in the those states to a cheaper state like oyo. Well I no they paid there staffs in abj 78k, free medical and free transport.
Bt they wher actually paying thru recruitment agent who probably slashes the moni from 120K.

freecocoa: Which kind talk be that one? I didn't see any joke there not to talk of light

Anyways words go a long way to express how people really feel so scrap motives and intentions(whatever that means) btw never forget what someone says to you when they're angry because that's when the truth comes out .

Acidosis:

Hmm. . . very soon, He will. .

Truman155: incase he dosnt pop the question ¿i am single and ready 2 be ya rebound guy....ps just say the magic words and i wil be urs

Rotello: He will by Gods grace

agabasam: kip waiting LMAO