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FamilyRe: What Is My Duty As A Married Woman? Help! by hormodupsy(f): 5:25pm On Aug 18, 2022
This is beyond moi moi issue sister, if you love him and still want that marriage to work. Pray and see a counselor then use the gift God has given you as a woman to bring his ego down .rub his ego and show him love he will change. Trust me quote author=Lalakas post=115744014]Am not happy with my husband's utterances towards me. He unapologetically told me my duties are just 2: to give him se. X and to cook. This guy has really hurt me in this marriage, he seems not to know how to talk.

I work and equally contribute to everything. I dont hide my income and i give him for the building we are both building. I am not useless and i am not a liability to him.

How it all started :
Moimoi or beans is for every other Friday or Saturday ( moimoi could be ones in 6 weeks except my kids specially ask for it) but for a while now whenever I prepare any of the 2 he would complain, regect it. He told me he doesn't like them during the week and I will never prepare them Sunday to Thursday. Friday because he won't be going to work the following day. My kids like eating moimoi very well, infact, it is one their best meals. Atimes, they ask for it. My husband sees moimoi and beans as crap. Guys, he buys it and eat it outside!, my moimoi doesn't purge anyone of us. Even him but he'd keep saying he purges with moimoi, it's just an excuse.

It is difficult to cook 2 foods, i will not stop making moimoi or beans because of him, my kids like the meal so much. For the fact that he buys it out there and this food is what we usually enjoy together before now, i cant stop cooking it.

He has in many ways abused me, he is not someone I should even go the extra mile for, he doesnt sacrifice for me, he doesn't respect me, he doesn't stay close to me except when he wants se. X, always going out. He is very scarce at home. I can't cook 2 foods on days i cook moimoi or beans.

And for telling me my duties are just 2 in his life, I feel abused for allowing him have se. X with me all these while, i feel like a kitchen tool for cooking for him. His intentions and motives about a women are so demeaning.

I am feeling so ashamed of myself. He place no value on me.[/quote]
BusinessHow To Make Money In Hard Times by hormodupsy(op): 2:25pm On Jun 21, 2022
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PhonesRe: Apart From Yahoo, What Can I Do With My Phone And Earn A Living? by hormodupsy(f): 8:48pm On Jun 02, 2022
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Science/TechnologyRe: A Nairalander's Trap Caught A Pangolin (Pictured) by hormodupsy(f): 9:57pm On Apr 13, 2022
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Science/TechnologyRe: A Nairalander's Trap Caught A Pangolin (Pictured) by hormodupsy(f): 9:56pm On Apr 13, 2022
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CareerRe: Digital Marketing Or Data Analysis, Which Part Should I Choose? by hormodupsy(f): 1:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
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FamilyRe: I Just Found Out The Easiest Method To Keep Kids Calm For A While by hormodupsy(f): 9:25pm On Oct 11, 2021
I will surely give this a try, �
maureensylvia:
cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by hormodupsy(f): 3:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
You're not supposed to be here seeking advice, pls go talk to a marriage counselor. You can also do that online, there's a solution to every problem
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 19th September 2021 by hormodupsy(f): 5:50pm On Sep 19, 2021
Pls how do I post a topic here, a child is Missing and I want to post it so people can help pls�
HealthRe: Help!! My Scalp Is Folding And Getting Heavy by hormodupsy(f): 3:59pm On Sep 06, 2021
See medical help o, this is common with men
CrimeRe: How I Was Gang Raped By 10 Touts - Lady (Photo) by hormodupsy(f): 10:34pm On Mar 27, 2021
Awon oloriburuku,won ti ba ile oba je
judgementyard:
So sorry,karma will catch up with them.
Trust me.
FamilyRe: Man Divorces Wife And Marries The Maid In Zambia (Photos) by hormodupsy(f): 10:14pm On Feb 25, 2021
Abi oti je efo?quote author=Fahdiga post=99418490]He has tasted the maid and found out she is sweeter than the wife[/quote]
FamilyRe: Man Divorces Wife And Marries The Maid In Zambia (Photos) by hormodupsy(f): 10:14pm On Feb 25, 2021
Abi oti he efo?quote author=Fahdiga post=99418490]He has tasted the maid and found out she is sweeter than the wife[/quote]
EducationRe: Delta State Polytechnic Bans Students From Driving Cars On Campus (Photo) by hormodupsy(f): 10:18pm On Feb 10, 2021
Don’t you know that even common sense isn’t so common as we think �
Ottyn01:
So myopic reasoning angry Instead of banning them from driving cars inside the school, the management should utilize the opportunity and build a car park, place security there and collect parking fee of #100 or #200 thereby creating revenue for the institution.
RomanceRe: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by hormodupsy(f): 10:48pm On Jan 09, 2021
You must be kidding me,wtf
PoliticsRe: Atiku To FG: Halt All Flights To And From The UK by hormodupsy(f): 9:52pm On Dec 20, 2020
They will not hear now o, ati kowo je ni won ma maa wa
Amotolongbo:
Our President doesn’t and will never hear!

Until the cabals and their people in UK travels back home, that is when they will dim it fit to signal to FAAN to halt the movement between UK and Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Buhari At 78: Fayose Faults Lawan's Call For Nigerians To Stand With Buhari by hormodupsy(f): 5:17pm On Dec 17, 2020
Leg dey pain me sef, I no fit stand � radarada
Naijasageblog:
I'll rather sit my arss down
SportsRe: Ronaldo's Sister Posts Photo Of Messi Kneeling At Her Brother's Feet by hormodupsy(f): 1:55pm On Dec 10, 2020
Another crazy human being just like lekan�
osamz007:
paulolee won't like this
PhonesRe: What Happened To These Popular Phone Brands? by hormodupsy(f): 6:37pm On Dec 09, 2020
Seems like revolution happened
Buzx:
They couldn't keep up with the trend.
RomanceRe: What Life Lesson(s) Did You Learn From Your Previous Relationships? by hormodupsy(f): 10:46pm On Dec 07, 2020
Don’t be a slave to your emotions!
Gentle0wavez:
Lol.
I can't lie. I gained NOTHING from my last relationship.
FamilyRe: A Man Died, Buried, Appeared In Another Land Where Nobody Knows Him by hormodupsy(f): 9:50pm On Dec 05, 2020
I remembered when my dad died, someone came to our house to tell us he saw him in another state. We were shocked but didn’t believe it
LegendAnselm:
A man died. Buried.appeared in another land where nobody knows him. Start a new life. Got married. Have kids.get a job.

Have u seen or heard such happened...
A woman just came to our house yesterday claiming to be my brother wife with children.
FamilyRe: A Man Died, Buried, Appeared In Another Land Where Nobody Knows Him by hormodupsy(f): 9:49pm On Dec 05, 2020
I remembered when my dad died, someone came to our to tell us he saw him in another state. We were shocked but didn’t believe it
LegendAnselm:
A man died. Buried.appeared in another land where nobody knows him. Start a new life. Got married. Have kids.get a job.

Have u seen or heard such happened...
A woman just came to our house yesterday claiming to be my brother wife with children.
RomanceRe: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by hormodupsy(f): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
No matter how the relationship ended, try and and find peace within yourself by holding on to the positive side and move on.
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
SportsRe: Osaze Odemwingie: Amara, Kanu Nwankwo's Wife Chasing Me In My DM by hormodupsy(f): 11:48am On Dec 02, 2020
This guy has something going on with him, he even said Peter of Psquare song led him to Christ. Abeg when did peter start singing Holy Spirit songs?

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