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Seun made alot of sense.

This guy is paying her off. So that when the calabash opens, he will be able to say "what about all that money i gave you". "go and find another man with it, get married and get kids, just like me and my wife", "Get some cloths and get over the fact that i will no longer be seeing you", "Use the money to buy those drugs that won't make you die early because you are HIV positive".

Ehhhhhh, tell your friend to fashy this guy. Come on now, this is plain and simple. Stash of cash after every night of passion. EVERY is key word oo,

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She's kind of cute too,  lol, but she has huge ears. No hair to hide them now, ha!! I bet she didn't think about that. Okay okay, just kidding.

@ euphoria, i understand, but people should allow them jare.

Okay i think im different.

I always put bra first now that i think of it.

My vagina needs fresh air while i get dressed dammit! I mostly get the top part of my body done before i move further down. Same with applying lotion.

It's always the bra first,

People are funny shaaa, But anyways.

Lingerie is a female 'undergarments'/underwear, but it's designed to be visually appealing or erotic, almost always made of materials such as lace and silk, and not basic cotton undergarments. Like "underwear".

Lingerie is an 'underwear' because, well uhmm, you can wear it under a 'wear', but it'll be more appropriate if you dnt wear it under any clothing. lol

Soo is there a difference between Underwear and lingerie, ehhh, welll, YES and NO. Actually NO. Well, YES.

Okay on a more serious note. Yes there's a difference. And that's the cotton and Lace thingy. You know wat, any sexy looking thing is a lingerie, any basic panty, like the ones you wear when on your period, or your boy shorts are underwear.

Well you said naija Fashion, So i guess they are in.

Dnt get me wrong now,

Lip gloss anywhere anytime,

First reply to question: Yes

After thinking and thinking, and thinking, and remembering things in my life up till this moment, and remembering the streets of naija, and remembering primary school, and remembering garri and kuli kuli, and remembering pure water, and amala, and ewedu, and rice and beans and indomie, and carry bucket on my head to fetch water, and remembering NEPA, and remembering Reciting "national anthem every morning", and remembering "Ass whooping", and remembering basically everything, and thinking and thinking DEEEEEEEP!!!!!! You know what?? The answer is STILL YES!!! Yes i would like to be born again as a Nigerian.

Is there's Naijamometer?? I need to measure my Nigerianness oo,

I really don't know jare. But i know that I rep Naija all the time! Not ashamed to say im nigerian.

I really need that naijamometer, How Nigerian am I?

I won't lie to you, dat naija attitude is always in me. I might not Act "it" all the time, But it is sitting somewhere, jejely and peacefully.

I'll be writing my essays, and guess what?? I have three exams on the week school resumes, and i have 3 papers due on that same week,

I know uhnnn, I'll be having a lot of FUN!! yay me, NOT!

Interesting Thread. Funny how i actually read all 12 pages. Call me jobless and i won't argue.

*sighs*.
Noo i didn't waste my time, i actually learnt alot. And from i've read. . . . .  Majority of everyone on here were just going on and on, and this whole shirime could have stopped on page 4.

But anyways  im not here to analyze the thread, so my 2 cents is that we are all entitled to our own opinion.

Do i think premarital is fornication?? Ehhh, let's not start over. Maybe some other time. lol.

a good laugh is necessary once in a while.

lol, You guys are hilarious.

Nollywood is Located at 51 Iweka road Onitsha

There's another Nollywood at 1/6 pound road aba.

There's another one at Idumota lagos.

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Okay okay not to mislead you.

There's no "nollywood" in NIgeria. Naija cutie explained it all.

cute-ass:
I personally do not agree with the fact of poverty and religion going hand in hand. To begin with, the white man who introduced religion to Nigeria are not by any means poor.,by the way there are lots of rich/wealthy people in Nigeria who are very religious, so
Some white people left their butter and bread countries and are in Nigeria(africa) because of religious and missionary works , so what's their excuse
I live in europe and i won't say i'm living from hand to mouth and i love GOD more than anything, why is that
The fact that Nigeria might be the most religious country is just a coincidence and has nothing to do with poverty or circumstance or is it so difficult to believe people just want to serve/worship God and the majority happens to lie in Nigeria

makes sense.

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I also dont think poverty and religion go hand in hand when it comes to Nigeria's case. Don't get me wrong now, You could have an argument there, and be on some levels absolutley right. But I think That Religion in Nigeria is more of a cultural thing.

It's just a way of living if i might say. We are Religious people in Nigeria. It's not just about christianity or islam, it's just who we are, thats how it has been, and thats probably how it'll continue to be.

I don't have any kids, but i believe that parents/adults/guardians/whatever, should be able to tell kids the truth about "gay people". Don't twist it arround, don't lie and don't by any means call Gay people devils/angels when explaining to them. Give them some space to make their own decision about gay people as they grow up.

Dont get me wrong oo. Tell them about gay people, And then, tell them that "But, honey, because we are christians, we don't believe it's right to be gay" Or something of that nature.
Dont go all "Gay people are the people that will die and burn in hell like suya in fire". --- now that there, is just WRONG.

I said this because, i know it's mostly  people who believe that Homosexuality is wrong that would have problem explaining to their kids what homosexuality is.

There was this boy i know that used to say everything was gay. His favorite phrase was "that is so gay".
I got sooo mad one day, and  i told him that THINGS are not Gay, some people are gay, so stop saying everything is gay dammit.
you should know where that led to. haaa yes,  "so who are the gay people, how do you know them? are you gay"?
My reply: Shey you see ehn, go and meet mummy, she's sitting right there.

Omo alakoba. Ofe da mi si free ko yo chalk lese mi, Haa!

If im not close to a child, i dnt think i will answer that question.
Infact ehn, even if im close, i won't answer the question, i will rather direct the kid back to his/her parents because their beliefs might be different from mine, and i wouldn't want any woman removing her head-tie to punch me in the face.

If i grow up and i happen to have a child who wants to know about gays. Well, i would tell s/he what gay people are (not in complete details of course), and i would tell him/her that as s/he grows up, s/he would understand it more.
"honey, it's just like math, you don't understand some part of math right now, as you grow you learn more". After saying that, i will sigh and drink a glass of water. Kids!!

Kids are amazing if i might add. One answer might lead to many other questions. Parents who are in the position to answer these kind of questions would need divine help from wherever they can get it.

i wont call it publicity stunt because she was already all over the media.

I think it's what she wants. And she should go ahead and do watever she wants.

The media is making too much a deal out of this. Allow the girl to live her life!

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SHAME ON ALL OF YOU.

VANILLA IS THE WAY TO GOO!!!!!!!!!!

I just wish she came back and told us what happened.

I dnt like when people dnt give feedbacks.

I love nayo's african girl. The video was a good one too.

"the bridesmaid" was on DVD and it was an amazing picture. besides the movie is a pretty good one too.

Moderator says, "but that's not HD. The topic is about HD".

superman:
all yall fake SUCKER-____KERS OUT THERE AT ONE POINT NOLLYWOOD IS BAD at the point nollywood is


nonesense

NO TIME FOR GHANA MUST GO!

GOD BLESS NIGERIA

uhmm u quoted me but i dont understand what you are saying.

AMen my bro. God bless Nigeria.

wat do we click to download??

Im telling you, most of the movies that win oscars, are not even movies people WATCH!!!

This year's oscars isn't gonna be an different. I don't wanna bet on anything, but you just wait and watch. You'll be surprised.

Thanks girls. Im glad some people feel me.

And ohh yes girl, i remember. i just dnt remember which one the x830 is. lemme check online. . . . . . . ohh okay that one, gorgeous!!!!!!

Good advice eurphoria. This topic might interest you: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-39258.0.html

I Didn't come up with this, but i agree 98% with what is written in here.
After reading, feel free to tell me what you think. :-)

And uhmm,  READ IT!!! It's not TOO LONG. :-P
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"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person YOU can control in a relationship is YOU.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are,  even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a human being, and he has flaws just like you.

Never let a man define who you are. Never compete for a man, if he really wanted only you then there would be no competition,  nothing will make him blind to the fact that you're the one for him.
Never borrow someone else's man, another girl might just want to borrow yours and well, don't we all just know how that may turn out.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. Some of them, a VERY VERY few will treat you good
A good Brother comes in all shapes sizes,  Stop being picky and accept what God gives you because it may be what you NEED, maybe not what you WANT.
Romance is not always "game"
You should not be the one doing all the bending,  compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage,  deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You wont be doing any favours, you may end up losing a very great person.
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals that should complement eachother to perfection, not supplement.


Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Never settle for Mr.Right Now, except you're in it for game/quickie
Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Doesnt mean you should go 'all the way' with the 'others' tho. Use your your brain,  be tactical
Share this with other ladies,  You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget"

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From me: After reading this, i concluded that, i might have been at one point guilty of doing some things, but the most important thing is learning from your mistakes. I've learnt from mine, and i know that most of you can too.

So don't bite yourself, if this note seems to be talking about you, you can always change your ways. And always remember NEVER to settle for LESS. Patience is a virtue ladies.