₦airaland Forum

did anyone watch JEM and the Holograms from d 80s. . . only a couple of seasons were ever made but i cldnt get enough of it 

I got a call frm my oldest and bestest friend. . . she's gettin married in april

plus i did some intensive cleaning, that always lifts my spirit

various. . . but my one staple is mac primer and studio fix!

revlon foundation sumtimes, usually mac

i'm loving sleek eyes shadows at d moment

max factor mascara

lipfinity lipstic for those wild nights and at other times, loreal glamsine lip colour

absolute lip gloss

I see no problem with it, i do so sometimes

entertainment

theres nuthin u can do bruv, let it go and what will be will be

the last time i checked, it was pple who liked themselves alot that went d extra mile to make themselves look good.

how does spending shitloads of cash to glam up translate to doing urself grievious harm?

savanaha:
I agree with the giving up of the wig weave perm thingy. Most black women know this but will never admit to the fact that they do it to look more caucasian (acceptable). Some claim their hair is too rough, tough and unmanageable others claim it is cute. Why can't being your natural self be cute? It has so long been embedded that some of us can't break from the pretty hair: ugly hair spell. Others think that being natural means only wearing an afro but actually there are more natural hair styles than can be worn with weaves and perms. When I went back to school with my new natural do everyone said it was amazing but as soon as I said you can do it too. "Oh only someone like you can pull it off. . . blah blah. I enjoy being me and not being ashamed of my natural being. I haven't worn an afro yet but I know people are dying for when I will debut it. Anyways my point is going natural does not stop with afros and like India Arie said "I am not my hair."

what d hell r u on about?

some ppl actually like weaves, not becos they hate themselves or r tryin to be acceptable. . .  they just simply like the look,  a concept some people here dont seem to understand

how do these pple come up with all these ideas sef

chika98:
Sasha fierce! Get it chic!

not my kinda music but i get d sentiment


[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125290#msg3125290 date=1227407824]Prove it.[/quote]lol. . . i'm not going to post a pic of my humps on NL

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125277#msg3125277 date=1227407582]Not for a randy geek.
He won't be doing it because you don't satisfy him. . . . He would be doing it just to experiment.
Hubby ain't seeking pleasure but his wild curiousity.

VIAGRA!! [/quote]he womt bee curious about no white hoochie's booty, not with what i'm packing

chika98:
I can see someone is THAT good.

i dont like to blow my own trumpet  

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125260#msg3125260 date=1227407300]Keep deceiving yourself.
U would be astounded when your caucasian baby-sitter is 4 months preggers and the baby belongs to your hubby. [/quote]havnt u ever heard d saying once u go black. . . ?

dude is going to be too worn out to do anything to anyone else when i am done with him  

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125243#msg3125243 date=1227407022]Playas r better husbands(they have been there, done that).
As soon as a geek tastes the forbidden fruit, be rest assured he would shag everything in skirt in your neighbourhood.
Don't be caught out.[/quote]thats d idea. . . d only diff being i'll hav a diff skirt on every day  

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125190#msg3125190 date=1227406013]U really have to believe me.[/quote]HA! not in ur life mista

Women are funny animals.
U don't want a playa, u don't want a virgin.
So what in the name of zeus do u want??

playas r fun for playtime. . .
virgins r better husbands, pref a geek

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125154#msg3125154 date=1227405462]Cheese n Rice. . . . . .I am not a PLAYA.
I can send ma CV if u gimme ur e-mail details.
Guess what?? I am the last Naija male virgin. . . . .What else do u want??[/quote]
_{*** chocking at the blatant falsehood***}
Whaaaaaaaaaat?!!!!
https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=198996.msg3125109#msg3125109 date=1227404927]hmmmm, naughty side, you say?

I think I like my innocent side. Ear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil [/quote]u sure about that babes?  

tope2000:
HR
Abeg do your thang

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=198996.msg3125066#msg3125066 date=1227404431]Nah, I understand. Just not my cup of tea.
I understand about being with a man you loved and who knew so much about you. . . .and then weariness of introducing same love and understanding to another man.
But I just don't see the point of being a FWB r/ship with him.
Talk to him. . . .don't seen him. That's it.[/quote]true, we actually didnt for like 4 yrs but i hav a very naughty side that rears its head when i get bored   so u cld say that is entirely my fault.

i hav no prob fallin inlove with another man, they just hav really large shoes to fill thats all

chika98:
That term is subjective oo

subject to what? we hav somehow gone past all inhibitions with each other so it makes it ideal, complete trust and understanding, total openess and lack of shame or embarrassment. my ideal friendship really


[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3125054#msg3125054 date=1227404269]In a lay man's term. . . . . . .When u guys are single, u hook up and shag each other's brainz out.
When one of y'all or both are in a relationship, y'all are casual friends.
Thatz a very comfortable arrangement.[/quote]not quite, ther other things involved. . .  but for ur sake, we'll accept that ans

chika98:
Ok. I thought as much. I hope you lot will stop being friends when you get married because this "friendship" ain't a real one. Not that i believe in men and women being friends anyways.

it is real  

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=198996.msg3125017#msg3125017 date=1227403783]So, what you're saying is, if you're both single you can't be friends because he might try to get you in his bed.

But once you're both dating or one of you is dating, you can be friends. hmm[/quote]u're getting it all wrong. . . we r best friends first and anything else second.

when we r single and bored and hav nothin better to do we reintroduce d complications that remond us why our relationships were crappy and then stop!  

[size=5pt]
i dont really expect any of u to understand[/size]

DavidDylan:
huh?

ur idea of marriage get k-leg.

i make my own rules. . . esp as d conventional ones arent working out so well for alot of pple  

chika98:
I just like to ask questions. Sorry

So basically. . friends with benefits then huh??

lol. . . thats ok, its what mkes u u innit

friends with benefits. . . only when we r both single. . . he is seeing someone now so we r just friends again

DavidDylan:
it has nothing to do with being a man or a kid. If i were married to you and my ex was my best mate whom i spent friday nights clubbing with, would you be woman enough to deal with it?

yup, cuz i'd make her my best friend too and be out ther clubbing with u guys. . .  ther r other ways to handle thses things u knw?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=198996.msg3124974#msg3124974 date=1227403170]Ya Ex is ur best friend because u are PROBABLY single or u guys still SHAG behind the curtains.
How can anyone's Ex be her best friend?
Cheese n Rice!!![/quote]just becos u cant handle it doesnt mean others cant as well

chika98:
LMAO! How does that work? because i really don't get it

this is becoming a  habit with u oh. . .  

anyways, to ans ur question, we met when his friend recruited him to help get into my pants, they didnt suceed, we became friends, then dated, broke up and made up a number of times, finally accepted that we were lousy in a relationship, so cut all d crap and kept all d fun. . .  10yrs summarized neatly in 3 lines