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eldee:
So love conquers errthing but not 'survival instinct'?
Those ones know the type of girls they ask out
We're talking bout the sensible poor man, not touts

Like I said, love is over-rated. . .

the survival instinct kicks in when we love one person and not the other.

A girl who is comfortable with her life and has no great desire for wealth will find it easy to love a poor man

A girl who has a hard life and is despreate for some financial security will equally find it easy to love ant guy who offers her that.

Greed aside, its human nature that we attracted to that which we desire

eldee:
C'mon there is no poor guy that sits at home watching TV . . .

How wld you then classify those who hang around the streets waiting for handouts and free money

eldee:
As Stillwater said 'A woman sells herself for the comfort of herself which always empowered by the greed of her own heart'

Not greed (in many cases anyways)

like david said, its the survival instinct

eldee:
Good point, can we then authoritatively say 'Love conquereth all things' is fallacious?

Or agree that the poor girl has no space in her heart for genuine love?
Yes ooh . . . the ladder goes up, till she finally meets Bill Gates

I'm inclined to disagree,

there are people who believe in the idea of love and would brave any challenges in its name. . .

the poor girl may have space for genuine love but the pressures of a life full of hardships will take priroity over whatever fanstasies she has.

eldee:
@HR
Why can't she grow to love the poor guy?

Poverty brings with ot frustrations and resentments. . . its just human nature,

its extremely difficult for love to grow and be nutured in that kind of environment

Hannibal:
No woman would set out to date a poor boy. . . . . If u believe in that nonsense, u are toast!!!

Point!

Love is over-rated!

If she find someone who cares for her and treat her well, plus all the material benefits

she can grow to love him and actually mean it.

I think she's just very attached to him. . .

when u've been in a realtionship with someone for a while, u get comfortable and very attached to that person

she just isnt ready to face life without him, even tho the feelings are no longer there

1) "That looks cute."

I don't like to use the word cute, i like to say hot!

2) "We need to talk."

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This is a sure sign I'm in the mood for a fight or I want to break-up. . .  . he should be scared! 

3) "It's just a game."

no its not just a game, growing up in a male dominated environment has thought me this.  I have learnt to use this to my advantage 

4) "Nothing's wrong."

Trust me, you really don't want to know whats wrong, so drop it! 

5) "I sound like my mom."

my mum's hot so u better be glad i sound like her 

6) "I just want to be friends."

I really just want to be friends. If i didnt like you, I'd tell u to f*ck off!

7) "Size doesn't matter."

Size does matter honey! If you werent big enough, I wldnt be with you!

8 ) "What are you wearing?"

Just checking so you dont embarras me

9) "Do you think she's pretty?"

I probbaly think she's hot too

10) "Which outfit do you like better?"

I'm dressing up for you, the least u cld do was offer an opinion

Abeg, who uses words like "ROMANCING" in this day and age?

I want everything

StephenP:
You ladies are talking like you don't love the excitement that comes with a "bad" boy.

Like i said,

when they are 12

Dakore:
there are some good girls with low self esteem and confidence issues. those are the kinds that like "bad" guys, apart from the hoochies and ghetto ratesses of course.

tell them oh  

Uche2nna:
Of course it works!!! The only difference is in the type of prey it attracts!!!


_{Someone would lose it again after reading this}  

Exactly. . . u'd only attract hoochies with major confidence issues

syren:
Wow! that actually works  
What ever happened to making her feel a little special, that doesn't make you look insecure.

Abeg help me ask them oh. . .

later they will come on Nairaland and start asking stupid questions

davidylan:
ah is that it? I've seen that in multitudes of "good boys". Good boys are not timid mice, they are confident and have self assured images too. they just tend to be more tactful and know how to treat a woman how she shld be treated. Too bad if the woman is too dull to realise the difference between a man who genuinely seeks out for her interest and one who is solely out to satisfy the three most important people in his life: i, me and myself.

Honey u can approach me anytime   https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/11.gif

Hannibal:
Bad boy is not sagging pants, starter caps, doo rags, baggy jeans and bandanas.
You don't have to put a stick of cigarette in your ears to be a bad boy. . . .  .Bad boy swagger comes with the attitude n the aura.
No swear words but a bad boy is acting like. . . . .Well, ma life doesnt depend on this union.
Body message reads: If u like me. . . . .Fyne, If u don't like me(Bleep You). . . . .There are many pebbles on the beach.

I suppose i see how that cld work for some. . .  

but i def wont be interested, its either all BS or u just lookin for a quick shag _{(in that case all u have to do is ask nicely  )}

Dakore:
uche!! why please don't listen to these hoodrats.

Hoodrats is the word!

Hannibal:
It works for most and it has not failed me yet . . . . . . .
One thing u guys don't understand is a beatiful woman gets pleasantries from loser guys all the time.
"I like your eyes", "I like your face", "I like your legs" and reh reh reh. . . . .They have been hearing this same statement since age 13 so its boring.
When u have a go at em with the same bullshit. . . . . . .They see u as one of those. . . .
Now, if u go with something she hasn't seen before(not overly rude, not overly polite). . . . You are bound to spark an interest in her.
Thats the main secret. . . . . .even if she's engaged, she would give an arm to keep u as a friend.
End of.

U got the right idea there babes

but drop all that bad boy crap, it just doesnt fly

Stephen Honey

An advise from mama, U dont have to be a bad boy to exude confidence

debosky:
@ Yoko

What is your weakness then? dressing up like a roll of Sushi?

Yoko? is that all u cld come up with?  

No need to dress up babes. . .  your birthday suit will do just fine  

StephenP:
It is no secret to us that you women love bad boys, yet you women deny, deny, deny.

Maybe when i was 12  

the fascination with bad boys comes with inexperience

my taste for bad boys ended when i realised they were all full of BS

a guy with the confidence to approach me straight up is a huge turn on

davidylan:
Abeg someone should explain this "bad boy attitude" to me again? Does it mean hopping on one leg (aka bouncing), tying du rags under a cap, dressed in sagging pants, using words like WTF, acting like you havent got a care in the world even though you still owe child support, being rude and arrogant?

What really is it? I'm willing to learn.

dont go and learn rubbish oh

debosky:
definitely won't work on a 20 stone female yokozuna like yourself - only dressing up like a big mac can catch her attention

not necessarily _{(i know i you're trying to bait me)}

a woman with any confidence will not fall for all that bad boy crap. . .

@ post

I like a guy who can spark my interest, . .  use ur imagination!

I HATE GAMES! I only play striaght up  

StephenP:
well now to answer the question, if I'm about to approach a lady I like, I automatically turn on my bad boy attitude. Walk up to her, a little teasing here and there, flirt around with her, whisper some sweet nothings and then wander off (where she can see though) and talk to other females. Now she's wondering if I'm thinking of her and by doing that she's thinking of me. After a while, I go back to her and talk to her again, get her number. Then I call her later that night and briefly chat with her and make her feel me and what not. Then I won't call her again for 2 straight days just so that she really missed me and I apologize and schedule a "make-up" date.

lol. . .  what kind of girls are u approaching? 12 yr olds?

dude, u impress me less and less every day  

@ topic

I am a drama queen 

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