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with all sense of honesty.I am a virgin ,25years and I am not not hiding anything.I just hate premarital sex.I find it very disguisting.The way people are flaunting it ,is really irritating me.I just feel ,I will find it more irritating marrying a girl,that has had sex before,especially because of the countless partners she might have had.Even if she has had just a guy,the frequency of their sex/love making,would br disguisting in my mind's eye.

u have nothing to worry about, those girls also find u disgusting!

Kashif:
@poster,

I think you need a re-orientation. You might be misled. Just being candid.

I agree

Try dating sites

,,,,,,,,,,, and all men are filthy degenerate pigs!
its all balanced out, dont u think?

why is there such antagonism towards sex? why is it treated like it is such a horrible thing
sex was meant to be enjoyed
and if two consenting adults decide to partake of such pleasures
why should cheapness be assigned to one person and not the other?

@ danity
I agree with u, nigerian men are conditioned by our society to be filthy arrogant bastards

(forgive me guys but u have to agree )

so whats this?
u and sly an item now?
because of gist?
ganging up with man against a sista?
na wa o

@ danity

LOL,,, gist sucker  

like said, aint going no where  

[quote author=®~^Sly^~® link=topic=122732.msg2099595#msg2099595 date=1206664755]Cool. . .


Arrrrrhhh Danity. . .see this one again? [/quote]cant get rid of me that easy baby

i'm definately not going anywhere

this i need to see

Its called womens liberation asshole
the freedom to make choices and decisions for themselves
freedom from the double standards of a male oriented world
its the recognition of the fact that they have wonderful minds and every right to use it
men like u quite frankly are disgusting

3 times a year??meen you r trying o i can do once in summer and 2 weeks for xmas , if you thought of the risks thats another post  entirely
why s your bro refusing to go,happens if he s had some bad experience with some people while in naij, i was like that too first 3 years in uk i even moved out of london before one of my step mums came and tracked me down and i spoke to my dad for the first time in like a year plus, thats when he started to like some some heavy words that kind of got me a little scared, you know how naija parents use emotional blackmail

LOL,,, I know its silly but there is always sumthin that pulls me but to be honest my mum always plays the emotional blackmail. it juts seems i'm spending all my money on plane tickets, 

i meant my bro is is nigeria and refusing to leave home, he's like my mums husband now.
he rejected a work placement last year because "he didnt want to leave mum on her own"
to get him to travel outside lagos is hard not to talk of out of the country( the only way that'd happen is if they were going together),,, its cute really. he handles all her business for her and is her driver whenever her staff is on holiday.

I think he's secretly trying to make up for the number of times he made her cry or sick with worry (by the way that was how my mum disciplined us, she use to beat us silly till we turned 16, then she changed tactics and would cry like we have killed someone - the guilt was very effective! )

ok u guys dont laugh but these never fail to get the water works going

- pocahontas
- The lion king
- bambi

also
- Gone with the wind
- the passion

lucabrasi:
@Hr.hotness
if it was the other way round as in my mum being the only one raising me,for one ill never agree to leave naija cause i was having so much fun lol
you gys ll prolly end up being closer with your mum now plus she ll miss you like so much netime you r not around, my dad s like the opposite of before now as in calling often and checking up and all that caring stuffs, one can only thank GOD for our lives especially when you see how some people turned out

I know oh
me and my mum are like pals now, the way we carry on u'd think Nigeria was at my backyard. we talk on the phone everyday and I'm in Nigeria at least 3 times a yr, i always have an open ticket incase i feel like going home,,,
as for my bro, he is refusing to go anywhere!
I can't stop thanking God for my life, just thinkin of the sensless risks we took in the name of having fun

So that Sly has still not confessed,,,,
this is getting very suspicious!

@ Lucabrasi
I knw what u mean, my mum raised my brother and I on her own
u wont believe the things we got up to but its all good now.

the problem is with Kennis Music,,,,
those guys are clueless, they need to get out of the game and allow young people who knw whats up to handle business
think about it, all the artistes handled by Kennis have crappy videos

U've asked pple to tell yet u are not willing to share,,,
u are not a serious person oh

@ lucabrasi
u r off the hook, u got up to the usual things

as for sly I'm beginning to suspect he slept thru secondary school and did absolutely nothin

don't worry sly its nothin to be ashamed of

what r u afraid of ?

finally sum dirt  
We never did drugs as well, We got drunk, smoked weed (ok so we didn't do hard drugs) I did hear about orgies not sure how authentic the tales were since i never got involved.
We were kicked out after SSCEs becos we were having so much fun and didn't want to go home yet, the principal had to get security to throw us out of the hostels,,,,, LOL

Mr Sly I dare U to share sum of ur skeletons

Gawd I loved Secondary Sch,
I went to a mixed boarding sch, it was sooo Soap Opera
U name it, we did it!
there was drama, fights, scandal, gossip and yes, sex! we even had the odd suicide attempt or two
girls and boys equally climbed the fences to go partying and get into mischief, I'm surprised we able to fit in any studying

@ Sly and lucabrasi
you guys shld spill, I'm sure whatever u guys got into will be nothing new

and what r your plans for the unfortunate lady?
and why is it so important that she bakes?

LMAO
i'm soooo sorry but its funny!

Try the special K diet,
works for me when i need to drop a dress size,
u have to be good tho, no snacking, lots of water and nothin after 8pm
coupled with ur work out, it should be effective
the down side is u get sick of cereal real quick

Or a more drastic measure, the cabbage soup diet, really hard but for a quick fix, the results are amazing
goodluck