some people need to get a room...

kulyie: i am a lady,not a man lol

sorry oo my sister lol.. *noted*

Odenigbo Aroli.:


So, are you telling us those qualities listed up there are for proud women and not for confident women?

Is that what my post implies? the qualities that you personally have described denote the qualities of a proud woman and not a confident one, reason why we've had this argument in the first place.

speaking to some of you is like talking to a brick wall.

kulyie: abi o.i wonder the way some men think sef.so if a woman cannot be free and confident around her husand or in her home,where else will she be.confidence has a way of bringing about freedom.i will take myself as an example,i am confident when i am at home with my father,so does it mean that because i am confident with my father i disrespect him.my father can dress and i will tell him daddy go and change your outfit na,the colour doesnt match or it doesnt look good on you,whenever he changes it i say ehen,thats my daddy,i am proud of you.so does that make me disrespectful and ill mannered as opposed to when i see something wrong about my parents outfit i cannot correct them in respect and love.infact sometimes my dad wears his cap facing the front and i turn it to the side,like ha daddy dont you want people to be saying my daddy looks like a twenty something year old boy and i respectfully adjust his cap,does that make me saucy as opposed to the fact that i wont have the effontery to look at my father in the face talkless of adjusting his cap or spraying perfume for him

Thank you oo my brother your nigerian brothers here think confidence equates to being disrespectful, it seems they want a piece of meat as a wife.. i don taya self!!

Odenigbo Aroli.:


Being confident (read the original post again) no need to follow your shallow logic. Una dey find person wey una go control, and if we talk you will go all emotional and say they want to make you a foot mat, so you want to make your husband a foot mat before? read the original post again or I will be froced to break it down for you one point after the other.

You are off the mark completely, you fail to reason and understand the logic behind a "confident woman"

What you describe is a proud woman totally different from a confident one.

Na wa oo so this is how men are reasoning?

Odenigbo Aroli.:


There you go with the slave line again, why? There is only one definition for confidence, and it does not work well in a married relationship. There is no way a woman will be confident and be submissive at the same time..... its like eating your cake and having it right back. Foe a woman to be confident, she must have to move ahead of her husband most of the time, and the man must be made to look like a houseboy.

I'm actually shocked at the fact you said being confident does not work well within a marriage? For real??

What then is the point of a marriage if a woman can't be confident in herself and her husband knowing that he will make the right decisions?? So woman being confident means her husband has been reduced to a houseboy? Your assertions are weak at best and beer parlour gist. You need a door mat as a wife!

Soso990240: na dis song mk my neighbour wan kill him wife..cee beatin dat day.

Your neighbour is a beast, he doesn't deserve a confident woman talk less of a wife! Mtcheewww

Odenigbo Aroli.:


Yes they rock outside the home, but inside the house, beware. She will love to be on equal terms with her husband on most things, be above the man on some few things and will run her inlaws out of the house because she is confident she can do that and more.

That's not true at all, i don't think you understand the term "confident" woman. She has her values and will not be put down by anyone, doesn't mean she wont submit to her husband. Seems you want a slave as a wife...

It is well

Who run the world? Girls

Confident women rock! Know what you want and be who you are!

Hmmm brb you are a gentleman, hope you're treating your woman the same way?

Nice ASSets

gree-die:


i wish u luck........ u ll need it

Lol

Photoshopped. Stupid people

Lmao photoshop!

HQ:

One of the reasons I can't stay away from home for six months straight.

6 months ke? Thats like a year in my eyes, nothing short of 2 weeks lol

Where is Mary the mother of .jesus?? She's a real inspiration

I don't know all these women on the list but i love me some Asa, omotola i see you!

My mum is beautiful and never fails in the cooking department, my daddy made a good choice when he chose me mother!

shakara4u:

thats the ponit,gutter children..so quick to insult



no wonder,check her butts too...them d use body magic these days

See this one oo, pervert of the highest order!

joeydozzy:

I tell ya. some make it their priority sef
wouldn't believe in a sec if 190 actually has a nun for a girlfriend much less a hottie

Its even sad self, is it really that bad? Choi

xynerise:
Well, no be your fault. . *removes a piece of mattress in her bra* No wonder they are huge

*grabs a piece of rock and throws it on his triangle face* your matter no be small thing oo its not your fault

35*2

shakara4u:

another pikin on the loose,you wanna see my face?

_{*konks her hard*}

Please keep your face to your key board oo i don't want nepa to take light because of your dry face!

Wow! Kate henshaw looks gorgeous. Tuface baba i see you, annie you are a dime piece! Gorgeous!! i hope this marriage lasts oo

xynerise:
Are you a hungry Imbeci.le?

You be winch abi winzard? I beg park well jor

shakara4u:

so you be man?

abi pikin?

no wonder u d talk abt kongii

Must you state how hungry you are on nl? Anyway its a faceless forum no wonder many of you are barking at the mouth.. Carry on oo

xynerise:
Are you ovulating?

Are you a psycho?

Says who? Hope that advice are for your sisters on nollywood...

shakara4u:

and whats this one saying

happy womens day btw

Women's day ke? For where?

CFCfan:

Why do u say so?

In lay men terms kongee is disturbing them you should know ask your brothers on nl

Too many sexually deprived men on nl...

This list isn't even complete self, this is what the typical oyinbo girl wants in her man.. African men especially Nigerian are cut from a different cloth oo all these lists na wash

I agree with number 1 and 2 sha.. But there's still something missing hmmmmm. Ladies can u see what i'm talking about?

It starts with the letter D and end with the letter R...