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Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
hardbody: If you cannot take decisions without my say so, if you cannot step into my shoes when i am not available, if you cannot carry yourself in a proud way and represent my ego, i have no business with you. Take decisions and make mistakes, i will understand, stay dormant and do nothing, i will chastise you.1 million likes for this post.hardboy thank you for this |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Kaynee: 7:58pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
WOW. That's my man showing confidence just the way I expected. It is well with you. Odenigbo Aroli.: 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by dbride: 7:59pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
Women ALWAYS forget that EVERY man has that GOD-given EGO (not a bad thing, God gave it to them)and yes a confident woman is a better wife than the timid one but that confidence must come with humility to make a stable home; otherwise your home will be hell on earth. WHY? because a confident arrogant/proud woman + the Ego of the man is like being in a microwave. Note, the Ego of the man is constant, rich or poor, it is there, we cannot wish it away maybe with jazz...LOL... but only for a while. The woman must LEARN to live with it. HOW..by being a CONFIDENT HUMBLE woman. Common, Confident humble women, let's kill these men with humility. It works; dont be stupid or timid but be confident and humble. It keeps that EGO in check without them knowing! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
anitank: A real man (Nigerian or not) will always want a confident woman as a partner. Nailed it!! |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by caesaraba(m): 8:00pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
kulyie: exactly.this is my kind of man.a man that i can be confident around,make mistakes and i know he will correct me as opposed to a man that expects me to be vibrating and getting hypertensive when he is around.if men like this were all over nigeria,the divorce rate will drop A lot of such men abound in this very country. (Make no mistake about that). If women buy into the generalization that all Nigerian men are monsters, then they put up unnecessary defenses and set their confrontational hormones on hair-trigger alert. .......and then Newton's 3rd law of motion steps in to ruin everything. |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
ayodeji752: av said it,u are drunk!are u d waiter in d hotel?wot does haircut has to do with confidence?go home!as in.....the guy's post just made me laugh,i almost poured the glass of water on the table while laughing.gnash their teeths indeed chai! Nairaland get commedians o |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
caesaraba:well you are right but its because of the bad impression and stories all around about the 'exploits' naija men are doing,thats why women are putting up their defenses plus nollywood homevideos too are not helping matters.they always portray nigerian men as one horrible,selfish monster and an egocentric freak |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by huninaija(f): 8:08pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
kulyie: abi o.i wonder the way some men think sef.so if a woman cannot be free and confident around her husand or in her home,where else will she be.confidence has a way of bringing about freedom.i will take myself as an example,i am confident when i am at home with my father,so does it mean that because i am confident with my father i disrespect him.my father can dress and i will tell him daddy go and change your outfit na,the colour doesnt match or it doesnt look good on you,whenever he changes it i say ehen,thats my daddy,i am proud of you.so does that make me disrespectful and ill mannered as opposed to when i see something wrong about my parents outfit i cannot correct them in respect and love.infact sometimes my dad wears his cap facing the front and i turn it to the side,like ha daddy dont you want people to be saying my daddy looks like a twenty something year old boy and i respectfully adjust his cap,does that make me saucy as opposed to the fact that i wont have the effontery to look at my father in the face talkless of adjusting his cap or spraying perfume for him Thank you oo my brother your nigerian brothers here think confidence equates to being disrespectful, it seems they want a piece of meat as a wife.. i don taya self!! |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:08pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
dbride: Women ALWAYS forget that EVERY man has that GOD-given EGO (not a bad thing, God gave it to them)and yes a confident woman is a better wife than the timid one but that confidence must come with humility to make a stable home; otherwise your home will be hell on earth. WHY? because a confident arrogant/proud woman + the Ego of the man is like being in a microwave.that's right.you nailed it perfectly |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by obowunmi(m): 8:11pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
For you to be able to attract the right kind of man, you have to work on yourself. Love yourself first before you love anybody else. |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by huninaija(f): 8:12pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
Odenigbo Aroli.: Is that what my post implies? the qualities that you personally have described denote the qualities of a proud woman and not a confident one, reason why we've had this argument in the first place. speaking to some of you is like talking to a brick wall. |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
huni_naija:i am a lady,not a man lol |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
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Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
obowunmi: For you to be able to attract the right kind of man, you have to work on yourself. Love yourself first before you love anybody else.that's right |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by dbride: 8:18pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
kulyie: please what is the opposite of confidence?is it not timidity?since confident women dont attract you then i suppose the opposite will attract you plus i understand your post perfectly.so its either you are confident or not Most people, including you, dont take time to read a post, understand it before giving it a reply. I talked about confidence + arrogance = time bomb; confidence + humility = Gift of God, priceless, jackpot. KULYIE, what then informed your statement that confident women do not attract me? I understand that the art of comprehension is sometimes difficult for some people, but take time to read and then reply. |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by huninaija(f): 8:19pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
kulyie: i am a lady,not a man lol sorry oo my sister lol.. *noted* 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by caesaraba(m): 8:22pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
kulyie: well you are right but its because of the bad impression and stories all around about the 'exploits' naija men are doing,thats why women are putting up their defenses plus nollywood homevideos too are not helping matters.they always portray nigerian men as one horrible,selfish monster and an egocentric freak It's true that a lot of 9ja men have lagged behind in this dept.(someone is gonna come and bite my bottom for saying this). Another truth however is, they are fast catching up. As for nollywood, the day I watched Emeka Enyeocha act as a 'struggling' youth corper who owned a duplex and a fleet of cars, I saw how 'close' they were to reality. (Hope you get my meaning). It's high-time we jettisoned a lot of these generalizations and actually saw individuals for who they are rather than biting deeper into this Nigerian Men vs. Nigerian Women 'apple' and letting it be ruin discourses such as this one. |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by nenergy(m): 8:24pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
sanb: I'll help you there; men are confident, women are (confident as well)......Ok, women are confident too-just for the lack of appropriate word.lol |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by nenergy(m): 8:25pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
nenergy: Nice write up, but i don't think "Confidence" is a feminine virtue. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't just sound right in the ears to call say; "that woman is confident". It almost sounds like saying; "that woman is proud, loud, disrespectful or arrogant". Suffice to say, men are confident, women are...... (please give me time to find a more appropriate word or help me-i'll be back) sanb: I'll help you there; men are confident, women are (confident as well)......Ok, women are confident too-just for the lack of appropriate word.lol |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
Hahahahaha Lol; now you're talking. I hope I didn't intimidate you ; as it wasn’t my intention...Lol again... nenergy: |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
huni_naija:haba no problem na |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
caesaraba:you are very much on point but typical of nigerians,they always degenerate every issue to a sexist issue,e.g this thread.if you look closely,you will see what i am talking about,then as for nollywood homevideos,the movie 'mr and mrs just came to my mind and some irritating yoruba movies,especially the one done by ogogo.his movies are always to sexist,always bringing women down |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
caesaraba:you are very much on point but typical of nigerians,they always degenerate every issue to a sexist issue,e.g this thread.if you look closely,you will see what i am talking about,then as for nollywood homevideos,the movie 'mr and mrs just came to my mind and some irritating yoruba movies,especially the one done by ogogo.his movies are always to sexist,always bringing women down |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
I dunno y sum guys can't understand that der is 'confident' and 'overconfident' Sha only chicken-liverED guys dont lyk d confident girls. I think dey feel intimidated |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by tintingz(m): 8:45pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
An over confident woman can send the husband parking from the house |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Oahray: 8:50pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
mechummy: I dunno y sum guys can't understand that der is 'confident' and 'overconfident' Sha only chicken-liverED guys dont lyk d confident girls. I think dey feel intimidatedwhy do you let what SOME guys think bother you? |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
delors: Bros, na over skill dey kill monkey o and na over confidence worry Goliath that time...this is just an example of insecurity because if you know who you are and you know your worth,you wont run.if you are a confident man with ,you will be bold with ANY lady and you wont be having this fear |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:54pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
tintingz: An over confident woman can send the husband parking from the housea confident man will not be moved by anything irrespective of who his wife is in the society,its men suffering from inferiority complex that run |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Trypant(f): 8:55pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: I'm not so sure Nigerian men like confident women, to be honestWhen i handle my friend, he quits the affair that he cnt marry someonr who intimidates him or who s nt humble bt feel she s big. He condemed ma proffession and level showing that he s afraid of me! |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
Oahray: why do you let what SOME guys think bother you?I'm not bothered and I never let such things get to me:PI'm just surprised sum guys no follow |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by caesaraba(m): 9:03pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
tintingz: A highly confident woman can send the husband parking from the house Except what you mean by "highly confident" is a lousy, nagging, and pompous woman, I beg to differ. Marriage is teamwork. A man with a progressive mind would give anything to have a confident woman as a partner. Someone who can hold it down anytime, anyday. Someone he can depend on. A woman who can objectively look at him and say "dude, you are fv.cking up. Why don't we try it this way?" It's only men who go into marriage with the idea of 'Me vs. Her' that can have a problem with a confident woman. It's supposed to be Me + You pursuing our goals together as loving partners. A woman with confidence is good for a man joor. Helps him succeed and stay sharp always. |
Re: Why Men Like Confident Women. by MANOSUB(m): 9:03pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
@ Op. Did u make a research to knw if Nigerian men like confidence. In as much as i like a woman to be open, i also need her to be reserve in some areas. Confident women could become women advocates n probably make u suffer! Beware |
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