someone here is also as confused as you are

Jooade:
uniilorin commenced virtual teaching on January 11, so far it has been hectic but 65% successful.

Bro pls any update on unilorin 2020/2021 admission process? I learnt that unilorin wants to suspend the admission process till September this year...how true is that?

I keenly read this to the end. I wish the forum will also be informed of what the stern-faced arbiter's judgement is.

seunmsg:


The OP is nothing but a liar and a mischievous person. The headline is a sensational creation of the lying OP and has absolutely no basis in the actual report.

The states listed above are states affected by the #Endsars protest and not those involved in examination malpractices.

The report stated clearly that 12 schools were involved in examination malpractices and they have all been sanctioned. The location and states of the schools involved were not included in the report.

Those of you commenting should read the story before spewing nonsense all over the place.

and from another reliable source, states where those schools that involved in malpractices locate are stated. Majority of them are from the North tho.

yeah I could remember that time last year. one guy even posted a false pic of one bosomy lady...lol

Kalatium:
@ ubunja
When i was in high school. Some one once told me this. And till date i doubt the veracity of it.

I do not agree to this.

It may be observed that after marriage a woman tends to get older and mature but i doubt the logic of your argument.

Men also get older, lose energy and look Frustrated after marriage

It is a known fact that men die before women. A man can marry a woman older than him and still die before her.

I understand where you coming from.

This is a good hypothesis but there are still no strong evidence for it.

You should also know other factors contribute to life expectancy which according to the Op age gap is one of.

ubunja:
yes. There's so many levels to this. At the very least a younger woman's vitality will be stolen in that she'll look older and a bit more "mature" for her age, while the older man will suddenly gain that va va voom. I think that's the level most people see the easiest among age gap couples. And I saw this personally myself. So at that basic level there's indeed something going on.

Do you mind sharing other levels through which this age gap concept manifests?

Juliusmomoh:
@ubunja ..
All i know is that, my grandfather who is 42 year old when he got married to his 27 years old wife is dead by now. and his then 27 year old wife, who is currently 69 now, is very healthy....
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I think i don't support what u wrote there..
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#thank_you

This does not follow.

Age discrepancies between the duo does not determine who dies first. so, the fact that men steal from their younger spouses' life does not neccessarily mean they would die first. Any of them could die first and does not discredit the assertion that "stealing" happened.

Hope you get it

Na #1000 airtime we dey recieve wich one b 2m

advocatejare:

So Muhammad didnt know that it was wrong for a 53 year old man to be sleeping with a 9 year old girl who was still playing with her dolls?

If he was truly a Prophet of God, he should have known that his action was wrong






But morality should tell you that it's wrong to marry the wife of a man who had started living with you since the age of 8 years, he answered your name as "son of Muhammad ", you married your cousin out to him, you financed the wedding, you didn't talk to your cousin and settle the rift she had with her husband, even when you advised your adopted son, we are told that when you were giving the advice you had already concealed it in your heart that you would marry his wife and you eventually did and even threw the biggest party for her wedding, biggest than the one you did for your previous wives and you call yourself a religious leader.

"And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, Keep your wife and fear Allah, while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished."
(QS. Al-Ahzaab 33: Verse 37)



Did you know that one of his soldiers had already taken Safiya for himself before someone told Muhammad about the beauty of Safiya and Muhammad then collected Safiya from that Soldier?

So what was the rationale behind Muhammad taking Safiya from the Soldier who had chosen her for himself as a spoil of war?


So mention any of his wives that he didn't sleep with.

If not for sexual pleasure why did he sleep with Maria Qibitiya before marrying her, on Hafsa's bed and after Hafsa exposed him to Aisha, he got angry and vowed not to go to all his wives for one month.

That slave he slept with later gave birth to Ibrahim for him.

Good debate requires you concede that you are wrong rather than argue blindly or re-state already answered questions.

Two things are possible here, it is either you didn't read the article or you lack comprehensive skills. Aisha's marriage, playing with dolls, age gap etc. are all answered there.

And did you miss the part I said I will, should time present an opportunity, create a post about the prophet marital life?


Stop throwing gauntlet when it's unnecessary cus I won't pick it up.

true2god:
Who was the one speaking or praying in Surah alfatiha? Remember, all the words in the Quran are said to be from allah.

did you read my comment at all...if you did you wouldn't have asked this question again

true2god:
You can't be on the straight path and be praying, on a daily basis, to be guided to the straight path.

As a matter of fact it was Allah that was doing that prayer for a straight path in surah fathiha since the Quran is allegedly the words of Allah.

How can Allah be praying for a straight path? Who was the one speaking in surah fathiha?

You should argue only when you have knowledge about the bone of contention....the words therein was uttered on behalf of the believers.

So Allah is the one whom the prayer is being directed to not the order way round.

true2god:
You can't be on the straight path and be praying, on a daily basis, to be guided to the straight path.

As a matter of fact it was Allah that was doing that prayer for a straight path in surah fathiha since the Quran is allegedly the words of Allah.

How can Allah be praying for a straight path? Who was the one speaking in surah fathiha?

That's the reason I said you cannot just delve into interpreting the Quran without expertise in requisite fields governing its translation.
I'm very sure wherever you copied that your false translation, as you cannot translate it yourself, it's not GUIDE US TO but GUIDE US ON, and I know you are aware of the distinction between the two.

The verb translated as GUIDE in the arabic text of the Surah in question has different meaning, the meaning to be obtained depends on whether the verb takes a preposition or not.
That your translation would have been the correct traslation had the Surah said: "Ihdinah (ila)sirotil mustaqim" here taking the preposition "to"but the surah says: "ihdinah siraatal mustaqim"-here the verb "ihdinah"takes direct object. owing to this, the correct translation would be GUIDE US ON THE RIGHT PART, the preposition "on"is include because we are not dealing with Arabic again.This guide we pray for is what christianity is bereft of which makes it what it is today.

advocatejare:

In short Allah was praying to be guided, who was Allah praying to?

If you don't understand it after that condesed explanation then border yourself not..all I will tell you is that Quran does not communicate using layman's language, hence, it's subjected to exegesis.

Adblg0610:
As in all the churches of the saints, WOMEN SHOULD BE SILENT in the churches. For THEY ARE NOT PERMITTED TO SPEAK , but THEY SHOULD BE SUBORDINATE, as the law also says. If there is anything they desire to know, let them ask their husbands at home. For IT IS SHAMEFUL FOR A WOMAN TO SPEAK in church. (NRSV, 1 Corinthians 14:33-35)

So there is this in the bible and they are herw shouting upanda since morning....Is like those mumu are ignorant of their religion

advocatejare:


What could be the rationale in a 53year old man sleeping with a 9 year old girl who was still playing with her dolls if not because the man was a paedophile?

What was the rationale behind Muhammad marrying a wealthy woman if not because he couldn't afford to finance his wedding if he marries a woman who wouldn't finance the wedding for him?





Like him marrying the wife of Zaid his adopted son


Safiya was married during war too after Muhammad and his army killed her husband



Even Muhammad advised people to marry virgins and young girls,:

"Narrated By Jabir bin 'Abdullah
When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for handling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "[b]Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'[/b
-Sahih Bukhari 7:62:17

That's to tell you that if he was wealthy enough, he wouldn't have married a 40 year old woman who had been married 3 times before. Don't forget that muhammad was 25years when 40years old Khadijah married him

hmmmm....this is deeeeeep, but it's not deep, only if you could seek true knowledge about those things until then you will always have problem with Islam.

That Aisha's marriage is nothing but a case of questioning past moral and culture using the contemporary ones. If you will not be sentimental and biased, I think this article should suffice. Just read it to the end;https://www.islam21c.com/islamic-thought/history/hypocrisy-of-those-who-attack-the-prophets-ﷺ-marriage-to-aisha/

For that of one-time Zaid's wife, I had once asked the same question as a student, having being bordered about it. It's as confusing then as it is to you now, but it's nothing only if you know the rationale behind it.....the reason why the subject like this are still alien to some people even Muslims is we have no profound knowledge about it.

As I said already, Prophet marriages are to one end or the other, which I may not be able to explain extensively here but I will find time to create a post on it. The said rationale borders on political reasons, socio-cultural purpose, constitutional purpose(that of Zaid) and Academic and Propagation of Islamic knowledge among muslim womens.(If you could source for Hadith you should be able to do this too. just research)

That Hadith you quoted if not for anything it lends a credence to the fact that prophet marriages are not for sexual enjoyment as some fondly believe- The Prophet knows where enjoyment and sexual pleasure lie, and that is in marriage with a maiden rather than a matron. Aisha is the only maiden whom he ever married, and this shows that those marriages are for hitherto mentioned reason rather than for pleasure.

And I don't know why you guys are fond of wrongly translating Quran and Hadith to suit your interest; the text of that Hadith which you quoted says "Bikr" that is a maiden, which not necessarily means a virgin in Arabic context....while even an Arabic speaker may argue over this, an instance is the nickname given to the first caliph ABUBAKR meaning "Father of the maiden(Aisha)". The Prophet and his companion called him this name, with their rectitude, moral and intellect they could never nickname him that which makes direct reference to his daughter's sexual organ; "Father of the Virgin"common!...so it's not VIRGIN but MAIDEN. While this is not relevant to the subject matter it is indicative of christians' propensity to interpolate Hadith text to suit their interest.

Sofiyat marriage might have been in period of war but here, war is different from petsecution. Mekkah is to persecution and marginalisation while Madinah is to war when we have the effrontery to fight back and no persecution or marginalisation any longer. so the two are different.

And about advising him to marry young girl, that's another case of questioning primordial culture with the present's. what you term as "young" today are not "young" that day. and I have said that before, it's not "virgin" or "young girl" but "maiden"- a young woman who has not married.

At long last, you made me to type despite trying to be concise....thanka u

ThatFairGuy1:

Don't waste your precious time, no matter how you explain, they'll never agree else they results to insult.

Al-Baqarah 2:7

خَتَمَ ٱللَّهُ عَلَىٰ قُلُوبِهِمْ وَعَلَىٰ سَمْعِهِمْۖ وَعَلَىٰٓ أَبْصَٰرِهِمْ غِشَٰوَةٌۖ وَلَهُمْ عَذَابٌ عَظِيمٌ

Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment.

That's true....I just have to answer not for him but for it not to seem as though we have no answer to his question and for that Muslim brethren whose faith might be affected if such question went unanswered. those people are really researching about Islam, that question shocked me like...but what they don't know is that all questions birthed by their contemporary researches has their answers in the pages of some books written decades ago.

advocatejare:


You'll get your answer after you answer my question you ran away from.

You can't leave my questions on answered and ask me another question.

Share me the link to the original gospel written by Jesus himself and of course the original Quran given to muhammad without diacritical marks

Address my question first and also show me the Taurah given to Islamic Moses that is different from the Judaism and Christianity Moses

You were the one that made a claim that you had a link to the original gospel of Jesus Christ.

Here is another question I asked you that you're yet to answer:

If the Quran is purely the word of Allah with no human input and Sura Fatiha is not preceded by "say" it means Sura Fatiha is the word of Allah. Now let's see Fatiha

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said:

اهْدِنَا الصِّرٰطَ الْمُسْتَقِيمَ
"Guide us to the straight path -"
(QS. Al-Faatiha 1: Verse 6)

Allah is not on the right path, who was Allah praying to?

Can Allah who claims to be the only god be praying to another God to guide him to the right path?


2.

Chai...c question

Firstly, the exegesis of the Glorious Quran requires sound knowledge of Arabic and other fields, one cannot just delve into it.

It's not GUIDE US TO THE RIGHT PART it's GUIDE US ON THE RIGHT PART. It means we are already on the right part but we pray for his guidance on that(right part) which we are already on.

For the second question, Suratul Fatiha from which you quoted is of two segment, one for the lord and other for the believers. the one which is for the lord is the first part which implies praises and adorations the second which is for us is the one filled with prayer.

If you are aquaint with the Quran you wouldn't have asked that question. I should have explain further but no time, I got to attend to somethings.

advocatejare:

That means you don't know the answer.

Muhammad became a Prophet when he was 40 and Khadijah died when Muhammad was 50 years old, that means Khadija was with muhammad for 10 years of his Prophethood and yet Muhammad couldn't marry another wife but within 7 years that khadijah died, muhammad had married more than 7 wives.

Go and google the rationale behind the prophet marriage with his wives just as you googled the year he married Khadijah. and you will have your answer.

All his marriage with each of his wives were either for one purpose or the other except that of Khadijah and Aisha.

To help your situation small, all the10 years of the Prophet's marriage with Khadijah you mentioned was filled with persecutions and onslaught from unbelievers of makkah until 3 years after her date, when Muslims migrated to Madinah.

And as I said earlier, to all intents and purposes, all his marriage were for one purpose or the other(search for them) not due to acquired wealth, power, pleasure, or demise of Khadijah.

thebosstrevor1:


I will say some things.

A man can never be an alpha if his mother still controls him. This I know for sure.

If a man can't go away from his own mother manipulations, how can he go away from a strange woman manipulation.

Mothers project their image on their sons, that is why you see men who are emotional like their mother.how do you expect someone like that to be an alpha.

A alpha is a logical and rational being not an emotional bring that can be swing anywhere.

Check a man behavior with his mother then we shall know what type of man he is.

Can he sit his mother down and talk to her?

Can he correct his mother?
Can he guide his mother


If he can not don't think this same man can be champion with women.

Mothers create men that women hate.

That's true. Redpill apart ,a mentor once told me I should stop taking advice from my mummy or any female I was currently taking advice from that time, he said he could percieve it from my line of thought and advised me to stop because it would only make me a weak man.......and truly that time mummy is my confidant.

Mind you the said man is not a youth, a family man, successful and experienced, old enough to be my father.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Is the girl A that keep calling and messaging him, is the girl that really need and want the guy, not the girl B, that ignore him, redpill constitution says "Dont ever need a lady, let her need, you because once she discover you need her, she start to loose interest in you.

Leave that yeye OP jare.
He had not master d theory before he went on practising his supposed Redpill

thebosstrevor1:
Dont be deceived by this people claiming hard gùy here because of one redpill, they are one of the weakest and many haven't had any relationship with women

Redpill is just to understand intersexual relationships between men and women, nothing more.

If you want a good and healthy relationship with women you must know how to compromise sometimes or you will be like a boring and robotic human to your girl.

And Redpill teaches "Compromise". that's what it means when it says: "An Alpha male should in some circumstance act like a beta to get the desired end, just like a military would retreat to re-strategise and probably prevails"-that's the compromise you talk about.

Redpill just need to be mastered it works.

flyingpig:
can I have the link and read too

https://www.nairaland.com/6096237/redpill-constitution-bitter-truths

In all way, the lady is at fault. bussiness or no bussiness, how will one(the GF) collect fee from one supposed mother-in-law whose son is responsible for a half of the money of the bussiness. He's such a responsible man that he could even boast of footing her bill up to her clothings.

If we are to talk about bussiness, then we will have to say that the man holds a half of the share that makes up her bussiness and as such entitles to enjoy atleast a little of it.

The fact that the man sold a phone that is worth 60k for 48k shows his high sense of responsibility compared to the lady's

bukky1994:
thanks for d correction man I appreciate...

You are welcome

Kingscee:
Which advice you want us to advise you? I can see your devilish mind from my Android phone you're a betrayal to your friend, your mind dey judge you

Where did he imply contemplating going down with her?. You are the one who need to work on his mind...devilish indeed

bukky1994:
I think u should let her boyfriend know, should in case anything happens u would be on a safer side d guy is ur neighbour allow him break up officially and then know d girl's reaction

"should in case"?.......you can't use both at the same time. It's either you use "should" or "in case". Using them at a time is a NO

The VP's attire matched well with that of first lady compared to Bubu own....whatsupp

This is laughable..from pastor to stripper.

I had also been in a situation almost the same as this, the only difference was that she had no boyfriend..she wanted to maintain the friendship so I also stopped proposing dating...what I later did was that when I noticed she has fond of me so much that she could hardly do without talking or calling I withdrew from her and the subsequent occurrence played in my favour-something happened which necessitate me travelling coupled with my spoilt phone, so, the sudden withdrawal and travelling without telling her while she couldn't reach me too, I supposed she miscontrued the situation. the day I repaired my phone, her whatsapp messages and SMS was what I saw telling me of how she missed and love me. she even accused me of not reciprocating her love for me and she later proposed relationship.

dat 7 days sef na small thing compare to one person I know...d guy no dey wash boxers or singlets, once he bought a boxer or siglets he would use dem for like 3 weeks or more trow dem away and buy anoda set and apply dsame judgement on dem....imagine!

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