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This is exactly my experience where I am currently working now.most of my co-workers are ladies.Almost everyday,they will be indirectly asking you to do one favour(mostly monetary) or the other.But even during this Christmas season,no single one of them even looked my way, let alone bringing any gift.Not that I send(what can they really give me).But it makes realized the entitlement mentality of many Nigerian ladies both those you are dating or not dating.
It made to understand that women are wired to receive and keep receiving, consuming resources and hardly appreciative.The moment you stopped doing her any favors,you automatically becomes her enemies.She will not remember what you did before (that's why they don't understand what loyalty and sacrifice means unlike we men).
Also they hardly take or assume their responsibilities but they are very quick to remind you of your role as a man in catering for their unending need.

What do you as a red Piller;you stand your ground and maintain frame.Don't give in to their manipulations (especially broke shaming and emotional blackmailing).when they notice that you don't even give a damn about what they think,they will begin to abort mission

NB:that was how I handled them at my work place.they don't even bother me anymore.

4ckz:
There's this that was bothering me after going through this thread.
I started applying it immediately, especially in the aspect of giving to ladies, I have a lot of female friends, which means that from time to time I get to lose money foolishly.

One who works or is close to ladies should be aware of the "buy me this or that" from time to time, doesn't matter if you are fuking her or not, doesn't matter if she is above you financially, they're always asking for favors.
I was the classic nice guy, conditioned myself into giving in to those pilfery and not expecting anything, although I always got that "you're such a nice guy, you will treat your woman right" complement.

However, lately I have been on guard over this foolishness, it was hard to start, I do fall back occasionally, but I have gotten a lot better, and I have noticed a lot of changes in attitude towards me.

One of my colleagues, the first lady that made me feel welcome when I was still a work newbie (I call her my work mother), got into a little squable with me over 500. We were out together and she needed 500 to complete her money to get something, I gave her. When we finished that day, I went to collect my money, she was stunned and told me, she will easily leave that for me if the tables were turned that I should drop my resent attitude.
I wanted to defend myself, then I thought thoroughly and asked her "when have you ever given me?". It was then it dawned on me that even though this lady was a senior colleague, obviously better financially placed, I haven't received anything from her.
Her answer shocked me further; she answered the question, talking a lot of gibberish but ended with the classic reply "after all you are a man".

We got into a little friendly argument and she maintained this stance "fight it or not, a Man's role is to provide".

I got to ponder on that statement for many days, I actually believe in gender roles and even if you observed animals, they still had gender roles too.

However, recently I got to talk with my old man, and I carefully raised the topic with him to see his view. He also reaffirmed to me "a Man's role is to provide".
However, he made me understand that women had roles too. In the olden days, the father had the role of providing, while the woman had that of house keeping and the likes of it.

Today, women are rapidly dropping their roles and see it as slavery and today's woke woman doesn't go through those parts, however men are still being subjected to their's.

I have come to this conclusion: Money is earned and it's meant to be. Any money you remove from you should be satisfying a need atleast 90% of the time.
For people like me that would still like to get married, here's an advice, if she (your wife) drops her convectional role of house keeping and is actively working (like is mostly obtainable today), you too drop your role and make family provision a "collective thing".

I have seen this play out steady in some marriages I observe, the wife works, the man works yet the man takes care of family provision, while house keeping is done by a hired maid, wtf is your woman's role in the family, to eat and get obese?

Remember this, Money is earned, and if you must spend let it meet your needs.


Peace!

I can't still believe that I have visited wikiHow to learn ways to make a woman to fall in love with you.And after everything and my efforts,bitches still got a nigga dumped.Smh

This is the reason we men should look beyond beauty when choosing a life partner.You have to know that your woman will definitely hit the wall which will alter her physical attributes in addition to the effects of childbirth.
Look at her character, compatibility,whether she supports your dream and loyalty (though women are only loyal to themselves and what they stand to get from the relationship)
You have to love the woman for who she really is.if not,you will be disappointed in what you see when she is older.

Just type 'download the rational man PDF' on Google,you will see options to download the book

PETUK:
Please how can I get the book?

I have already started reading the book and it's a bomb.His note on oneitis syndrome really opened my eyes.you will wonder how easily people move on and get married (or be in another relationship with another person) after many years of proclaiming the person to be the love of their life.
And yet they will still claim the new person is the best thing to happen to them.smh

I think many guys have some degree of red pilledness in them until they met a woman who he claims to be all he wants in a woman, can't live without her and then he starts misbehaving badly.if you were lucky and saved on time from this illusion and you will then realized that it's all a lie designed to propagate gynocentrism, feminism and emasculate we men and drain our hard-earned resources in the name of trying to be 'a real man'.
But we are now learning fast to reverse this trend.
Thanks for the recommendation though

angelfallz:
i am glad you were able to move on, and not go begging for her love. By the way have you read, "The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi?
you can download and read it. It is very eye opening.

They say its women that drives men to TRP and that rings true on my side after my last relationship.
It made me to understand women don't give a damn about us and no matter your sacrifices for her,she won't remember any of it whenever she decides to leave you.
I had to learn it the hard way but am glad I did.
Being nice doesn't get you any favors with these bitches and they are very remorseless once their hypergamous antennas are up.

Imagine waking up one morning to the text message 'babe I need to take a break from this relationship and discover myself and know what I really want'.Thats after professing 'love' for 3yrs.No calls nor further explanations from her.
I knew the game was over with her.i didn't bother asking why cos it's useless.
A month later,she is posting pictures with another guy on a date with her.i guess she has fully studied the discovery channel.

The best thing TRP has taught me is self awareness of your worth as a man,the value of your attention and resources you give out(u have to guard it jealously) and constant self improvement in every facet of your life.You don't ever as a man focus on a woman and neglect your self development cos when she perceives that she is above you in the social ladder after continuously investing in her,you will be dumped.No questions asked.

You guys are really doing a good job here.The Gospel of TRP will continue to spread like widefire.keep it up guys!!

Nobody gives a damn whether you bring anything or not.its your choice.
Don't come and start ranting about it.

Pls I have a question.
About 4 days ago,I requested for my betway account to be locked, though I didn't specify the duration.Howwever, yesterday afternoon I had a long ticket that happened to enter and my account was locked.i wasn't able to withdraw.how do I get them to unlock it and how long will it take before it is unlocked?

Man city game under 2.5 FT

Bro cash out o.over 3.5 goals not happening for that man city game

dbestuncle:
Pls should I cash out of this game?

Ok bro,I will do that straight way

Zyzxx10:
Not just mail bro bombard their Twitter page or any other social site they are on.I said bank so you can hear their side of the story and be doubly sure of both parties you are laying your complaints to.Im pretty sure it's 1xbet but just ask your bank to be doubly sure.

I am very sure that I didn't make mistake in my details and I have checked my account history,no money came in.They have already sent me message that I have received the funds when I haven't and I have made several withdrawal in the past.i will provide my bank statement to see their reply

Stephenmoka4:
If you don't see alert, use a mobile banking app and seek your history. If it isn't there, it's either you made a wrong input in account details (and you know that terms and conditions stuff).
Contact 1xbet, you may be asked to provide your bank account statement...

Ok,I will send a mail to 1xbet but how do I contact the bank when I haven't received any money there?

Zyzxx10:
Contact 1xbet and the bank to which you made the transaction to.It might be hanging or an error from 1xbet itself.

Pls I need you guys to help me out with something.2days I made a withdrawal from my 1xbet account for which I was sent a message on my dashboard that the withdrawal have been processed and completed,yet no alert to show for it.How do I go about this.this is not the first time I have withdrawn.thanks

If in real life,it's no longer about who is right or wrong but to salvage life's.To avert the impending head on collision,it will be in the interest of bus 2 to slow down(because of it's size) and go behind bus 1 while bus 3 do the same and go behind bus 4.that way the accident will be averted.

So some states still dey under 1.5

So ladies claim that a guy with money has nothing to offer.really?When you meet up with them,they will claim that they are not interested in a guy's money,that all they wanted is a guy that will love her for real.Why then within few minutes of chatting with them,it becomes a job interview session, asking what you do for a living,if you own a car or living in your own house or rented apartment.All these is trying to size up the guy's pocket and yet they claim they are not interested in a guy's money.what a scam.Women generally are cold blooded accountants.
If they think men has nothing to offer except money,then they should work for their own money,they should spilt the check with the guy when hang out and not throw way face when the bill drops,they should consider the delivery guy that stops at her door.But no,they are waiting for a prince charming to sweep her off her feet (that's if he meets the financial criteria).
I just tire for una matter.

I read the books from a local library 13yrs ago.i later downloaded the PDF files much later.If you read Silmarrilion,you will fully understand the how the whole story began.its a masterpiece.

mexican:
Hustle2flex, you're absolutely right. Literally nothing in the high fantasy genre comes close to LOTR series. I got it on Amazon, and have never regretted the purchase.
Where did you get yours in Nigeria?

Cheers and keep looking up.

If you want to enjoy pure adventure stories,go and read 'THE HOBBIT' and THE LORD OF THE RINGS trilogy by JRR Toilken.
It is the greatest epic and adventure stories of our time and no book is even close.

Nice bro.He who has ears,let him hear.

Viking07:
There's nothing good about zoom, virtual, keno or any other rubbish the bookies are pushing you all to waste your money on. They know y'all are hopelessly addicted and would stake on whatever rubbish they roll out.

No reasonable gambler will stake on any of these rubbish. If your fingers are itching to lose money, you either go for deliverance or better still give the money to any beggar close to you. This is the perfect time to take a break from gambling, instead of staking on a crap where Alabi is the player, the coach and the referee.

I have said what I have in mind.Whether you choose to accept it or not is your choice.

rheether:
Oga, shut up.

For

That moment you remember game of thrones series,you start wondering whether the white walkers has suddenly invaded westeros (the world) in the form of coronavirus.
#thisshitisgettingreal

I used to

It goes both ways.some people find good value during this period because of desperation of some people to sell their assets due to unpredictable direction market may take.You do ur findings and decide what you want to do.its ur money.

incogni2o:
I thought this is the best time to invest one's money (i.e when stock vaalues are low) in the hope that when the corova virus thingy is over, the investment value would grow with.

Please I need urgent advice aas I am thinking this is one of the best times to invest in stock markets.

I ama aa newbie, so pardon me.

Odogwu Trump no fit get am

Dey there dey talk nonsense.they will soon replace you if you don't watch ur tongue.

The bottom line is that no investment is safe now until this coronavirus issue is sorted out.Better leave ur money in ur account for now.

For volleyball,u look at a particular team performance in their league over past 3-4 seasons,then u look at the number of sets it takes them to win each match and their powers of recovery (that is how often they win after losing the first set or the first two sets.do they still come back to win it?.this will tell u their level of resilience.then u make ur choice with the information you got.
U have interpret teams performance differently in different sports

BetBuilder365:
what do you look out for in volleyball. I mean what stats gives you the confidence to bet on a team

There are upsets in every sports but chances are lower in these two sports I mentioned.u need to take out time and study them.for basketball,I advice u go for straight winning.forget about over or under.same as volleyball.

BetBuilder365:
The most sensible post starting this new week. You can also add ice hockey. Volleyball on the radar. Basketball still has its upsets oh, big teams do lose mostly. Am I right

Most guys here focus on soccer which is usually unpredictable especially this season.
Winning in basketball and volleyball is way much better especially basketball.Teams that are really good in most basketball and volleyball leagues win most of their games all the time except occasional loss in rare cases.
Try and learn how to bet in these two games,ur chances of winning is higher than in soccer (am speaking from experience and I have been winning).
Get a sofascore app and check out different leagues on basketball and volleyball and study it.
My 2cents though