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And when you have finally changed for her,she will be the one that would say I don't recognize you,you are not the man I used to know.confused set of beings

TheVictim01:
It's a Karen giving out an advice to our genus fellow. The "change yourself for her" and "support for Vagina empowerment" seriously got me boiling.

Who dey yarn this nonsense.just tell me you are reciting a movie script.

TheVictim01:
A woman's take on how a "Guy would make a girl love him"
If your love is true it will definitely reach out to her soul . Honesty , modesty and true unconditional love never remains unanswered . Be your true self and show your love to her by lending expressions to your tender most feelings for her . Put your love in your gifts to her , go out of way to do something special for her . Love demands sacrifice . Try to know her likes and dislikes . Change yourself for her . If she likes a guy who can sing and dance then learn something of the stuff . Know her favorite actor , try to emulate some of his qualities . Never say anything hurtful about her parents and family . Prove yourself worthy of her love in everyway. Financially , socially , physically , romantically . Improve yourself keeping her perspective of her Prince Charming in your mind . Show your good self to her , if you have donated blood , worked in an ngo , supported some cause of woman empowerment or animals rights . She will get impressed if you will work hard to be her Prince charming.

This is part I do fail sometimes.now I gat a piece to work with.
Thanks for the timely reminder

Asekhamid:
POWER OF EMOTIONAL DETACHMENT

-i know this word must be new to some people here,but this isnt just a word,but when put into action,becomes a very powerful word.

Now what is Emotional DETACHMENT?

Emotional detachment can be defined In Many ways depending on how you understand it...but you can simply say emotional detachment is just removing any form of emotions from an outcome.those emotions include happiness,sadness,jealousy,angry etc

Now have you ever wondered why when you put all your mind and body Into doing something,it sometimes NEVER gives you the result you seek,but when you seem to take your mind off it,RESULT COMES..That is Emotional detachment..
The act of being emotional Detached is called stoicism or indifference..when the outcome of an event cannot affect your present mood..
Emotional detachment is just have that I don't care attitude and accepting that there are things in life you can and cannot control so why stress yourself over it..

Why you MUST BE EMOTIONALLY DETACHED with a woman:-
Women are known as emotional beings as we all know,they get so emotional when things don't go thier way...maybe it is time to the fact that they don't produce as much testosterone as men according to biology.
Men produce more of this testosterone that why we have more and better control of our emotions...
Emotions is considered a feminine trait that is why women get pissed off seeing a man with this trait and simps have alot of this trait in them.
Am not saying it is bad for a man to shows emotions but don't overdo it...be strong to accept life as it hits you rather than whyne about it..

A woman emotion has a direct impact on thier Mood so that is why she can be happy now,sad the next minute,jealous the other minutes and then angry....Trust me when I say the cycle goes over and over again..
Now you are asking what you can do when this happens?...the truth is you can try and be there with her and you might get the result by making her feel better but the question is how long before she become worse again.And if you think that since you helped her once,you can help her again..you will be damn disappointed as she might even attack you for trying to help her...YES,that's how they can be...They reason with thier present emotion and not logic
So if you find yourself in this position. What is the best thing to do..the answer is to do NOTHING..Detach yourself from the situation and make her come to you herself(she will) and by then you will have control and power over the situation...
Don't get mad or angry at them for how they act(except they really pushed you to the wall) and just let her be when she is acting up...DETACH yourself and remove all emotions from the situation you are facing with her.Just go about doing your own thing and she will come back to you..But don't hope or wait for her because by doing that you are still adding emotions..
Funny but Girls find it Attractive and very masculine when a guy is emotionally detached...you become a treasure in thier eyes and they look up to you.. because of this they will decide ways of making you emotional for example by pulling away,calling or chatting with other guys in your presence and using sweet names,delaying your text,ignoring your calls,some may even attempt a fake break up etc...all this just to get you to be emotional (TESTs)..... You become a PUZZLE that they are trying to solve by all means...
But even when all this happens,maintain your guard as a man and be Emotionally detached and this girls will love you more and things will start going in your favour.

Any questions can be asked and I will answer..
My own personal experience on Emotional detachment coming next

Yesterday night I was discussing with three women about gifts to buy for someone for Val.At a point,one of them mentioned phone.i told her straight up that I can't in this life buy any woman phone because one,she won't understand the effort you went through to get the money to buy the phone (that's why all these girls requesting for iPhones don't know how much it costs nor how painful it is to work for months for a price of one phone).
secondly which is most important,that if you get the phone for her,you have lost her to another guy cos she would use the phone to cheat on you.

The eldest of the women replied that what I have said is true.i said in my mind,this sermon has ended.

Sometimes I nearly cry at why guys validates women excesses.See,any post on Facebook that the majority of the comments are from women,is usually about approving their shitty behavior.They don't believe that they can go wrong.And guys there will be encouraging them.why can't guy ask themselves this questions,
'if the tables are turned,will she make the same choices that I am making now'
'if she is Rich today, would she marry me while still struggling'
'if I happened to have some disability,she she stick with me and marry me'

You keep hearing stories of guys picking up a girl from poor home and training,guys sticking with her girlfriend after a road traffic accident that disabled her and married her,guys even going broke just for their woman to have a better life,even guys dying because of love (sacrificial love cos men are capable of that)
Yet how many women do you see or hear that does such.once the going gets tough,they will tell you that's not what they signed up for.

We men need to use our head everyday.

Femzaremz:
Uhm, isnt it high time we took the redpill to facebook? Because d calibre of simps on that network is mindboggling! Just imagine a guy just posted and i quote 'dat u slept with her before doesn't stop us from marrying her you saw s*x in her we saw future in her' obviously somebody with even a basic knowledge of d redpill can never spew this trash funny enough d 'simp' achieved his aim which was female validation as 90 percent of comments on dat post were females commending him and telling him to ride on!

The Red pill is very bitter to swallow because it's nothing but the truth.sometimes we do enter denial mode to circumvent but women has a way of knocking you back to your senses when you have defaulted(when you think you have found love).
The only way forward is to keep re-educating yourself daily to be on your guard against women antics and whims.

Since beginning of last month,I decided to run some red pill tests on two ladies where I work to validate some of our teachings here.
The first lady,I started getting more closer to her and playing on blue pilled mode.after some time,she started forming she is busy all time.i was like because I feigned interest in you,you think that you have arrived.
Meanwhile,the second lady,I don't even send her,just greet her and do my own thing.
Do you know that this second girl,has been volunteering to help me out with me work at office sometimes but i don't allow her and if I send her to buy something or run an errand,she will go.But it ends there.i didn't allow her to get closer but I could see in her eyes that she wants more than that.

I came to conclusions that the best spot you can be as a man in relationship or friendship in general is if you are with a lady that first choose you.it makes things easier for you and you call the shots.Also even though women crave for attention,once you begin to shower her with that,she will abuse it and start treating you like a thrash.
The key is go for ladies that already liked you.its like being one goal up in a football match.

I keep saying this.never believe anything a woman says.
She was a runs girl but stopped because of him?story for the gods.
These kind of girls don't want to be saved, can't be saved and will immediately hit the streets at any slightest opportunity.
The only reasonable thing to do is to send her back where she belongs,else she will drag you down with her.

Google Briffault's law and understand it very well.you will get the answer.
And since you need some rationality and logic in dealing with women,read 'the rational male' by Rollo Tomasi.
Infact you need to take the red pill or u get ready to watch the same movie in your next relationship.
My 2 cents

Leetika:
So I really don’t know who I have offended my love life Is a course I always fail. I have been seeing this girl since June 2020 but friends before then. She is been a financial burden to me as she doesn’t work, well in my own way I support her, my salary is actually 35k per month here in Abuja hoping it will increase but it didn’t.

Now I am not financially strong but I do my best, this girl borrows money from me claiming family issues But she doesn’t give me back. I give her to the extent that all my savings in PiggyVest turned to 0. She claims she is a virgin Nd no sex rule. I Obliged. And I haven’t cheated even though I was sexually active before I met her. So it is not because of sex I do what I do . Just wanted serious relationship cos I am getting old and pressure to marry is coming already.
Cut long story short she asked me to buy her iPhone 12 for her birthday in February. She made this request in November. I told her I honestly don’t have the money.. we argued I said ok let me give her my iPhone 7 she said nope that her friends are using iPhone 11 upward. Let me try buy iPhone 8 now she say no. She sha said she will settle for iPhone 11 Pro Max . Just to kill the argument I said ok and anytime she brings it up I tell her I am working on it. Deep down I knew I can not raise that money . My salary for 10 months will not even be able to buy the phone. She has been hopeful always saying when are we buying it. Anyways her birthday has passed. I wasn’t around as I traveled but now I am back on Tuesday she called telling me hope I am giving it to her on Sunday that she can’t wait to get it bla bla bla . She was excited . Had to tell her the truth that I don’t have the money yet and she should be patient. She just kept quiet on the phone. Babe what’s up? I asked . She said nothing I want to sleep and she cannot come over to my house this weekend again. Our conversation went from 100 to 0 real quick. I then texted her to calm down that I will try raise the money. Anyways like play like play this girl hasn’t read my message since Tuesday nor pick my calls. Like how can somebody be so insensitive. Ignoring all do times I have helped her financially but a freaking gadget that can be stolen is your problem. Even my salary no dey do me for a whole month . Men are only loved by what they can provide, Nd I do provide to this girl God knows. E pain me sha. Anyways just writing this to ease my pain.

Bro to be frank with you,am in the same shoe as you.Dad no longer around but mum oversaw my training in University from the beginning to the end.Thats why I could do anything for her.i do understand that not all children get to experience same as me.But it doesn't change the fact that
most fathers are not around to enjoy their children's success in majority of cases.

sajmark:
It's as if you just narrated my dad's story, Man sacrificed everything for his family and now he's dead. I wish I took the redpill years ago, I would have shown him the love and appreciation he deserves. our mothers manipulate us all at a tender age, showing us love and care while blinding us to the sacrifices of our dads.

There is no everyday I woke up I don't ask myself this question 'is marriage really worth it for the man?

Yesterday I was going through my Facebook page and I saw something that shocked me.There was a man with family of 7 children who were living close to us when we were still growing up.
I know the efforts the father was putting in to train them in school.Though the wife is a teacher that time.
This man later died about 4yrs ago from unknown illness (I was aware that he was sick that time,though I didn't know the exact sickness) and am certain he wasn't up to 60 years.
So when I was going through the Facebook,I saw pictures that made me cry.one of this sons traveled abroad and made money.if you see the house and the cars the guy has acquired,u won't believe it.The whole family (except the father) was in the compound all of them in the pictures with the mother and her children smiling.
I was like after all this man's suffering and toiling for years to train his children,his is no longer around to enjoy it.i begin to wonder if this man has stayed unmarried, perhaps he may still be alive.But he died from an illness which am sure was contributed by toiling hard for years in training 7 children and his wife.
It was really painful to note.

emmaodet:
It is very easy for them to move on because they hardly invest in relationship and also have abundance mentality due to lots of thirsty simps.

It is just the same way a man will quickly move on from he eanrs 100k/month if virtually everyday, he is receiving offers from other companies in the same range or more, all scrambling to employ him. He won't take shit from his present employers and any little disagreement, he will jumo ship and pick another job.
Same ideology.
The way men see jobs is also the way women see men bro.
Relationship is their way of life and how to survive.

Everything you are working for - car, house, money etc can be Sexually Transmitted to a woman.

What pains me most about women is how quick they are to forget ur efforts and sacrifices for them.i just can't get my head around it.
I have resolved to screen and vet them very well these days.once she is of no value,no association takes place.

After the said experience,no woman am yet to get married to is getting any attention,money validation for free from me again.If you are not working and doing something useful, nothing concern me with you.Unemployed bitches should date their likes.No favors either cos I can't remember the last time a woman I am unrelated gave me reasonable stuff.Its always be coming to save them.
It's time to flip the switch and play them at their game cos I have nothing to lose and can't really think of what a woman can offer me that I can't get on my own.

CaveAdullam:
Oh boy! My Lord! I will definitely rest in peace tonight! Lol. WTF! Lol

Right now, I'm trying as much as possible to play the women's game:Machiavellism. Every woman is a potential market regardless of anything she can offer aside sex, since that's what they do to different men based on his level. They lose little to nothing in their transactions, while men loses much or all. Henceforth, everything will be reverse, however, it will take a good amount of time, patience, subtlety and manipulations. Mimicking these women and practicing their chameleon effect is the new deal.

What about leeches? We will continue to discuss Nigeria problems, church problem, tossing our problems and scoping each other till thy kingdom come.

But on a norm, a woman that choose you will do anything for you especially if you're being desired by other women or highly valuable than her.

Lets roll the dice and play the game.

Last 2 weeks,I was going through my last relationship.i was like despite my own spending,what did this girl got for me?.could you believe that she bought only 'cotton buds' for cleaning ears throughout the duration (1yr) of the relationship.i was shocked and at the same time laughing.It was then I knew that only few women have something to offer and even if you get those ones, you will spend more on them than on broke ladies due to their high maintenance tendencies and hypergamy.

luminouz:
You see now? They work, yet they beg upandan. Can you imagine men in such situation?

Now imagine how the unemployed females go be!!!

My bro,more than 80% of my work colleagues are women.Na so dey go dey beg beg.very pathetic.Anyway am ready for them.
I will be nourishing myself with daily dose of TRP to dey ahead of the game.

luminouz:
Spot ON bro.

Women always think if they use reverse psychology on you or shame-and-tame tactics on a man, that they will get whatever they want. Not on me. I'm shameless...very very shameless. Why would a married woman be asking you for Valentine chicken? Is she not shameless? Can't she buy the chicken for herself or her husband? Must they always cry like little children for lollipop? The other two female workers dey ask you to do Sunday for them? ... If na me,I give them one evil look and I tell you,they won't ever repeat it again.

Valentine don almost reach na... You go see how women go dey harass their boyfriends for gifts.

That's cold hard balls man!
I have decided to adopt shameless attitude when dealing with women and it's working.

At my work place,there is this girl that has been indirectly telling me to take her out(she would say this is weekend,what am I going to do for her).I would just ignore her.she kept on pestering every weekend thinking I would bug.
So one day, another female worker was around when she was telling me the same thing.so the other girl joined her in telling me to do Sunday for them.i just replied that I don't know what both of you are talking about.they couldn't believe that I would turn both of them down.

Okay yesterday,a married woman at my work place said I will do valentine for this coming Sunday and specifically said that I would buy chicken for her.i told her that it is ur husband's duty to do valentine for you and not me and those that love themselves should do the valentine.she was speechless.
Women can never in their hearts thought of the idea of giving you something.they always believe it's the guy that should do it.

Another thing I have decided to start implementing is to demand for payment whenever they call asking for favors.women can't call you on phone without asking for one help or the other.if she calls and says she just wants to check on you.Bro na lie.within a week,you will hear her request.smh

luminouz:
That's what we have been saying since bro... Women don't understand what love is, in respect to a man. It's about status, class and all that to them. Men can fuq,date and marry tomato and kunu sellers but how many graduate women can marry lowkey vulcanizers. This shiit gets worse as she gets more education/money. A unemployed female PHD holder would scorn at an unemployed male BSc holder. She would hint at him not being at her level and I wonder what dafuq is wrong with women. Why does everything have to be transactional or material? I have seen and watched thousands of women since I was born and I tell you this, women don't think like men do. They just can't even think like we do. I was fifteen when I realised that there is nothing like love with women,it's just a lot of libidoic chemicalised mumbo jumbo neurotransmitters BS affecting our decisions.

There is nothing I love more than putting these egoistic women in their places. A self acclaimed feminist came to my house y'day. She saw as everywhere stew in my new crib and she was forming lovey dovey and shit. My dick no even rise. I was just so uninterested. Naso this motivational speaker enter kitchen cook soup finish, packaged some to take home, enter my bathroom took one toilet roll, entered kitchen again poured my palm oil inside nylon bag. Yet this was a babe whose status is always about how broke men are and such?

I let her reach my house gate, collected her bag, took my toilet roll, took my palm oil and poured the soup she took into the gutter, called bike for her and bid her goodbye.

Her WhatsApp status that night was full of pain. I enjoyed it.

N.B: This is 2021. If she is not a keeper, she is not worth your resources. Let her leave and never look back.

Oya go and sin no more.
After all,this is weekend.Get yourself a bottle of cold Heineken and chill

fattprince:
Martinez, skepticus, luminous and other redpiller here. I'm really sorry for falling unexpectedly. I didn't mean to. I should have followed the rule but all in all I'm sorry. It wouldn't happen again.

That would require great patience and tolerance from the guy.Some ladies may view it as the guy appearing too needy which would trigger full blown narcissism.
It will be up to him to decide if she really worth the headache

BLOODYSPERM:
These applies only for serious relationships that you want to work, love bombing refers to an appeal to her emotion, calming her down and manipulating her feelings to make her yield
to your authority not by argument or logic

Bro please can you elucidate on 'love bombing'.thanks

BLOODYSPERM:
When you have deep relationship problems with a woman, you fix it by love bombing her not through honest dialogue, because hurt women are selfish. They don't give a Bleep about the pain they caused (hers matters more), and they don't want to hear an analysis of how they fvcked up.

In all your dealings with a woman, always observe her actions.it gives away what she truly want from you.
Just make sure she doesn't know that you are assessing her cos if she does,she will instantly assume a different personality in order to suit the desired narrative and deceive the untrained eye.
Whatever she says is irrelevant.
Be keen.

Let him continue donating to the girl.
We have seen how this plays out.
'what have you even done for me'
'did I ask or beg you to do that for me'
'didnt we have sex'
'just that little favour you did and you are making noise'
That day his eyes will clear.

patoski39:
yes o, the guy wouldn't even listen if u try to advice him, and I don't think he would stop anytime soon cause I heard the gal lost her dad.

Bro to tell you the honest truth,I was driven to know about The Red Pill today because I was a rebound boyfriend.if I remember the whole thing,I still blame myself.The lady burnt me beyond repair that till now I have refused to enter another relationship because of the baggage she unloaded on me.This is over a year now.
But I still see the experience as a positive one because it has helped me to acquire TRP knowledge.
She even went back to her ex and the guy dumped her for her close friend.i was laughing hard the day she called me in the morning crying while narrating the whole story.she was like I ghosted her.i replied her 'do u really expect me to giving you bf attention after what you have done'.she was like I thought we were friends.i told her I don't do friends with woman am ain't dating. Since that day,she hasn't contacted me.
I have decided until I reach the targets I have set for myself,I have no business entertaining another relationship to avoid causing pain for another person that doesn't know what I experienced in the past.
I think this is the first time am talking about this to anyone

Please on no account should any nigga attempt to date any lady that just broke up with her bf.it can never end well because subconsciously,she will be comparing you with her ex and you won't know that you are competing with a ghost.Nothing u do will be enough and when she wants to break up with you,she will wake up one day and tells you she needs a break and that's it.
Don't even attempt to give her time to heal(I tried it and it didn't work) cos when she eventually do so,she will definitely not desire to be in relationship with you and will want to friendzone you.if you accept that,Oyo is ur case.You can take these words to the bank.
A word is enough for a Red Piller.

luminouz:
The worst thing to happen to any man is to be a rebound bf. That girl needs time to heal and get herself back, so her last relationship baggage won't be dumped on you. Most guys say they don't mind until they see that it's either the girl is not yet over her ex or she projects the hate and hurt on the new guy and make him suffer for her ex shortcomings.

She plainly told you she needs time,don't force it bro. Give her 6 months of ghostmode and scout for other girls who will like you. If you still feel she is worth your time after 6 months,then reconnect.

All her questions centered on assessment of your financial capabilities which if she found up to her 'requirements',she would have delude herself that she has found the man of her dreams.
This drives home the point that women enters a relationship only for what they will benefit and not what they would contribute.its a business mindset for which if she sees that it would take her time to earn profits or that she needs to invest first,she will sharply decline ur request(as she did above).
All these assessments are done within few minutes which will tell you how shortsighted women are and their incapability of working towards long term goals.The era of 'build with me' is in the trash can.
Imagine a girl of 20yrs old having this kind of mindset.i can bet my two balls that she is jobless, living with her parents or squatting with someone,yet she is sizing you up through criteria she won't even attain in 4years time.
Stay woke fellas.

mickelkingz:
omo yesterday i got to a friend shop at kasoa ghana, i saw this babe outside d shop and this babe was giving me eyes, so base on the bitter truth here i,say lemme play my game, cuz redpill makes me hate this genders even b4 after s redpill but i have to be kind sha

so i tell my guy to call the girl that i want to talk to her, omo babe come
conversation
her : what's up
me am good wbyu?
her *great,
me* what's your name she responded i,,forget d name sha
her *how old are you?
i was shock in my am like "if i carry car wear gucci show,,dis girl no go ask me this question, i was angry but fake smile

me "am 24 and you? she didn't answr oh
her "what do you do for a living? who do you stay with? where do,you work?
i answered all her questions bcuz i was angry inside and laughing at same time
me "how old are you" she like 20. i said okay
i ask for her number
her "i can't give u my number
me "why"
her "blaa bla bla i didn't even hear again
me okay no p
her *can i go now, i said no,p, help me call my friend

so my point is that ur best relationship should be money not women

From these 50 points posted above and all I have learnt from TRP,am still yet to convince myself that I need marriage in my life cos I just can't really tolerate any woman bullshits and drama.
Seriously,how can I leave with the fact that I toiled for years to study,improve myself and become well to do only for a woman to come make my life miserable?
God knows that I will only give marriage (if I finally decide) one try and will not hesitate to send the woman packing to her father's house if she doesn't let me have the peace of mind I crave for and it ends there.
Really,what is the point of having someone that remain a responsibility (burden I would say these days) especially when she is selfish and narcissistic to aid you in the pursue of self improvement?

You are still at the anger phase of TRP and you still have much to learn.
Let's leave this discussion at that

Goddys:
If taking a break or breaking up with her gives me the control I needed, it serves the purpose. You cannot tell a man to stay in a relationship and be forming alpha and logical when he is clearly trying to let go any manner of emotions he has for the woman that interferes in decision making.

Redpills is all about men being in total control and being logical at every moment in a relationship without being swayed by emotions.

If you are spending more on your woman than what you spend on your mom, believe me, you are no different than a SIMP. They are all women but the difference is that the latter is biological and nurtured you.

When you can't handle it, take a break or break up. There is no shame in that.

Breaking up with your girlfriend hasn't solve the main problem which is the fact that you are yet to get your emotions under control.
You have to work on yourself as a man so that you will be ready to handle your next relationship better.
Inasmuch as we are all learning TRP,you don't go about breaking up with ladies when we haven't sorted out ur emotional insecurities.
The only time your advice will hold weight is when the lady in question comes with a lot of baggage which you have finally discovered to be exerting a lot of strain on you by being in the relationship.
We men have to be responsible too and not think it's only the woman's fault.thats the point am trying to make.

Goddys:
I stopped picking my girlfriend's call and told her I needed space for sometime. She stopped contacting me.

I think it is imperative for all redpillers to checkmate their feelings for a woman by so doing.

I have gone two weeks without communicating with her and I feel good about it because I intend to start a relationship afresh with another woman.

I took the decision after swallowing alot of redpills here.

A real man should be in control of his feelings and emotions. When you realize that your emotions is overwhelming your logical part, take a break or break up with her.

There is no good woman. They are unlike men. Don't be deceived. They are all manipulative consciously or unconsciously.

You have solid points.
Me personally I made it as a rule not to keep any female friends if we aren't dating and am happy for that.i do tell my exs that see I don't do bestie or the go-to guy when u have issues and they are kinda surprised.i did that cos I know that am not gonna benefit from that association when they want my attention, money, validation and advice for free without any sexual commitment.

luminouz:
Lmaooo@exhaustive list? Bro, I no get such list abeg.

Check these out:

1. Dating: I don't give women money for hair,shoes,clothes,bag, school fees,house rent or allowance. These bills are not mine to pay, especially if she has extant(living) parents. If she is kind, nice and generous, then, I give her stuff on her birthdays(whatever I have in mind), after she must have demonstrated such at my own birthdays. I'm not a fan of eating outside,so all these daily/weekly hangouts are not for me. But taking her out once in a while(as a surprise) is still ok.
I love hardworking women and if she has skills that need money to invest in, I don't give her that money outrightly,I make her a partner and let her know business is different from dick/pussy issues and I won't hesitate to collect my investment if she ain't serious.
Girls go broke,just like guys. So tfare and miscellaneous expenses are still ok for me. But these must NEVER become the ritual in the relationship. She must never believe that I'm her ATM for each and every need. That ain't my role, mudafucker!!!

2. Friends: I have very few female friends. If they are the generous type, then I can give them food when they come visit or if broke,some recharge cards to call. If they are the not generous but the "urgent2k, I'm always hungry, gimme-gimme" type, their texts,calls or WhatsApp statuses are forever unread, unreplied and on eternal mute mode. Business wise, the skillful ones would be partners and I will control 60-70% of the stakes. All other bills are NEVER mine to carry.


N.B: Once a girlfriend or friends start giving you orders on what to do for her, with your own money and threatening to do bla bla blaaaaa...it's time to let her know you are in charge. It is your money,not hers and you don't owe her sponsorship, only her parents do.
I was chatting with a babe yday and she said " I ghosted a new guy sometime ago when he asked for tfare after coming to see me at work,for the first time". According to her, that was uncool and I told her, women have been collecting first visit tfare that we give willingly without crying,so why was she upset? She wanted to convince me but I said I wasn't unconvinced, then she asked "are you part of those who believe in spending their wives/gf's money?" I said why not!!!! As my wife,she has access to mine,why shouldn't I have access to hers? She wasn't Ok with my reply. I smiled inside me. Nothing is sweeter than watching a woman squirm with discomfort because you have a mind of your own and you maintained frame.

End time pastor

ashacot:
Prophet Onyeze Jesus has vow to raise many dead bodies on the 28 of January 2021. The prophet who was reacting and lamenting on mischief makers who are trying to blackmail him. The pastor warned those who are carrying propaganda about him that they are only making him popular with their propaganda.
He however vow to raise soany dead bodies this month.
Recall that the prophet courted controversy when he posted video of himself spraying Nigeria Currency on his naked clients in a river. That made Anambra state government to react to the video and threatened to take action. The prophet would later apologize for his actions.


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You see what am saying
It's just wild fantasies and if he feels he can't get it from you,he may find it from another lady willing to do so.These kind of guys are more interested in visual seductions and euphoria it elicits in them than actual sex

Fvckwithmeyoukn:
He tells me whenever i'm at his place,I should always seduce him...That he loves the sight of my laps...I'm just curious Younamean?

Just joking Sha.
Maybe your guy had this crazy fantasy which he wants to satisfy.some may even tell their gf not to be on any clothes when she is at his place for example.thats some wild craving.you may not need to read too much into his behavior.

Fvckwithmeyoukn:
If only you know who I'm talking bout...He is an IT Guru and from a wealthy home.

It seems someone is testing whether the underwear is eligible for Yahoo Yahoo activities.

The main reason for us swallowing TRP is to be a better man than we were yesterday.
And being a better man who is self aware,knows his worth,handles numerous challenges the society may pose to him and grows in every sphere of his life
is the end goal of the Red Pill.

Yahoo boys are weak men who can't put in the legitimate work that is needed to achieve this purpose of TRP.Some may see it as being smart but its greediness and discontentment that is at the heart of what they do and for such person he can't be red pilled.
Okay,look at their how they manage their resources when they finally get it.Reckless spending on their GF,living a lifestyle that is not sustainable based on their source of income shows you that they haven't acquired the skill set need to thrive in a sane society.
Yea,you might say that they have the Mula now and can live their lives the way they want and that is all that matters.that may be right from ur own angle but a better human being contributes positively to make a better world through their actions.
If I know that swallowing the pill,I will be worse than I was yesterday both mentally, emotionally, physically and resource wise,then I have no business being on this thread

naenaesosa:
Guys lets discuss this. Are yahoo boys simps or naturally red pilled?

Yahoo boys start off with a red pilled philosophy by not focusing on women, and just spending time on their laptops 24/7 trying to make money. They practically spend all their days indoors on a computer. Then the money starts to roll in; step 1: Buy new car and move to lekki or magodo; step 2: Gucci bag and clothes; step 3: Find an average babe and just start buying phone, bone straight, car and giving her allowance.

A yahoo boy i know casually said "Men i have to reduce my monthly expense oh my rent na 4m/per annum, fuel na 50k/month, i dey give my chef 120k/month, outing and enjoyment na 500k/month, then i go give my babe allowance of 400k/month". My mouth fell to the ground. I remember when he started, he was red pilled to the core, he knew women only like money. He worked day and night on his laptop, and immediately he started making it he started buying phone for girls, paying for plastic surgery, popping 500k champagne and pouring it on woman's head.

I am conflicted. On one hand he acts alpha and has a strong frame and controls women and brings them into his environment; on the other hand he spends on women, gives lekki high class oloshos $3000 etc.

P.S: I am not a yahoo apologist.

As a man,any association with females only benefits them in more 90% of cases.
So why would you even care whether she is happy or not when you declined her request?
Why they get angry when you refuse to spend your resources will tell you that it wasn't about love in the first place.Yet they will try to scam you with 'love' by telling you that a real man that loves his lady should take care of her.
Ask her what should a real woman do,she will just cook up nonsense.

If ever a woman spends her resources on you, always make sure you are aware of the conditions attached (they don't do favours for free) else she will use it against you and may be in deep shit by then.
You must be ruthless when selecting and vetting women who will aid you in the destination you are trying to reach, and not those who would drain your hard earned resources.
As a man working and earning a living,you have no business in dating or marrying a woman who is yet to be working no matter how beautiful she is,unless she is ready to develop herself and you are sure there is compatibility.

Have standards and don't settle for less cos their hypergamous nature won't allow them to do the same if you don't keep improving your value.

The solution to your friend problem is simple.
First,if he only wants to get money and go back to his old ways,he should continue swallowing the BLUE PILL.
Second,if he he really wants to learn the bitter truth and understand the real reason the girl left him,he should take the RED PILL and the truth will set him free.
He now has a choice to make.

mmadu4:
My guys make una wake up ooh before you run enter any relationship with any Nigerian girl ask your self can this girl love me without needing quick 2k from me? This is a question every man must ask himself .girls these days are looking for a helper and temporary breadwinner they will make you spend and spend give and give until you go broke. an old friend of mine is currently squatting with me he is so broke he cant even afford to buy credit to make calls. This was a guy that used to have a business and a good income . one girl wey him dey date na the girl chop am fall ground.this guy love the girl to the extent even friends warned him but he never listened. my advice to guys if you are dating a girl, don't put your mind that you have to cater for her or give her what she asks after what else can she offer apart from her smelling cunt ,