folake4u:




LMAO, your post is funny though.

OK, to every general rule there's always an exception. Yes girls are materialistic and selfish but there's a proviso here, it doesn't pertain to Nigerian girls alone. There are still girls in this part of the planet that are humble and not easily moved by money(yes ,they really exist). We all should stop hating on Nigerian women and that stereotype that Nigerian girls are this and that should stop. Search and you'd find some girls that are cool headed, it's just that you're not looking at the right direction.
Personally I believe that a person's character be it boy or girl can be traced to one's family values or some sort. There are some families that imbibe discipline and so someone that comes from such a family (even if he /she is poor) will stick to that values and hold tenaciously to it. Like I said, it all narrows down to home training.


Secondly, it is not an established fact that Nigerian girls who've attained the age of 25years or above are or have been "oloshos " whether corporate or industrial at a certain point in their life. Look around you dude, do I need to remind you of the akara seller in your street that is 25yrs or that fine bread seller whose smile is charming and everyone one wants to go "close "to her but yet she stands her ground and would not succumb because she believes she's worth more than that or that extremely beautiful and brilliant girl in your class or at your workplace who seems to be moving ahead of all her colleagues because she's aiming for the top? We all should stop this general notion that Nigerian girls above 25years are "second hand clothes "or chattels. Fine, there are still some mumu girls that fool around but I don't think it's any of your business because in this life, no one owes you anything or any explanation except if such person borrows your stuff .
There are successful women out there who climbed the ladder of success through hard work and determination. I think you should change the people you hang with though .



This is my one pence though. .

goat22:


In concurrence of the affirmative oblong cathedral, but the uttar pradesh communal intapugulatary sanitation fermentation is tantamount to the hooka assembly, honorarium indeed, nevertheless great sadiq.

jaxxy:



I'm not scared at all just want the right person irrespective of her flaws and I wont toy with that. Babymamas are for guys looking for the easy way out or not ready to settle down.

AstroG:
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Forget All these things your Blabbing abt
There is A Man in my Hood,he is past 40,upon all the pressures from everywhere to marry,he is yet to marry,but still very very happy. And another amazing fact is that he is Lawyer (SAN for that matter)

Not Everyone gives into pressures from people to go and marry
Like me,I don plan am say na two Babymamas I go get,no time to waste on these Nigerian Girls Op Aforementioned

IamaNigerianGuy:
When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
People living in pain and dying in silence...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP

Shugavee:
just hving fun!! Hving fun like men do!! B4 a lady is 23 the pressure has began!!! While The parent of a male child is setting up his future!!! B4 u get to 300l self as a woman, u r ripe for marriage!!!( U won't get it, u r not a lady) U think ladies won't like hving random sex too n being players!! But we can't cause the society has conditioned us

Montez90:
the main reason is money, can you marry a poor man out of pity?

gozie112:
oga,,u no go understand

gozie112:
but hes given me a good advise,

horlarwereleh:


*Smiles* i don complete am bro

folake4u:



Hehehe where do I know you from jor

folake4u:



LMAO do I know you?

Elliot2:
Truer words have not been said! I will do exactly as u opined- already have similarly thoughts. Gracia,i appreciate.

gozie112:
ahhhh it won't my potion.amen would definitely do as u said earlier,,take her out buy some drink for her,etc....thank u for advice

Elliot2:
ok. I am working on that,and she is willing. My mimi is a good girl,naturally. The problem is me now,i can't seem to handle her graphic confessions; i keep thinking and imagining things.

Elliot2:
My heartbreak story could make a good movie. I fell in love with once brilliant and beautiful melanin classmate in jss2. But,since i was naive then,i couldn't tell her my feelings. so along the line,we got into a fight. but at the end,she sent me an apology letter and some apple(Those were the best apples i have eaten,ever). So i was happy to make it up with her the following day,but when i got to class i was informed that she had relocated with her family. I was heartbroken. From then,i couldn't stop thinking about her,she was my missing rib and kidney. After several years of searching for my missing Mimi...my first search on facebook when i registered,was her name. Every time i logged in on any social media,i would put her name on the search engine...but all to no avail. I was depressed,i couldn't stop thinking about her. Because of her,i kept my virginity all through to 300l in the university; i was obsessed with the thought of my mimi,she was the perfect woman in my dream world. Even at a point,i was told through a proxy that she was already late(however,iy was her twin sister who died). Even at that,i didn't stop looking for her:even if it was her grave,all i wanted was to express my love for her on it. So,after ten(10) good years of searching,i finally found her on facebook(all the while,she was already friend with someone I knew!). thereafter,i told her about all my feelings for her and all the stress i passed through to find her. But,i was given the shocker of my life: she confessed to me that she is no longer the good girl i knew her for,that now she drinks,smokes,and that she is also a sex maniac,too. She said that the death of her twin sister got to her,that she felt guilt for the circumstances that led to her twin's death;so she became depressed as a result,and therefore started abusing substances to alleviate her pains. At this point,i became too weak to absolve the shock: all my dream of a perfect girl by my side making a perfect relationship, is gone. I couldn't imagine all that she could have done in those past years in the university,messing herself up with all the alcohol,drugs and bad niggas inching her! while i was keeping chaste! It is terrible for me,even as she confessed that she is still battling to stop those addictions...
Long story shortened...we are dating now,but sincerely i am not serious about it. i can't tell her that;in fact,i don't want to loose her even as i find it difficult to accept the realities. A part of me will feel void if i should loose her: i am thinking, will i ever find that perfect girl who got my fancy as i did back then? The heartbreak is really messing me up!

horlarwereleh:
Later, she started complaining abt her period to me, saying her period are usually very painful nwadays!! She complained alot that i av to ask her to go the hospital, i transfered money to this girl, nd the result, she said its because she has had sex in a long time!! It was very funny!!! Asked her to stop joking but dx lady insists dats d truth!! Later, she proposed dat she will av a guy dat will be servicing her nd wen am ready we will continue!!! Thought she was joking until i heard rumors of her doing it!! I confronted her nd she said hasn't she told me before!!! I threatened her dat if she didnt stop, we shud break up, wat did i said dat for, its like throwing bone to a dog, she just caught on to it, did everything to av her bak, was even willing to forgive her but she remain adamant!!! Dat was how a rltionship of 6 yrs went down the drain!! *smiles sadly*.

horlarwereleh:
Hmmmmm!!! Girls!!! If you like, try to find out about them frm nw till you die, u will never guess d machine working in them.
I'v been having heartbreak now, hmmm, no be today, but i guess maybe its the last one that really shakes me so much!!!
There was this girl i was dating then, met her when i was in 300l, we dated till i finished school, served, nd got a job too!!
I was thinking life couldnt be better, here i am with my dream job, a girl that loves me, dat i also adores too!!!
I introduced this girl to my parents nd dy approved of her, wats next?? To me, i thought its marriage, not knwing i was fooling myself!!!
A situation arises dat caused me to transffered from my place of work to anoda state, i left this girl here nd went to where i was transfered. We kept in touch but within three months, i noticed som changes in her but i ignored dem cux i thought we av come so far to be scared of anything!!!

bobolizim:
number one mistake girls have is that they fail to have a good mentor. The character that guy was portraying when he had nothing were not his.
Now, he has money. He thinks you're not good enough for him. How could guys be as cruel as this. That's why I don't pity some of them when they get dumped by a girl. A relationship shouldn't be more than 5 years before it leads to marriage. You really made a mistake that my cousin made. She dated him for 10yrs,she's now 28. Guy said he can't marry her due to church differences. Nigga got married to a lady that same year and impreganted her before the marriage. Now he's broken up with her wife and wants to be back with my cousin which can't be possible ever!!!

Biglittlelois:
We dated for 5 years, i stood by him when he had nothing, last year july he got a job at an oil company, december he called to tell me he is not ready to get married anytime soon that i should look for some one else, there was no issues, fight or whatever.

Now i am almost 29 and my heart is stone cold, i thought men appreciates a lady that was with them during tough times but i was wrong, if i go after men that are already made who would blame me? that is why i dont blame ladies that do, i am very comfortable but i cant bring myself to feel anything for any man, i hope it changes soon.

treasuredkids:
Hmmm!!! I suggest you copy the lovers Nos and ascertain his real identity via true caller then check him out on Facebook and other social media handles so you can be sure who she's involved with.

greatgod2012:
Anytime u have a disagreement, do you sincerely aplogise, if no, try that.
Your hubby's temparement is most likely to be melancholy, that is one of their weaknesses, after this disagreement is over, try to educate him on d dangers involved in keeping malice.
You as d woman of d house, try as much as you can to ignore some things in order to reduce d rate of disagreements in d house.
When it is time for him to eat, dont wait for him to call d househelp or for him to go to d kitchen himself, serve him as expected, that will make his heart melt on time.
Be more submissive and humble.
Never sleep separately when there is disagreement, it helps to resolve disagreement on time, by d time "body touch body", expect another language.
Never involve your kids or 3rd party when there is disagreement, he may not really mean any harm, but by d time u involve another party, you are demeaning him, which may lead to his keeping malice, when he doesnt know what to do to make u feel bad, hence, keeping malice.
When hes keeping malice, never involve in keeping malice with him, always perform your duties as expected, with time, he will appreciate and understand you
better.
Above all, involve God in your marriage, a three-fold cord is not easily broken,ie....you, your hubby and God.........invite him, he is d restorer of peace.
May God help us all....... Amen.

OldBeer:
Bros now that I am sure that Buhari is winning nextyear elections, I dey do all I can to[b] jabo [/b] from here.
Kkeep upholding ur culture o!

OldBeer:
See as that person clear u but u still write thesis 4 am.
U dey tell am 2 swerve but na u first jump insyd d mention.
Bro, take ur L in peace.
Anyway our values na nonsense.
With everything, we still be shithole.
So no use am brag hybridizer

Layshooo:
something! Oscar Romeo Alpha let them see peace.

demelza:
Sorry I dont chat with newbies.
Try your luck elsewhere.

skarlett:


If you don't want Ogun to punish you, stay away from my mentions

demelza:
Thank God I no longer live in that world.
I pray you have the means to move to civilization before you pass away.

skarlett:
I wish I can like your post more than once, what a stupid and mediocre write-up