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Good morning fellas!
I've always wanted and pray to practice a intertribal marriage right from my mid-teenage years. This is however becoming a daunting task by the day.I mean intertribal between core tribes from Southern and Northern Nigeria without any political game attached to it.
For those already in such marriage,pls,kindly share your experience on;
1) The challenges faced before tying the knot and how you overcame it?
2) How you managing the cultural differences?
3) Managing the in-laws and other close relatives
4) Your fears before you finally made up your mind to Damn all unforeseen consequences and propose to your woman or say i do to your man.


I eagerly await your inputs.....thanks in advance.

olasaad:
Yeah

wowww!
How sweet?
I also did....at Sibre,but I do not think you served in Taraba state,did you?

olasaad:
Lol Jalingo/Abeokuta 2015.

Did you camp in Jalingo that year?

ikemesit4477:
bros hijab is meant for the poor!

Imagine what this son of Adam has written!

Pataricatering:
where did you get approached by Muslims? That's a lie ! I'm not Muslim but I can confidently tell you lied just to counter the dude s point ! Christians accost people every and anywhere as the guy said and still scream " islamization " ! Muslims NEVER approach people to convert except you go to the mosque or you ask them about Islam !

May God bless you ma'am!
I did not quote you because you supported the guy's point but because the OBJECTIVITY in your comment gladdens me.
Atleast, im not surprised by comments coming from some unrepentant corrupt-minded christians and some quarter-baked muslims alike. How do expect a nation like ours to move forward wben you try to counter a proven fact with a fabricated lie just to make a point.



'AYAM NOT UNDERSTANDING GASKIYA'

ollah2:
Some of your just write without using your brains. The owner of this thread is a sworn atheist. He makes his rules according to his wish, he placed the rule there but the bigotry and intolerance in you blame Muslims for that.

This thread is a Muslim thread and like always, it will he hijacked by Christians inorder to ridicule them yet Muslims are intolerant .

Churches exist virtually everywhere, you are preached to join Christianity on the road, buses, they will invade your house, et al telling folks their gods is false and ONLY Christians are destined to go heaven yet Muslims are the ones not tolerant.

The bigotry, sentiments, hatred and intolerance in most of you stinks to high heavens

This reply couldn't be more aptly written.

MhizAJ:
What's wrong with youth of this generation

How can a relationship be built on sex and money

If there's no sex in the relationship will men die? I don't understand

If she's a virgin and she's saying she doesn't want sex then respect her decision even if she's not still respect her decision

Men especially Nigerian men don't have regard for ladies...They don't know how to apply wisdom in relationship...I can't deal!

They think they can use money to just trap women

Walahi,the thing just tire me.
The moral decadence in this generation sickens me to the bones.Only God knows how spoilt the upcoming generations would be?

aurxtino:
IT difficult for a lady to confess to a man that he is the best and all she's ever wished for to have in a man right? My gf told me this several times and even told some of her friends too that i am the best man for her, but this decision she took is getting me confused, to her she said she wants to focus on her church activities, which i know her too well that there is a little comma there if you get what i am trying to say.

The height of hypocrisy is when a lady who's been having sex with a 'bf' suddenly decides to concentrate on 'church activities'.
One reason I so much advocate to instill discipline before religious understandings in children

The fact that he lead me through the basic religious practice; prayer,adored and was always proud of me and that he doesn't take shit, all of which happened during my childhood.

Each tym I remember that,i try to think less about his flip side and thank God.

Good morning fellas!
Is there any recruitment coming up from the Ministry of Interior?
I learnt NIS have conducted theirs but not sure about that of NSCDC AND NPS.
Any useful info would be much appreciated.

Dotman2210:
We had the interview yesterday

congratulations man!
I wish you the best and wish myself the best in order on going exercise too...AMEEN!

braine:
You can put the updates here please. I don't know the what's app group this people are putting their numbers down for.

You dey mind them.
soteh! Battery go come run down and dem no go fit get the main info wey dem dey seek.

sahjury:
Admin oo or not admin we will be dere by his grace.but do any1 hav an idea how many are they going to recruit and are they going to split it each state will have their own quota.

I have no idea of the number they intend recruiting this year may be 10 or less,but I heard they replace randomly to states with less number of required heads.

DEEKAH7:
D same method of last year... Credentials screening, den Face to Face interview... Each candidate was askd questions eida of ur field or Current Affairs..
And he said dey wer just 10 from Kogi calld for Interview

I learnt Medicals came before credentials screening and one-on-one interview last year.

ZombiePUNISHER:
Please who are his most preferred choices?

You should know that if you had being following the trends ever since he got appointed.

habtop:
Graduate

Congratulations bro!
BaarakaLlah fihi!


The Lord that made yours possible is still on His throne and will do mine too if it's best for me In sha Allah.

Dongsun:
Oyo State is now sending text for interview on Friday 9th of February, 2018

Did you also receive a msg for the interview?

bloodmoneyspita:
first of all Rochas has more ideas than ambode, you're judging ambode based on Lagos which is a big city.

Rochas has transformed his state more than anyone else in fact Rochas deserve an award as the best governor than any other governor.

But his people don't like him for his utterances and his political decisions. No matter what Rochas does, he will be hated and will never be considered relevant in ndigbo because he has been rejected before now.

Lagos is NOT a big city,it's just an embarrassingly blessed one

gbosaa:
Are you sure you know what you are talking about??

A lady whom he rated 6 on the attractive scale made him cum in 2mins.

Don’t you think that if she was more attractive like 8, he would cum in less than 2mins


Attraction 6.....2 mins

Attraction 8.....6/8 x2= 1.5mins

He would cum in about 90secs if she was a bit more attractive.

Don’t you think he should go for very ugly women instead cos your theory would worsen his condition?

Your calculation is wrong bros.

Arondizuogu:
What speculation. He sold young vibrant players like Ake, loaned Bats, do sent start Charley Musonda, Plays Christensen occasionally. These are young vibrant players looking to impress very well. Put them in and see football. He doesn't give player chances . He was playing only premier league last season and was hyping.

I'm as much as I condemn the sale of some of our academy graduates, u equally have to consider the flip side if the situation which is personal preference. The board should have saw it coming as they keep changing managers and its never gonna stop unless a manager is given ample time and lotta financial backing,especially with the way rivals are splashing the cash .

ZombiePUNISHER:
Which financial aid are you talking about
He brought in bakayoko for 40million
That's a good waste of money
He bought Barkley... What has he achieved to be bought by Chelsea
Now Giroud... A bench warmer at arsenal...
Common nah... Conte is out of ideas

All those you mentioned were plan B or eeven C.He opted for them when the board refuse to sanction deals for his most preferred choices.

Has any1 gotten the interview IV in oyo state?

Edoblakky:
The disgrace Conte is giving us is unbearable. Can he be sacked b4 this match ends?

will you blame him?
it doesn't get the financial backing he deserves from the board,coupled with the speculations surrounding his future. The players' morale is just low largely due to that speculation.

IpsumDolor:
My case could be a rhethorical one but I'mma go ahead and spill it.

My girlfriend (new) is considered to be from a ‘lower’ social class than me.
I'm fairly ok, and earn about 150K/mo; while she's relatively a very low income-earning entrepreneur (something my family constantly remind me)

Our way of dressing and talking is a bit different, we live in different social circles (friends) and I’m ‘more’ educated while she's a Secondary School Leaver. I get along perfectly with her family and friends but my friends and family aren’t as accepting of her.

I really really like her but sometimes I fear that the differences might be too much. Is it possible to have a relationship with someone who is considered to be from a different social class and damn the societal consequences?

If you really love her as you claimed,i would advice you let your family know how much you happy being with.Let those that care to listen,your friends inclusive know she is the lady you intend spending the rest of your of your lofe with and younaint gonna shift grounds on that decision no matter what.


PS:This stance must be taken wwhen you sure she is also ready to improve herself both educationally and biz-wise and your own unflinching support for her must not be questioned either.I WISH U ALL DA BEST

FOLLOWING!

GhettoHustler007:
Sure I'll Thanks a lot..

You welcome bro!

Borepo:
@hybridz & @haptop: Please where is the venue 4 the exam in Ibadan or can u reach me via 08081605430

Oyo state college of health sciences and technology,Eleyele,Ibadan.

Help me ask this OP why she is crying over spilled milk?Meanwhile, i will come bck nd read the novel sorry the epistle.

geodemainguy:
For us in Ebonyi State, we got the invitation yesternight and wrote the exam today. The exam was strictly on invitation. If your name is not on the shortlisted list, you will be ask to leave. The questions was basically English language, Current affairs (international, national and state) then essay writing.

Good luck to all of you from other states yet to write.

Thanks for this piece of info.What was the duration given and how many were the current affairs and English questions? In what format were they?

ajoyeleke:
I guess dey only consider 2.1 and above.
BTW wen did u submit ur application ?

I submitted on the 29th. Besides,i wudnt have received any msg if it was on 2.1 and abv consideration.

GhettoHustler007:
Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Get A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin[b]








Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Get A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin[/b]








Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Find A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin

If I'm to answer this your question with what I really have in mind,i will definitely be writing an epistle.

But to save ourselves some valuable time,the best and concise lead I can give is to check out yiur relationship with the female folks already in your life.How do u relate with your mum,female siblings, female cousins,nieces,grandmas and even some lecturers. I'm sure you do this with no carnal intention and if at all there was ever any,it has and will never lead u to take a wrong step (unless one is being controlled by some spirits)

It should be noted that the excesses and fun being shown to you by these folks are managed and so,i see no reason why u can't channel that same discipline to your prospective gf/wife.

I believe the thought of getting laid is born out of one or two of peer pressure,complex,too much idleness,sexual indiscipline etc or even all.All these can take the better part of one's thought if one cannot see the positiveness iinn the flip side of getting laid prematurely, which is, 'I ain't gonna loose anything tangible if I refuse,lemme instead channel the energy used in wooing the said babe into something positive or use the babe's xtreme fondness of me to the betterment of my life albeit without being self-centred to your course alone'.


PS:I do not intend to write this much but the words keep coming.Permit me to give the words a premature halt at this juncture....

#premarital sex is BAD,stay off it.