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I like this thread. It's inspiring.

shaqur4:
Guy you can do it if you want it, I live in a room&parlour self con(200k) close to ojuelegba and my salary is a little less to your own. I ve 1 kid his school fees is 45k per term. B4 I got married I save 40k or 30k monthly my T fair daily is300naira. Just tell God you need your own wife thins will work well. After I got married i do contribution of 20k per month to cover my yearly rent and any month am to pay my son sch fees I will stop the contribution for 2 months then later coverd it back. My wife do assist in kitchen tins and drinks, biscuits for my son to take to sch she buy in bulk. The main secret is we don't buy food outside everyone of us take food to office and sch. If you believe that you can do it then it will work for you.

l so much love your analysis and financial planning. I just took some valuable cue, thanks!

Au79:
yes o..am a medic and the rate at which we see people reactive to anti retroviral screening is really something to be worried about..she refuse doin any test atall including genotype that she knows she is "clean"... just imagine

Danger alerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrt!!!
Oga, i don't know the kinda advice you seek again,but you have the answer right up there. Say "NO" to manipulation.

Besides,if she's clean as she claimed, she shouldn't be ashamed of going for test.

Just one pere! Nawa òooo. Lemme think of a word that will encompass most.....yea!







She must be WELL-CULTURED!

justiniyke29:
as in she wants me to believe that she spent 3 days(according to her) in a guys house and the guy became impotent suddenly. The worst part is that she is not remorseful at all

She could be right, hence her reluctance in being remorseful. It's not every guy that takes advantage of a girl's company in solitude.

thowbie7ven:
Bruh...na person wey din hands off school oo...Working class

Oook! I gotcha, but a working class would have passed through those stages you earlier mentioned now. Dont forget we have cooperate prostitutes too. So, what do you do in that case?

This thread has been created long time ago,but I feel it's an evergreen.

Now,to the guys considering village girls,it would have been a perfect choice if Corp members don't get posted there but they do. They,in most cases, spoil and take the innocence of most,together with some erring teachers and village thugs.
It's a pathetic situation to admit.

thowbie7ven:
God forbid bad thing!...i'll never marry a prospective undergraduate, an undergraduate, a Female corp member or a prospective Female Corp member...They are the greatest cheats!...90% of them will cheat on you...as man, don't place all your Total trust in them

Bros! Who u wan come marry na? Na prospective senior secondary school girl?

millionboi2:
hahahahaha


Beta pinkin

I see you bro #ThumbUp

millionboi2:
how do u change oil then?

Well,i don't need to,for now. My "car" doesn't travel and as such, 'servicing' needs not be done.

ttmax09:
Now you just described me. Though have not been in a relationship before.

Well,i guess we have many things in common then, Cox I've never really had a true relationship before too. Many fall but I play 'dumb' to not notice their overtures.

I got sisters and I'm gonna have girl child. So,i don't wanna break any heart coz I could be unapologetically mean. I prefer being heartbroken than the other way coz I forget and heal faster than anyone could imagine.

Hmmmm! Wonderful submissions. As for me,i don't date/court if I know you don't stand a chance of becoming the mother of my unborn cuties.
I've however met some wonderful ladies. It's either they're already hooked, older or genotypically incompatible.

Gosky1,which one is 'Wes evaluation'? What does it mean?

gosky1:
Hi people,

I paid for my Wes evaluation and had my unversity send my transcripts and certificate directly to Wes. The recent update from Wes is that they have sent My credential to my institution for verification. I am worried because what I can see as my year of graduation in my Wes profile is 2016 and not 2015 but my certificate clearly states that I graduated in July 2015 and was awarded degree in April 2016 as most Nigerian university morally issue certificate a year after graduation and this is really affecting my year of work experience needed for my CRS point. I need am advice on how to resolve this please.

@emboldened, that's very wrong.
Meanwhile, whatever date that appears on your certificate is believed believed be the date you graduated. I write to be corrected though.

Ategberoson:
Keep your advice to your lineage

LOL
I've done that for long,so I thought i should try something new;like extending my generosity to you

Ategberoson:
That should tell you every man is responsible for his opinion. so who are you to overrule mine and why should you be curious about another man's future?


you need to get a work and get busy

@yiur first sentence,i get it,but there is nothing wrong if someone actually advices you about a perceived wrong opinion. Those who commit suicide had this kinda mindset, they would have been alive by now if they had listened to better opinions too.

Meanwhile, I'm already busy,although I could spare some time for an extra job if u got any,provided d pay is right.

Ategberoson:
regret her action on What? as wealthy as dimeji bankole was as even speaker he married at the age of 39


I don't include societal pressure with my future plan.

So, you think dimeji has the righteousness to be followed. Could it be coz of his wealth..I'm curious!

Ategberoson:
don't let anyone discourage u here or outside here it's very possible

two set of people that would rubbish and devalue that dignity are guys which I belong and ladies that had been disflowered



I met my fiancé at the age of 22yrs, we did it when she was 26 even though I had some side chic during those ignorant days but the bottom point is, I made her to do it, till today it still pain her as she want us to do it on honeymoon day


we have reached 8yrs and I wouldn't have done it if I know she was different from other ladies, the joy part of this is we acted like brother & sister despite coming from different background and tribe


so is very possible, is your pride, is your dignity and stop telling your female or male friends about it again. keep it to yourself

8years and she's still at the fiancee level. Baba,aint you gonna upgrade her or do u want her to regret her action?

marvin906:
She left me and I thank God for it..
She wanted something she didn't deserve

I'm wondering what she wanted that you thought she didn't deserve. Could it be marriage?

Heloct:
The ones that are ready thinks I'm too young.

I really want to marry young.

This is a case of 'some have food but cAnnot eat,some can eat but there is no food'
I like your mindset about marriage though,i pray u get a befitting spouse.

PS: that your lips though.

EngineerVin:
Not ready yet cos 98% of ladies are runs girl... Will enter village dis exams to look for one

Village girls can't be trusted as well. If u really meant what u said,i pray she doesn't go off-way when she eventually becomes exposed.

LEAFLET:
No disrespect, but 23 is the most ripe age to get married for a lady. Just saying so u don't go thinking you've still got the whole time on your feet... I'm getting married this xmas, I'm thirty and my wife to be is 23 and I just met her July this year.

I love reading testimonies like this. Congratulations in advance bro,I wish you marital bliss.

cicikhemy:
Apete is very very cheap with nice self cont ranging from 40 to 50

You don't mean it!
By the way,is apete not that right turn off eleyele road when coming from poly Ibadan? How is electricity supply there and what other attractions can one get from there?

First if all,i commend your patience and perseverance to still be in that marriage. What you've endured is more than what you might still have to endure,only if you make yourself happy.

The reason why you this depressed is coz you've kept this sadness in you for too long,you simply need someone to talk to,someone you trust who's got your backlit confide in. I suggest people like your family members (the wise and reasonable ones),your mum or even a counsellor/therapist.

You own your life and only you can make it worth living.just ignore him and see him as just someone you living with. You're even lucky you got a Source if income. You should take succour in that many are going through a lot worse but they aint depressed, not coz they're cheating, but coz they've learnt ways of purging out their worries. You could take inspiration from the love you have for your first child. Start by thinking what a strange woman is gonna do to him/her If u ain't there.

Wake up every morning and say to yourself....IM STRONGER THAN MY CHALLENGES AND I'LL BE FINE.

Stay healthy young woman!

renewa29:
You simply need to communicate and do what's best for your marriage.

First and foremost, in my books anal sex is synonymous with perverted sex in marriage and it is totally wrong when you started on a holy no sex relationship, allowing anal penetration is totally wrong.

Your husband takes banana and milk, what do you take to keep up with him? Because if your husband is taking organic supplements, you should research on female sexual supplements which can help you and then you need to begin to gym so that you can improve your fitness and reduce your body fat, this will also enhance your endurance levels.

Stop allowing anal penetration. Get regular physical exercise. Take female aphrodisiacs like shrimps, crayfish, lobsters, periwinkles and add organic supplements for female longevity.

If you are send your husband outside then why did you marry him in the first place? People saying give him this and that have not dealt with high libido, even with sugar all that happens is faster ejaculation it does not kill the urge. A man that can ejaculate 5 times in 1 night has a fast climax cycle which in tandem with his high libido means he is a stud. If you did not know this before marriage, the best you can do is to seek professional help with his permission, but it is by no means a sickness, it is how he is.

You did not mention if he comes to you during your monthly period which means he is not a total pervert or....

It's easy to identify a professional's submission and if u aint one,you should consider it fast.I was reading comments and simultaneously searching for one that proffers the solution,without the slightest wickedness or hurt to either party and this comment got the nod.

The submissions so far before this shows how wicked some women could be or on a fair consideration, their level of reasoning and giving panacea to crucial situations.

The Op should simply employ this approach and the benefits would be the satisfaction and happy both will be in the aftermath.

Welcomme:
Marriage is the greatest scam I have ever seen in my life..

That's simply because you've allowed the sad marital stories get to you. You concentrate more on them,hence,making you arrive at such primitive conclusion.
PS: correct the mistake in that your hausa status abi na personal statement ni

oweniwe:
A cheating married woman will eventually either kill her husband directly herself or have him killed by another means.

Any man living in same house with a constantly cheating wife... His life is in God's hands

God's hands you said? Nah!
His life was in God's hands before his wife began to cheat but once a wife starts cheating, my bro,d man's life is hanging by a web thread ooo albeit a thick one

For those asking me to send a copy to some e-mail addresses, I'm sorry. You can as well check it up on Google. Thanks!

Teedoe25:
Bro pls kindly help me with the link that has 257pages or kindly help me check my name Idowu Tosin Kayode. Thanks

Sorry bro! No result found.
Idowu Emmanuel Oluwatosin was what I saw.

funbus:
please help me check C0530858OS, oyesodefunmi@gmail.com

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