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Politics / Re: Bill Gates Hits Nigeria Again: "Your Investment In Health, Education Not Good" by hypnotic(m): 9:37am On Mar 27, 2018
he met a weak government where his opinion wins, jeff bezos, helu slim and some others do not believe in some of bill gates policies.
Kaymercury:
the same greedy self centered gates that keep on trying to eradicate Africans through his laboratory poduced GMO seeds.Not trying to defend fg though but this man have hidden agenda
Politics / Re: Sagay Backs Danjuma’s Self-Defence, Says Law Allows Nigerians Defend Themselves by hypnotic(m): 8:14pm On Mar 26, 2018
Sagay please stand somewhere, in or out
Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy Mocks Comedian Ushbebe After Signing Pepsi Endorsement by hypnotic(m): 7:58pm On Mar 26, 2018
never "fight" with the rich, hushpuppi with all his swagoo tried davido, he hands up before round 1 finish
Celebrities / Re: Kiss Daniel And Chidinma Ekile Rehearsing In The Bedroom (Photos) by hypnotic(m): 9:37am On Mar 26, 2018
hiannn, e don dey reach bed. Okay oh, kiss daniels how many times i call you, no come dey give us soul e baba lines oh
Foreign Affairs / Re: Stormy Daniels: "Donald Trump Did Not Use A Condom When We Had Sex" by hypnotic(m): 9:35am On Mar 26, 2018
Democrats need to come and learn about opposition from APC, all this one na kindergarten
Business / Re: Jumia’s Major Investor, Rocket Internet, Seeks Exit Via IPO by hypnotic(m): 8:47am On Mar 26, 2018
the scam is about to be complete; sell equity to investors, exit the market with style and focus on other regions.

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Religion / Re: Chinese Woman Arrested For Preaching To President Xi by hypnotic(m): 11:42pm On Mar 25, 2018
Jesus pass china president, he is courting what will fall him, many have tried it earlier and didn't survive
fk002:
I Like China but sometimes their government tyranny is just too much

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Politics / Re: "Hope They Won't Say Danjuma Keeps 'Looted' Billions In His Borehole" - Fayose by hypnotic(m): 11:15pm On Mar 25, 2018
dem don start
GoroTango:
It is on record that General Danjuma failed to keep his promise to Ironsi and Fajuyi when he gave them his word that they would not be harmed. Im talking about the night of 29th July 1966. So far he has succeeded in becoming Nigeria's richest, retired army general. He is a disgrace to the north

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Politics / Re: You’ve Failed The North, ACF, 17 Arewa Groups Tell Buhari, Northern Politicians by hypnotic(m): 3:26pm On Mar 25, 2018
..,signed by chief of staff to saraki, ok oh
Romance / Re: We Met On Facebook. We're Getting Married Next Month. Love Is Beautiful! by hypnotic(m): 3:19pm On Mar 25, 2018
See dami Wey de light that oceanic bank babe steady that time for Zamfara, easy with this meat abeg
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need To Keep Busy Before I Commit Sucide by hypnotic(m): 9:43pm On Mar 24, 2018
i would advise you approach your church and share your grieve, there should be a role for you to get by in there
Romance / Re: Meet Chidera Eggerue: "The Slumflower" #SaggyBoobsMatter Movement Founder by hypnotic(m): 11:47pm On Mar 23, 2018
consolation prize
Politics / Re: FG Replies Bill Gates' Comment On Buhari's Economic Plan by hypnotic(m): 10:51pm On Mar 23, 2018
Fayemi replied Soludo's letter before the APC government came to office but what do we get? Please just accept that all of you in this government dont know book

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Blames Powerful Individuals For Herders And Farmers Clashes by hypnotic(m): 9:34am On Mar 23, 2018
so please who is more powerful than the president?
Politics / Re: El-Rufai: "Bill Gates' Opinion On Buhari’s Economic Policy Not Correct" by hypnotic(m): 8:31am On Mar 23, 2018
ok since you have embraced science as an adult and we are all children, please walk the talk, historian. Multinational is not the driver of wealth it is human capital. A company's result is a reflection of its corporate governance no matter how big or small
0monnak0da:
Many totally lack understanding.

In 1945 Germany and Japan lost the War and their infrastrcture completely destroyed by bombardment. Today they are among the largest world economies .Why ? One answer their people and the contents of their people's heads.

The other side of Human capital is the opposite of knowledge. So Knowledge is not just about having it or not having it but there is a third condition Antiknowledge. A state engendered by possessing and being possessed by all manner of religious and pseudo religious beliefs about howthe world works . Propagated by Pentecostal Christianity,Islam and others. Ideas such as Miraculous Breakthrough,Prosperity teaching and related foolishnes which stop our people fro embracing science and reality like adults. Instead we propagate foolishness like Money ritual, Stolen penis stolen destiny and such like

In Northern Nigeria where it is said that we have the greatest population ,What propotion of the are educated skilled or able to contribute to the economy ,what propotion of the women.

The reality is it is Human Capital that makes one naation slaves of another.

The ultimate driver of wealth is the Firm ,the multinational

The Nestles,Toyotas,ABBs,Facebooks,CocaColas,General Electrics,Pfizers, Siemens, Boeings of these waorld are what would determine which countries are rich andd which aren't .Even at the most basic level of civil Engineering where is the HumaCapita.

Visit any major Engineering project , Road or Brdge building site and the person in charge is a white man in his 40s . Where are our own people.
Now we are building power plants without the knowledge of how maintain them

We cannot even set up ur own Supermarket chains . Human Capital is everything.
An ignorant superstitious people will never go very far and two of our greatest enemies in Nigeria are Islam and Christianity
Politics / Re: El-Rufai: "Bill Gates' Opinion On Buhari’s Economic Policy Not Correct" by hypnotic(m): 8:19am On Mar 23, 2018
signs and symptoms of an ass kisser
Politics / Re: Ekweremadu: Publish Assets Declarations Of Buhari, Osinbajo, Others, PDP To APC by hypnotic(m): 10:10pm On Mar 22, 2018
the reason why the country is not reality progressing is because politicians in office spend time looking at their "enemies" move instead of their work

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TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Cee-C “I Had A Dream That Two Evicted Housemates Came Back” by hypnotic(m): 10:06pm On Mar 22, 2018
Cee C is the fake housemate
Celebrities / Re: It Took 35 Workers About 10 Days To Complete The Custom Dress Of Beyoncé by hypnotic(m): 7:40pm On Mar 22, 2018
hater alert
dapsoneh:
Nonesense
Politics / Re: Adebayo Shittu Owns 12 Houses, 25 Cars, 93M Printing Press- Victor Oluwadamilare by hypnotic(m): 3:17pm On Mar 22, 2018
take away Osinbajo and fashola, PMB will be naked
Celebrities / Re: Hushpuppi Reacts To Daddy Freeze Calling Out Celebrities With Fake Wristwatches by hypnotic(m): 3:15pm On Mar 22, 2018
two fraudsters consoling each other
Politics / Re: Cambridge Analytica's Ruthless Bid To Sway The Vote In Nigeria by hypnotic(m): 10:19am On Mar 22, 2018
more than half on Nigeria have access to internet, so how does analytica directly influence them? GEJ lost election because he overlooked the quickwin zones; middlebelt
Politics / Re: 2019: I Will Retire Ganduje From Politics - Kwankwaso by hypnotic(m): 10:11am On Mar 22, 2018
fingers crossed
Career / Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by hypnotic(m): 1:45am On Mar 21, 2018
Go and get land and start farming,
Politics / Re: Promote International Peace, Buhari Tells Putin by hypnotic(m): 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2018
is this advice or warning? Buhari you no dey fear. Okay oh
Politics / Re: Yobe Youths Wash President Buhari's ''Bad Omen'' After Visit To State by hypnotic(m): 7:59pm On Mar 20, 2018
EPIC
BruncleZuma:
grin grin grin grin

Okon must Go

Education / Re: WAEC Is Confused – MURIC, Reveals What Timetable Can Cause In Nigeria by hypnotic(m): 5:02pm On Mar 19, 2018
Make Una support this guy, if he succeeds, weekend will start on Thursday

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TV/Movies / Re: Black Panther joins list of Super Heroes in the new trailer of The Avengers by hypnotic(m): 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2018
Correct marketing strategy
Family / Re: My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me by hypnotic(m): 12:18am On Mar 19, 2018
Free her for a while, the sister will come asking for her balance, stay quiet till your wife steps in and make her choice.
SaudiBoy:
Greeting to everyone. I am in serious dilemma and need matured advice.

I dated my wife for 8 years before we got married last year and God blessed us recently with a child.

My problem began when my business nose dived and we began facing a little difficulty, my wife's sister who happens to be my good friend also stepped in and helped us with a loan totalling 340k which i have paid 190k and still making out ways to pay back the rest.
During those trying times my wife and i would go there and spend days to alleviate pressure of feeding, please i went there with her because I felt welcomed and they never made me feel i was Inlaw, a stranger will think am part of the mums children.

Now the main gbese is this, my wife's mum has been staying with us since this year, taking care of wifey as she put to bed and we have been living peacefully.

Now my mum wanted to come and spend time with us, and the problem started when my mum told me to come with my car and carry her as things she bought for us were too much for her to carry and enter public bus, and i agreed. I went to inform my wife and she kicked against it, citing high fuel cost and lack of money. I talked to her to forget about the money side of her story and see it as a sacrifice. It is a 6 hour journey to and fro.
When she saw she could not convince me, she reported to her sister who tried to talk me out of going to pick my mum, but i refused and told her my mind was made up. Then my wife resorted to i will see those things your mother will bring and come.

Then it got to the day i was going to pick my mum, I called my wife and told her i want your mum to stay and be bathing baby and taking care of you, as I know my mum is now lazy and can't do these work continually, they both agreed. I went and brought my mum home. And the journey to hell started.

There is this girl married with two kids i have warned my wife about to quit been friends with her as despite been married she is a big cheat who sleeps with men for money. So this girl came to my house to visit my wife, and there was this white man at my wife's former place of work that my wife has been chatting with, I read all their chats and had nothing to fault with their conversation, until i discovered my wife sent scantly dressed pictures of her friend to the white man and gave the man the girls contact. I was very furious and felt disappointed, y she did this, that was where my anger started.

So I told her point blank to quit every conversation with the said white man, but she told me plainly she has her life to live and i cannot tell her what to do. This word hurt me and i harboured it in my heart for her.

I and her mum tried to talk to her she didn't still see what she did as bad, then i reported her to her sister whom I felt was close to us and will advice her but no she continued her chat and instead changed her phone pattern.

So we started having issues, every small thing irritated me, then my wife started complaining about my mum, once i go to work and come back, no welcome hug, it will be ur mum said this. Therefore i should Go and fight her if that was her expectation.

The wrong thing I did was not hearing her out, because I already had this grudge in my mind for her bcoz of the statement she made about the white man. And I was already under pressure, how to pay off my debts feed and provide for my family and the 2 additional mouths that came, run generator everyday, and doing everything not to allow my family feel any form of hardship.

Then one day her sister called me and there was nothing she did not say on phone that day, my wife called her and was crying my mum was maltreating her and i kept quiet.
In her sisters exact words, u should be happy my sister married you bcoz she would have seen a better man. These are now the words my wife tells me.

Now the main problem my mum fell sick and she wanted to go back, fuel has now become 145, she met my wife and asked her how will she go if i will drop her or she will take public transport, my wife came to ask me and i ignored it because I didn't want to stir up quarrel. So I met my mother in-laws and told her i would like to go and drop my mum and she said OK if i have spare money for fuel i should do it that moreover my mum is sick.

I wanted to go look for a way to tell my wife but my mum was already dressed thinking she was going that day and was in the room with my wife, and i was to take my mum to somewhere before she goes, and she was in a hurry, I couldn't tell her anymore of my decision, and promised to call her on phone. Only for me to come to the parlor, in front of my mother in-law,i told my mum I would drop her but she had to wait till the next day early morning as I had jobs I needed to attend to.

I then left with my mum to the place she was going to and when we came back, I was with my wife in the room and she was shouting on top her voice, that I shud choose between her and my mum, and that if I go and drop my mum off at her place, she will pack her load and go. I laughe thinking it was a joke.
So mum heard what she said and left my house in anger, in retaliation, that's how i feel, she went to make her hair, as my wife has been begging to come let them go and make her, she cited sickness as example. When I saw my mum with the hair i was bitter and told her to better look for an excuse to give my wife.

She came home and my wife saw the hair and was deeply hurt, mum tried talking to her but it couldn't pacify here, i begged her she refused, so I decided to leave the house and go back to my work, at the door my wife told me to make sure i come back early as she won't givevny mum food, I begged her still, called her when i left and sent an SMS from work, but alas when I got home around past 11pm she didn't give my mum food.

I called my wife, mum and mum Inlaw and tried talking to them so that what ever venom in them will soften, I spoke at length and my mum spoke, when it got to my wife's turn, she flared up and insulted everyone and left, I was disappointed.

The next day morning my mum was finally going to leave, my wife woke up, met her at the door and passed her without greeting and when we were about to leave my wife never came back to say good bye

I travelled and came back and true to her words she packed out of our house and went to Her sisters house.
I called her sister to enquire she wouldn't answer, I went to her house and for 2 hours nobody opened the gate for me, despite hearing my horns and my many calls to her phone which she finally picked and told Me no one was around to open gate for me, quite shortly I saw my mum Inlaw, I asked her how can she encourage her dorta to pack out of the house, she said she was not around when she packed. So my wife's sister knowing her mum was at the gate sent someone to open it and since I was still outside called me she was sending someone to open gate for me, in anger I left and told her not to worry as she was opening it for her mum.
I called my sister in-laws husband and informed him my wife packed to his house without my consent and he was away from town and said when he come back.

He came back and called me after talking to us, I told him I have already changed the padlock of our protector that my wife must apologise before i will let her in again. my wife's response was that she needed a break of 6 months then changed to she was done.

I posted a picture of me holding our baby and wrote some love touching words to him, my wife saw it and became very upset and jelos, and the new accusation became I value our child more than her and don't appreciate her. Then I went to work only to come back home, I saw the locks to the house has been broken, I met my wife packing her remaining things that she needs space, I tried talking to her, next thing her sister called that what is holding her, my wife said I was stopping her, her sister came to my house packed my wife's things including my mum in-laws things, before they left I called my mum Inlaw to ask if she was aware and she said yes, that she heard because of how my wife treated my mum that I said she will not come to my house again, a word I said out of anger. That was how they left.

It's been 3 weeks now I have forgiven my wife and we have settled and she even passed a night in the house and we made mad love

Now she wants to come back, I told her plainly I will not carry those load her sister carried, either she forgets them or I send a cab for her. She agreed to leave the load and come pick her later, immediately she told her sister, the music changed, my wife became abusive and told me if I won't come myself and carry the load then I should forget about her and my child, that she will never use a cab since I have a car and her sister cannot bring the load.

At this juncture I became irritated. Seriously I don't want a broken home since am a product of one, and I know the effects it has on a child.

For 3 weeks I have been jumping from canteen to canteen, I don't know what to do, if to go and bring the load or just allow them to remain there.

Please i need candid advice and criticism, not insult as am already broken.

Am 31 and my wife is 26



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Reading through let me make something clear about the money i borrowed from my in-law

You see am not broke, I live in an comfortable house, drive a good car, and have a land in the state i reside, with a back up bank balance that gave me confidence, but overnight i watched all i have go away due to circumstance better imagined.

I own a truck used for sand and stone transportation, and people into this business will know drivers remit 150k weekly.

My problem started when my truck was involved in an accident which cost a life and also condemned the car, my driver disappeared from the scene and my conductor was in custody for 13weeks

After police case and everything, I paid the family 2.5m for burial and compensation, I paid 400k to the driver of the car my truck hit, bailed my conductor, my truck and closed the police case with 150k.

So this expense cost me 3m that was y i had to seek that loan.

Now i decided not to engage in the trucking business anymore and sell off the truck, but the best price I have gotten from a buyer is 1.5m for a truck i bought 4.5m 2 years ago, so i refused to sell. Still waiting for the right price. To pay off my debt and run my home, I am secretly using my car for uber without my wife's knowledge.although she said i should just sell the truck and start again

I don't want to believe my wife is about the money because she met be broke and we built our wealth together before finally getting married, my problem is during this crisis, she started confiding in her sisters more, and this is where it has landed me




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You see there is more to this story that meets the eye.
That is why I decided to be calm about this whole issue, because it has really opened my eyes, I don't believe this has to do with the money i loaned because the sisters husband also loans money from me atimes,
And pays back, I was very very close to them.

I only soft pedalled on this issue because it is very clear to me there is a grand script been planned by my sister in-laws out of jelousy, because she has been childless for 7 years of marriage.

My wife made a statemet that startled me, that she will send me divorce papers, and that the baby been just 2months, court will award her custody and she will just give the baby to her sister and travel out.

Then i started working on my wife's senses, talking to her until she became soft and we settled my wife she needed time to heal, I offered her to come back home and heal she said know that her sister just had another miscarriage and she needs to be with her.

Now the day my wife came to visit me and decided to sleep over, the sister called her, I pretended to be asleep and I could hear the sister say, now now now, u Don run go sleep there bcoz of sex. The next day it was clear my wife didn't want to go back, I dropped her off around 2pm and before the sister agreed to to open gate for her, it was war after much exchange of whatsapp message

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Politics / Re: Bola Shagaya Stuns At The Wedding Of Her Son Seun Bakare To Oludamilola Osinbajo by hypnotic(m): 10:31pm On Mar 18, 2018
Shagaya has been clinching all the past president's wives since abacha, nice one here, nothing lost

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Travel / Re: . by hypnotic(m): 6:35pm On Mar 18, 2018
EMMAACHILE:

I learnt students earn about $3500-$4000 per month in Switzerland
standard of living is high in Switzerland

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Politics / Re: Osinbajo Barred Guests From Taking Photos At The Wedding Of His Daughter To Seun by hypnotic(m): 6:20pm On Mar 18, 2018
swagoo, nice one

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