₦airaland Forum

CHoccolaTE:
Many widows don't get support from their husband's families, that statement is a big lie.

It's relative, not absolute. Some do while some don't; it all depends on the relationship them and the attitude of the husband's extended family towards the wife and her children. But, they do stand a better chance than single mothers.

Funmy23:
So explain those who are younger girls with no child birth but wide aand loose vaginas?

Not sure you got the back and forth between myself and the one I quoted his mention.

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
That's why men say things like: "She's had so many partners, she must be wide as a borehole." Pure stupidity! See below

I meant childbirth! A woman that has had two or more vaginal births stand a greater risk of vaginal widening due to loss of elasticity. Some women though are lucky and some do go through numerous exercises that bring it back to its almost original position.

Creamypie:
He drowned. All the marks come as a result of decomposition

Drowned how? Why then was his neck slit crudely?

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
But common sense ought tell you that you can't make a bottle wider by forcing things into or out of it unless you partially destroy the structure of the bottle. Hence, multiple partners cannot permanently change the width of vagina nor can normal child birth

You mean you can force what is bigger than a bottle out of the bottle?

conscienceman4:
DON'T BE SURPRISED IF SHE INVITES HER EX OVER TO AUSTRALIA JUST TO KPANSH HER.
I NO WAN SPOIL YOUR MIND, I HATE FINISHED GIRLS IN MARRIAGE.
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO CATCH HER AND END THE MARRIAGE, SET UP THINGS AND VISIT NAIJA WITH HER, AS SHE RUINS TO HER EX, CATCH HER AND DUMP HER.

She must be rich o. Inviting a whole family down just because she wants to "kpansh" the man🤔.

Mrvictorwrite:
She might still be having an affair with him and you should walk out of such woman before it becomes too late...

bring your assignments and projects to me

How?

Spectators:
Explosion rocks Abuja (PHOTOS)


Residents of Maitama, a high-class area in Abuja, Nigeria, have expressed concerns over an alleged explosion that occurred in the vicinity.

According to witnesses, a loud sound was heard coming from a nearby dump site, resulting in injuries to two individuals.

However, some residents have dismissed the claims of an explosion, suggesting that the sound may have been caused by a burning dump site or a gas leakage. As of now, the police have not released an official statement regarding the incident.

https://spectatorsng.com/explosion-rocks-abuja-photos/

Which empty cylinder? That must have been a big fat lie. Those guys that work as field workers of waste management agencies always separate recyclable wastes such as metals, cartons etc for their own personal sales.

JuanDeDios:
Trust Nigerians to blame jazz.

If it's a foreigner, I guess they've started collecting reparations for what Yahoo Boys have taken from them. Sebi our Yahoo Boys say they're collecting reparations for the slave trade?

Niger foreigner?

Iampromoted:
Not immediately. Within 24hrs.

I get jare. I meant why is he being buried 9 days after?

thesicilian:
I can't help but notice that no one has dared to blame the UK for his death.
A supposedly healthy man dies within 24hrs of getting to the UK and the next thing is burial preparations. No autopsy, no investigations.
Most people are even blaming his ''innocent village people" back in Nigeria!

And "how' is the government responsible? Did he have an altercation with any of airport officials? Did he die of food poisoning? Was he attacked and shot dead? Did he die of road/metro line accident caused by the driver? Was he a victim of bomb blast, multiple road accident, building collapse etc? Was he an ambassador of or a diplomat for Nigeria that needed to be guarded at all times?

I am very sure that they would have suggested an autopsy which the deseased family would have to pay for surely, but would they want to go for that option? After spending lots of money to support his relocation down, I don't think they will.
Also, I don't know if Muslims support tampering with dead bodies of deseased after their death. I know they believe that only God brings death of a person, so they take their fate. And, except the cause of death is a national risk (e.g medical death with strange symptoms), the UK is not under any obligation to compulsorily perform an autopsy on the corpse of the deseased.
May his soul rest in perfect peace.

Why wasn't he buried immediately according to Muslim rites?

CHoccolaTE:
Please I don't think we should be stigmatizing kids from single mothers as universally worse than kids from both parents.
There are exceptions, people like Barack Obama and Ben Carson were raised by single moms and made history in different fields.

When we stigmatized kids raised by single moms as universally worse, we put pressure on women to stay in terrible marriages and with abusive men just to avoid divorce and avoid the stigma their kids would bear from being raised by a single mom.
There is also the pressure widows would face to remarry just to avoid being labeled single mom whose kids are universally worse.
Many widows or women whose husbands abandoned them for other women rush into bad marriages with toxic partners that harm them and abuse their kids just because those women are desperate to remarry and avoid label of single mom.

Let's not propagate that idea, abeg. It's very harmful to women and kids from divorced parents.

He did separate the circumstances -- that some women are single mothers as a result of being divorced or due to loss of their husbands at a younger age -- and said that these two usually get help, no matter how little, in training their children unlike those who got pregnant under questionable circumstances who might not even get support from their family members, talk more from the men's families.

Free2Fly:
Yes, you are!

Otherwise, you would have stopped arguing when i told you he had corrected it already.

At first he wrote "I borrowed my car to a friend...."

When I raised the issue, he corrected it to "A friend borrowed my car....", which is correct.

This shouldn't be too difficult to understand.

Pele. I just pointed out that there was nothing like lent in what he corrected. And if you had read and understood the last paragraph on my first response to your mention, you would not have made that senseless comment.

Free2Fly:
Are you just brainless??

I told you he had already corrected the mistake i raised before you came, and you're still arguing

He has corrected it. That's simple to understand!!

Did you just refer to me as brainless? You obviously have a serious mental issue, so I'd better steer clear of you.

lordnkem000:
Yeah I do, the girl tried to lie against the guy and when I saw it I had to contact him personally and get the truth. He said he gave her 40k because of sympathy and really wanted to do more later in the week by that time she would've been back in calabar but she shocked him by going online to defame him. He said she does hookup and her puna is so wide and deep I just dey laugh. Me i don't do hookups

Did he pay for her T.fare down and the hotel bills? If not, that's wrong. I understand that what the lady did too was very wrong, though she might have been unreasonable and thought he took advantage of her.
The fact that some ladies are sex workers does not mean that they don't get taken advantage of and it doesn't mean that they deserve to be taken advantage of either.

Adakintroy:
Unrepentant ke.


Were you there. Or did you hear the friend side.?

Were you also there to know the kind of person OP is? To conclude that he was just being the tell-tale friend for nothing?

Free2Fly:
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He had already made the necessary corrections before you came.

I was kinda correcting you. There was nothing like "lent" in what he typed. He said a friend borrowed his car and you said it's "lent". Unless he said he "borrowed" his friend his car...

lordnkem000:
Honestly the guy is a simp. Told him so myself. Person wey 3-5k don run am but you pay 40k for one round.. that girl belongs to the street

That means you know the guy in question and you are trying to help launder his image. Why would he invite a lady (if it was truly the case as you said) from another state down to his own state for hookup? Did he expect the 40k to cover the transportation to and fro and also pay for the hotel bill? Even if you believe he was supposed to pay 3-5k for the job🙄 ...
This life don spoil sha. Imagine sleeping with strangers in the name of hookup! (This admonition applies to both men and women).

Adakintroy:
Snap and show. Rather than make all this long description. Can't tell if you exaggerating. Plus ur fwend no de to defend himslef.

Beware of this kind friend weh go borrow u something come tell the world behind ur back. ...beware of them.

Are you the unrepentant friend?

Free2Fly:
Lent, not borrowed.

Meanwhile, make sure you don't lend anything to him next time.

It's borrowed. The receiver borrows while the giver lends.

danzaki63:
You think you can have it the Nigerian way? they said, coniving with staff of the University to alter his deficiency !!!!!!! and you except to graduate. just do as the University said , go back sit for the make up exams and graduate, what is so difficult about that?

I think you need to understand this case better. The council stated their findings which claimed that although the school claimed that the student connived with an errant school official to remark his paper, the errant staff was not apprehended or disciplined in any way by the school.

Also, if this happened in his first year, he was supposed to either have been rusticated or asked to retake that paper. All these were not done, therefore the school is at fault as it showed that they had overlooked that issue by their nonchalance over it.

SlavaUkraini:
Don't mind him

He was involved in some kind of malpractice...

He colluded with a staff to remark his papers without the university approval so time ago.. ...

Time to graduate don reach

Breeze don open fowl Yansh

Hmmm

freeborn02:
Like rice, beans, noodles, and waste water from the kitchen

No now. Vegetable wastes are more likely to do the trick but the best is for you to get some dried animal dungs like chicken waste, rabbit poo etc.

freeborn02:
Someone should please respond

What type of leftover food?

aysuprano:
penstrep is the best for coryza

Or just streptomycin

Thank you so much.

shadrach77:
This is a big lie! If I send money to someone back home and the person gets it, how can you say the money didn't reach Nigeria when it landed in the person's aza?

Unless you intentionally send dollars to the beneficiary's dom account, most of the funds sent down get converted into naira.

Slippy:
They get to Nigeria alright but they are mostly sold on the black market. Who wants to sell for official rate when they can make more on the black market.

Nigeria truly cannot get the full benefit of remittances if the trend continues.

Only 10% does. It's out of those that do make it down that you see majority again selling at the black market.

jidestroud:
Oopse!!! I missed this too.
With few cases of infectious Corsa I have experienced, I treat organically with use of ginger, lime water and garlic etc. It works wonders.

Thanks boss!

EkelediliBuhari:
Whose the victor now

The beautiful "ogre"😂😂😂

ExudeLoveToAll:
Leave emotions out of play, you don't have any such right to disenfranchise a parent from giving care to his child irrespective of what had transpired in the past. Leave tantrums and speak the position of the law and not what comes from your emotive mind.

Law is law not what it should be but what it is.

I am not sure if the young man will have any right over the daughter if the lady's father legally adopts the baby. Just ruminating aloud.

Bongadu:
It's my child , I've the right to be her father

I don't want my daughter to grow up without a father

But you didn't want to be a father to the child; you didn't want the child to exist in the first place. Since you assumed the child was dead to you for 7 years, why don't you continue the assumption? It's safe for everyone you know.