mumigrace:


That would be great. It just feels better and easier when you have someone going through the same challenge as you. Though I belong to a TTC WhatsApp group which was formed from the TTC thread here on nairaland, I think having a WhatsApp group with women battling/treating blocked tubes would make the journey easier and more encouraging. If you're game, I'm in.

vinoj0225:
Here comes WIDD:
Firstly i give God all the glory. I started this TTC journey in 2016, the year I got married but joined this forum in 2017, thanks to one of my church member who introduced me. By January 2017, i started seeing a gynecologist and he prescribed OVACARE and M2TONE to me and DH also did sperm count and it was low. He was asked to take MANIX. We kept taking the drugs but wasn't seeing any result from the drug and the gynecologist seem not to be following up with us whenever we have an appointment with him. That got me angry and had to ask him if i should do a hormonal profile. He accepted and i did it on the 9th of November 2017; that's 9 months after seeing him. Results showed High prolactine, LH and LSH. He then prescribed BROMEGON which i took but it made me nauseous. I told the doctor and he told me to reduce the dosage (I was taking 2 tablets daily), i started taking half daily but some mamas here told me to go for VITEX. I didn't cos i thought it was really expensive. DH and i sowed a seed in RCCG camp at the end of 2017. We kept praying and believing God.

In February 2018, I went for HSG and the result states that both tubes were blocked and i decided to do it again in April of same year for clarity and it came out as left tube being blocked while the right was partially open. Anyways, showed my GYN and he said i'll do a tubal cannulation (Tubal flushing) for 85k. I was shocked and made enquiries for the price, was told it's 25k around my area. We got fed up in June 2018, left the GYN and started seeing another at Ojo, Alaba. I evetually paid 19k for the flushing after he prescribed ZINC, SELENIUM, VITAMIN E for i and DH. Still in 2018, I decided to start buying baby clothes with faith and prayed about it. I was again reminded about VITEX and MACA from FertilitycareAfrica on instagram. Contacted them and bought the drugs, took them but kept praying cos now i knew it was a spiritual battle.

In 2019 i got more but didn't finish it so I stopped cos i was tired of these drugs and expenses. Then in July i went back for another tubal cannulation but didn't complete the procedure cos of the excruciating pains. At this moment, i gave up on medication and doctors cos i was told the next step was IVF and I wasn't ready to spend such money for that. I then went to CLAM for prayers to fight it spiritually but after the prayers, i wasn't thinking of having children anymore but decided to start praying for mercy upon my life, DH, my home and for a life that will grant me life in heaven, child or no child.

At this moment i decided to take my mind off pregnancy and focused all on God and kept asking for mercy. However DH wanted us to go to the General Hospital but when the day for aunty Flo was supposed to come, it didn't show and i wanted to fast and pray, i decided to carry out the home test and got a positive result staring back at me. Wasn't sure, so i went to the hospital for a blood test and it came out positive.

[b]How did i get this wonderful gift? Was it medication or what i did? NO COS
I DIDN'T PRAY LIKE OTHERS.
DIDN'T FOLLOW UP ON MEDICATION FOR MORE THAN 7 MONTHS.
DIDN'T PUT ALL MY HOPE ON MEDICATION.

However, it was the mercy of God that found me cos He said He'll show mercy on whom He will. Has God forgotten you? No. Rather He is working behind the scene for your good and at the end, He'll put a very big smile on your face and your family.
Have peace with your husband and people around you, take your medication. Most importantly, pray to God, let go and Let God.
I pray and sprinkle loads of baby dust on everyone and I know that Our God that fights behind the scene will continually fight for you and give you that joy in Jesus name, Amen.

rvpbae:


My sister i really have same concerns too. Sperm is fluid and i think excesses it will definitely flow out, i mean law of gravity. When i have se.x, sperm always always flow out, it lasts for like 2 days sometimes, i have always had that and i took it as a normal thing.

I just didnt want to say anything so it wont be as if i am undermining people's ' problems'. I was a regular her in 2017 when i was ttc-ing and now I'm almost due with my second.

SendAbroad:


The Sperm/ejaculate did not enter the right channel/hole which is the womb...so it comes out

Mommdav:


Darling some believe that EDA is caused by infection. But I will say ensure you and hubby are clean from infection. Also know that you can not entirely rule out tiny fluid from coming out after s€x.

You could also try the above detox to alkaline your system. Ensure your vagin@ fluid is not killing the sperms. Try another s€x position like the one hubby cum from back. Just bend your buttocks in that position for like 30min or as long as you can. This position keeps sperm inside and hardly pour out.

Another thing I will suggest is if you are suspecting infection you could try sugah protocol of curing infection. She took some antibiotics recommended to her by a foreign gyne. She took from day one of her period to day 21 non stop with her husband. That same month she conceived. But be ready to take lots and lots of Greek yoghurt/probiotics. I also suggest you do not try this protocol if you have used antibiotic in the past six months. Allow your body to rest from antibiotics for at least 6 months before trying this method.

In all, please pray. It is God that gives children. We cant just sit and do nothing about infertility. And it is why we do what we do. At the end my dear, it is God. Sometimes TTC is more of a spiritual thing. Pray that God should help you along. He should direct you to what will help you conceive. Pray that non of what you take in this journey of becoming a mother should harm you or make your conditions worse but let whatever you use help your body to conceive. Amen

Fertility blessings..

A short story, many years back I conceived after using fertilitytea and other stuff (a lot) and was happy thinking it was just the fertilitea not know that it was just God and perhaps Gods timing/chance. Because I forgot I also used progesterone cream which was probably what God used for me. I stop using the progesterone immediately after bfp (my knowledge was small then. Did not know you are not supposed to stop progesterone like that when pregnant) about a week or two after then I lost the baby. Sometimes what we think helped out might not just be it and most times it is just God's mercy. May He always direct our path in Jesus name. So dear we need Him in this journey.

norriswood:
Call for your tube blockage and womb settings.

Call 08037197820,08097858721.bukky.

Mommdav:


I never got cyst from pregnancare. It may not be the pregnancare.

Amen iya ibeji...may God continue to help us. Na God dey give pickin not the things we use. The race is not to the strong..Sometimes, chance and time happenth to them all. May God keep helping us indeed.

God bless you darling

Mummy4life1:
I said I will be the next and God answered me. I returned all glory to the Almighty God.

Mummy4life1:
To God be ALL the glory, I got my BFP and Blood test confirmed it. The IVF/ICSI(One ovary, 6 follices was seen, 2embryo was transferred and 600thousand sperm count) was done at Kingswill fertility hospital at Festac after 7years and 10month waiting, he gave me and my husband birthday gift! This is coming after over 7years and 10month of TTC. I prayed to God to show me mercy.



*RESEARCH, research & more research! Pls. don’t put yourself 100% in ANY doctor’s hands without researching your options & being able to request whatever will benefit you and support from a lot of people on the group

*Insisting on the cancellation because of the two embryo but the doctor encourage me to proceed that God can perform wonder's.

In this successful cycle my lining was 9.4mm before intro of progesterone & 11.1mm on day of embryo Transfer.

*Castor oil pack on tummy almost daily for about two weeks

*Sometimes soaking feet in hot water for 20 minutes, before bed (also to increase blood flow to uterus) before retrieval

* Taking pineapple core for five days after transfer

*Insisting on Day 5 transfer: I had made up my mind after research that even if all our embryos appeared to be struggling, no Day 2 or 3 transfer; if they all died before Day 5, so be it. Luckily we had 80% ICSI fertilisation.
*After the transfer, taking DAILY injections (with Dr’s permission) 2ml Gestone and 400mg cyclogest; quite painful & bum already feels like a pin cushion but for me no sacrifice is too much.

What I’ve learnt (the hard way) on my long, long TTC journey:
No doctor, spouse, family or friend, can desire my success more than my own self: I am my own best advocate! My sisters, despite glowing recommendations of any fertility clinic/Dr, do your own research. Never be afraid to ask questions and always try to go with your gut feelings; run/’talk to your feet’ if you have integrity concerns about any of them; I have also learned that though often tedious and inconvenient, it pays to try to prepare as much as one humanly can (castor oil, massage, foot soak, taking Dhea, vit c, vit e, vit d and folic acid etc), before the embryo transfer and above all, to always pray for God’s mercy & intervention

Thank you to the mummies in the house for support. The Almighty that started his miracle will perfect it to nine month. My prayer is that God will answer every one too. Love you All

Joyfulmama:
What shall I say.... unto the lord....all I have to say......is thank you lord
To God be the glory great thing he has done
Exactly 2 years ago on Sunday faith bump, 3rd of September 2017, now it has come to reality.
I use myself as a point of contact for all GTC mothers here, the lord who visits me when I least expected will do same to you. This year is your year ijn.

flexiblegrl:
mama, pls help me with the names. God bless you.

Nicejo:


I took the combination for just 2days and that was all. I think that 3days you've taken the combo is ok, just dispose the rest and allow your system to rest.

Nicejo:
@ Iamfertile, the one to the right of that bitter mellon is the back of kolanut shell. I boiled all together, took for two days, couldn't complete three days becsuse the frequency of going to toilet was too much for me.
To the glory and honour of God, I went for sono HSG after and my tube are now patent. Use the herb prayerfully and it will work for you by God's grace. I got all those herbs around 700 naira.

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:

I think because it it ripe dats is y u are not having the full effect

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:

I think because it it ripe dats is y u are not having the full effect

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:


Is it supposed to be riped?

Joyfulmama:

How far with the bara you took? Did you purge overnight? It should make you purge except it's not original bara.
I didn't do any flushing after taking it, God just did it. Only daily folic acid.

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:
My fellow Mama's God has done it again oooo


After last month miscarriage God heard my cry




I am pregnant again


Just said let do it home pregnancy test and boo

UmmuFareed:


Same here. It didn't purge me that much, i only used the toilet like twice but I felt a kinda weird sensation on my pelvic area.

veneza:
I bought mine already, everything cost me 500naira but I would like to know the time of cycle to take it because am already in cycle day 18, thanks.

Joyfulmama:

I took the herbs around November but have issues with DH, we settled and I conceived immediately at a touch

Mommdav:


Work on your prolactin. Estrogen is way too high. Reduce estrogen food/supplements or mimicking food or supplements you may be on. But from what I can see you most likely ovulated that circle. You may have no problems ovulating. How is Hubby's sperm? Work on other areas and I know you will have your bfps sooner than you imagine. Always remember to pray.

Bfp to you dear.

Mommdav:


Work on your prolactin. Estrogen is way too high. Reduce estrogen food/supplements or mimicking food or supplements you may be on. But from what I can see you most likely ovulated that circle. You may have no problems ovulating. How is Hubby's sperm? Work on other areas and I know you will have your bfps sooner than you imagine. Always remember to pray.

Bfp to you dear.

Nicejo:

Sorry, it might be network

Nicejo:
Sorry, it might be network