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JustmcKay:
Sir please i want to get in touch with you, to know how I can purchase one of those rabbits.... Ma number is 08026918993...08093640708..

What's your Location sir

If you dey play ps3 master League n you no buy ibra omo na relegation things

This guy deserves Award for the most successful striker


He good die

Note :am a Chelsea fan

accountbalance:
Please I need working and realistic advice on how to help this young lady.

She happens to be a relative that confides in me for advises in her general life. She is in ND II at a federal polytechnic. A very respectful full and big hearted girl.

Just yesterday night, she put a call through to me, crying that her boyfriend has not been treating her well. So I decided to talk to the guy directly (we all know the guy at home). The guy told me how much he loved my cousin but he complained that she doesn't behave like a young lady, he said she behaves like a woman, and that he has tried in so many ways to change her but he couldn't.

To be honest, I couldn't argue with this guy because I know very much that he is saying the truth. My cousin does not act like all these trendy girls at all, yes she is beautiful but she dresses like an old woman, talks as if she has been born since 1960. I think because she grew up with our grandma might be the cause but it's getting very weird. She is also very religious unlike the rest of us. She would tie wrapper, even her walking position would suggest a very very old person.

The poor boy mentioned many other weird intimate things that I can't mention here. I just told him not to worry, that we'll do something about it.

This is a little bigger than me because it seems she doesn't see anything wrong with her, she prides in the fact that she is matured for her age but now it's ruining her love life.

What can we do to help her?

You just spoke about my gf, am having the same issues, I don't wanna break up with her because personally God spoke about her to me. Ties wrapper. Too spiritual, speaks this conk local dialect that she has to explain it to me. In general she z acts like someone who z older than her age. She equally stood with her grandma

The simple solution z has the guy confirmed if she z actually God-sent.

One rule about relationships z compromise. One of them needs to compromise for the other to keep the relationship going. Let him love her the way she z, or let him teach her to change in love and meekness

When you love someone no matter the bad side the love will keep growing

Your choice of words z too harsh and immature

Is it your mun you married? ?

This indicates that you will take your mother's instruction at the expense of your wife's joy

Grow up.

You have indirectly said your mum can control your
home
Normally a good wife will not disrespect her in laws but the way I read meaning to your post suggests that you won't take her advice over your mum

Oga wake up

innovestor:
Why Is This Common With Most Wives? They Need To CHANGE!

Hello NLers.

I am here basically to sample thoughts and opinions on this matter from matured minds. No insults or names calling. Just address the issue with suggestions.

There is a saying (by me ) that goes thus: Learn to appreciate what you have now. Don't wait till it's gone to find out its value. There is also another saying (not by me ) that goes thus: Wives don't suck dick; only girlfriends do.

So to the matter. I am married to this lovely lady. She is good by good standards (details will be given later if need be). I am also good by good standards (details will be given later if need be ). However when it comes to making love, this is where the "matters arising" comes to play; yes sex.

Firstly, I am not necessarily the over demanding type, however i am not sexually satisfied completely in my home. I am very understanding when she actually is not in the right frame of conditions to make love, however for me making the moves every time for us to make love is tiring (and yes ladies you should make the moves sometimes, if not more).

Secondly, i am the type with a conscience. I have not raped and will never rape any one even my wife because this is practically impossible for me as my man-hood (which lives on) will suddenly slump in such situation (that's why i said practically impossible). So what am i driving at? Once my wife tells me she is a bit tired, she has a slight waist pain, head-ache, leg ache etc. i practically refrain from making love to her. It has happened most times that i am all up and doing and ready to hit the road and then she says she has a head-ache (unconsciously i must admit most times) i just pack-up and hit the bed to dream world.

Now the challenge is this. Being sort of sexually deprived by my wife, being a hardworking good citizen of Nigeria that makes an average earning (at least i dey drive motor and can comfortably take care of my family and one or two more outsiders despite the harsh economy) I am exposed to falling into countless number of temptations. In order not to brag, i have ladies calling me almost on a daily basis now and literally begging me to "shine their congo". Yes they know i am married with kids but don't care. Na me dey dodge them sef and avoid picking some calls.

Now the question is this: what can i do to solve this issue? What can i do to make my wife get off her relaxed state to make the moves for us to be more sexually engaged (and i am not talking of just missionary alone, i love adventure)? Should i just ignore her talks of head aches and find a means of forcing myself to do it with her ( I have actually asked her if this is what she wants - no response received). What can i do?

I am asking as we have had this sex talk twice and i have told her what i felt about the whole thing (of course she shed tears na). The third time we had the discussion, i told her categorically that this would be the last time for such discussion because if there is not improvement, i will not talk to her about it anymore and would seek other means to "help myself out". This is where i am at the moment.

So you ideas are welcome ladies and gentlemen.

P.S. Wow! So the write up long reach like this? be patient to read through.

If you want her to make you wild during $ex I suggest you know her love language. With your little explanation about her, (back pain n the likes) I guess her love language z ACTS OF SERVICE, check your self maybe you don't help her do the dishes, cook, tell her some times to rest while you so the cooking or the laundry. If you don't understand her love language no matter how you try to make advances at her she will complain.

Try figuring what's turns her up, what gives her joy do it, I believe there will be improvement

Iyawo ta ba gbe ni ile jo Iran lo wo Lo. That's z a woman that you carried in a club house will turn out to a vagabond/ or have social vice. Facebook book love?

There are somethings that are wrong in themselves.

Gary Chapman in his book 'things I wished I knew before marriage 'you don't know him yet you went ahead because of lust

When it comes to every issues of our life's we involve God, be it job, career or anything but when it comes into marriage we know how to take God out of the equation.

Now you have a big problem at hand. The solution z going back to God even when d deed has been done

Marriage z a life project you need to pray now.
Understanding z the key to a successful home. You both need to understand yourself most especially you.

Stop nagging about his bad behavior just change, make him happy be accommodating. Don't bother about his trash it will frustrate and in other not to be offended avoid his phone like a plague yet keep praying.

Believe there z solution n solution comes from God the father of light in whom there z no variable

Divorce z wrong. Don't be defeated

Confesion: rom 8 vs 31
Theme:Crushing satanic embago

O Lion of Judah, arise, convert my oppresion 2 dominion IJN

Bondage of circular problem, break IJN

O God, arise nd confound my enemies IJN

O God of Elijah, arise nd cancel al my affliction IJN

O God, arise by d thunda of ur powa nd let my story change IJN

O God, arise in ur yoke-breaking powa nd break my yokes IJN

O God of Abraham, arise nd mesmerize my enemies IJN

O God of Isaac, arise nd multiply my laughter IJN

O God of Israel, arise nd promote me by fire IJN

By your binding powers o God arise and bind my tormentor IjN
By your power of possibilities O God arise and manifest in my life IJN

My father my father my fada arise nd let d World knw dat u r my God

My fada, let ur anger arise nd pursue my pursuers IJN

O arm of d Lord, arise nd buldoze my way 2 break 2ru IJN

Powas ordained by heaven 2 make me great, arise nd manifest IJN

My fada, let ur anger arise nd pursue my pursuers IJN

O arm of d Lord, arise nd buldoze my way 2 break 2ru IJN

O God release ur wrath upon every powa of witchcraft troubling my destiny ijn

O God arise visit ur fury on agent of afflictn troubling my star IJN

O God, arise nd uproot dem out of their land in ur anger IJN

Candle of d wicked, i put u out, quench in d name of Jesus

Al informatn stored in ur cauldron against me, catch fire IJN

Oh axe of God, cut down every witch craft tree batling my lyf IJN

O God arise visit ur fury on agent of afflictn troubling my star IJN
: O God, arise nd uproot dem out of their land in ur anger IJN
In Jesus mighty Name we av prayed



I am so sorry it came so late. Because someone had to type it to me from the book to whatsapp.

I love you with the Love of God

Names to give my rabbits

Obj
Tinubu
Buhary
Afonja
Ab.oki
Aisha
Lai
Oshiomole
Ibb
Jubrin
Dalung(favourite pet name)
The list z endless

The woman mumu die

Dying for Nigeria z like wasting your destiny

Nigeria
Ojoju mo le ji ri ya

Anger issues that she should have worked on since when she was a kid


This woman.. ....

eznira:
Please can someone help with today's prayer points?
Thanks

Been waiting for the person that sends it to me. He hasn't sent it


Don't forget today z Friday 5pm not 2pm

Kenya e haf suffer,
lemme come and c their illiteracy again

Lexusgs430:
I hope he understands the bakery/baking environment or a baker.
Let's hope this thread would accord him criticism's, options and advice(s),that would assist and guide his business decision(s).
I wish him luck in his business venture. One thing for sure is, loads of bakeries already exists in Kaduna. I
graduated from Kaduna Polytechnic, many moons ago.

I just hope he sits down again and reason before going too far

What z this thing saying

oblo:
New kits born 2 days ago

Pictures pls

Lexusgs430:
You simply wonder why businesses fall at 1st hurdle. Or are we old school and having an old school of thought?

A man who wants to build a house should first sit down n count the cost before embarking on the journey


No wonder SME don't last because people lack vision, targets and goals.

Does he even have a long term goal.
With bread baking, what other biz does he even have. With bread he can start a fast food restaurant Like bread n tea with egg for busy biz men.

African are just too short sighted

King of baking a Korean film taught me something about bread. If you don't love it you cant make it there .

Help me ask him
What/who are his target market.?

Lexusgs430:
I thought part of the feasibility study encompasses wage structures and staffing issues?

Exactly. If I to ask him how many workers does he aim to employ. Will he give me a vivid answer?


What about contingency plan

Lexusgs430:
Look for people in your line of trade and seek advice on how they run operations and logistics.
You started a business construction without wage structure in mind?

I wonder ooo

Biz z all about maximising resources, minimizing cost, getting profit,

So pay them in proportion to the profit made per week

I can't see wetin op write make I climb chair

Yesterday training, today real match

I talk am nigeria Germany yesterday's match was training


12am Na match




Wailers will be like buhari y

Not everyone that calls himself Man of God z actually one


Wolves in sheep clothing n yet zombies are paying homage to him




The gentility of God does not say He z foolish

Fake minister KONTINUE, you will meet your Waterloo one day


This z disgusting. Hypocrite

Silence z golden

Uncle jona shouldn't have spoken jo

pinkyni:
I appreciate you

I celebrate you

pinkyni:
I appreciate you

Don't appreciate me. am Not qualified to stand in the place of God

Let's just keep observing the program diligently




Are you mfm member? ??

Akshow:
other peoples beliefs is iranu to u?

MYOB

vicdamm:
For those who have been asking for the cost of construction i have finally gathered it but would type it when i am less busy... For now the attached pictures can be used

More pictures of your farm. Exterior and the interior.

How did you demarcate it pls

jamad1612:
3 units of fairly used battery poultry cage for layers (8 months old) for sale. contact me on jamiu.adekoya@yahoo.com, 07032351785 for price and further discussion.

Price pls and location