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That's me letting the cat outta the bag!

Thank u o, freedom of speech an ol dat!

@jbuoy - i hope u r now better educated as it is not a sickness or something u contract from others - doh

Once bitten twice shy, if u stay wit her u better have both eyes open especially as she is still goin off 2 c other men.
Question - did she tell u willingly or did she talk herself into a corner? Remeber people learn from their mistakes.

U peeps ain't easy, The poor guy girl is obviously already in a state and now i'm sure she's even worse off.
Let's break it down:
1. She says his people r telling her he's a drug baron (is he Norega?) - who are his people_his friends and if they are so against it why are they his friends?
2. He travels back every 3 months - so i'm back apprx every 5/6 mths does dat make me one? - does he have investments back home?
3. She can't answer his phone anymore - i'm shocked she was answering it b4 (and they're not married) we r talking about a Nigerian man here.
4. THERE IS NO PROOF!

Girl u should knw better - take more of an interest in his life and maybe yo judgement wouldn't be so impaired.

U knw wut i no go even comment on yo friend, that one don pass normal. At this point i hold u (his so called friends) responsible. It's been one year since she left him for another guy, why does her name still come up in conversations without some serious abuse following it??

Oooops!

No need to be defensive, it was just an addition to the product u mentioned. DAMN!

[quote author=Red_Lips link=topic=48356.msg1030912#msg1030912 date=1176314655]Because they are ridiculous.

and most of these so called creams are just for show in my opinion although there is one pregnant women tend to use called Merderma, pretty expensive, not sure if it's just for the strech marks on the tummy or that anyone can you use it[/quote]Vaseline also helps prevent it (during pregnancy that is) my friend applied it daily and till date (after birth) no stretch marks and YES it is unsightly.

hannydarl:
Dirax lets not discourage you okay you may find your dream girl but to say the truth you need to change that pixs you past there o.go to a good studio with digital camera and take a new improved photo any way i still prefer SWEET T to you oh that is if that pic is realy him on it.Maybe he should try his own make we see if babes go die follow am as per fine boy concern only thing i don't fancy in him is that chain on his neck it makes boys look indecent or a want to be

Please dat nah Tyrese,

choongtin:
Haha i cnt laugh, wonders shall never end, why dnt u go chat up a girl or something

Please tell him o, it's really not the end of the world. The worst dat can happen is she says NO!

I'm shocked everybody is claiming wifey!

Welcome - hope u ave a smooth transition - Air Force uhm, doubt if u'll be based in London

Nice one tega - count me in,

Sorry o, but being romantic is very over-rated. The women complain that men are non-romantics, flip the question back at them and hear their flimsy excuses. Truth is romance has never been regarded as a prerequisite in the African culture. A man has never been judged on how desireable he is based on romantic gestures. If a man is not romantic but well off, omo the woman is happy and content, besides being romantic comes with time, affection, love etc with both parties being paricipants. Meet a woman today and be as romantic as you wish, as flirtatious as your heart desires and i gurantee you that the woman will find a way to manipulate it so it actually benefits her, friends and family!

Umh there go - we already have an honest candidate in adeboo

Are u only restricting the answers to just one of the above? Surely u do realise that as multi-skilled as u women are there are some that are very much multi-tasked as well so they just might be a wifey/Baby girl/Side piece/Jump off as well as a wifey/Baby girl/Side piece/Jump off ,

@adeboo - Bald works, when we refer to playin with the bush it is of course in the most sensitive manner, creation of the slightest amount of pain defeats the purpose_could also proof costly.

@nkbaby - I agree with u on dat point! Just last Sunday at church i made the mistake of sitting next to this one babe wearing sleaveless and had NEVER shaved her armpits. On top of that it was sweaty dripping of water - I had to relocate if i wanted any chance of my prayers being answered.

Naturally i would be inclined to go with either options 2 or 1 in that order - Truth be told it really depends on a number of factors, for example:
1. If she's with another guy - i'll leave it to him to look out for her at least he has to get a goodnight kiss abi
2. If she's posin - again joke's on her

So ladies what is the genral concensus here? trim or bald? not natural it has a tendency to create a stench. @SweetT - I here u, a little frolickin has it's benefits.

My guy sorry to say but u are already on a downward spiral, The babe told u that she is urs, for some reason u're not taking any assurance in dat. I dont knw what yo relationship s like but i can tell u dat if u keep this up it will not last unless u become the next Bill Gates!

I'm in NW, Wembley to be rpecise. How was dinner? Or shall i say breakfast. Where abouts in East are you?

Hi there, i too am a fellow SAG born 30 Nov just after midnight makng me a Wednesday child,

Tega - how now? Not meaning to be rude o, but you know the UK is pack with Naijas - in fact (with yo credentials) there is no escaping dem, Where do u currently reside?

n dat is how some ladies cheat themselves out of a good man,

As interesting as this discussion is, fact is Naija women will not make do with just the following:
- A hand in hand stroll in the street/park, they would rather go somewhere that is public - most likely with their partner spending
- A nice romantic meal with their partner at home, they would rather go out and eat
- A fresh bouquet of nicely scented flowers, they would prefer a call card
- Exchanges of loving, sensual and romantic SMS, the woman will be the first not to reply as she feels she is wasting her credits (unless u promise to buy her more)

Not to seem like a pessimist but the fact is what it is - all the above are fine and good with the women as long as it is going to pay-off in one way or the other and number one preference is financially!

Even nowadays, it's one thing to propose - the sparkle/size of the diamond in her ring is another