₦airaland Forum

tellwisdom:
Ibkyansh, Can u cook local dish?? Something like Ofe nsala, oha, efo riro, ewedu, tuwo shinkafa, white soup, ukazi etc??

Na only one babe I see post efo riro here and I no wan ask am becos Na very stingy gurl. She get big yansh duh

Yoruba local dishes mostly

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeIL1bDMiXw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6JhVo2zS8hU

Iceyjays:
You went to Nigeria? when? must you lie

Ghana*

Akposy:
My No Butter Mango Cake!

What will you eat this with

You should come live with me

Salted caramel ice cream

pocohantas:
Yea, you really can’t tell considering you haven’t tried the other enough. Liquid milk makes me wanna puke.

Lool puke ke? I remember having the powdered one when I first went to Nigeria and liking it, I don’t think it’s common to have it with cereal here. Most things sha taste better to me there

pocohantas:
How do you like your cornflakes?
Nasco or Kelloggs?
Liquid milk or powder milk?
Hot or cold water?

Kelloggs
I don’t know if I prefer powdered or liquid because I haven’t had powdered enough. I’m so used to using liquid
Cold

Scammers make it bad for the genuine ones. That’s why I don’t blame people for stringently vetting (to the best of their ability) people and their identification before sending money.

Benzboys:
until you fall in their midst helpless.
Beautiful kee you there.

Lmao

Lol this is beautiful

pocohantas:
Se ibadi lo to yi? Ah!

Who is teaching you Yoruba?

Dyt:
Dinner part 1

Part 1 of how many please?

Looks lovely

cococandy:
Nice



Very close

Lol

cococandy:
Guess what I’m making?

Ice cream

cooooooks:
Salvageable??

Financial compatibility is very important.

Now, if OP's wife spends her own money alone, the blow is softened but still a blow.

Financial compatibility is important, true. 7 years is a very long time to have invested into a relationship, based on this and the fact that they're both relatively young, I think it's worth trying to salvage. For example, OP can test things out by not being as much of an enabler, if there are still no improvements, he can move on

How are the domestic, childcare and financial responsibilities distributed in your household? I don't know enough information about your situation to tell you to go and do it yourself or to come to the conclusion that your husband is genuinely lazy

pocohantas:
I tried the “don’t break” method @ Prestonn and BlueRaydick. Came out realllyyy nice.

Delicious

https://tryimg.com/u/2020/04/18/200.gif

But where's the rest?

Edit: Ok didn't see the pot of stew

fieryy:
There's always that one, ooooone pancake that gets burnt and doesn't want you to shine


Breakfast

Just what I need to be honest

Is it true that if men could get pregnant, abortions would be legally available at places like shoprite?

1. Spending all night in front of the TV and snoring like a wild boar
2. Weight gain
3. Bad breath

Well she's told you what the issue is, she finds you unattractive, simply put. Men justify cheating on their wives for much less, and you're here exhibiting all these three at the same time, pick a struggle

Would you want to be intimate with your wife if the roles were reversed? Luckily all of these things are fixable

BTW, you said she's known you to have done this for 6 years, how long have you been married for? Did she know all this before marriage?

leaculpa:
The drugs are free to citizens but theyre not free. Antiretroviral drugs are expensive. The NGO APIN (Aids prevention in Nigeria) makes it free to all nigerian citizens living with

Ok thank you

doitforyou:
His concerns are valid and it’s actually admirable that he’s thinking about finances before he gets married.

Yea, he has to share some blame for his bankruptcy, even if it’s a JA, once he noticed her erratic spending habit, he should’ve shut it down quick.

Yeah his concerns are definitely valid, I just don’t understand how she’s getting ahold of his money to the point of bankruptcy, as much as it’s frustrating him perhaps he’s also being a bit of an enabler

doitforyou:
She’s not unique there are many people that are bad with money, men and women and they’re married. Some marriages are hell because of it, while some thrive. It’s easy you don’t give the person access to money. If it’s a dealbreaker for you, then it is what it is.

I’m curious how she still had access to your money enough to bankrupt you. Aren’t yourself financially irresponsible by going bankrupt. Where’s your personal accountability?

I was wondering the same thing too, unless they have a joint account? (I doubt).

A few guys on Nairaland recently discovered the word 'simp' and now we won't hear word

It sounds like a salvageable flaw. Also, assuming you're of similar age, she's young and in that zone where it's 'socially acceptable'/she can somewhat be excused for making questionable financial decisions, so I wouldn't write her off as a complete lost cause just yet, teach her, help her.

7 years is a long time to throw a relationship away, you know her best however, so if you think there's absolutely no fixing the situation I guess you may have to just cut your losses

stevmatt15:
Face mask is face mask
Imported or Homemade
All is the same.

I believe they can differ based on efficiency (assessed by things like filtration rate), and medical approval. They aren't all the same but I guess something is better than nothing

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Just wanted to add that people should not have an unrealistic sense of security or completely lose their guard regarding HIV despite the improved treatments and survival rates

Notyamate:
It is readily available. Some hospitals will even call you if you miss your appointment date.

For the average citizen? I'm surprised, it's good

CaptainMitch:
Readly available and free.

Oh really? I didn't know