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So cool

Fhemmmy:
Will be nice for us to know why you are comfortable or uncomfortable, is it for personal preference or because of your partner?

Good point

Lol ridiculous story, but I love a guy with a good sense of humour

Comedian2019:
Copied:
One day a woman decided to know how the husband would react if she leave home without telling him. She wrote him a letter saying she's tired of him and the marriage and don't wish to continue anymore. After that she kept the letter on the center table and hide under the bed.
When the man came back from work he saw the letter, and replied on the same paper then began to remove his clothes as he sing and dance.
He got to his phone and called someone saying: "Hi babe, I'm just changing clothes, would you join me soon? It has finally dawned on the other fool that I was fooling around with her and has left. I was wrong, really wrong to have married her, I wish I had known you earlier, see you soon honey".
After saying these he left. The woman got up from under the bed very sad, disappointed and in tears, she was only playing prank with her man. When she looked at the paper, her husband wrote "I could see your feet under the bed, I never made any call. I'm going to buy bread, stop your silly games and go prepare meal for us, I love you".
Women are strong.
Men are stronger.
A woman can pretend not to love but deep down she's so deep in love and wouldn't want another to cross her man. But they can pretend a lot yet love a lot. Treat her normally and you both will be happy forever.

With enough 'anecdotes', the 'lesson' here could probably be applied to either gender, so not really

Cutest ^.^

pocohantas:
Why is it that every Nigerian guy that was heartbroken gets a job and becomes ”rich”. Nice apartment and car.

Like it is a classical tale...ONLINE.

Maybe NBS is lying about the unemployment rate in Nigeria.



Sorry about your experience, sis.

I am not friends with any EX. Call me immature, but once we breakup- we are done. Go do that friendship with someone else.

SCREAMZZ

The Midnight Gospel

Lol what the hell am I watching

Plead:
Now on episode 6...so far,I’ll rate it 6.5/10

Cool cool

kaycee125:
You can put him through or show him helpful materials fine girl.

Lol

kaycee125:
Ibkayee what are you looking for in our thread?

Clicked when I saw the post about coding when I was skimming the following link

Plead:
Link?

Netflix

karli4nia:
As u fine reach.. why na? Will u marry my Kid Bro?
He's handsome o.. He lives in the U.K and he loves Yoruba ladies..

You’re assuming I’m straight

karli4nia:
So I have been chatting with a fine girl all this while..
Feels good to know..
Are you a married lady?

Lol no I’m not

karli4nia:
Ibk, whose that small girl on your profile.?. She looks fly, I like her kind of beauty.

Me, cheers x

iPopAlomo:
Come off it...

I got beat to in secondary school... One day to go... And I didn't tell my parent about the junior WAEC fees... One day to go...

I'll leave the rest to your imagination... I've tried many times not to complete my education... No be say we no know book... Just was fucking stupid...

Lol I'm not doubting his experiences, they just come across a bit narrowminded to me

doitforyou:
Also, dress like a tourist. When I leave my hotel room I make sure I look like a tourist, I pair my outfit with a camera on my neck or a crossbody/messenger bag.

I've never consciously done this but it's actually a good idea

doitforyou:
True. That’s because [b]the US has every touristy thing available. Skiing, beaches, mountaineering, surfing, casinos, broadway shows, diverse food, wine tours, etc. It’s also very diverse that one city looks different than the next, [/b]they travel but mostly within the US.

This explains it

doitforyou:
Exactly! It’s a combination of factors one of which is the bolded. I know wealthy Nigerians that are content with visiting 3-4 major cities multiple times, to shop not to sightsee.

Traveling while black is also very real.

Lool!

Being black has never stopped me from travelling personally, but I'd be lying if I didn't say I tend to do my research before venturing to some of these places. The experience will not be the same for everyone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2lzmpEs29M

FuckDaMods:
Pocket your high regard, it's inconsequential

Not enough for you to not quote me however lol

eni4real:
Stop encouraging domestic violence

Lol smh

eni4real:
What a disrespectful comment!!

Come and beat me

I'm sorry but the Eudochies (Yul and Pete) come across as so 'pseudo wise' to me, it's embarrassing because I used to hold Pete in such high regard

You've been working at the bank for 9 years, when did it suddenly become an 'ethical' issue for him?

Are you saying he moved to Lagos for his job within 2 years of your marriage? I'm seeing that you were redeployed to your present location recently? Where exactly were you both in the beginning? Please clarify all of this to paint a clearer picture. If you were both in the same location initially, I don't think the current issue at hand is necessarily because you did not plan your living situation before marriage, circumstances just change sometimes.

Like many have advised, can you relocate with a transfer? If it's possible it sounds like the best option

I don't think it should be a question of whether the 'man or woman' relocates...but what the most practical option is as far as an individual's income, stability etc.

If transferring is not an option, have you both at least discussed plans for getting a new job?

Drince:
Should we call this innovative or what?
It looks like stupidity

Nothing stupid about what she's doing, I think it's brilliant. She's being resourceful, working with what she can afford, and at the end of the day, it's probably better than nothing. I wish more people would have this mindset

I don't like this habit of dictating rich people who are minding their business on how to spend their money.

That saying, as a public figure he should probably exercise some tact in the way he speaks

Why did the mum record it?? Whoever publicised the video made it a million times worse

None of us know what goes on in their household, for all we know the boy could’ve been struggling with personal issues, learning disabilities etc. Had he been showing signs of failure? Or did this come completely out of the blue to the parents? We're missing a lot of context. Without a detailed backstory there’s going to be a lot of assumptions, but at the same time, we can only work with the information provided.

If I paid that amount for school fees and my child was skipping classes, on top of failing, I’d be livid too, so I don’t fault the dad for being angry...but I feel there are better ways to discipline than using violence. But then because I understand his anger, the father isn’t necessarily striking me as a complete ‘monster’ in this situation.

There’s a difference between failing for lack of understanding and lack of trying. The report gives the impression that he wasn’t trying (being absent etc), but like I said there could be a backstory to this that we aren’t privy to.

The distinction he got in music is at least, an indication that he is capable of applying himself in some way...

Also, I don’t think you need to have a ‘passion’ for a subject to at least try, so a 'lack of passion' can't always be used as an excuse. Some of these core subjects that you think are invaluable are there to set the foundation for certain skills that will assist with day to day life. Standard core curriculums will not be to everyone's 'taste', but they have their uses.

XhosaNostra:
From what you have shared, you strike me as a people-pleaser who often puts her own feelings aside just to keep the peace. It's not necessarily a bad thing because a wise person chooses what battles to fight & what to let slide. However, this can prove to be problematic if & when your avoidance of conflict is chronic to the point where you never say how you truly feel. This can make people get used to having the upper hand & last say, thus you can unwittingly create "monsters" so to speak. Bottomline, your BF is controlling imo & it's completely your fault because you run instead having a transparent conversation about the things that bother you in the relationship. Speak up otherwise you'll grow to resent him because of all those things that were left unsaid & suppressed. It's not healthy for you & for your relationship if this is someone you see a future with. You should be able to be transparent & to vent out your frustrations with your partner, not this shrinking violent alternative you have adopted because you're afraid to muddy the waters.

Anyway, the bolded got me...

Perfect

stevmatt15:
Serious one I must say
What is wrong with chatting?

Lol there are just certain things, certain people do not have authority to be questioning

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,
Well today I don't know exactly how I'm feeling but I'd love to go straight to the point..
My boyfriend and I are going 2ru stuffs now he say I don't respect him and I accept that fact cuz I always walk out on our arguments,quarrels and so on but I'd never walk out on a normal day I walk away because I don't want to say what I'll end up regretting,I know myself and if I talk back at him I would speak out of line that's why I always walk away.....

This is probably the only bad character I have and accept I have
So recently I started chatting on WhatsApp because of school stuff so I could know wen we have lectures and so on and he hates social media but I asked him if I could and he agreed but now because my ex school mates added me to a school group and while posting pictures on the group the posted a picture of my ex and now he is upset I'm seeing my ex and that I'm chatting with guys and so on.

I have never cheated on this guy,for 3yrs I have loved,played and ignored my self just so he could be happy and when we have issues he goes out till night before returning home and when we fight he's the first to talk and apologize but I'm seeing a new side I don't understand.....I'm confused does he still feel the same way I do

I thought you were talking about your dad for a moment

Your boyfriend/fiance sounds like he has control issues

Legitdimple:
So today is my birthday since we are still on lock down,I will be giving myself a special treat at home. Here is to everyone on this food thread,you all are amazing and an inspiration I've really learnt a lot here. Preston,Cococandy,Poco,mariangeles(hope the spelling is correct) Teespice,Akposy(will definately holla at you when I'm in Jos) Blueraydick and a whole lots of others too numerous to mention. I duff my hat for you all!

Happy bornday x

Munzy14:
What if he is interested in her, like being serious with her?

I may be right for him to av mastered how she spends her night

'Master' what exactly?

Lol it's either he's never heard of phobia for the dark before or he wants 'confirmation' that she's a witch or something lol. And then what?

Whatever her reason is, she refused to tell him so until it affects him personally, its' none of his business