Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by ibkayee(f): 2:32pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Bennysam: I wish you could understand me, nothing special, I just totally lost it , I see her as a disturbances to me Ehen, list some of her 'disturbances' so we can see it from your angle, and determine whether not your qualms with her are valid |
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by ibkayee(f): 2:26pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Bennysam: No we do not date at all YikesWhat's done is done sha. What exactly does she do that makes you angry? Some details would help |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye: Coronavirus Will Kill Only Those Whose Time Has Come To Die by ibkayee(f): 2:21pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
These religious leaders have a social responsibility to speak with tact and a bit of consideration, if not as a leader with influence, then just as a decent human being  |
Family › Re: I Want 4 Kids But My Fiancee Said 2 Is Enough, Should I Give In Or Break Up? by ibkayee(f): 1:55pm On Mar 30, 2020*. Modified: 2:58pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
I understand your joy in having kids but most of your reasons sound kind of 'shallow' compared to hers. Shallow isn't necessarily bad per se in this case because I find your reasons very cute...just not as...'vital'? Especially if it's something that could affect a relationship that was quality enough to become an engagement.
When you think about your reasons like the 'SUV being complete' for example, is it imporant enough to let a valuable enough relationship go. It would be different if she didn't want kids at all |
Family › Re: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ibkayee(f): 1:35pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
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Family › Re: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ibkayee(f): 1:33pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
jaxxy: We know they are bt there’s still Smtn they do that gets under ur skin and makes u go arrgh innit??  Lol yeah definitely, just messing around Dad - Makes assumptions a lot Mum - Not always self aware of how her blunt nature can offend people Still love them sha |
Romance › Re: Lady Says – Women Need Men More Than Men Need Them by ibkayee(f): 1:21pm On Mar 30, 2020*. Modified: 2:15pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Since this is about money
Assuming you don't live in one of those countries with the more glaring barriers and restrictions on women's opportunities e.g. Saudi Arabia, the average modern day man is not this ultimate sole provider that some of you want us to believe they are.
Dual income households are very commonplace, most people can't afford to have one breadwinner in the first place
If all men stopped giving money to women this very moment it would probably only have much of an impact on those rich stepford wife types, instagram models lol couples with housewife agreements
The average woman will be ok for the most part since a good portion of them work and contribute to their homes already
You are not that important anymore unfortunately |
Romance › Re: by ibkayee(f): 11:16pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Daniwes: It's the reason he will only do it online, but in reality will act it. It's a turn off saying it or even showing off in a more than obvious way. Lol |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by ibkayee(f): 9:01pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
CaptainMitch: Congratulations, na soapy I still dey do Lmao who is making these pictures ffs |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 2:17pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Family › Re: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by ibkayee(f): 2:11pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
My mummy and daddy are perfect |
Family › Re: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by ibkayee(f): 2:09pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Iceyjays: Like you didn't see worse when you were a kid, park well jare! I didn't thank goodness lol |
Family › Re: SHOCKING DNA TEST RESULTS ENCOURAGED BY COVID19 LOCK-DOWN by ibkayee(f): 1:43pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Belafonte: Of course. A cop out after dropping your opinion. Lmao how is that a cop out? I’d already answered a similar question and resourcefully copied and pasted my answer |
Family › Re: SHOCKING DNA TEST RESULTS ENCOURAGED BY COVID19 LOCK-DOWN by ibkayee(f): 1:31pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Belafonte: What’s this nonsense? Do Nigerian women not cheat and have their husbands forgive them? Ask around and you’d be shocked to know how many Nigerian men have forgiven their cheating wives. Even on this forum, many have written epistles to that regard.
Passing off another person’s child as your spouse’s is totally incomparable to infidelity. They shouldn’t be mentioned in the same breath. ibkayee: I don't know the stats, but I know that cheating is normalized for men in Nigeria, a husband will cheat and his wife is expected to accept it as normal, take him and any of the outside children back and move on. But if it's the other way around, the same set of people will scream bloody murder |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 11:06am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: Anyhow you put am,just know that there is something you people sell directly in exchange for money.All firms do this  I respect you not telling,infact I've always known you wont tell since you started writing all those long economics. Ait be cool. Lmao @ long economics Thanks, you too, stay safe |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 11:05am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Acidosis: No guy will consistently chase a girl for 2 years dear. The common thing is for guys to chase more than one girl with the hope that one or more will succumb to the pressure. Of course, these girls would assume they've got no 'competitors.' What guys do is to chase a girl, leave her for a while and then fall back later when they're done with some other girls. Yeah sure, I was joking for the most part with my comment |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 10:59am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: "Wetin una dey sell" applies to all cases,hope you know? Isn't services sold too? What kind of service do you people sell? Lol can’t even impulse spend since most places are closed or backtracked with deliveries Services are sold too but aren’t ‘tangible’ products that need to be physically provided, which has its advantages Its honestly nothing special but I’d rather not mention it |
Family › Re: SHOCKING DNA TEST RESULTS ENCOURAGED BY COVID19 LOCK-DOWN by ibkayee(f): 10:43am On Mar 29, 2020 |
ericsmith: How is even relevant now, the worst a man can bring home from adulttery is infection, compare to women , a woman that cheat will either bring home infection, a bastard or death to d man. There is an adage in yoruba that says "eni toh fe eni nii aya ofi oju re wo ni (the man bangin ur wife won't spare you a gud lntention. Our forefathers are not stupid, another adage says if a woman that cheat no kill herself she will kill d husband. I av never heard or seen a woman nursing a bastard cos d husband decieved her, these issue only affect men that is why there is so much outrage. I don’t know what you’re talking about, sorry |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 10:41am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: You still make money,less Avenue to spend it and hence more savings. But let me ask you,how does your firm manage to make money to be able to even pay staff?  Wetin una dey sell? Cos out here mehn its blood,you know we are in the luxury business. Yeah definitely, well at least on transport Lol yeah they do, we provide more of a service than a ‘physical product’ |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 10:39am On Mar 29, 2020 |
NkShallom: Hi ibkayee, sent you a mail, hope you got it. Would really like to discuss with you. I’ve responded |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 10:33am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: haaa! Business has come to a total halt and I've become really sick of staying in a spot for so long,that's all. You? I’m lucky to be able to work from home, I’ve just been chilling |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 2:33am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: My neighbour's dog house is built on my fence. The dog has been banging on it since and I have been paranoid thinking maybe it was robbers at my gates wanting to take advantage of this lockdown to rob my ass  Oh well,I'm sipping whisky now. You?  Why you up? Stay safe, how has the lockdown impacted you? I was reading |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 2:25am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: Don't believe everything you hear. That ship sailed since  Well,what you said about it happening to SOMEONE is true though. Lol what are you doing up at this ungodly hour this guy? |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 2:13am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: Oh yeah I got the sarcasm very well and got its bearing. Ever pundered if the things you heard or thought you know weren't true? People can claim different things to make themselves feel important you know? Lol yeah that's definitely a possibility Although I don't think a guy chasing a girl for a long period of time is farfetched, it definitely happens. So even if what I heard wasn't true it's probably happened to SOMEONE lol |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 2:03am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: clarify me. Oh well,que sera sera las las... You said no one has the patience to be chyking a girl for 2 years, I know of guys who have chased girls for long periods of time. But I got the point you were making |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 1:53am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: Yes might make him more mysterious and fun,yes. But no one has that kind of patience to chyke a girl for 2 years,cos it's definitely going to take long. No woman likes to lose a potential interest,none! The moment you start drifting away,she gets her shit together instantly. Hiohiohio you'd be surprised  Jokes aside, yeah you're probably right |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 1:42am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Benzgang: Not true. Yeah probably not lol I'm just joking, but ignoring her would probably pique her interest in some way |
Romance › Re: When A Girl Plays Hard To Get, What Should A Guy Do? by ibkayee(f): 1:00am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ignore her and she'll propose to you within a week |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Share Your Experience Staying At Home by ibkayee(f): 12:39am On Mar 29, 2020 |
eteba: It`s now i just got to know that my 3 year old son, looks so very much like my neighbor. Screaming |
Family › Re: My Husband Has Said I Can Quit My Job If I Want To. by ibkayee(f): 12:08am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Sexyliciousbri: Nurses are poorly paid for what you do. If you don't need the money then don't do anything you don't want to do. It's your life , do what makes you happy and forget anything else. You are only human, it's natural to be scared. Don't feel guilty what so ever. You aren't paid enough to risk your life for others. Add the fact that many aren't even being adequately protected. If something happens to her now the most that will come from the strangers she's putting her life at risk for is a condolence tweet. I'm not trying to discourage medical workers because at the end of the day we need you more than ever, but I also can't fault those who are too overwhelmed to continue |
Family › Re: My Husband Has Said I Can Quit My Job If I Want To. by ibkayee(f): 11:51pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
All these people trying to guilt you into not quitting from their armchairs.
The world needs you, but the world should also understand the position you're in. Do what you think is best for your family, your health, and sanity, especially if you can afford to do so. You're key to the tackling of this pandemic, but I also get it...
Shout out to all the people on the frontlines |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Share Your Experience Staying At Home by ibkayee(f): 10:08pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Eat
Sleep
Work from home
Binge on anime
Read
Wash, rinse, repeat |