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FamilyRe: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by ibkayee(f): 9:49pm On Mar 28, 2020
Children are more perceptive than a lot of people give them credit for lol, some of these 'explanations' can only work with a 7 month old, not 7 years grin

Good luck though
FamilyRe: SHOCKING DNA TEST RESULTS ENCOURAGED BY COVID19 LOCK-DOWN by ibkayee(f): 9:40pm On Mar 28, 2020
Emaprince:
If you were in Nigeria, you will know that Nigerian girls cheat far more than the men. Forget the fact men are careless and do it openly.

There is hardly a Naija girl without 2 or 3 Bfs. They don't exist here. Maybe karma visits them in their marriages after playing many guys. But then, these girls also cheat in their marriages, so its not like men do it more ....only difference is much fuss is not made out of it if a man is caught.
I don't know the stats, but I know that cheating is normalized for men in Nigeria, a husband will cheat and his wife is expected to accept it as normal, take him and any of the outside children back and move on. But if it's the other way around, the same set of people will scream bloody murder
RomanceRe: Tag Local Internet Scammers On Nairaland Disguising As Ladies by ibkayee(f): 9:23pm On Mar 28, 2020
franchasng:
poco maybe a weirdo, a potential homicide, an extremist feminist who can deal with her future man's fuckup without mercy, but trust me, she is a lady, so count her out!


Are you guys scared to tag the real local yahoo boys parading as ladies or whathuh shocked
Sure, yeah I know. I was pulling her leg
RomanceRe: Please What Do You Think She Meant? by ibkayee(f): 9:21pm On Mar 28, 2020
She's either confused and childish

OR

You haven't provided the meat and potatoes of this story, in that case you won't be getting much useful advice...
RomanceRe: Tag Local Internet Scammers On Nairaland Disguising As Ladies by ibkayee(f): 9:11pm On Mar 28, 2020
pocohantas

tongue
FamilyRe: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by ibkayee(f): 9:09pm On Mar 28, 2020
josh123:
Tell her u guys were wrestling.
grin
FamilyRe: My Daughter Caught t Us Having Sex Plz Help by ibkayee(f):
Beat her for what exactly?

Well done, you've just ruined your daughter's life lool i'd be scarred forever
FamilyRe: SHOCKING DNA TEST RESULTS ENCOURAGED BY COVID19 LOCK-DOWN by ibkayee(f):
This isn't a personal attack on the OP because I'm not privy to his personal life, but generally speaking, I wish this same level of outrage was expressed when it came to the incessant infidelities Nigerian wives are expected to endure. Lol can you imagine if males could conceive?

I feel bad for OP because I've read the details and there's a proximity that interacting with him on the forum brings that has forced allowed me to empathize with him as an individual. However, if it was a random headline somewhere I'd caught I'd probably laugh
FamilyRe: SHOCKING DNA TEST RESULTS ENCOURAGED BY COVID19 LOCK-DOWN by ibkayee(f):
This is the ultimate betrayal, I personally wouldn't be able to ignore this if I were in your shoes, and if anyone 'casually' told me to 'move on' I would punch them in the throat

At the end of the day, the innocent child has been thrust into a horrible situation that was completely out of his control, at this age he's already emotionally attached and old enough to comprehend his environment and changes in the home dynamic.

Whether you stay in his life or not is a serious conversation you're going to need to have with yourself, either way, the trauma that will come from whichever decision you come to is inevitable. Is it worth it? Even if you manage to forgive her, will you be able to continue a relationship with her knowing this, the trust is gone and it’s hard to carry on in a relationship without trust. It's just an all-round f*cked up situation

With what's going on in this world, it would probably be wise to not be too hasty with how you handle things and approach her right now. It's easier said than done but use this time to think and plan the logistics with your lawyer
FamilyRe: Husband And Wife Who Uses Only One Room by ibkayee(f): 6:45pm On Mar 28, 2020
Disturbing
FamilyRe: Do You Have Something To Say About The Number Of Your Father's Children by ibkayee(f): 6:42pm On Mar 28, 2020
Happy that I have siblings and I have a great relationship with each of them

I like children, but every day I wonder if bringing a child of my own into this crazy world is worth it
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f):
RomanceRe: Mature Advice Needed by ibkayee(f): 5:53pm On Mar 28, 2020
They're both lowkey trying to ask you for a 3some lmao
RomanceRe: by ibkayee(f): 5:46pm On Mar 28, 2020
There's just something about a guy describing himself as an 'alpha' that automatically makes me think he isn't, eww lol
FamilyRe: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by ibkayee(f): 5:41pm On Mar 28, 2020
Iceyjays:
What you said. grin
Don't spoil this sane thread with your pre-school trolling lol
FamilyRe: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by ibkayee(f): 5:36pm On Mar 28, 2020
Iceyjays:
Who cares? undecided
About what?
RomanceRe: Please Help I'm Tied Of My Cousin Regular Visit by ibkayee(f): 5:26pm On Mar 28, 2020
Efe42:
What is your advice on this to put an End please enlighten me more
Tell her to piss off
RomanceRe: Please Help I'm Tied Of My Cousin Regular Visit by ibkayee(f): 5:20pm On Mar 28, 2020
Both you and your cousin need to seek help

Your cousin, for telling you she likes you and you, for being 'confused' and not putting an end to this nonsense already
HealthRe: Passengers Flee From Bus After Spotting A Chinese Man Onboard In Ghana (Video) by ibkayee(f): 5:15pm On Mar 28, 2020
GermanMelania:
This is not racism. It is prejudice.
They do not hate him or think he is inferior.

They are terrified of corona. And someone is in the background inciting them.

In a year's time they wont remember corona or run from him.
Prejudice is obviously bad either way, but I like the differentiation that you've made as it pertains to this situation
HealthRe: Passengers Flee From Bus After Spotting A Chinese Man Onboard In Ghana (Video) by ibkayee(f): 4:57pm On Mar 28, 2020
I'm finding it REALLY hard to feel sorry for the Asian community, as a collective, being treated this way. And I'm usually a very empathetic person

Two wrongs don't make a right, true. I guess I'm just not that mature
HealthRe: Coronavirus Is Overrated by ibkayee(f): 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2020
Coronavirus is a pretty 'novel' and unknown threat in comparison to the things you've listed, the fear is more in the uncertainty.

There's also no official vaccination and it's highly transmittable
FamilyRe: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by ibkayee(f):
GboyegaD:
Not necessarily. If both are sincere, there is no reason why they shouldn't talk about their expectations (sexually) in marriage. They should be able to talk about their stance in sex, the man should be able to talk about his penis and vice versa. He knows if he has erections or not and most importantly, both should express their level of openness as there are other means to sexual satisfaction beyond penetrative sex.
I wouldn't blame someone for preferring to try it for themselves than relying on the product 'description' lol. It will be more of a gamble to some than others, naturally, the risk depends on what you want and consider a deal-breaker. Sexual compatibility is very important to a lot of people
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 3:07pm On Mar 28, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5f5Kt8KSxI0

Lmao I love and find this song hilarious at the same time
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 3:05pm On Mar 28, 2020
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 3:01pm On Mar 28, 2020
Lalas247:
Lunch
Rice, seafood efo, stew , chicken , dodo smiley

Be safe x
Lol nice, so you finally found food cheesy
RomanceRe: Which Of These Foods Will You Be Ashamed To Eat Near Your Crush by ibkayee(f): 3:00pm On Mar 28, 2020
Lmfao

Anything with bones tbh
FamilyRe: Never Accept S*x After Marriage, I Did And I Am Regretting Now–married Lady Says by ibkayee(f): 2:54pm On Mar 28, 2020
Lol that's the thing with no premarital sex, it's definitely a gamble, good thing I'm asexual phew
RomanceRe: My Young Brother Is Always Watching Gay Porn by ibkayee(f): 2:46pm On Mar 28, 2020
Your brother is most likely gay, the only gay porn straight men have no problem watching is usually lesbian porn. If he isn't, and it's just curiosity or it genuinely just doesn't make him uncomfortable like most straight men, it's definitely a rarity

What's telling your mum going to do? He's obviously already struggling with it, telling your mum and badgering him over it is only going to make him repress it more and possibly resent you on top. Plus, it's actually none of their business, only people it should concern is he himself or maybe a female he's using as a cover up

If he's gay, you can beg/cajole/coax/bully etc him into pretending to be someone he isn't, there isn't much you can do about changing his sexuality itself

If you want to talk to him, it shouldn't be to force or berate, it should be to understand him
CrimeRe: Different Scams You Should Be On The Lookout For This Season. by ibkayee(f): 12:11pm On Mar 28, 2020
pocohantas:
I need to be sure I made no mistakes. We need to keep the masses enlightened.

Sir Peeress, can you authorize this thread. Maybe give your inputs. You must have seen a lot in your time as an ED of a bank.



Thanks baby. kiss
I'm sure plenty of scammers are trying to take advantage of this situation kiss
TV/MoviesRe: Korean Movies Chatroom by ibkayee(f): 12:10pm On Mar 28, 2020
kangminhyuksho:
Yes we are o, I hope you are doing well too
Thanks dear, doing well too
CrimeRe: Different Scams You Should Be On The Lookout For This Season. by ibkayee(f): 12:02pm On Mar 28, 2020
Come through poco with the useful information

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