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Children are more perceptive than a lot of people give them credit for lol, some of these 'explanations' can only work with a 7 month old, not 7 years ![]() Good luck though |
Emaprince:I don't know the stats, but I know that cheating is normalized for men in Nigeria, a husband will cheat and his wife is expected to accept it as normal, take him and any of the outside children back and move on. But if it's the other way around, the same set of people will scream bloody murder |
franchasng:Sure, yeah I know. I was pulling her leg |
She's either confused and childish OR You haven't provided the meat and potatoes of this story, in that case you won't be getting much useful advice... |
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Beat her for what exactly? Well done, you've just ruined your daughter's life lool i'd be scarred forever |
This isn't a personal attack on the OP because I'm not privy to his personal life, but generally speaking, I wish this same level of outrage was expressed when it came to the incessant infidelities Nigerian wives are expected to endure. Lol can you imagine if males could conceive? I feel bad for OP because I've read the details and there's a proximity that interacting with him on the forum brings that has |
This is the ultimate betrayal, I personally wouldn't be able to ignore this if I were in your shoes, and if anyone 'casually' told me to 'move on' I would punch them in the throat At the end of the day, the innocent child has been thrust into a horrible situation that was completely out of his control, at this age he's already emotionally attached and old enough to comprehend his environment and changes in the home dynamic. Whether you stay in his life or not is a serious conversation you're going to need to have with yourself, either way, the trauma that will come from whichever decision you come to is inevitable. Is it worth it? Even if you manage to forgive her, will you be able to continue a relationship with her knowing this, the trust is gone and it’s hard to carry on in a relationship without trust. It's just an all-round f*cked up situation With what's going on in this world, it would probably be wise to not be too hasty with how you handle things and approach her right now. It's easier said than done but use this time to think and plan the logistics with your lawyer |
Disturbing |
Happy that I have siblings and I have a great relationship with each of them I like children, but every day I wonder if bringing a child of my own into this crazy world is worth it |
They're both lowkey trying to ask you for a 3some lmao |
There's just something about a guy describing himself as an 'alpha' that automatically makes me think he isn't, eww lol |
Iceyjays:Don't spoil this sane thread with your pre-school trolling lol |
Iceyjays:About what? |
Efe42:Tell her to piss off |
Both you and your cousin need to seek help Your cousin, for telling you she likes you and you, for being 'confused' and not putting an end to this nonsense already |
GermanMelania:Prejudice is obviously bad either way, but I like the differentiation that you've made as it pertains to this situation |
I'm finding it REALLY hard to feel sorry for the Asian community, as a collective, being treated this way. And I'm usually a very empathetic person Two wrongs don't make a right, true. I guess I'm just not that mature |
Coronavirus is a pretty 'novel' and unknown threat in comparison to the things you've listed, the fear is more in the uncertainty. There's also no official vaccination and it's highly transmittable |
GboyegaD:I wouldn't blame someone for preferring to try it for themselves than relying on the product 'description' lol. It will be more of a gamble to some than others, naturally, the risk depends on what you want and consider a deal-breaker. Sexual compatibility is very important to a lot of people |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5f5Kt8KSxI0 Lmao I love and find this song hilarious at the same time |
Lalas247:Lol nice, so you finally found food ![]() |
Lmfao Anything with bones tbh |
Lol that's the thing with no premarital sex, it's definitely a gamble, good thing I'm asexual phew |
Your brother is most likely gay, the only gay porn straight men have no problem watching is usually lesbian porn. If he isn't, and it's just curiosity or it genuinely just doesn't make him uncomfortable like most straight men, it's definitely a rarity What's telling your mum going to do? He's obviously already struggling with it, telling your mum and badgering him over it is only going to make him repress it more and possibly resent you on top. Plus, it's actually none of their business, only people it should concern is he himself or maybe a female he's using as a cover up If he's gay, you can beg/cajole/coax/bully etc him into pretending to be someone he isn't, there isn't much you can do about changing his sexuality itself If you want to talk to him, it shouldn't be to force or berate, it should be to understand him |
pocohantas:I'm sure plenty of scammers are trying to take advantage of this situation |
kangminhyuksho:Thanks dear, doing well too |
Come through poco with the useful information |
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