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Dear Men, here are some six tips on how to courageously approach and date single military women. It is evident that, most men, especially in Africa are scared to approach military or female soldiers.

Kindly find below six solid and proven tips below.

1. Your first impression can let her be interested in what you want to say to her;Introduce yourself as a man not a boy. Be straight forward in whatever u want say to her. Be bold to ask her nicely that u want 5 mins of her time as you know she is a busy woman. Don’t let your heart beat fear. And be interested in her career (Military) Ask her questions about her job.

2. Treat her like a lady; Although tactical road marches and field exercises are a part of her work life, she should still be treated with the same respect afforded to any civilian lady. Know that many military women feel relieved to be treated like a lady instead of “one of the boys”.

3. Learn something about the military;While you don’t have to learn every military cadence or historical battleground, it would be nice to know about life in her military world. What is her rank or company motto? Taking the time to learn new things will show her you care about her daily life and experiences.

4. Understand that she has military obligations that often do not allow her to make choices about her schedule; The military is a highly structured, detail oriented organization that emphasizes readiness and accountability. Although she may want to attend the weekend long festival with you, it may conflict with a scheduled assigned duty or test.

5. Keep her motivated; There may be times when she is depressed about upcoming events or procedural changes. For example, your date may be nervous that she won’t pass an upcoming mandatory physical fitness test. Provide comfort and support to help her through tough times.

6. Respect her role as a military service member; Although you may not agree with every military action, it is important to show appreciation for the sacrifice made by the soldiers. Do no belittle your date for her choices or views of the views and choices of those who command her.

CyynthiaKiss:
Here they go with their plastic kettle.. Taqiya at its peak !

Religious fanatic. What has that got to do with Islam now?

May his soul rest in peace.
But the deceased looked older than a "fresh secondary school graduate."

Fayos1:
. ABU. Hmmm

Yes, ABU. I was admitted on merit, without knowing anyone and I know many people that made it without knowing anyone.

durella4:
pls remove ABU

ABU is very transparent in her admission.

Amakababe:
Pls advise

Wow! This is exactly what happened to me. I was a 100 Level Civil Law student at a state university somewhere in the north. I got tired of everything about the institution, including the incompetence of some of the lecturers. I had to sit for another UTME and apply for one of the premier universities in Nigeria. Luckily, I was admitted and I was about going to 200L in my former institution.
Since I made that decision, my zeal to go to school was fueled with so much enthusiasm, and I can say that I didn't regret. It all depends on how happy and eager to learn you believe you'll be if you switch your institution.

ikpuchinonye:
I said faderal universities..read my post again

I know someone who had a similar experience. He was a student of Federal University Gashua in Yobe state. He sat for another UTME and applied for Federal University Oye-Ekiti. Till date, he is ever grateful for the decision he made.

musty001:
Pls guys why is the site,
putme.abu.edu.ng not going through na??

It was hacked according to rumours.

ikpuchinonye:
All nigerian faderal universities are like the others.. don't let anyone decieve you that UI is better than UNN or that Abu is that than unilag..Go for the one you think that you can get easier..Only you can help yourself school can't help you.. Nigerian faderal universities all the same thing.nothing special about any of them.

This is untrue. Our education system may be in a bad shape, but some universities are still ahead of others. I was once a student in a state university somewhere in the north. I had to sit for another UTME at 100 level and apply for ABU Zaria. Believe me, it was the best academic decision I made because they were so many differences.

He's learning from Kano state governor, Gandollar.

Fayos1:
A used scratch card isn't usually accepted... Get a new one. It's sold at cafés

Thank you sir.

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Thank God Nigeria is a highly religous country. Even the atheists who frown at this will enjoy the priviledge of religion.

Fayos1:
Those are the required documents to present. Well,last year, some departments(biochemistry for example) requested for post utme result slip in addition. Aside that, you're good to go. Don't forget the Ssce scratch card too

Hmm. My scratch card is missing o. I did a printout last year thinking I'd be admitted. Is it possible to get another one please?

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Lol. Rape? If I were the judge, I will say it is an off-the-camera "H*rny Director F*cks Lily Adams."

Itzqueen218:
i have not been offered admission...congrats to the successful ones

Thanks. Wishing you success in second batch.

Fayos1:
You original Jamb result, state of origin, birth certificate, Ssce result, primary school certificate

Is that all?

melanch:
People don't understand what it means to be introverted. Introverts are not always quiet people or boring people. Introverts are interesting set of people, only if you are talking about their interests.

I hate it when people say they are bored. So you can't keep yourself happy and interesting by yourself? Must you look for someone to ginger you up? If you do then you are not an introvert.

Introverts are good with themselves, they interest themselves and they don't depend on any person to save them from boredom.

You can date an introvert and talk like parrots. You can date an introvert and still be quiet and be very 100% ok and comfortable with your partner. You can go out, watch movies, play games etc. It's all about connection and understanding.

No man is an island. Introverts get bored being alone sometimes and still need one of the few persons they feel comfortable with to ginger them up in trying times.

@Papcypaul

erenax

barackodam

fayos1

Please what are the credentials they need for the screening? They didn't specify them on the portal and we're expected to report on January 7.

Alhamdulilah! I have been admitted oo. I rep Civil Law.

@Itzqueen218

Mujibson

LilGiant

Check yours!

Shagari University of Technology - SHUT Many will disagree, and I hope this won't make the university SHUTdown.

Chidorx60:
I tell you bro,parents even boast of how many gboys they have as kids,you need to see 17year olds spraying 500naira notes like tissue paper in ceremonies.

cc:lalastica .please do the needful.

They make legit hustlers feel as if they aren't doing enough.

Chidorx60:
I tell you bro,parents even boast of how many gboys they have as kids,you need to see 17year olds spraying 500naira notes like tissue paper in ceremonies.

cc:lalastica .please do the needful.

They make legit hustlers feel as if they aren't doing enough.

Honestly it is becoming alarming here in Edo state. Almost every damn nigga, including the innocent-looking ones are into "g-boyism." Today you'll hear that Efosa went out with Irabhor and the next day, whilst Irabhor will turn to an overnight millionaire, Efosa will be declared missing. It is even painful that some parents back up their kids in this evil.

I agree especially in terms of academics. Ogun state does not just have many universities. It is ahead of many states in terms of education at all levels, ranging from primary education to the tertiary level. This is evident in an institution like Covenant University which was ranked as the best in Nigeria ahead of other sublime institutions like ABU, UI, UNN and others. According to a JAMB statistic in 2018, about 4 of the top ten highest UTME candidates were Ogun state indigenes.

Sai Baba till Atiku decamps to APC!! But why should this be in the "Property Section?"

Obi Mr. China was busted giving fake statistics during the debate. Then it was Atiku who was busted lying about calling a widow, and then Reno. I think this one was looking for an opportunity to pour the blame on Buhari as usual but failed.

Great.

Lizilicious:
This pipo say abt it heir roommate scares even the devil himself...
My former roomie almost told the whole neighborhood she pays the rent alone and also feeds me.., I almost died wen a gal insulted me with that..
Anyways, I got over it and got my own place..
It ain't easy squatting with someone who is not ur blood jare

Geez! You must have felt so awful.